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In SUCCESS IS THE ONLY OPTION, John Calipari provides us his "pearls of wisdom" on coaching and nurturing young, budding athletes. The title suggests that the coach is bottom-line driven, and will stop at nothing to achieve it--but that's not really the case. This book reveals that the author considers his players a lot more than just a means to an end.
The author takes his coaching job seriously; in fact, he really looks out for the whole life of the athlete--not just his ability on the court: "I consider myself an educator as well as a coach." Each chapter in the book covers a certain theme about coaching. Some are about giving fatherly advice, whilst some are more about career guidance.
Besides what makes a player really good, the coach explains what repels him. A player who only cares about himself won't be on the coaches' list: "I don’t recruit anyone who I believe is inherently selfish." The author also really dislikes kids who are disrespectful: "I have red flags in recruiting, stuff that leads me to just walk away. A big one is disrespect."
Another bad sign is a player who won't take responsibility for their actions: "Refusing to accept blame and shifting it to others is about the worst trait you can have on a team or in any work environment."
On the plus side, there are certain attributes that catch the coach's eye. Number 1? "The essential thing I am seeking is passion." He also really want's someone with a positive spirit, who contributes to the esprit de corps of the group: "When I’m recruiting, I’m looking for a kid who’s alive. He’s got a bounce in his step. A smile on his face. Love for his teammates. . . On the court, among their teammates, when they are off the court and out in the world, I want every one of them to be a person who lifts up others."
In Chapter 8: "Empowering Your Team," the coach talks about building up the team. The coach sets up fundamental principles for the team to work around. These ideas are a small set of easily understood themes that serve as a major focus point.
All in all, I found SUCCESS IS THE ONLY OPTION to be an interesting perspective from a great coach. I wasn't surprised to find that the author is really a caring person--not just interested in athletic ability, but the well-being of his team members. Many of his ideas are not extreme or unusual or startling, but still good ideas nonetheless.
I thought this one section sums up the author's philosophy:
"My goal, and one I believe we’ve been successful in achieving, is to set their sights ever higher and then send them off into the world with the skills, confidence, and poise they will need to succeed in their careers—and as human beings who contribute to the greater good."
Advance Review Copy courtesy of the publisher.