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Queers of La Vista #1
Gays of Our Lives
Emerson Robinette only leaves his apartment to get laid and go to work. Having MS—and trying to pretend he doesn’t—makes everything more complicated, especially his fantasies of coming on strong and holding a guy down. Finding a partner who’ll explore that with him isn’t Emerson’s idea of a realistic goal.
Until a chance meeting with a hipster on a bus makes him reconsider. Obie is happy, open-hearted, and warm; what’s more, he gets his kicks being physically dominated, spanked, and teased until he’s begging. It would be perfect, except for one thing: Emerson isn’t made for happiness, and he doesn’t see how a guy like Obie would settle for a cynic like him.
But as far as Obie’s concerned, the only thing keeping them apart is Emerson. Can Emerson handle a boyfriend who’s more invested in his future than he is? Emerson’s barely convinced he has a future. But when Obie’s smiling at him, anything seems possible.
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This book can be read on its own, or enjoyed as the first book in the Queers of La Vista series.
Word count: 59,400; page count 232
Until a chance meeting with a hipster on a bus makes him reconsider. Obie is happy, open-hearted, and warm; what’s more, he gets his kicks being physically dominated, spanked, and teased until he’s begging. It would be perfect, except for one thing: Emerson isn’t made for happiness, and he doesn’t see how a guy like Obie would settle for a cynic like him.
But as far as Obie’s concerned, the only thing keeping them apart is Emerson. Can Emerson handle a boyfriend who’s more invested in his future than he is? Emerson’s barely convinced he has a future. But when Obie’s smiling at him, anything seems possible.
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This book can be read on its own, or enjoyed as the first book in the Queers of La Vista series.
Word count: 59,400; page count 232
232 pages, Kindle Edition
First published July 10, 2016
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89 books405 followersKris Ripper lives in the great state of California and zir pronouns are ze/zir. Kris shares a converted garage with a kid, can do two pull-ups in a row, and can write backwards. (No, really.) Ze has been writing fiction since ze learned how to write, and boring zir stuffed animals with stories long before that.
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July 20, 2016
*4.25 stars*
To be honest, I was really nervous about this one.
I'm not a big fan of soap opera-ish books, and I have a HORRIBLE track record with them. Harlequin-style books and books that feature a lot of stereotypical soap opera twists are sort of the opposite of what I like. This series is a total nod to soap operas in terms of titles and branding, so I was really anxious about the content.
Also, this book features a MC with multiple sclerosis, a disease that I know VERY well. My mother's only brother has had MS for my entire life, and I've seen what it can do to a person (more on that later). I've read books with characters with MS where I've not recognized as true to my experiences with the disease. Sure, MS can take on many forms, but a few things are very consistent, and one of my BIGGEST pet peeves is when an author doesn't do their research.
Lastly, I read a few reviews where people didn't love the MC, Emerson, and felt like he was too caustic. I don't love a fully unlikable MC, so I was wary that I wouldn't like Emerson.
But I was SO pleasantly surprised, because I REALLY liked this story.
I want to talk about the MS aspect of the book first because it is featured front and center in the story. My uncle has a progressive type of MS, one of the worst types, and I've seen him go from using a cane to completely wheelchair-bound and almost totally unable to talk. It has been heartbreaking for my family, and my uncle is in constant pain and struggles with depression. Being unable to communicate is a huge issue for him, and his difficulty even using his hands makes him feel isolated and cut off from the world. I have a deep, emotional response to MS, and I was curious about how Kris Ripper would portray Emerson.
I think Kris Ripper really nailed the MS part of the book. I was surprised at how authentic the portrayal of Emerson and his daily trials with MS were, and I really saw truth in his character. There was no magic healing, and sometimes the realities of living with MS were hard for Emerson. I LIKED the complete portrayal of Emerson, not as a saint or martyr, but as a real dude living with a depressing, annoying, frustrating, painful, and COMPLETELY UNFAIR disease.
I also liked Emerson, though he was a major dick to Obie, like, all the time. I still related to him, and I got why he was so grumpy/pissed off. I really liked being inside his head, flaws and all. I liked the light D/s aspects of the story, and the real challenges that MS gave a guy who liked to dominate other guys. I just enjoyed all of Emerson, even when he frustrated me.
The story also wasn't melodramatic, like I had feared. It was well plotted and engaging, and I liked the slow progression of Emerson and Obie's relationship, and the side plot of Emerson's teacher/student dynamics.
I liked the whole cast of secondary characters, which featured a few POC and a range of the queer spectrum. I'm excited to meet some of them more in other books in the series (hopefully), and learn more about what makes them tick.
I was really blown away by this story, to be honest. I connected with it on an emotional level, and it left me wanting to read more by new-to-me author, Kris Ripper.
*Copy provided in exchange for an honest review*
To be honest, I was really nervous about this one.
I'm not a big fan of soap opera-ish books, and I have a HORRIBLE track record with them. Harlequin-style books and books that feature a lot of stereotypical soap opera twists are sort of the opposite of what I like. This series is a total nod to soap operas in terms of titles and branding, so I was really anxious about the content.
Also, this book features a MC with multiple sclerosis, a disease that I know VERY well. My mother's only brother has had MS for my entire life, and I've seen what it can do to a person (more on that later). I've read books with characters with MS where I've not recognized as true to my experiences with the disease. Sure, MS can take on many forms, but a few things are very consistent, and one of my BIGGEST pet peeves is when an author doesn't do their research.
Lastly, I read a few reviews where people didn't love the MC, Emerson, and felt like he was too caustic. I don't love a fully unlikable MC, so I was wary that I wouldn't like Emerson.
But I was SO pleasantly surprised, because I REALLY liked this story.
I want to talk about the MS aspect of the book first because it is featured front and center in the story. My uncle has a progressive type of MS, one of the worst types, and I've seen him go from using a cane to completely wheelchair-bound and almost totally unable to talk. It has been heartbreaking for my family, and my uncle is in constant pain and struggles with depression. Being unable to communicate is a huge issue for him, and his difficulty even using his hands makes him feel isolated and cut off from the world. I have a deep, emotional response to MS, and I was curious about how Kris Ripper would portray Emerson.
I think Kris Ripper really nailed the MS part of the book. I was surprised at how authentic the portrayal of Emerson and his daily trials with MS were, and I really saw truth in his character. There was no magic healing, and sometimes the realities of living with MS were hard for Emerson. I LIKED the complete portrayal of Emerson, not as a saint or martyr, but as a real dude living with a depressing, annoying, frustrating, painful, and COMPLETELY UNFAIR disease.
I also liked Emerson, though he was a major dick to Obie, like, all the time. I still related to him, and I got why he was so grumpy/pissed off. I really liked being inside his head, flaws and all. I liked the light D/s aspects of the story, and the real challenges that MS gave a guy who liked to dominate other guys. I just enjoyed all of Emerson, even when he frustrated me.
The story also wasn't melodramatic, like I had feared. It was well plotted and engaging, and I liked the slow progression of Emerson and Obie's relationship, and the side plot of Emerson's teacher/student dynamics.
I liked the whole cast of secondary characters, which featured a few POC and a range of the queer spectrum. I'm excited to meet some of them more in other books in the series (hopefully), and learn more about what makes them tick.
I was really blown away by this story, to be honest. I connected with it on an emotional level, and it left me wanting to read more by new-to-me author, Kris Ripper.
*Copy provided in exchange for an honest review*
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October 17, 2016I enjoyed this gigantically. It's one of those books that's so readable you might miss how clever it is. It's thoroughly soap-operatic as the title suggests, massively readable, engaging characters (Emerson, who locks himself in anger and unhappiness, meets Obie, who works very hard to be happy). Beauty and the Beast kind of thing, because Emerson really is a ball of self-destructive rage (with, let it be said, plenty of self-awareness, deprecating humour and obvious love for his students to show us what's under the prickles).
