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Crossovers: How To Go From One Step To The Next… From The First Date To Closing The Deal
When I first started learning about how to meet women and dating them, I realized that there were some major ‘sticking point’ that I had to deal with.
After learning how to handle them myself, I realized that almost ALL men have these same stumbling blocks. In this special book I help you see these areas and improve the ones that you need help with.
To begin with, let me explain what I mean by a 'Crossovers.'
These are the moments in time where you have to do something to advance to the next level.
For If you're with a woman and you're having a great conversation, you might want to take the relationship to another level. Most men I know don’t know how to 'transition' into this next level.
Or let's say you see a woman that you'd like to meet, and you have to decide whether or not you're going to walk over and say hello. This is a crossover moment. If you don't do it, you probably won't get another chance.
I know one guy who meets a lot of women. Women really seem to like him when they first meet him. He can get dates, and get them to come home with him. But every time he tries to get physical with a woman, she got cold all a sudden and leaves.
I know another guy who meets women everywhere we go. Women just love him. They laugh at his jokes (even the ones that aren’t that funny). But he never knew how to smoothly asks any of them for their phone number , so he doesn't get any of them.
Tragic!
The problem with Crossover Moments is that they almost ALWAYS require the man to take initiative and do something that can be REJECTED by the woman. For instance, walking up and saying hello, asking for her number, asking her out on a date, kissing her, getting physical with her, etc.
In all of these situations, a man has to go through the ‘possibility’ of rejection. This keeps most men from even trying. And most guys have at least one or two areas that they're not confident about.
If you're not confident and know exactly where you're going and what you're doing, you're going to be likely to make a mistake, say something wrong, and cause the woman to reject you at one of these important turning points.
The danger, of course, is that if a man makes a mistake at one of these *moment of the truth* times that turn the woman off, she may decide to leave.
Every new relationship is like a complex puzzle. You can make it through many steps, then make a mistake and have it all fall apart.
Here's some list of the Crossovers
-->The initial Approach
-->Asking Her Contact Info
-->Asking Her Out
-->The Actual Date
-->Holding Hands
-->The First Kiss
-->Being Alone With Her In Private
-->Making Out With Her
-->Taking Her Clothes Off
-->Getting Physical With Her
-->Etc.
As far as I'm concerned, if a person needs improvement in an area of life, they usually need to learn a new SKILL. Too many people make the mistake of thinking that something's wrong with them, and that they'll never be able to overcome their challenge.
Just remember, it's all about learning a new skill to overcome each challenge. So I've taken each of these different Crossover Moments and created what I call a 'Crossover' for each.
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There is one simple difference between real men who attract more women outside their door than they let in and all the wannabees…
…having a proven reliable feeder system.
-Fidelis Marc
After learning how to handle them myself, I realized that almost ALL men have these same stumbling blocks. In this special book I help you see these areas and improve the ones that you need help with.
To begin with, let me explain what I mean by a 'Crossovers.'
These are the moments in time where you have to do something to advance to the next level.
For If you're with a woman and you're having a great conversation, you might want to take the relationship to another level. Most men I know don’t know how to 'transition' into this next level.
Or let's say you see a woman that you'd like to meet, and you have to decide whether or not you're going to walk over and say hello. This is a crossover moment. If you don't do it, you probably won't get another chance.
I know one guy who meets a lot of women. Women really seem to like him when they first meet him. He can get dates, and get them to come home with him. But every time he tries to get physical with a woman, she got cold all a sudden and leaves.
I know another guy who meets women everywhere we go. Women just love him. They laugh at his jokes (even the ones that aren’t that funny). But he never knew how to smoothly asks any of them for their phone number , so he doesn't get any of them.
Tragic!
The problem with Crossover Moments is that they almost ALWAYS require the man to take initiative and do something that can be REJECTED by the woman. For instance, walking up and saying hello, asking for her number, asking her out on a date, kissing her, getting physical with her, etc.
In all of these situations, a man has to go through the ‘possibility’ of rejection. This keeps most men from even trying. And most guys have at least one or two areas that they're not confident about.
If you're not confident and know exactly where you're going and what you're doing, you're going to be likely to make a mistake, say something wrong, and cause the woman to reject you at one of these important turning points.
The danger, of course, is that if a man makes a mistake at one of these *moment of the truth* times that turn the woman off, she may decide to leave.
Every new relationship is like a complex puzzle. You can make it through many steps, then make a mistake and have it all fall apart.
Here's some list of the Crossovers
-->The initial Approach
-->Asking Her Contact Info
-->Asking Her Out
-->The Actual Date
-->Holding Hands
-->The First Kiss
-->Being Alone With Her In Private
-->Making Out With Her
-->Taking Her Clothes Off
-->Getting Physical With Her
-->Etc.
As far as I'm concerned, if a person needs improvement in an area of life, they usually need to learn a new SKILL. Too many people make the mistake of thinking that something's wrong with them, and that they'll never be able to overcome their challenge.
Just remember, it's all about learning a new skill to overcome each challenge. So I've taken each of these different Crossover Moments and created what I call a 'Crossover' for each.
----------------------------------------------------------------------
There is one simple difference between real men who attract more women outside their door than they let in and all the wannabees…
…having a proven reliable feeder system.
-Fidelis Marc
19 pages, Kindle Edition
Published December 12, 2013
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