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Michelle Eades is a 52 year old single lesbian mother who has experienced more tragedy in her life than anyone should have to go through. Born in 1963 in Deptford, South East London, she was the youngest of six children, her happy childhood being torn apart due to sexual abuse. An ex-self-harmer, Michelle suffers from anxiety issues and depression, which she keeps under control with medication. Having experienced traumatic losses in her family through mental health illnesses (one of which was brought on by violent ex-relationships and gang rape), Michelle has come through everything life has thrown at her so she can tell her story to others. Throughout her whole life, one question continued to plague ‘Why?’ It is this question she attempts to answer throughout these pages. Both sad and inspiring, this book will move you in many ways. It is an emotional and poignant look at one woman’s life, and of how she overcame countless setbacks in order to become the strong and independent person she is today. Having originally started the book as a cathartic exercise, Michelle is now letting the world read her story, in the hope that she can help others who are suffering alone at this very moment. There is life after abuse, but only if we can break our silence, and now, Michelle is breaking hers.
150 pages, Kindle Edition
Published May 13, 2016
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April 1, 2024
Those who enjoy reading memoirs should get their hands on Michelle Eades' book "Why". In this book, the author has opened up about the horrific events from her childhood and how they affected her family and her.
When Michelle was a young girl, she was visited by her Uncle Charlie many times. He always found a way to sexually abuse Michelle. He asked her to keep his adult secret with her otherwise she would be taken away from her mum and dad. At a young age, we get afraid and the abusers take advantage of it. As Michelle grew up, the memories of the abuse were in her mind. She has shared about her various relationships over the years and how she always craved to be a mum. Her journey with her daughter is also worth reading.
Those who are a victim of abuse should definitely read this book. The author inspires them by telling them that there is life after abuse and they are not alone. I am impressed with the author's thinking of how she sees herself as a survivor instead of considering herself as a victim.
This story is a reminder to all the parents that they should teach their kids about good touch and bad touch from a young age. I am grateful to the author for sharing her story with us. The writing is descriptive and easy to follow. This story kept me hooked till the last page. Great job by Michelle in this memoir.
When Michelle was a young girl, she was visited by her Uncle Charlie many times. He always found a way to sexually abuse Michelle. He asked her to keep his adult secret with her otherwise she would be taken away from her mum and dad. At a young age, we get afraid and the abusers take advantage of it. As Michelle grew up, the memories of the abuse were in her mind. She has shared about her various relationships over the years and how she always craved to be a mum. Her journey with her daughter is also worth reading.
Those who are a victim of abuse should definitely read this book. The author inspires them by telling them that there is life after abuse and they are not alone. I am impressed with the author's thinking of how she sees herself as a survivor instead of considering herself as a victim.
This story is a reminder to all the parents that they should teach their kids about good touch and bad touch from a young age. I am grateful to the author for sharing her story with us. The writing is descriptive and easy to follow. This story kept me hooked till the last page. Great job by Michelle in this memoir.
February 21, 2025
“Why by Michelle Eades” is a memoir published on May 13, 2016, with a length of 150 pages.
The book recounts the author’s experiences of childhood abuse, shedding light on the struggles many individuals face in silence while others find the courage to speak out. It emphasizes the immense strength and courage required to confront such trauma.
The memoir delves into the harrowing events that transpired during the author’s childhood, exploring their profound impact on her subsequent life.
The author’s motivation for writing this book was to provide a voice for those who have suffered in silence and to offer solace to those who feel alone. Through her narrative, she seeks to empower others to confront their experiences and find strength within themselves.
Upon reading the memoir, one is confronted with the author’s profound losses and the lasting effects of her past experiences. These events have contributed to the complexities of her troubled journey.
The title of the book, “Why,” aptly encapsulates the central theme of the memoir. As one reads, they are compelled to contemplate the reasons behind such occurrences, a question that lingers in the mind long after completing the book.
The book recounts the author’s experiences of childhood abuse, shedding light on the struggles many individuals face in silence while others find the courage to speak out. It emphasizes the immense strength and courage required to confront such trauma.
The memoir delves into the harrowing events that transpired during the author’s childhood, exploring their profound impact on her subsequent life.
The author’s motivation for writing this book was to provide a voice for those who have suffered in silence and to offer solace to those who feel alone. Through her narrative, she seeks to empower others to confront their experiences and find strength within themselves.
Upon reading the memoir, one is confronted with the author’s profound losses and the lasting effects of her past experiences. These events have contributed to the complexities of her troubled journey.
The title of the book, “Why,” aptly encapsulates the central theme of the memoir. As one reads, they are compelled to contemplate the reasons behind such occurrences, a question that lingers in the mind long after completing the book.
August 24, 2024
Sad story, hard life for Michelle but she turn all in strength to survive and be a model to show that after lots trauma there is life. Great the way how she wrote her experience, I recommend the book to all having problem to break their silence.
December 5, 2024
One very brave lady
To go through so much abuse and loss and then find the strength and courage to put it into words, is remarkable. Well done Michelle.
To go through so much abuse and loss and then find the strength and courage to put it into words, is remarkable. Well done Michelle.
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