It's also the story of a man whose body isn't right and won't do what he needs it to (he has MS). Of someone with sexual desires they've been too scared to live out with anyone. Of being ashamed and angry about the difference between what you want to be and the body and mind and nervous system you're stuck with. And about the way love doesn't fix any of that for you, but can give you a way to change your response to it. The sex scenes express this amazingly well--Emerson is a sadist, in his mind he should be muscular and powerful and perpetrating all sorts of extreme and violent acts. In actuality he's never done it before and the on page BDSM never goes into anything particularly outre, but these are some of the more powerful scenes I've read in a while because of how much they mean to Emerson, and how superlatively hot he finds the reality.
I also adore the narrative. It's first person and fourth wall breaking. Emerson addresses the reader directly at points, telling us what to picture and what he's skipping. I found it a brilliant device, because Emerson's problem is his painful self-consciousness and defensiveness--and he can't even narrate a book without sniping at his own readers and worrying what we're thinking. :)
This is the kind of thing romance should be: massive fun, likeable, heartwarming, hot (for those who like heat obv), diverse cast, giving hero space to people who don't often get to be heroes, showing both the world as it is and a vision of a better way, and did I say fun. I glommed this and started on the next.
And, may I add, this is impeccably edited. Props to author, editor and publisher.
It's also the story of a man whose body isn't right and won't do what he needs it to (he has MS). Of someone with sexual desires they've been too scared to live out with anyone. Of being ashamed and angry about the difference between what you want to be and the body and mind and nervous system you're stuck with. And about the way love doesn't fix any of that for you, but can give you a way to change your response to it. The sex scenes express this amazingly well--Emerson is a sadist, in his mind he should be muscular and powerful and perpetrating all sorts of extreme and violent acts. In actuality he's never done it before and the on page BDSM never goes into anything particularly outre, but these are some of the more powerful scenes I've read in a while because of how much they mean to Emerson, and how superlatively hot he finds the reality.
I also adore the narrative. It's first person and fourth wall breaking. Emerson addresses the reader directly at points, telling us what to picture and what he's skipping. I found it a brilliant device, because Emerson's problem is his painful self-consciousness and defensiveness--and he can't even narrate a book without sniping at his own readers and worrying what we're thinking. :)
This is the kind of thing romance should be: massive fun, likeable, heartwarming, hot (for those who like heat obv), diverse cast, giving hero space to people who don't often get to be heroes, showing both the world as it is and a vision of a better way, and did I say fun. I glommed this and started on the next.
And, may I add, this is impeccably edited. Props to author, editor and publisher.
July 18, 2016
3.75 Hearts
Finally! I've read a Kris Ripper book. I've been meaning to for something like 2 yrs now and now I'm kicking myself for having been such a slacker.
This is book one of the Queers of La Vista series and features Emerson and Obie. Honestly, I was expecting something akin to a soap opera. Because, Days of Our Lives. Gays of Our Lives is more serious than I expected, but there's no "melo" in the drama.
Emerson is a complex character and this is his story told from his perspective of finding love in a crafty hipster named Obadiah Magovney. Emerson was diagnosed with MS about a year ago and he's rightfully angry about it. He spends a lot of time angry at his body and might be a little bit in denial. I think he thinks if he ignores it it'll go away. I also think he's depressed and funny in that self-deprecating way. There's a good deal of backstory on him that explains his actions and reactions and somewhere in the middle I felt like I knew him. I could predict that the conflict would be some sort of self-sabotage and that he'd hate himself for being an asshat.
He could use this printed on a t-shirt as a sort of caution to randoms.
Cuz he can be kind of a dick. I actually like the grumps and curmudgeons. Anyone who works at a community center helping people get their GEDs can't be all bad. He's just not great at connecting with people on a romantic or deeper level and there's a reason for that.
It's a good thing Obie is persistent and loyal. He's just... good people. He's perfect for Emerson-the cheese to his macaroni, the pea to his pod, you get what I'm saying. He's the most outgoing hipster ever. He's got this whole crafting thing going on with his roommate/sister from another mother, Dred, and like a kazillion Twitter and Instagram followers and his Etsy store is on the rise.
And... he rides a motorcycle. And knows how hot he looks leaning on it.
*bites fist*
I could gush about just how much I loved Obie, but I don't want to give the impression I didn't like Emerson. Obie's just easy to like whereas Emerson's like trying hug it out with a porcupine.
Their banter is relatable and authentic as was their relationship development. There are no magic cocks or cures or easy answers. They spend a lot of time together doing regular things and getting to know each other through pizza and porn, YouTube videos, reality TV and juicing.
Emerson has kinky inclinations that are mildly explored with a bit of spanking, bondage and a teensy bit of power exchange. Also... Emerson is also not a fan of bottoming and guess who's the smaller of the two?
Kink + Big guy bottom?!?!?!
Me. Hearing the angels singing sweet nothings about BGBs.
Yeah, it's a thing they do.
Not much makes me happier than that combo. And the sex was... intimate. How understanding Obie was of Emerson's limitations and that he was so willing to get creative added depth and intensity to their relationship.
There are great secondary characters that round out the cast and a murder of a local drag king which probably will come into play later in the series.
I learned a lot about living with MS, just how debilitating it is and how it affects the body, but I do think the balance between Emerson battling MS and his relationship with Obie was off. Their relationship does continue to evolve through his bad days and I think that gave them a good foundation on which to build their future. I just would've liked more good days, I guess.
"manly postcoital dude-hugging"
Not cuddling. No way.
I'm glad I'm no longer in the dark about Ripper's writes and I will read something else by this author in the future. Maybe something that's been sitting on my kindle giving me the eyeballs for the last 2 yrs.
Recommended to MM romance fans who like their romance realistic.
An ARC was provided by NetGalley in exchange for an honest opinion.
Finally! I've read a Kris Ripper book. I've been meaning to for something like 2 yrs now and now I'm kicking myself for having been such a slacker.
This is book one of the Queers of La Vista series and features Emerson and Obie. Honestly, I was expecting something akin to a soap opera. Because, Days of Our Lives. Gays of Our Lives is more serious than I expected, but there's no "melo" in the drama.
Emerson is a complex character and this is his story told from his perspective of finding love in a crafty hipster named Obadiah Magovney. Emerson was diagnosed with MS about a year ago and he's rightfully angry about it. He spends a lot of time angry at his body and might be a little bit in denial. I think he thinks if he ignores it it'll go away. I also think he's depressed and funny in that self-deprecating way. There's a good deal of backstory on him that explains his actions and reactions and somewhere in the middle I felt like I knew him. I could predict that the conflict would be some sort of self-sabotage and that he'd hate himself for being an asshat.
He could use this printed on a t-shirt as a sort of caution to randoms.
Cuz he can be kind of a dick. I actually like the grumps and curmudgeons. Anyone who works at a community center helping people get their GEDs can't be all bad. He's just not great at connecting with people on a romantic or deeper level and there's a reason for that.
It's a good thing Obie is persistent and loyal. He's just... good people. He's perfect for Emerson-the cheese to his macaroni, the pea to his pod, you get what I'm saying. He's the most outgoing hipster ever. He's got this whole crafting thing going on with his roommate/sister from another mother, Dred, and like a kazillion Twitter and Instagram followers and his Etsy store is on the rise.
And... he rides a motorcycle. And knows how hot he looks leaning on it.
*bites fist*
I could gush about just how much I loved Obie, but I don't want to give the impression I didn't like Emerson. Obie's just easy to like whereas Emerson's like trying hug it out with a porcupine.
