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Soft is the New Power: Embracing Your Feminine Edge to Win in Love & Life

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Soft is the New Power What if everything you thought you understood about communicating with men was wrong? Would you be willing to re-calibrate your thinking to possess the love and life you desire? From the creator of the Man Whisperer Multimedia Series comes the new book Soft is the New Power by Deya “Direct” Smith. Smith shows readers how to return to the organic softness that is feminine power. Many women are losing themselves in an effort to keep up with the male-dominated workplace and the new-age approaches to dating and relationships. Too many successful and ambitious career driven women for various reasons tend to use masculine or hard energy to survive or succeed, and as a result, not only are they exhausted, but they become hardened in communications. Smith encourages readers to step out of their comfort zone of self-promotion and self-protection and take a stronger, yet softer position to gain what you want. Women have an innate power to attract amazing relationships through initiative, understanding and acceptance, coupled with the ability to approach life with a soft touch. Knowing how and when to turn on your power, does not negate the need to play hard ball when necessary, but it definitely gives you an advantage in work, play and at home. God made us the softer sex for a reason. Use it to your advantage! Readers • Eliminate the pressure of being ‘on’ constantly; • Define and embrace your feminine power; • Understand that being soft does not make you weak it makes you wise; • Improve communication with men in business and in your personal life; • Learn the art of speaking to a man’s heart. In Soft is the New Power, Deya “Direct” Smith encourages women to tap into their God-given authority, intuition and femininity to experience the ultimate success in love and life.

168 pages, Kindle Edition

Published May 17, 2016

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August 22, 2020
Great read

I love how all of the chapters concluded with assessing yourself and asking yourself questions . I loved how the questions made you sit and think of 3 ways to to improve in those areas as well as how to incorporate the new information into your personality and everyday life.
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August 14, 2022
this is like the girl version of the guys on youtube telling incels how to get girls

this isn’t about femenine power so much as it is about getting a man. but… it’s like ALL this girl thinks about ..
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June 15, 2024
loved it

This is one of the best books I have read and I will continue to refer back to it. I consider myself to be very feminine but it seems I have been doing some things wrong. I cannot wait to implement some of the new things I have learned in my day to day .

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January 10, 2025
Very Informative

I thoroughly enjoyed this book. Quick read but chocked with information. Read with an open heart because it gives information that's sometimes hard to swallow. Nonetheless, I do believe the information will be beneficial!
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May 6, 2025
Was enjoying it mostly till I came to chapter 10 and she repeated word for word the same 10 pages twice in a row. Written by AI? Just not properly edited? I’m not sure but EXTREMELY off putting.
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November 29, 2025
This book focused on communication (not just verbal) and emotional intelligence. Great points and a good read for awareness. Will draw a woman to hold her own self accountable.
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