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How To Make Him BURN With Desire Only For You
Best selling author of Relationship and Law of Attraction books Lanie Stevens is also a life coach. Specializing in empowering and guiding women her books explain her powerful "secret technique" that is your key to creating a wonderful, satisfying and fulfilling life. Whether it is a mate, money, passion or love you desire her #1 best selling books will help you excel in self-development. Learn to create the life of your dreams!
120 pages, Paperback
Published April 5, 2016
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Lanie Stevens
39 books23 followersLanie Stevens is a bestselling author, subconscious strategist, and accidental therapist to thousands of women who’ve dated “emotionally unavailable” men (aka walking red flags in cologne). With a background in psychology, hypnosis, and feminine energy work, her books help women take their power back—without giving up their softness, their standards, or their sanity.
She’s the author of the Love Goddess Book Collection, including Pussy Whip, The Dating Game, Manifesting Love, and The Compatibility Test—each one written with a mix of psychology, energy, seduction, and just the right amount of sass. Her work teaches women how to shift their mindset, influence relationships energetically, and stop chasing men who should’ve been blocked months ago.
When she’s not writing or recording meditations, she’s probably explaining to a client (again) that no, him liking your story on Instagram doesn’t mean he’s in love.
She’s the author of the Love Goddess Book Collection, including Pussy Whip, The Dating Game, Manifesting Love, and The Compatibility Test—each one written with a mix of psychology, energy, seduction, and just the right amount of sass. Her work teaches women how to shift their mindset, influence relationships energetically, and stop chasing men who should’ve been blocked months ago.
When she’s not writing or recording meditations, she’s probably explaining to a client (again) that no, him liking your story on Instagram doesn’t mean he’s in love.
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October 30, 2020Rewritten because I have an Opportunity. Not the one I want but it's the only one offer, so why be picky? But as far as the book goes, I don't have the right spiritual energy. Or the universe just wasn't listening It didn't work. K's spirit did not hear mine calling to him in lust and desire, but then after the Co-Incidence of his other women, I'm not sure I care. (I lie) He's a man-whore. . This is between a 1 star and 5 star. If to works 5 star, make that 10-star! Skip to ** if you want the actual exercise that will GET THE GUY or in my case, (DIDN'T) GET THE GUY BACK.
1. Be true to yourself. Don't pretend you love sex if you don't, that's bait and switch. Women not love sex? Why not? Because they feel ashamed of their body, they've never had a man try a million ways to please them, that's why. Do not pretend that you love football, or anything else you don't because that's bait and switch and sooner or later you will reveal the real you and he won't love you any more and go off and cheat etc.
2. Lose weight if you need to. Buy nice clothes (a thong and 5" heels are suggested) and wear make up. Obviously you can't make him burn with desire if you are true to yourself which includes enough poundage so a thong would kind of disappear beneath the lovingly-acquired rolls of fat. Even if he is a lardass himself.
3. Don't nag, bitch or complain. If men did as requested women wouldn't do that. Men of course don't nag or bitch, they ask, advise and remind, and then complain. But they're allowed. This book seems to think men 'are more like dogs than they think' but that's ok, they are being 'true to themselves'.
4. Develop your inner spirit and don't worry about what you look like. Huh? So why write the precedings 5 chapters?
5. How to get back a "lying, cheating prick" because that is the kind of man you go for.
6. If it doesn't work and you can't get him back it's the universe telling us it wasn't meant to be. Oh. Not that he's a lying, cheating prick whose just not interested in getting back with you. Because he's not that interested in you and met someone who gives better head than you, at least while it's a novelty.
7. "The more you pretend to be someone who doesn't give a damn about whether or not you get back together or whether he calls for a date" etc. It will keep the men on their toes. So 1. 'be true to yourself' and no bait and switch from chapter one are reversed in chapter 8. So the author is setting the reader up with a Catch-22.