Their banter is relatable and authentic as was their relationship development. There are no magic cocks or cures or easy answers. They spend a lot of time together doing regular things and getting to know each other through pizza and porn, YouTube videos, reality TV and juicing.
"Fuck you, Obie."
This time he mumbled, and I think it was, "That's what I'm saying."
So I shut the door and shoved him toward the bedroom. Because what the hell else was I going to do when my boyfriend demanded I fuck him?
Emerson has kinky inclinations that are mildly explored with a bit of spanking, bondage and a teensy bit of power exchange. Also... Emerson is also not a fan of bottoming and guess who's the smaller of the two?
Kink + Big guy bottom?!?!?!
Me. Hearing the angels singing sweet nothings about BGBs.Yeah, it's a thing they do.
Not much makes me happier than that combo. And the sex was... intimate. How understanding Obie was of Emerson's limitations and that he was so willing to get creative added depth and intensity to their relationship.
There are great secondary characters that round out the cast and a murder of a local drag king which probably will come into play later in the series.
I learned a lot about living with MS, just how debilitating it is and how it affects the body, but I do think the balance between Emerson battling MS and his relationship with Obie was off. Their relationship does continue to evolve through his bad days and I think that gave them a good foundation on which to build their future. I just would've liked more good days, I guess.
"manly postcoital dude-hugging"Not cuddling. No way.
I'm glad I'm no longer in the dark about Ripper's writes and I will read something else by this author in the future. Maybe something that's been sitting on my kindle giving me the eyeballs for the last 2 yrs.
Recommended to MM romance fans who like their romance realistic.
An ARC was provided by NetGalley in exchange for an honest opinion.
July 17, 2016
What a super enjoyable book! I didn't know what to expect when I picked it up, not having read any of the author's previous work. I saw that a few of my most favorite reviewers gave this book a thumbs up, so I figured it wouldn't hurt to try it. I'm sure glad that I did.
- I loved that Emerson was a grump, and that he didn't all of a sudden have a magical personality change at the end.
- I loved that his MS was not cured by the Magical Penis, and that there was a joke to that effect in the book.
- I loved Obie for being so relentlessly kind and good, even if my personality is closer to Emerson's.
- I loved that Emerson described and coped with his MS in a believable way.
- I loved that there was a POC in this book that was completely not stereotypical.
- I loved that it talked about legit issues that people have in life.
- I loved that there was no insta love. That Emerson resisted falling for Obie for what he thought was a good reason, but that Obie's stellar personality won him over in the end.
- I loved that there was a believable HEA that was more of a HFN.
So apparently I loved this book. I love a romance that can show (not tell) me about a couple's day to day life in a realistic and believable and yet still well written and enjoyable way. This book fits that description to a T.
- I loved that Emerson was a grump, and that he didn't all of a sudden have a magical personality change at the end.
- I loved that his MS was not cured by the Magical Penis, and that there was a joke to that effect in the book.
- I loved Obie for being so relentlessly kind and good, even if my personality is closer to Emerson's.
- I loved that Emerson described and coped with his MS in a believable way.
- I loved that there was a POC in this book that was completely not stereotypical.
- I loved that it talked about legit issues that people have in life.
- I loved that there was no insta love. That Emerson resisted falling for Obie for what he thought was a good reason, but that Obie's stellar personality won him over in the end.
- I loved that there was a believable HEA that was more of a HFN.
So apparently I loved this book. I love a romance that can show (not tell) me about a couple's day to day life in a realistic and believable and yet still well written and enjoyable way. This book fits that description to a T.
June 26, 2017
3,5 stars
It was hard to rate this book. Mostly I enjoyed this story, but there were times I struggled to read more. Somewhere in the middle I kind of lost my interest, but I'm glad I finished it because the second part of the book was way better.
I really enjoyed the author's writing and sense of humor. I found myself chuckling SO many times, even if the plot isn't funny at all. But Emerson made me like him, despite his negativity. Being in his mind made me laugh on many occasions.
Emerson has MS and his story isn't common. Growing up he had to hide he was gay from his parents and he's kind of a lonely soul. When he meets Obie his life changes completely and he struggles to accept he might fall for this wonderful man. Their relationship isn't easy, but Obie is sweet and such a goodhearted person.
I can't say I was hooked by the BDSM scenes, but the MC were hot together.
I really LOVED Mildred and the end of the book left me with a big smile on my face.
It was hard to rate this book. Mostly I enjoyed this story, but there were times I struggled to read more. Somewhere in the middle I kind of lost my interest, but I'm glad I finished it because the second part of the book was way better.
I really enjoyed the author's writing and sense of humor. I found myself chuckling SO many times, even if the plot isn't funny at all. But Emerson made me like him, despite his negativity. Being in his mind made me laugh on many occasions.
Emerson has MS and his story isn't common. Growing up he had to hide he was gay from his parents and he's kind of a lonely soul. When he meets Obie his life changes completely and he struggles to accept he might fall for this wonderful man. Their relationship isn't easy, but Obie is sweet and such a goodhearted person.
I can't say I was hooked by the BDSM scenes, but the MC were hot together.
I really LOVED Mildred and the end of the book left me with a big smile on my face.
June 1, 2016
Reviewed for From Top to Bottom Reviews.
3.5 stars
*I received an ARC of this book from Riptide Publishing via Netgalley in return of an honest review*
I had a hard time writing this review because I really don't know what to think of this book. Going into it I had high expectations because the reviews and ratings I had seen of it sounded amazing. But it took me way to long to like one of the main characters and because of that the story dragged a bit for me.
The biggest problem I had was that it was hard for me to relate or understand Emerson. I understand that a diagnosis like MS hits you really hard and you don't know what to do because suddenly everything seems so dark and impossible. And everything you had planned for your life is just thrown into disarray.
Maybe I should have expected something not so light when I requested the book. But the cover and the blurb made this book sound and look lighter than it was.
I had a hard time connecting with Emerson because he didn't seem to want to do anything. He was just going through the motions and didn't even do basic things that - even though nothing would heal his MS- could certainly help him.
I thought that maybe he'd realise way earlier in the book that his MS didn't mean that he couldn't do anything. That he didn't need to stop living his life.
On the other hand we have Obie who is such a sweet guy. Someone who's so positive, patient and caring. And Emerson and Obie fit together, but it took me a long time to see what Obie (obviously) saw in him or he wouldn't have kept coming back to him.
Good thing Obie was really persistent but Emerson certainly didn't make it easy for him.
Obie really was the star of this book for me and I adore him.
I started liking Emerson toward the end of the book when he's there for Mildred, and I wished it hadn't taken so long. Because he can be quirky and sarcastic but for too much of the story this felt one sided and like he wasn't really interested.
Gays of Our Lives is a good start to this series but sadly didn't live up to my expectations. I am looking forward to the next book though, because my not loving this book is solely because I just couldn't connect with Emerson.
The writing, the mystery aspect that gets mentioned in the blurb and a few times during the book and the other characters, like Mildred for example, were great and I'm really curious to read her story. But I think it really depends on whether you like Emerson or not to love this book so I'll recommend it. Who knows maybe he'll be one of your favourite characters?
3.5 stars
*I received an ARC of this book from Riptide Publishing via Netgalley in return of an honest review*
I had a hard time writing this review because I really don't know what to think of this book. Going into it I had high expectations because the reviews and ratings I had seen of it sounded amazing. But it took me way to long to like one of the main characters and because of that the story dragged a bit for me.
The biggest problem I had was that it was hard for me to relate or understand Emerson. I understand that a diagnosis like MS hits you really hard and you don't know what to do because suddenly everything seems so dark and impossible. And everything you had planned for your life is just thrown into disarray.
Maybe I should have expected something not so light when I requested the book. But the cover and the blurb made this book sound and look lighter than it was.
