A frustrating, thought-provoking and important book. Every adult American should read it, for it offers much substance in spite of its flaws.
It's amazing to me, looking on Amazon, how divisive this book is. Dr. De Gruy Leary seems a gentle person who writes with a simple, clear, style. Much of her historical information is illuminating, and her main argument - that, due to their history of slavery, African-Americans perforce had to learn methods of coping that have been handed down through the generations, and which are no longer serving them well - simply makes sense. Trauma DOES get handed down in families! Surely that is inarguable by now. It takes conscious, disciplined effort to break the chain of abuse, and surely there can be no worse abuse that that endured by the enslaved peoples - African and otherwise - of the Americas. (*note to follow)
So far, so good. Dr. De Gruy Leary is excellent on the trauma of slavery, and her personal stories (on how to teach and motivate a group of learning-disabled African-American tweens, for example) are illuminating. Unfortunately, her message is weakened in a couple of places by glaring overstatements and errors. For example, she does seem to imply that, because our society is structurally racist, all European-Americans are racist by definition. This isn't true. Worse, she misrepresents the German anthropologist, Johann Friedrich Blumenbach. Here is what she quotes from him on page 61. Blumenbach is arguing that modern humans originated in Georgia, in the Caucasus:
"For, in the first place, the stock (Georgian) displays . . . the most beautiful form of the skull. Besides, it is white in color, which we may fairly assume to have been the primitive color of mankind."
Dr. DeGruy Leary says, "Let's see. ..skull bones being white lead him to the conclusion that Europeans were the first humans?" But that's clearly not what the quote says. "The stock" is white. Dr. De Gruy Leary is quite right to say that, from this false assumption - that Georgians from the Caucasus were the first humans - Blumenbach is making statements that can't be proven and therefore aren't science. But she doesn't mention that Blumenbach, later on, really did work from observation and therefore really did do science. His observation? That Africans varied quite as much as Europeans, and that some of them were brilliant! Therefore, he insisted "Africans were not inferior to the rest of mankind 'concerning healthy faculties of understanding, excellent natural talents and mental capacities'.[4] (quoted in Wikipedia.) Blumenbach was distressed when his arguments were taken up by racists, and argued passionately against racism.
At least one reader has used this mistaken analysis to completely discount Dr. DeGruy Leary's argument. That's unfortunate. Her having made a mistake like this calls her other historical materials into question - and it shouldn't. When she is right (for example, about the underlying causes of violence in the Black community, or about African-American children's lack of self-esteem), she is right. This book was uncomfortable for me, as a European American, to read. But I'm glad I read it, and I do recommend it, in spite of my reservations. I am going to recommend that our Pax Christi group read and discuss it. One of the things we pray regularly is that we receive the Grace to "always transform, and never transmit, violence done against us." Rightly understood, Dr. De Gruy Leary's book is an attempt to do just that.
(*Note: some people will say that the Nazis were worse in what they did to nearly ten million Jews, Christians, Gypsies, and other dissidents or people they saw as inferior. They may well have been, and that trauma, too, is being passed down and re-enacted in unhealthy ways. But Hitler only ruled for twelve years, and the communists in Russia - who were at least as bad - for a few generations. Slavery in the Americas endured for centuries, and we are still dealing with its legacy today. Also, some of the slave owners really were as bad as Nazis. We need to recognize that, just as we need to recognize that racism is alive and well in America today