Just in case you are wondering, this is not a book about a man wallowing in self-pity and is not Machiavellian in any form. It’s a work of art that is insightful and succeeded in enlightening me on how to connect with other humans and why life is worth living. I will definitely be referencing this book for the rest of my life- I do not say this lightly.
I don't know why the actual book doesn't appear in Goodreads but that is what I read. If half stars were possible I would give this a 2.5 and then have a guilt trip over not giving a higher rating to a book written about dying by a young doctor as he was dying.
Paul Kalanithi was a neurosurgeon that was diagnosed with cancer in his thirties and his only desire was to complete this novel and to spend the time he had left with his family and newborn daughter, Caddy. The novel “When Breath Becomes Air” provides a clearer insight to life and death and the value of existence. Some people think of their life as just a day by day repeat of all the same things. But as displayed in this novel, when the idea that death could be nearing, you realize the value of life and take everyday a little bit slower. It shows the perspective from both a patient and doctor, and the reality of human experiences. As a doctor, you don’t expect a day will come when you are the one needing a doctor. It was apparent that having a doctor-patient relationship like Paul and Emma made the darkness of having a terminal illness much more digestible.This novel reminds people to be mindful of what they have and to be aware of your purpose and appreciate the ability of life.
it's a very raw, very real account of this good man's life...difficult in parts; quite graphic descriptions of anatomy labs and cadavers and occasional use of the F*** word which I despise, but overall a fascinating look at life and death and what becoming meaningful in between.
Very emotional. Made me reflect and feel grateful for my life and health. Following your curiosity and excitement is a worthy pursuit no matter how long or short your life turns out to be.
The book is an outstanding account of a Doctor, who until diagnosed himself of terminal cancer, used to deal with such situations with patients. It raises several important questions on contemporary medical practices, the roles of Doctors and Doctor-patient relationships, the disease itself and is an intimate account of Paul Kalanithi's imminent encounter with death. The fact that the author considered English Literature as a possible career, shows in the outstanding presentation of his experiences in life. The book is so engaging that leaving it half-read in the dead of the night after a long tiring day was a reluctant choice for me personally. A must read for everyone.
The actual book isn't on Goodreads for some reason, but the it is brilliantly tragic and such an insight into the work of neurosurgeons and grief side-by-side.
I loved this book so much. I am not normally a fan of memoirs based on their pace and feel that they drag on at times (so sorry if that’s offensive) but this book was perfect. The length, the story, the takeaways.
My heart aches at the end but this is the kind of book that you close and will sit with you as you look at life with a new perspective. I’m genuinely blown away by how much I love loved this book and think genuinely everyone will enjoy it.
Some of my favorite takeaways/quotes:
- find meaning in the striving. Hard things come up but how we handle them is everything. What matters to us, how do we treat others, where do we spend our time? - “Science may provide the most useful way to organize empirical, reproducible data, but its power to do so is predicated on its inability to grasp the most central aspects of human life: hope, fear, love, hate, beauty, envy, honor, weakness, striving, suffering, virtue.” - “maybe the basic message of original sin isn't "Feel guilty all the time." Maybe it is more along these lines: "We all have a notion of what it means to be good, and we can't live up to it all the time."” - “Human knowledge is never contained in one person. It grows from the relationships we create between each other and the world, and still it is never complete. And Truth comes somewhere above all of them…” - “"You can't ever reach perfection, but you can believe in an asymptote toward which you are ceaselessly striving." It was arduous, bruising work, and he never faltered. This was the life he was given, and this is what he made of it.”
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
Why does the book When Breathe Becomes Air appear on Goodreads? Anyway this is a review of that book, which I listened to. I can imagine it would be very appealing to surgeons as it explains in detail some of the operations that the author performed. I found it a bit gross!