I had a hard time connecting with Emerson because he didn't seem to want to do anything. He was just going through the motions and didn't even do basic things that - even though nothing would heal his MS- could certainly help him.
I thought that maybe he'd realise way earlier in the book that his MS didn't mean that he couldn't do anything. That he didn't need to stop living his life.
On the other hand we have Obie who is such a sweet guy. Someone who's so positive, patient and caring. And Emerson and Obie fit together, but it took me a long time to see what Obie (obviously) saw in him or he wouldn't have kept coming back to him.
Good thing Obie was really persistent but Emerson certainly didn't make it easy for him.
Obie really was the star of this book for me and I adore him.
I started liking Emerson toward the end of the book when he's there for Mildred, and I wished it hadn't taken so long. Because he can be quirky and sarcastic but for too much of the story this felt one sided and like he wasn't really interested.
Gays of Our Lives is a good start to this series but sadly didn't live up to my expectations. I am looking forward to the next book though, because my not loving this book is solely because I just couldn't connect with Emerson.
The writing, the mystery aspect that gets mentioned in the blurb and a few times during the book and the other characters, like Mildred for example, were great and I'm really curious to read her story. But I think it really depends on whether you like Emerson or not to love this book so I'll recommend it. Who knows maybe he'll be one of your favourite characters?
October 19, 2016
This is my first time reading this author. Nothing had prepared me for how much I was going to lurve this novel. Like, it got to the point where I purposely slowed down my reading so that I could enjoy the story for as long as I could.
What I liked = EVERYTHING
+ Queers EVERYWHERE :D!
In addition to Emerson and Obie who are both gay, this novel has pansexual and lesbian characters. AFAIK, there will be even MORE LGTBQ+ folks in subsequent books. HOOORAY!
One of the things I also liked was how the idea of the LGTB+ community was presented and then actually explored on a smaller scale. I didn’t notice this until a certain event happens and then I basically squeed at the sweetness of the plot.
+ Emerson (the lovable grump)
Out of the two MCs, this was Emerson’s journey. As the sole POV character, we saw him coming to terms with the realities of having MS. Overtly grumpy, he’s used his mild misanthropy as a way to keep others at arms’ length.
It’s not so much that his personality changes once he meets (and eventually begins dating) Obie. What actually happens is that his world expands and it’s done in a funny and realistically messy way. I liked how he came to terms with the fact that he’d let people into his life and that it didn’t weaken him in any way.
+ Great portrait of chronic illness
A little over a year into his MS diagnosis, Emerson has quietly accepted some aspects of how his life has changed. Sometimes there are things he wants to do but his body doesn’t cooperate. It’s not magically cured.
+ Obie/Emerson (CUTIES!)
The actual romance between Obie and Emerson was so delicious I basically did this most of the time *________*
Sadly, there isn’t much development in Obie’s character. However, his approach to Emerson’s prickliness is greatness.
Another thing I enjoyed about seeing them as a couple was the playfulness/sensual combo that kept occurring whenever they got together. Even if all they did was drink juice while watching TV. Mind you, the sex scenes were SCORCHING HOT with low-key BDSM and the kind of realistic sex positivity one doesn’t see often.
+ AMAZING side characters
I loved that some of them were POCs and/or queer. Everyone behaved and interacted the way people in real life do. I could’ve easily read a short story or a novella about any and all of them. :)
TL;DR: A fabulous introduction to the Queers of La Vista series. Between the humor, the realistic portrayal of someone with chronic illness, the frisky romance, and great side characters, I can’t recommend this book enough!
What I liked = EVERYTHING
+ Queers EVERYWHERE :D!
In addition to Emerson and Obie who are both gay, this novel has pansexual and lesbian characters. AFAIK, there will be even MORE LGTBQ+ folks in subsequent books. HOOORAY!
One of the things I also liked was how the idea of the LGTB+ community was presented and then actually explored on a smaller scale. I didn’t notice this until a certain event happens and then I basically squeed at the sweetness of the plot.
+ Emerson (the lovable grump)
Out of the two MCs, this was Emerson’s journey. As the sole POV character, we saw him coming to terms with the realities of having MS. Overtly grumpy, he’s used his mild misanthropy as a way to keep others at arms’ length.
It’s not so much that his personality changes once he meets (and eventually begins dating) Obie. What actually happens is that his world expands and it’s done in a funny and realistically messy way. I liked how he came to terms with the fact that he’d let people into his life and that it didn’t weaken him in any way.
+ Great portrait of chronic illness
A little over a year into his MS diagnosis, Emerson has quietly accepted some aspects of how his life has changed. Sometimes there are things he wants to do but his body doesn’t cooperate. It’s not magically cured.
+ Obie/Emerson (CUTIES!)
The actual romance between Obie and Emerson was so delicious I basically did this most of the time *________*
Sadly, there isn’t much development in Obie’s character. However, his approach to Emerson’s prickliness is greatness.
Another thing I enjoyed about seeing them as a couple was the playfulness/sensual combo that kept occurring whenever they got together. Even if all they did was drink juice while watching TV. Mind you, the sex scenes were SCORCHING HOT with low-key BDSM and the kind of realistic sex positivity one doesn’t see often.
+ AMAZING side characters
I loved that some of them were POCs and/or queer. Everyone behaved and interacted the way people in real life do. I could’ve easily read a short story or a novella about any and all of them. :)
TL;DR: A fabulous introduction to the Queers of La Vista series. Between the humor, the realistic portrayal of someone with chronic illness, the frisky romance, and great side characters, I can’t recommend this book enough!
May 3, 2016
Queers of La Vista, Book 1
Emerson has been diagnosed with MS and is very angry at the world and everyone in it. He sees it as a weakness when he has to ask for help or horror of horrors rely on his cane. A chance meeting on a bus brings Obie into his life and sloooooooowly, things start to change.
Emerson was a total douche for most of the book and spent all of his time pushing Obie away even though that wasn't what he really wanted. Luckily, Obie is persistent and doesn't give up on him. Emerson eventually comes to realise that he has some very good people in his life and that they actually want to help and that asking for help when needed is not a weakness.
Obie was a great character but I felt that I didn't know him as well as I would have liked and there are some great side characters in Emerson's students and Obie's friend Mildred. maybe there will be more about them in future books.
*Received from NetGalley in exchange for an honest review
Emerson has been diagnosed with MS and is very angry at the world and everyone in it. He sees it as a weakness when he has to ask for help or horror of horrors rely on his cane. A chance meeting on a bus brings Obie into his life and sloooooooowly, things start to change.
Emerson was a total douche for most of the book and spent all of his time pushing Obie away even though that wasn't what he really wanted. Luckily, Obie is persistent and doesn't give up on him. Emerson eventually comes to realise that he has some very good people in his life and that they actually want to help and that asking for help when needed is not a weakness.
Obie was a great character but I felt that I didn't know him as well as I would have liked and there are some great side characters in Emerson's students and Obie's friend Mildred. maybe there will be more about them in future books.
*Received from NetGalley in exchange for an honest review
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October 5, 2024Apparently I’m a crabby ogre because I’m not getting the feelz that this book is giving everyone. The writing is fine and I liked the characters fine, but I’m just bored. The kink is not my thing, but I can’t skim over the sex scenes like I normally would because they have special significance due to Emerson’s MS. And the getting-to-know-you convos in between the sex aren’t grabbing my interest either. DNF @45%
February 9, 2021
I've realized it's hard for me to read such realistic MCs who are in the early days of diagnosis/acceptance of any chronic illness. It's been five years for me, and I'm pretty far down a path that I'm fully expecting to lead to permanent remission, and this shit is still too fresh! Especially the emotions involving doctors/other people in general that I still have to deal with during my much milder and much rarer flares. It resonated maybe a little too much!!