I'm getting excited, she's going to teach a technique using 'universal energy combined with the the power of thought and direction' to make him BURN with desire for ME and it cannot, she says, it cannot fail.
**Exercise 1: Sit on the bed and relax, keep telling yourself you are sleepy until you relax and can shift your attention from the outer to the inner world. Your subconscious mind is 30,000 times more powerful than your conscious mind!
Focus on your subject, visualise him in your mind's eye which is a few inches up from your eyebrows in the middle of your forehead. That's my inner Cyclops.
Next, call out to him in your mind, "K! K! K!" "Call to him in your thoughts until you see him turn around and look at you. What you are doing is engaging his spirit or (30,000 times more powerful) subconscious mind to come to you." He will absolutely feel your presence the meoment you do it.
Now we are getting to the nitty gritty! Visualise him walking over to you, reach out and touch his face, lips, chest, arms, stomach and penis. Your breathing may change, you may become aroused. "Remember you are literally connected at this point in time. Feel him, touch him, smell him and use all your senses.
"Maintain your focus while you undress him." Kiss him, touch and caress his body, hear his moans and feel his desires.
"As you are caressing his body and kissing his lips reach down and touch his private parts . Play with him, have oral sex meaning suck him, not imagine him doing it to you, definitely not. It's not about you. It's all about spirit, light and the universe, .
Apparently the author often comes close to having an orgasm with all these thoughts and she can GUARANTEE that the man she is having spiritual sex with will call, email or show up within the next few hours or days wanting her with a passion that is all-consuming. I don't believe it for one minute. I think she's just thought of a scam to make money, like all those books like The Secret. People always want something for nothing or something unattainable and an author that promises it in a convincing enough way, might get rich.
You should only do this for 5 or 10 miutes or even just a minute or two. "REMEMBER, WHEN YOU CALL UPON HIS SPIRIT HE HAS NO CHOICE BUT TO COME TO YOU. HE IS PUTTY IN YOUR HANDS SO BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU DO TO HIM."
Then 'release' him with a message that goes on a bit but essentially tells him that he will always want you and will think about you all day. Very corny. Exercise 2 is the same but on an unknown man you fancy. Someone you thought might spill coffee on in Starbucks just to get his attention, but then thought it might be a bad idea. It stands more of a chance of working than this pretend-magical crap though.
"I can tell you that there has never been a time when this method has not worked. It works every time. I can be in the middle of a breakup and ALL I have to do is the simple exercise. No phone calls, no begging, no apologies, no booty calls - nothing but this exercise."
I hope it's not a case of 'ye who have little faith'because
I'm going to try it. I want my handsome, billionaire racing car driver back, I really do. Do you think it will work?
Well it didn't. However, I did go out once with a guy he went to school with and who has a ranch in Lake Worth and drives a pickup (he's really a legal consultant but loves his little ranch so he does Zoom mostly). He's invited me to come and stay, he also says he'll marry me for US citizenship if I want. So.... maybe I'll do this psychic stuff on him for a week or two, just to reinforce his desire!
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Notes on reading .
Review 3/2020. Rewritten, updated, and with added sarcasm 30th October 2020.
1. Be true to yourself. Don't pretend you love sex if you don't, that's bait and switch. Women not love sex? Why not? Because they feel ashamed of their body, they've never had a man try a million ways to please them, that's why. Do not pretend that you love football, or anything else you don't because that's bait and switch and sooner or later you will reveal the real you and he won't love you any more and go off and cheat etc.
2. Lose weight if you need to. Buy nice clothes (a thong and 5" heels are suggested) and wear make up. Obviously you can't make him burn with desire if you are true to yourself which includes enough poundage so a thong would kind of disappear beneath the lovingly-acquired rolls of fat. Even if he is a lardass himself.
3. Don't nag, bitch or complain. If men did as requested women wouldn't do that. Men of course don't nag or bitch, they ask, advise and remind, and then complain. But they're allowed. This book seems to think men 'are more like dogs than they think' but that's ok, they are being 'true to themselves'.
