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320 pages, Paperback
First published November 17, 2015

What rotten news had come his way? His mother had died. His girlriend--they'd been together for 3 years--had gone away to Sào Paulo for good, leaving a note on the kitchen table. His cat Max unaccountably fell down the airshaft. His lover, who runs an art-moving business, had been hit by a bike on Greenwich Avenue & required neurosurgery.Not everyone cares to be a virtual participant in the grief of others but Roger Angell, while perhaps seen as an elite & even effete New Yorker by some, has known grief following the death of his beloved wife Carol and the suicide of a daughter as well. I was reminded of a short story by Chekhov in which a man whose role is that of a horse carriage driver endures the death of his son and after futilely attempting to explain his intense grief to others, ultimately shares it with his horse.
His job--he was an anesthesiologist; an associate curator; a cloud-computer analyst & designer; a private school gym teacher--had been terminated due to budget considerations. His father, a retired oboist needs a live-in companion with experience in dementia.
I did not know or need to know but I had patronized this sidewalk neighbor with my imaginings. His loss was his own & unimaginable. The dog & I resumed our tour but I was surprised by unexpectedly remembering what crying is like.

There was a strain of workaday London practicality about him, and the surprise was that this avidity should be directed toward books & stories, instead of the tradesman's ledger. His cheerfulness--friends, relatives & other writers in particular could be seen standing near him whenever the chance came along, as if they were warming themselves at an old-fashioned coke-burning fireplace--no doubt derived from a resiliency developed during an unpeaceful childhood.The final piece within this anthology is titled "This Old Man" (as is the book itself) and is of course the most self-absorbed but also perhaps the most fetching, at least for older readers. Roger Angell catalogues the many frailties, including arthritis & partial hearing loss that come with aging, written as it was when he was 94 & feels as if he'd been the catcher of Hall of Fame pitcher Candy Cummings, the inventor of the curveball, who retired from the game in 1877.
In a piece about Mark Twain, Pritchett suggests that "The particular power of American nostalgia is that it is not only harking back to something lost in the past, but the tragedy of a lost future." And in assessing John Updike, Pritchett infers that "he has a preoccupation with the stillness of domestic objects, rather like in writing, of the Dutch genre painters, to whom everything in the house, in nature, or in the human posture, had the gleam of usage on it, without which a deeply domestic culture could not survive its own boredom."

