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Addicted To Pain: Renew Your Mind & Heal Your Spirit From A Toxic Relationship In 30 Days
The obsession of a toxic or abusive relationship can have the same enticement as drugs or alcohol. The pattern echoes time and time a new significant other draws you into a new relationship that starts off loving and alluring only to develop into a hurtful or abusive cycle. People who have a healthy understanding of “true love” do not tolerate this kind of pain. He or she will move on in search of a healthier bond. It’s an unhealthy view on love that will rationalize the toxic behavior and cling to abusive relationships long after they should have ended. Like any other addiction those hooked on a toxic love and an emotionally abusive relationship; have no control over excessive urges to text, call, manipulate or beg for love, attention and affection. They want help. They want to end the pain and recover, but it’s just like trying to shake a drug habit. Ranked one of the top bestseller abusive relationship books, Addicted to Pain reveals the truths every woman needs to heal from a toxic relationship and return to a life rich with purpose and fulfillment. Relationship expert Rainie Howard writes this all-in-one spiritual guide to provide daily insight on toxic love addiction and a healing plan to help you recover from the overwhelming effects of an abusive relationship. Learn how to get over a guy and heal from all abuse • The verbally abusive relationship • Emotionally abusive relationship • Spiritual and physical abusive relationship Rainie has authored several books on relationships and is sought after as a conference speaker. If you’ve been seeking books for women and break up books to help you gain restoration from a separation, abusive relationship or divorce this is the book for you!
162 pages, Kindle Edition
Published April 21, 2016
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August 11, 2020
So let's jump in, I did not completely hate the book but I did not love it. I am a big fan of self-help books, but this one was a little different. it had various parts where they asked questions and allowed you to write down your responses (thought that was cool).
Now what killed me was she was overly religious. I get why religion plays a big part in self-help books. But this was "over-religious"in my opinion. So beware when you read this book, there are a lot of references to the Bible and lots of prayers. Almost in comparison to an AA meeting.
Also this book is bias, it's based on men hurting women. What about the women that messed up the relationship? What if the man wasn't the cheater? What if the women was the toxic one in the relationship? You need to help yourself heal and need to know why you do these things.
I personally feel she should have done both perspectives. I was able to relate to some parts of the book which made me reflect on myself. that part was good. This book is less than 200 pages and is an easy read. I don't discourage you guys reading it, it may be a good read for you but its was blah to me.
If you are interested in reading this book, I have provided the information below where you can purchase this read. I have also included the authors bio and info below. Please feel free to leave any comments and suggestions below or on my pages.
Happy Reading Fellow Book Lovers!!!!
Now what killed me was she was overly religious. I get why religion plays a big part in self-help books. But this was "over-religious"in my opinion. So beware when you read this book, there are a lot of references to the Bible and lots of prayers. Almost in comparison to an AA meeting.
Also this book is bias, it's based on men hurting women. What about the women that messed up the relationship? What if the man wasn't the cheater? What if the women was the toxic one in the relationship? You need to help yourself heal and need to know why you do these things.
I personally feel she should have done both perspectives. I was able to relate to some parts of the book which made me reflect on myself. that part was good. This book is less than 200 pages and is an easy read. I don't discourage you guys reading it, it may be a good read for you but its was blah to me.
If you are interested in reading this book, I have provided the information below where you can purchase this read. I have also included the authors bio and info below. Please feel free to leave any comments and suggestions below or on my pages.
Happy Reading Fellow Book Lovers!!!!
December 6, 2020
Wow, a Must Read
On a road trip a special person that asked me to read this while she drove and I am thankful for the opportunity. This book was full of reminders but also shed light on new thoughts as well as actions. If you have recently experienced hurt or think you are stuck in a relationship buy it today. It is important to remember to put God first in all things and confirmed that it does matter your method of prayer as long as its heart felt and a part of your daily walk. One thing I loved about this particular book is it wasnt just a life coach or motivational speaker sharing only her experience but backing it with scripture. There were moments in the book, that made me think of past thoughts and behaviors regarding past failed relationships. Most of what was read can be applied to every facet of life. You are never your circumstances if you walk towards your goal or goals. The only time your life remains unchanged is if you take no action to make it better. I definitely agree that you have to seek out you purpose or the vision God has for you.
On a road trip a special person that asked me to read this while she drove and I am thankful for the opportunity. This book was full of reminders but also shed light on new thoughts as well as actions. If you have recently experienced hurt or think you are stuck in a relationship buy it today. It is important to remember to put God first in all things and confirmed that it does matter your method of prayer as long as its heart felt and a part of your daily walk. One thing I loved about this particular book is it wasnt just a life coach or motivational speaker sharing only her experience but backing it with scripture. There were moments in the book, that made me think of past thoughts and behaviors regarding past failed relationships. Most of what was read can be applied to every facet of life. You are never your circumstances if you walk towards your goal or goals. The only time your life remains unchanged is if you take no action to make it better. I definitely agree that you have to seek out you purpose or the vision God has for you.