I liked so much about this, but I have no idea how to objectively judge what someone who hasn't dealt with chronic diagnoses personally would take from this. If you have, heads up: It will most definitely bring any lingering emotional trauma to the surface. And then you'll want to lecture Emerson about all the things he could do better, which will make you feel like a total asshole :) #JuicingIsTheDevil'sWork
I liked so much about this, but I have no idea how to objectively judge what someone who hasn't dealt with chronic diagnoses personally would take from this. If you have, heads up: It will most definitely bring any lingering emotional trauma to the surface. And then you'll want to lecture Emerson about all the things he could do better, which will make you feel like a total asshole :) #JuicingIsTheDevil'sWork
July 4, 2016
My first book by Kris Ripper and I really enjoyed it!
Emerson had such a great voice, loved everything about his story <3
Full review is here now.
This is my first book by Kris Ripper and I absolutely loved it. I saw this series a while back advertised as coming soon on the Riptide site and was immediately intrigued by the concept of a community of queer people finding love and happiness. I'm always on the look out for stories with queer characters where their queerness (and coming to terms with it) is not the main focus of the story. I want to see how they cope of everyday live, with ordinary (personal, professional) issues everybody faces in their lives.
I have to say right away that this story met and far exceeded all my expectations. It worked really well for me and I had great time reading it.
I generally prefer a more flowery writing style, a bit on the side of purple prose but this book is the exact opposite and I was surprised how much I enjoyed it. It was fitting to the characters and felt so normal and right.
The story is told from Emerson's POV (a lonely gay man with MS) and his voice was totally captivating and so refreshingly normal, real. It's very easy to misrepresent disability and any illness in fiction, especially in romance. There is always a danger of it becoming just a prop, a plot element or on the other hand, the author risks coming off as condescending. I really, really liked how Emerson's health issues were portrayed in this book. In my opinion this is one of the strongest elements of the story. We have this very snarky, sarcastic and often bitter character who is able to be honest and realistic about his disease. We are together with him in the process of coming to terms with his physical limitations, there are good days and bad days, mistakes and desperation but also hope and acceptance.
It was partly with the help and support of Obie that things got better for Emerson. But it was also a lot of Emerson himself and him ultimately finding friends, a community that can be good and useful for him but also people who need him, whom he can offer something too.
There are some BDSM elements in the story and though I'm not generally of this, I love the way it was incorporated in the romance. It was an exploration of desire and ability and pleasure for both Obie and Emerson and it was presented in a very realistic way - with the awkwardness of trying new things for the first time, with the unavoidable mistakes and things not working out exactly as you expect them but ultimately, as something intimate, just between two people. They way they make love or how their whole relationship works is is for them to decide, it doesn't have to meet anyone else's standards/visions but their own.
In short, I really enjoyed everything about this story - the writing which is very succinct and natural and works so well for these characters, the characters themselves - Emerson being a total jerk a lot of the time, yet I couldn't help but fall in love with him and Obie - the best hipster there can be, and Zane and Midred, supporting characters who shine on their own. I can strongly recommend this book to anyone looking for a good, positive queer romance, well-told!
Emerson had such a great voice, loved everything about his story <3
Full review is here now.
This is my first book by Kris Ripper and I absolutely loved it. I saw this series a while back advertised as coming soon on the Riptide site and was immediately intrigued by the concept of a community of queer people finding love and happiness. I'm always on the look out for stories with queer characters where their queerness (and coming to terms with it) is not the main focus of the story. I want to see how they cope of everyday live, with ordinary (personal, professional) issues everybody faces in their lives.
I have to say right away that this story met and far exceeded all my expectations. It worked really well for me and I had great time reading it.
I generally prefer a more flowery writing style, a bit on the side of purple prose but this book is the exact opposite and I was surprised how much I enjoyed it. It was fitting to the characters and felt so normal and right.
The story is told from Emerson's POV (a lonely gay man with MS) and his voice was totally captivating and so refreshingly normal, real. It's very easy to misrepresent disability and any illness in fiction, especially in romance. There is always a danger of it becoming just a prop, a plot element or on the other hand, the author risks coming off as condescending. I really, really liked how Emerson's health issues were portrayed in this book. In my opinion this is one of the strongest elements of the story. We have this very snarky, sarcastic and often bitter character who is able to be honest and realistic about his disease. We are together with him in the process of coming to terms with his physical limitations, there are good days and bad days, mistakes and desperation but also hope and acceptance.
It was partly with the help and support of Obie that things got better for Emerson. But it was also a lot of Emerson himself and him ultimately finding friends, a community that can be good and useful for him but also people who need him, whom he can offer something too.
There are some BDSM elements in the story and though I'm not generally of this, I love the way it was incorporated in the romance. It was an exploration of desire and ability and pleasure for both Obie and Emerson and it was presented in a very realistic way - with the awkwardness of trying new things for the first time, with the unavoidable mistakes and things not working out exactly as you expect them but ultimately, as something intimate, just between two people. They way they make love or how their whole relationship works is is for them to decide, it doesn't have to meet anyone else's standards/visions but their own.
In short, I really enjoyed everything about this story - the writing which is very succinct and natural and works so well for these characters, the characters themselves - Emerson being a total jerk a lot of the time, yet I couldn't help but fall in love with him and Obie - the best hipster there can be, and Zane and Midred, supporting characters who shine on their own. I can strongly recommend this book to anyone looking for a good, positive queer romance, well-told!
February 19, 2023
An opposites-attract romance between two very different gay men: Emerson Robinette, an often-caustic, depressed teacher with MS, and Obie Magovney, a cheerful hipster who rides a motorcycle and sells handmade ties. Emerson isn't even a year out from his diagnosis, and he's NOT in a good place with it yet. He's given up on relationships, especially since he's convinced his body won't allow him to live out his BDSM fantasies with a partner. Obie, however, doesn't see any reason why Emerson can't have what he wants. He accepts Emerson as-is and helps him start exploring both his kink and the possibility of being happy.
Even on a second read, I never got a great feel for Obie except as a plot device to coax Emerson out of his shell. The story beats are there, so it may be my problem. But as someone who's had chronic pain interfering in her life for over 20 years, I treasured this depiction of a healthy relationship where Emerson's physical ups and downs aren't seen by his partner as a big problem.
This was my first romance novel with narration that breaks the fourth wall, and I quite enjoyed that aspect of it.
Ripper is genderqueer and prefers the z-based pronouns.
Even on a second read, I never got a great feel for Obie except as a plot device to coax Emerson out of his shell. The story beats are there, so it may be my problem. But as someone who's had chronic pain interfering in her life for over 20 years, I treasured this depiction of a healthy relationship where Emerson's physical ups and downs aren't seen by his partner as a big problem.
This was my first romance novel with narration that breaks the fourth wall, and I quite enjoyed that aspect of it.
Ripper is genderqueer and prefers the z-based pronouns.
February 13, 2023
TBR rescue project!
A quick, fun read typical of Kris Ripper: strong character work, large secondary cast, super queer. Grumpy MC with MS meets sunshine-by-training-not-nature MC who takes everything in his stride. Mellow, slice-of-life story that I thoroughly enjoyed, even if not much happened.
A quick, fun read typical of Kris Ripper: strong character work, large secondary cast, super queer. Grumpy MC with MS meets sunshine-by-training-not-nature MC who takes everything in his stride. Mellow, slice-of-life story that I thoroughly enjoyed, even if not much happened.
