I'd give this 0 stars, if I could.
I absolutely hated this book. Thankfully, it's twenty years old and I don't think it's very popular anymore. The reason I read it? It was recommended by a YouTuber as being influential for her practice and a good book for beginners. I am not a beginner, by any stretch, but it's always helpful to have titles on hand to recommend to people who are.
So, I bought the book. And I regret wasting a single cent and my precious time on this nonsense. I knew, going in, that the author took a Wiccan slant. I was fully prepared to ignore those parts. Except, "those parts" equaled the entire book! I thought I was getting a book on prepping for spellwork and learning about grounding and centering and actual meditation techniques, a little like Psychic Witch by Mat Auryn. Nope. Nothing. He's quite clear about why he hates spellbooks and that his book isn't going to teach you how to do magic. For that, he insists that you find a teacher because you can't learn how to do magic from a book.
If he's not teaching you about spellwork or meditation, what is it about, you may ask? "It has been my goal to give you a solid foundation in the ethics and values of magic and spirituality before you cast a spell." And for 190 pages all he does is regurgitate the Wiccan Rede and Threefold Law and criticize anyone who doesn't operate within that magical thinking. And then, toward the end, he throws in a chapter about chakra work. There's also a heavy emphasis on karma. I'm impressed he managed to hit all of the New Age spiritual buzzwords in one book.
He also ranted for ten pages about a well-known Wiccan priestess (whom he refused to name) who cracked a joke about a potato and using it as part of a revenge spell on an ex-boyfriend. Ten pages! He went over the various reasons why she would make such a joke in the first place (I would also like to point out that he wasn't even at the conference where the joke was made—he heard about it AFTER the fact and was still offended enough to bitch for ten pages!) and it boiled down to "baneful magic is BAD! BAD WITCH!" and that he's afraid jokes like that are going to a) make people not take magic seriously or b) that the mindless townsfolk will take it TOO seriously and they're going to start burning witches again in the town square. Give me a break.
Not everyone is comfortable with baneful magic. I get it. He was coming at this from a Wiccan perspective, I get that too. But he literally contradicted himself within the pages, which undermines everything else he had to say. On page 76, he writes that there are "two hard-core, no-exceptions rules that govern spellcraft" — the Wiccan Rede and the Threefold Law. Ten pages later, on page 86, he backtracks and says, "this is not meant to be 'The One Ultimate Truth of Magical Ethics'" and that "I do not presume to speak for every tradition of Wicca or Witchcraft, or every possible lineage or tradition of Paganism." And yet, he spent the entire book shitting on anyone whose values don't align with his, anyone who is remotely interested in baneful magic, or anyone who doesn't feel like working with a deity.
Oh, and as of 2024, on his own website, he says he's a "practicing Christian." He mentioned in the book that he was brought up in the Christian faith before he presumably wandered off onto a Wiccan path for a while. Normally, someone's religious/spiritual beliefs don't interest me but considering the fact he was SO self-righteous throughout the book, to find he's abandoned his beloved Wiccan ways that he spent 190 pages telling you you needed to join/adhere to? If there had been anything beneficial to this book, that would have undone it. I believe in practicing what you preach, and yes, people can change and interests can change. But maybe don't shit all over people outside of your tradition? Because now he looks like even more of a hypocrite.