March 4, 2019
This book was very enlightening for my life I will use the thing I have read an learn from them thank you child of God
It was a pleasure to be able to hear a women an other women talk about there experiences u never know what u can learn if you free your mind body an spirit up to God
It was a pleasure to be able to hear a women an other women talk about there experiences u never know what u can learn if you free your mind body an spirit up to God
May 3, 2020
Wow!
This book did not make it to 30 days because I couldn’t put it down. This is THE best, it ACTUALLY helps, heals and guides you to your greater calling in your life when it comes to a relationship. This bible based book heals the soul and answers questions that I thought only I had. God speaks thru this book! Thank you Rainie!
This book did not make it to 30 days because I couldn’t put it down. This is THE best, it ACTUALLY helps, heals and guides you to your greater calling in your life when it comes to a relationship. This bible based book heals the soul and answers questions that I thought only I had. God speaks thru this book! Thank you Rainie!
July 6, 2020
A page Turner
I like this book I really did. The author definitely made some good points and advice on how to heal yourself and rid yourself of toxic relationships. I had to stop and look around like is she filming my life because the characteristics she described was me to a tee. I learned so much from reading this book and now I'm searching for her other work.
I like this book I really did. The author definitely made some good points and advice on how to heal yourself and rid yourself of toxic relationships. I had to stop and look around like is she filming my life because the characteristics she described was me to a tee. I learned so much from reading this book and now I'm searching for her other work.
March 7, 2023
Would be a very helpful book if it didn’t have such an emphasis on religion, with Bible quotes every other sentence. Sometimes it felt like this is not a guide to healing from a toxic relationship, but more to reconciliation with God. I was especially thrown off at the part when the author states that you are not capable to heal and take control of your life if you don’t surrender to God. So my take is, if religion plays an important part in your life - this book is helpful. But it is definitely not directed to help non-believers.
January 6, 2021
Compelling
This book was not what I expected. But im very happy with the outcome of this book and so. much-made sense to me. I wish I had this book 20 years ago. But with that said, God gave me this book today I guess it's was my time to receive the message. I enjoyed the spirituality in this book. I would be sharing this book with my two beautiful adult daughters. Thank you
This book was not what I expected. But im very happy with the outcome of this book and so. much-made sense to me. I wish I had this book 20 years ago. But with that said, God gave me this book today I guess it's was my time to receive the message. I enjoyed the spirituality in this book. I would be sharing this book with my two beautiful adult daughters. Thank you
August 6, 2020
Helpful during my healing
I really liked the journal portions and affirmations at the end of each chapter. It really encouraged journaling for me. It's not my favorite thing but I loved it each time I did it and helped me when reading back what I wrote.
I really liked the journal portions and affirmations at the end of each chapter. It really encouraged journaling for me. It's not my favorite thing but I loved it each time I did it and helped me when reading back what I wrote.
August 15, 2020
Very Helpful
Very Helpful book. Helped me heal during the process of my divorce from a very toxic marriage. The exercises, affirmations and prayers were just on time and perfect. Thank you Mrs. Howard for this book!
Very Helpful book. Helped me heal during the process of my divorce from a very toxic marriage. The exercises, affirmations and prayers were just on time and perfect. Thank you Mrs. Howard for this book!
July 21, 2019
A great read!
December 30, 2019
God is #1
I like how she follows what she says with scripture. Also that has little check list you could follow. I like that I could understand what I'm reading.
I like how she follows what she says with scripture. Also that has little check list you could follow. I like that I could understand what I'm reading.
May 13, 2020
Great book!
This a great book, it’s a must read! Don’t wait go get your copy today! Go get your copy today!
This a great book, it’s a must read! Don’t wait go get your copy today! Go get your copy today!
May 20, 2020
Life changing for me...
Excellent book, giving me hope to heal and find healthy relationships in my future. Giving me a fresh start in life.
Excellent book, giving me hope to heal and find healthy relationships in my future. Giving me a fresh start in life.
July 20, 2020
Great Read
I gained alot of insight from this book. It helped me to improve my thinking about relationships. I can't wait to read another book.
I gained alot of insight from this book. It helped me to improve my thinking about relationships. I can't wait to read another book.
July 26, 2020
This book came through at the right time because a couple of years ago I was in a toxic relationship and after reading this book I realized I can be better now!!!!
April 28, 2021
I love this book
This book is amazing helped me see a lot of things I didn’t know and influenced me to be better.
This book is amazing helped me see a lot of things I didn’t know and influenced me to be better.
August 13, 2021
A must read for any toxic relationship….with husbands, boyfriends even friends. It will open your eyes!
December 12, 2023
Great read
I enjoyed reading this book thoroughly. It was very helpful and insightful to my healing process. I'm definitely sharing with friends
I enjoyed reading this book thoroughly. It was very helpful and insightful to my healing process. I'm definitely sharing with friends
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January 15, 2019Great Book
I loved this book and it really helped me out a lot. I recommend all you ladies to read this book.
I loved this book and it really helped me out a lot. I recommend all you ladies to read this book.
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