July 7, 2016
Oh Emerson, you sad sad man. And since he spent most of a book speaking to me I feel it is okay to speak back. For the past nine months Emerson has hated on himself a little more than usual. It was at that time he found out that he has multiple sclerosis. I have very little medical knowledge but if Kris Ripper got just a little of Emerson’s life correct in that regard then I feel for the people who suffer this plight daily. Emerson is bitter about most things. He’s bitter most about the life he feels that MS has robbed from him. He’s bitter that he doesn’t have the body that matches the image of the man he wishes to be sexually. He hates the lack of control of the one thing he should have the most control over, his own body.
For everything that Emerson loathes about himself Obie finds something fascinating and intriguing about him. Since Gays of Our Lives is written first person point of view all from Emerson’s perspective readers never get that insight into Obie’s head for what keeps him around. This still worked for me. Obie cares enough for Emerson that the why’s of it never mattered to me. Obie simply sees a man worth chasing and so he chases.
There is absolutely nothing about Emerson to like. He’s not really a nice guy. I still kept reading and wanting him to find love and happiness though. Obie is the bright and shiny spot in his life. Obie obviously sees something in Emerson that’s worth having because he keeps pursuing him. He keeps going back for more of the venom and hate that Emerson dishes out. This makes for a surprisingly interesting read. That being said I’m not sure if I’ll move on with the Queers of La Vista series.
For everything that Emerson loathes about himself Obie finds something fascinating and intriguing about him. Since Gays of Our Lives is written first person point of view all from Emerson’s perspective readers never get that insight into Obie’s head for what keeps him around. This still worked for me. Obie cares enough for Emerson that the why’s of it never mattered to me. Obie simply sees a man worth chasing and so he chases.
There is absolutely nothing about Emerson to like. He’s not really a nice guy. I still kept reading and wanting him to find love and happiness though. Obie is the bright and shiny spot in his life. Obie obviously sees something in Emerson that’s worth having because he keeps pursuing him. He keeps going back for more of the venom and hate that Emerson dishes out. This makes for a surprisingly interesting read. That being said I’m not sure if I’ll move on with the Queers of La Vista series.
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September 12, 2018Going to sound weird to say for a book with a lead with MS who is a huge grump, but this was an exceptionally cute book and I loved it.
It doesn't shy away from anything, and Emerson is quite the misanthrope at times, but he comes around in his own way. Obie is lovely, both outgoing and shy and unaware of his worth. (Which actually, so is Emerson.)
Dred is lovely. I would like her as a friend, though she'd probably roll her eyes at me a lot.
Found queer family is some of what Ripper does best. I also appreciated the BDSM aspect and the fact that Emerson was the dominant. It's not about being alpha or buff or whatnot.
It doesn't shy away from anything, and Emerson is quite the misanthrope at times, but he comes around in his own way. Obie is lovely, both outgoing and shy and unaware of his worth. (Which actually, so is Emerson.)
Dred is lovely. I would like her as a friend, though she'd probably roll her eyes at me a lot.
Found queer family is some of what Ripper does best. I also appreciated the BDSM aspect and the fact that Emerson was the dominant. It's not about being alpha or buff or whatnot.
November 9, 2016
3 stars rounded up. Important subjects, poor execution.
December 20, 2016
Thoughts to come ... need to sleep now.
March 22, 2022
I really liked this book but there were some things I couldn’t get past. The writing felt like a wattpad fan fiction, which isn’t necessarily a bad thing but not something I expect from a book not on wattpad. The main character is purposely not likable, but some thoughts he has took me by surprise nonetheless in a not so comfortable way. The book was a lot of telling the reader what to think rather than showing the reader. The dialogue was fairly human. I didn’t really feel much real chemistry between the characters, not just the love interest but the side characters as well. Also there was something that kept being brought up that I can only assume will be touched upon in a book later in the series because absolutely nothing was done with it in this book and felt very awkwardly placed. I liked the book for all the representation it has but I’d like to think there’s better out there. It’s heartbreaking but I don’t recommend this book :’)
November 13, 2020
I don't often say this about book characters, but Emerson really is a jerk...
He's wallowing in self-pity about his MS diagnosis and is not trying to find ways to live with it. He's kind of mean to Obie and the sadist thing didn't do it for me...it just made Emerson more evil.
Poor Obie really likes Emerson for some mysterious reason that I can't identify. He's determined to stick around despite Emerson's efforts to screw it all up.
He's wallowing in self-pity about his MS diagnosis and is not trying to find ways to live with it. He's kind of mean to Obie and the sadist thing didn't do it for me...it just made Emerson more evil.
Poor Obie really likes Emerson for some mysterious reason that I can't identify. He's determined to stick around despite Emerson's efforts to screw it all up.
June 18, 2022
I guess I'll just read Ripper's whole back catalogue now
June 16, 2016
Now this is a great start to a new series by one of my favourite authors. Kris Ripper totally won me over with zir Scientific Method series (Catalysts: The Scientific Method) – so far so that ze is now an auto-buy author for me. Gays of Our Lives does not disappoint at all.
I am especially wowed by the inherent role Emerson’s disability plays in the book. Without having any references myself about MS (Multiple Sclerosis), the way it is depicted seems to me as if Kris profoundly researched the topic or has experience with it zirself in some way. Both the physical aspect of the disease as well as the difficulties to cope with a chronic illness are shown in a realistic way.
Concerning the physical limitations, I absolutely – make that Absolutely with a capital A – love that the book shows us how MS can affect the sex life and how sex is not necessarily restricted to penetration and orgasms. I Absolutely love that they have sex while Emerson can’t get an erection or orgasm during one of his episodes.
On the other hand, Emerson believably struggles with accepting his diagnosis. He’s in-part in denial and doesn’t want to change his life more than necessary. He is depressed and feels broken and unlovable – plainly unworthy of having someone to share his life with.
Since the story is told from his perspective this could actually be annoying, but I really liked his grumpy self. The tone of the book is generally light and funny and I laughed several times and smiled tons.
Obie, Emerson’s love interest, is amazing and I love him to pieces. He is the perfect counterpart and seeing them together was incredibly joyful. I also think it’s great that they just roll with the kink in the bedroom. The BDSM in the book is super light and they are both kinda trying it for the first time and discovering what works for them. That is really hot and also really nice.
Furthermore, the secondary characters are also all well flashed out. Especially Mildred is a great addition to the story. The building of family is one of the themes in the book – and I’d wager also the series. I really, really liked that part, too.
I wish there was a little more in the end, however. Maybe another love scene between Emerson and Obie, some more intimacy. It would have been lovely to spend a little more time with them. After the bump in the relationship I would also have liked some more closure, I think.
So, YAY for this book. It’s a wonderful start to a new contemporary romance series that I highly recommend and now anticipate the next books of.
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Genre: contemporary romance
Tags: m/m, disability (MS), teacher
Rating: 4.5 stars
Blog: Review for Just Love Romance
Disclosure: ARC in exchange for review; pre-ordered the whole series, though
I am especially wowed by the inherent role Emerson’s disability plays in the book. Without having any references myself about MS (Multiple Sclerosis), the way it is depicted seems to me as if Kris profoundly researched the topic or has experience with it zirself in some way. Both the physical aspect of the disease as well as the difficulties to cope with a chronic illness are shown in a realistic way.
Concerning the physical limitations, I absolutely – make that Absolutely with a capital A – love that the book shows us how MS can affect the sex life and how sex is not necessarily restricted to penetration and orgasms. I Absolutely love that they have sex while Emerson can’t get an erection or orgasm during one of his episodes.
And no. No miraculous dick recovery where suddenly I was hard as a rock, cured by true love’s kiss. Sorry. This ain’t that story.
On the other hand, Emerson believably struggles with accepting his diagnosis. He’s in-part in denial and doesn’t want to change his life more than necessary. He is depressed and feels broken and unlovable – plainly unworthy of having someone to share his life with.
