A mature guide to attraction that is neither insulting to women nor to the intelligence of its readers. While written for a general audience, this text caters especially to those with technical backgrounds. Logically minded individuals, such as engineers and computer programmers, are generally among the most befuddled when it comes to attracting women. While attraction and seduction are more of an art than a science, this text breaks down and delineates the most critical and fundamental concepts.Inside this book you will not find pick-up lines, routines, gimmicks, tricks or manipulative mind games. While other resources provide surface level advice, this book tackles attraction on a first principles basis. By understanding how attraction works on the deepest level, you will learn to address the causes of your issues rather than just how to cover up the symptoms. That is, you will learn to become an attractive man, not just how to act like one.
Phenomenal book - no bullshit, written like a precise manual and with true insights that are actually more about 'finding your true self' than just some 'superficial band aid solutions'.
If you are looking for cheesy pick-up lines and how to manipulate women, this is not your book - if you are looking for the real, honest and human fundamentals underneath the surface that will lead to tons of 'aha' moments about your misconceptions in the past, look no further.
I have recommended this book to multiple friends and will continue to do so. I only wish that more people would read it and escape the matrix of bullshit beliefs about dating - and more importantly: about themselves.
This is one of the most underrated books on relationship dynamics out there. It contains chock-full of wisdom on how attraction works. The author goes on detail on many aspects like abundance mentality, scarcity mentality, outcome independence and outcome dependence which are indispensable in successful relationship. I can't recommend it enough.
This is mostly meant as a dating manual for technically minded people. The major message is that their idea of how attraction works is incorrect and the author explains the actual way in a very logical and concise way. As a bonus, the language is wonderful for engineers - I burst out lauhing when I read about the "Flake equation".