4. Develop your inner spirit and don't worry about what you look like. Huh? So why write the precedings 5 chapters?
5. How to get back a "lying, cheating prick" because that is the kind of man you go for.
6. If it doesn't work and you can't get him back it's the universe telling us it wasn't meant to be. Oh. Not that he's a lying, cheating prick whose just not interested in getting back with you. Because he's not that interested in you and met someone who gives better head than you, at least while it's a novelty.
7. "The more you pretend to be someone who doesn't give a damn about whether or not you get back together or whether he calls for a date" etc. It will keep the men on their toes. So 1. 'be true to yourself' and no bait and switch from chapter one are reversed in chapter 8. So the author is setting the reader up with a Catch-22.
I'm getting excited, she's going to teach a technique using 'universal energy combined with the the power of thought and direction' to make him BURN with desire for ME and it cannot, she says, it cannot fail.
**Exercise 1: Sit on the bed and relax, keep telling yourself you are sleepy until you relax and can shift your attention from the outer to the inner world. Your subconscious mind is 30,000 times more powerful than your conscious mind!
Focus on your subject, visualise him in your mind's eye which is a few inches up from your eyebrows in the middle of your forehead. That's my inner Cyclops.
Next, call out to him in your mind, "K! K! K!" "Call to him in your thoughts until you see him turn around and look at you. What you are doing is engaging his spirit or (30,000 times more powerful) subconscious mind to come to you." He will absolutely feel your presence the meoment you do it.
Now we are getting to the nitty gritty! Visualise him walking over to you, reach out and touch his face, lips, chest, arms, stomach and penis. Your breathing may change, you may become aroused. "Remember you are literally connected at this point in time. Feel him, touch him, smell him and use all your senses.
"Maintain your focus while you undress him." Kiss him, touch and caress his body, hear his moans and feel his desires.
"As you are caressing his body and kissing his lips reach down and touch his private parts . Play with him, have oral sex meaning suck him, not imagine him doing it to you, definitely not. It's not about you. It's all about spirit, light and the universe, .
Apparently the author often comes close to having an orgasm with all these thoughts and she can GUARANTEE that the man she is having spiritual sex with will call, email or show up within the next few hours or days wanting her with a passion that is all-consuming. I don't believe it for one minute. I think she's just thought of a scam to make money, like all those books like The Secret. People always want something for nothing or something unattainable and an author that promises it in a convincing enough way, might get rich.
You should only do this for 5 or 10 miutes or even just a minute or two. "REMEMBER, WHEN YOU CALL UPON HIS SPIRIT HE HAS NO CHOICE BUT TO COME TO YOU. HE IS PUTTY IN YOUR HANDS SO BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU DO TO HIM."
Then 'release' him with a message that goes on a bit but essentially tells him that he will always want you and will think about you all day. Very corny. Exercise 2 is the same but on an unknown man you fancy. Someone you thought might spill coffee on in Starbucks just to get his attention, but then thought it might be a bad idea. It stands more of a chance of working than this pretend-magical crap though.
"I can tell you that there has never been a time when this method has not worked. It works every time. I can be in the middle of a breakup and ALL I have to do is the simple exercise. No phone calls, no begging, no apologies, no booty calls - nothing but this exercise."
I hope it's not a case of 'ye who have little faith'because
I'm going to try it. I want my handsome, billionaire racing car driver back, I really do. Do you think it will work?
Well it didn't. However, I did go out once with a guy he went to school with and who has a ranch in Lake Worth and drives a pickup (he's really a legal consultant but loves his little ranch so he does Zoom mostly). He's invited me to come and stay, he also says he'll marry me for US citizenship if I want. So.... maybe I'll do this psychic stuff on him for a week or two, just to reinforce his desire!
____________________
Notes on reading .
Review 3/2020. Rewritten, updated, and with added sarcasm 30th October 2020.
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