Since the story is told from his perspective this could actually be annoying, but I really liked his grumpy self. The tone of the book is generally light and funny and I laughed several times and smiled tons.
“Listen, I don’t know if you think you’re the most chill guy in the world or something, but I gotta tell you, Emerson, sometimes you crack up a little and you’re kind of a dick.”
“Moi?” I asked, with exaggerated outrage. “It’s just that I’m so good at it.”
“At being a dick?”
His lips turned up, like he was trying not to smile “It’s a natural gift. I was born dickish.”
Obie, Emerson’s love interest, is amazing and I love him to pieces. He is the perfect counterpart and seeing them together was incredibly joyful. I also think it’s great that they just roll with the kink in the bedroom. The BDSM in the book is super light and they are both kinda trying it for the first time and discovering what works for them. That is really hot and also really nice.
Furthermore, the secondary characters are also all well flashed out. Especially Mildred is a great addition to the story. The building of family is one of the themes in the book – and I’d wager also the series. I really, really liked that part, too.
I wish there was a little more in the end, however. Maybe another love scene between Emerson and Obie, some more intimacy. It would have been lovely to spend a little more time with them. After the bump in the relationship I would also have liked some more closure, I think.
So, YAY for this book. It’s a wonderful start to a new contemporary romance series that I highly recommend and now anticipate the next books of.
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Genre: contemporary romance
Tags: m/m, disability (MS), teacher
Rating: 4.5 stars
Blog: Review for Just Love Romance
Disclosure: ARC in exchange for review; pre-ordered the whole series, though
June 16, 2016
I received a copy of this title to read and review for Wicked Reads
I wavered between 3 to 4 stars while reading, deciding to round up to 4 solid stars.
Kris Ripper is a new-to-me author, with an easy to read writing style, quick pacing, and genuine characters. Emerson is suffering from MS, has a negative view of the world because of his illness, and generally pushes people away. The introverted GED teacher was prickly, always having his spines out to poke anyone who gets to close. I fear many readers won't get Emerson, but I was able to empathize with him for the most part, even when he was at the height of his asshattery.
Emerson's self-deprecating inner monologue was hilarious- I'm not one for OTT comedy, but the way Emerson's narrative was written, it truly balanced the darker periods in the book.
Obie is a strong, positive character, a great balance for the reluctant Emerson. Patient in the extreme, after managing his BFF who acts exactly like his new boyfriend.
I applaud the author on giving a realistic, non-fluffy view of MS and how it affects the daily life of those inflicted, as well as those who love them. In Emerson's monologue, he himself expresses how there is no erasing it, good and bad days. I enjoyed how the author was being ironic by not only pointing out how romance books would ignore this issue, but making it the focal point. Most readers want fantasy, a world without pain and issues, but Gays of Our Lives was messy with reality, which is what kept me engaged.
I give a solid 5 stars on how MS was represented, the true-to-live emotions and traits Emerson expressed (which I'm sure rubbed some readers wrong), and how fluidly the romance flowed. So why did I waver between 3 or 4 stars? While I loved the story and the characters, there was a ton of redundancy of everyday events on repeat, no doubt to build the relationship between Emerson and Obie without coming off as insta (this is most definitely a slow-burn romance). Without another thread of conflict introduced, Gays of Our Lives couldn't support the page count without losing my interest. Either there should have been some conflict, maybe explaining what happened to the drag queen, or it should have been shortened to a novella in length. This is only my opinion, one I would have given when wearing my editor hat. Otherwise, I truly did enjoy this heartwarming, endearing storyline.
Recommended for MM romance fans, particularly those who are into the hurt/comfort trope.
Will I read more by this author? Most definitely. If the opportunity to read more from this author arises, I won't hesitate to jump at the chance.
I wavered between 3 to 4 stars while reading, deciding to round up to 4 solid stars.
Kris Ripper is a new-to-me author, with an easy to read writing style, quick pacing, and genuine characters. Emerson is suffering from MS, has a negative view of the world because of his illness, and generally pushes people away. The introverted GED teacher was prickly, always having his spines out to poke anyone who gets to close. I fear many readers won't get Emerson, but I was able to empathize with him for the most part, even when he was at the height of his asshattery.
Emerson's self-deprecating inner monologue was hilarious- I'm not one for OTT comedy, but the way Emerson's narrative was written, it truly balanced the darker periods in the book.
Obie is a strong, positive character, a great balance for the reluctant Emerson. Patient in the extreme, after managing his BFF who acts exactly like his new boyfriend.
I applaud the author on giving a realistic, non-fluffy view of MS and how it affects the daily life of those inflicted, as well as those who love them. In Emerson's monologue, he himself expresses how there is no erasing it, good and bad days. I enjoyed how the author was being ironic by not only pointing out how romance books would ignore this issue, but making it the focal point. Most readers want fantasy, a world without pain and issues, but Gays of Our Lives was messy with reality, which is what kept me engaged.
I give a solid 5 stars on how MS was represented, the true-to-live emotions and traits Emerson expressed (which I'm sure rubbed some readers wrong), and how fluidly the romance flowed. So why did I waver between 3 or 4 stars? While I loved the story and the characters, there was a ton of redundancy of everyday events on repeat, no doubt to build the relationship between Emerson and Obie without coming off as insta (this is most definitely a slow-burn romance). Without another thread of conflict introduced, Gays of Our Lives couldn't support the page count without losing my interest. Either there should have been some conflict, maybe explaining what happened to the drag queen, or it should have been shortened to a novella in length. This is only my opinion, one I would have given when wearing my editor hat. Otherwise, I truly did enjoy this heartwarming, endearing storyline.
Recommended for MM romance fans, particularly those who are into the hurt/comfort trope.
Will I read more by this author? Most definitely. If the opportunity to read more from this author arises, I won't hesitate to jump at the chance.
August 28, 2016
B+ Full review at www.allaboutromance.com/book-review/g...
Emerson Robinette only leaves his apartment to go to work. Occasionally, he will go to a club so he can hook up, but this seems like an itch to scratch rather than something he does for real enjoyment. Since his diagnosis of MS, he has lost confidence in himself and his fantasies, especially his fantasies of coming on strong and holding a man down. He really doesn’t think anyone could see him as a strong, forceful sexual partner.
A chance meeting with Obie who dresses differently is happy, open-hearted, and warm changes Emerson’s life in ways he didn’t believe possible. In addition to being a cheerful, honest man, Obie gets his kicks being physically dominated, spanked, and teased until he’s begging. Emerson doesn’t believe in happiness, and he doesn’t see how a man like Obie would settle for a cynic like him.
As far as Obie’s concerned, the only thing keeping them apart is Emerson himself. But when Obie’s smiling at him, Emerson starts to believe anything is possible.
Despite the blurb, which I have incorporated in my opening, there isn’t a lot of on page sex and quite right too. The sex and its expression is intimated; the passion is revealed through words and moods not tab A into slot B encounters. This is a romance. A romance between Emerson and Obie, but it is also a down to earth tale of how someone learns to accept that a life with limitations is also one equally deserving of love, happiness, and respect.
Obie is an artist and a hipster but most of all a caring, loving soul. He works hard to make ends meet for him and his friend Mildred (Dred) who is about to have a baby. Dred is an acerbic, lesbian character who loves Obie like a brother and together they are creating a loyal non-traditional family.
This tale shows how ordinary people are in fact unique and extraordinary where love, friendship, and family are concerned. Love, romance, and joy are not the sole preserve of the healthy, socially accepted, gorgeous, bronzed and six-packed. This refreshing approach worked for me and I enjoyed reading about the lives of these characters...
Emerson Robinette only leaves his apartment to go to work. Occasionally, he will go to a club so he can hook up, but this seems like an itch to scratch rather than something he does for real enjoyment. Since his diagnosis of MS, he has lost confidence in himself and his fantasies, especially his fantasies of coming on strong and holding a man down. He really doesn’t think anyone could see him as a strong, forceful sexual partner.
