Lost & Found: A Kid's Book for Living through Loss

by Marc Gellman, Debbie Tilley (Illustrator)

Losing Stinks!Even losing a toy or a game feels rotten. But when a friend moves away, a parent leaves home during a divorce, or a loved one dies, sometimes it seems as if the hurt will never go away. So how is it possible that loss can be an important opportunity? Rabbi Marc Gellman and Monsignor Thomas Hartman -- also known as television and radio's God Squad -- draw on years of counseling experience to suggest universal truths that will help those of any religion to live and grow through losses large and small. With surprising good humor, they show how people have responded with courage and even heroism to the curveballs life has thrown them. They've also selected comforting readings from favorite prose and poetry, offering wise words, healing laughter, or time for quiet reflections.This heartening book reminds us of the many ways that we can keep hope alive when the going gets rough. With a remarkable balance of common sense and profound insight, two award-winning authors skillfully show how, in a most extraordinary way, our bumps and bruises make us whole.

176 pages, Hardcover

First published April 24, 1999

About the author

Marc Gellman writes a solo column at Newsweek.com, and along with his close friend Thomas Hartman, he co-hosts the cable television program "The God Squad." The rabbi-and-priest duo have made frequent appearances on Good Morning America, Donlmus, and other major media programs. In addition to being the authors of Religion for Dummies, they have written five children's books, including How Do You Spell God?, which was made into an animated, Peabody-award winning HBO special. Gellman is the senior rabbi at Temple Beth Torah in Melville, NY.

Reviews

[Barbara · Rating 4 out of 5]

This is a wonderful book for children 8-12 that deals with loss in life - like the loss of stuff, games, pets, friendships and ultimately the loss loved ones through death. Authors Rabbi Marc Gellman and Monsignor Thomas Hartment don't mince words about hurt and grief, but they keep the conversation light and uplifting throughout the book. There are references to God and religion but it will fit the bill nicely for those seeking spiritual comfort without preachiness.

[David A-S · Rating 3 out of 5]

At the church we did a workshop on talking to children about death. This book was a research piece for it. It is intended for children or children reading with parents. It is a little pop psychology and faith, but ultimately it is helpful.