I mainly read it to read about his perspective on his coming death after being diagnosed with cancer and his perported conversion to Christianity. I'm not convinced that he did turn in repentance and faith to Jesus in his last days, although his return to church probably gladdened his Christian parents who had prayed for him their whole life.
The last chapter was emotional as it was written by his wife after his swift decline in health.
Death is something that comes to us all, often ignored or fought against and always sad. The bits of the book about the topic was good, but the majority of the book was about surgeries which I wasn't interested in, hence only 3 stars.
OKAY SO, this is not the actual book but the real one won’t show up. So… let’s pretend it’s the real one! The book “When Breathe Becomes Air” by Paul Kalanithi was a masterpiece that had me silently sobbing at the end. He details his life in ways I only wish I could, and was such an incredible mind, heart, soul, father, son, doctor, husband, friend, and just overall human being. I felt as though I knew him by the end of the book, and that comes with him spilling the most vulnerable parts of life as a husband, doctor, cancer patient, and so forth. Dealing with death is no small feat, and yet I’ve never “met” someone who did it so well (if that can even be a thing). I recommend to anyone who is ready to contemplate meaning, life, and purpose. Never take anything for granted!
At first I was unsure I would be able to rate this fairly with the difference in interests from him & the knowledge I lack of the subject. I am so glad I finished this one though because it was so touching. The fact that he spent the last moments of his life to try to help others come to terms with death was so noble. I am one of those people who is scared to death of death. The message from His wife at the end destroyed me but also really showed who he was as a person not just a neurosurgeon & patient which was amazing. I’m so thankful to have the opportunity to read this ♥️
This book When Breathe Becomes Air is so fantastic. I am so invested in medical topics and the gory truth of the medical field. This book was a little harder to read because of all the medical terms and Paul was a very smart man making things harder to understand but I loved the challenge. The middle of the book was slow and I was losing some interest but when the ending began I was fully invested and so happy I finished it. This book was so eye opening and in a way humbling I loved this book.
The real book isn’t on Goodreads, so my review will go here bc it’s close enough. At times, this book went a little over my head w medical jargon. But at the end of the day, Paul was an absolute genius and had many talents, including having the strength to write this book in his last year of life. I’m actually in awe of that. His wife is a treasure and many blessings for his daughter. Tough cards all around to be dealt with at such a young age.
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The book is “When Breathe Becomes Air” by Paul Kalanithi:
I couldn’t finish the epilogue because my eyes were filled with tears. Death is life, but that’s cliche I think. I appreciate the account of seeing the fairytale, even if it was too late. Pains me. Incredible book, and I will look forward with a lot more joy and grace.
I read the book and not this summary. I enjoyed the author's honesty. It is a book about him, his thoughts and opinions. I enjoyed that aspect but also felt like I had to remind myself he was a dying man and that this was his book and perhaps a form of legacy.
A quick read. Quiet short detailed description of life and death occurrence. This book made me realise neurosurgeons are one the best heroes of all. This book somehow made me see the way my beloved someone gone through their last moment on their own. This will stay in my heart for sure!
Really inspiring, quite sad. It was very interesting to hear what a doctors life was like, I never had a first hand account. I’d heard of doctors burnout, but this gave it texture. Makes me want to be a doctor.
I have never cried so much reading a book. You know how the book will end in the first chapter but that didn’t keep the tears from coming. Everyone needs to read this book.
This book is about the life of a neurosurgeon that is diagnosed with cancer. He has a mission to finish publishing a book and tells us to not take our time here for granted. He approached death peacefully, knowing that his control of the situation was out of his hands. He spent the time he had left with his newborn daughter and doing the things he enjoyed.
I couldn’t even finish the book….. I mean it gave me a different perspective of a doctor, life and death and just purely the medical field specifically a nuero surgeons mind…. But it wasn’t fulfilling enough for the type of books I like to read. First book I ever stopped reading in the middle of reading because it was not enough and slightly boring. I’m in nursing school and some of it made me feel like I was reading my textbooks.