A chance meeting with Obie who dresses differently is happy, open-hearted, and warm changes Emerson’s life in ways he didn’t believe possible. In addition to being a cheerful, honest man, Obie gets his kicks being physically dominated, spanked, and teased until he’s begging. Emerson doesn’t believe in happiness, and he doesn’t see how a man like Obie would settle for a cynic like him.
As far as Obie’s concerned, the only thing keeping them apart is Emerson himself. But when Obie’s smiling at him, Emerson starts to believe anything is possible.
Despite the blurb, which I have incorporated in my opening, there isn’t a lot of on page sex and quite right too. The sex and its expression is intimated; the passion is revealed through words and moods not tab A into slot B encounters. This is a romance. A romance between Emerson and Obie, but it is also a down to earth tale of how someone learns to accept that a life with limitations is also one equally deserving of love, happiness, and respect.
Obie is an artist and a hipster but most of all a caring, loving soul. He works hard to make ends meet for him and his friend Mildred (Dred) who is about to have a baby. Dred is an acerbic, lesbian character who loves Obie like a brother and together they are creating a loyal non-traditional family.
This tale shows how ordinary people are in fact unique and extraordinary where love, friendship, and family are concerned. Love, romance, and joy are not the sole preserve of the healthy, socially accepted, gorgeous, bronzed and six-packed. This refreshing approach worked for me and I enjoyed reading about the lives of these characters...
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September 13, 2016There is so much tenderness and humour and coping with the vagaries of life and general humanity in this novel, that I had a hard time putting it down. In fact, I found myself going back and rereading passages during my first read.
Both Emerson and Obie, as well as the supporting characters are realistically drawn, and recognizable as individuals that one might meet in everyday interactions. They have edges and bluntness and moods and lots of times they fuck up.
Emerson's voice comes through with such power: all misanthropy wrapped up in rage and frustration, yet coated in a dusting of humour that makes him not only palatable, but loveable and relatable as he's learning to cope and accept himself and his still-freshly diagnosed chronic condition. Obie, on the other hand, is all sweetness and light and joy and Etsy/Maker spirit.
I loved the realistic portrayal of Emerson's MS. Rather than simplifying it to a mere plot device, the novel delves deep into what it's like to live with an unpredictable chronic disability, how it organizes one's life, how inescapable it is.
Finally, the community around the protagonists truly marks this novel apart in the sub-genre: the way in which queer/marginalized groups manage to buck the trend of hyper-individualism through the simple acts of love and care for one another.
Joy and community and tenderness: go read it!
Highly recommended!
Both Emerson and Obie, as well as the supporting characters are realistically drawn, and recognizable as individuals that one might meet in everyday interactions. They have edges and bluntness and moods and lots of times they fuck up.
Emerson's voice comes through with such power: all misanthropy wrapped up in rage and frustration, yet coated in a dusting of humour that makes him not only palatable, but loveable and relatable as he's learning to cope and accept himself and his still-freshly diagnosed chronic condition. Obie, on the other hand, is all sweetness and light and joy and Etsy/Maker spirit.
I loved the realistic portrayal of Emerson's MS. Rather than simplifying it to a mere plot device, the novel delves deep into what it's like to live with an unpredictable chronic disability, how it organizes one's life, how inescapable it is.
Finally, the community around the protagonists truly marks this novel apart in the sub-genre: the way in which queer/marginalized groups manage to buck the trend of hyper-individualism through the simple acts of love and care for one another.
Joy and community and tenderness: go read it!
Highly recommended!
June 27, 2016
ARC provided by Netgalley in exchange for an honest review.
I loved this book! Just from the blurb, I was a bit worried that that I would have a hard time relating to a bitter character with MS, but I totally got Emerson. Like completely. I really connected to how big of an asshole he was, all his snarky and snide comments, how he kept pushing Obie away, all of it. I’m not sure what that says about me as a person, but let’s just assume I’m a pretty decent human being and give all the credit to the author’s writing instead.
Ripper’s writing has this levity and a truthfulness to it that is really refreshing. Not many people can write about S&M and make you laugh in the same sentence (and yes, I’ve read the Subs Club series). As much as I wish we all had an Obie in our lives because he’s simply the best, I really loved zir approach to Emerson’s character. He didn’t undergo some magical personality makeover by the epilogue. He’s still got MS and he’s still an asshole – just an asshole who’s more willing to recognize that help doesn’t always come from pity, and that some people might actually love him for him.
I loved this book! Just from the blurb, I was a bit worried that that I would have a hard time relating to a bitter character with MS, but I totally got Emerson. Like completely. I really connected to how big of an asshole he was, all his snarky and snide comments, how he kept pushing Obie away, all of it. I’m not sure what that says about me as a person, but let’s just assume I’m a pretty decent human being and give all the credit to the author’s writing instead.
Ripper’s writing has this levity and a truthfulness to it that is really refreshing. Not many people can write about S&M and make you laugh in the same sentence (and yes, I’ve read the Subs Club series). As much as I wish we all had an Obie in our lives because he’s simply the best, I really loved zir approach to Emerson’s character. He didn’t undergo some magical personality makeover by the epilogue. He’s still got MS and he’s still an asshole – just an asshole who’s more willing to recognize that help doesn’t always come from pity, and that some people might actually love him for him.
October 3, 2017
Kris Ripper is a very good writer and this book is compelling. It layers so many elements of being human thoughtfully into a moving love story.
Emerson is frustrated. His body doesn't do what he wants it to do and who he is on the inside isn't who he looks like on the outside.
Obie is a sunny character but with lots of hidden depths. I am not sure why he decided he is so into Emerson but his resilience ,pursuit and talent makes him a great hero.
I love the conversation Obie and Emerson have about how Obie has elected to view life and how he has worked to see the joy. Emerson is a wonderful teacher and becomes a wonderful partner.
I wished for more at the closing but it was a real nice love story.
Emerson is frustrated. His body doesn't do what he wants it to do and who he is on the inside isn't who he looks like on the outside.
Obie is a sunny character but with lots of hidden depths. I am not sure why he decided he is so into Emerson but his resilience ,pursuit and talent makes him a great hero.
I love the conversation Obie and Emerson have about how Obie has elected to view life and how he has worked to see the joy. Emerson is a wonderful teacher and becomes a wonderful partner.
I wished for more at the closing but it was a real nice love story.
August 9, 2016
Oh, wow. This is a book that about a guy that feels so real, who finds twu love - so unreal in the best kind of way. I loved it.
It felt a tiny bit too short, which is the only reason I'm giving it 4 and not 5 stars.
I can't wait for the next books in this series, I have a feeling Queers of La Vista is only going to get better.
It felt a tiny bit too short, which is the only reason I'm giving it 4 and not 5 stars.
I can't wait for the next books in this series, I have a feeling Queers of La Vista is only going to get better.
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July 10, 2016I don’t like BDSM and even though this might be considered “BDSM Lite” it was still not my thing.
Parts of this were funny, Emerson talking to the reader is pretty hysterical, but he’s so unlovable at this point. Obie seems great. From the other reviews it looks like Emerson comes around, I just don’t like his kink enough to finish.
DNF at 31%
Parts of this were funny, Emerson talking to the reader is pretty hysterical, but he’s so unlovable at this point. Obie seems great. From the other reviews it looks like Emerson comes around, I just don’t like his kink enough to finish.
DNF at 31%
July 13, 2016
4.5 stars. Totally, totally loved! See my full review here: http://www.thenovelapproachreviews.co...
October 6, 2016
3.5 rounded down because all of the side plots were not that interesting to me personally
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