I read this book when I was 13, and remember only some of it, but here are the compelling things about it that have stuck with me ever since!
-the AI girl at the heart of this book is created to be basically a companion and lover to her creator, who fantasizes about shaping a person in his image. Some kind of crisis elapses, however, and Maggie, the AI, recalibrates her essential program structure to prioritize self-preservation over serving her creator. There's a passage that describes her command structure becoming more organic and elegant than her creator had planned and protecting a core of self-preservation imperitave at its heart in a place her creator can't even see.
-she escapes her creator or her creator gets arrested for making an illegal AI (can't remember) and ends up broken down in the desert for a while and basically sleeping inside her body because her batteries ran out but then gets found and goes on a road trip and ends up in a flooded but fantastical an ever-partying New Orleans
-the vulnerability of living in a woman's body or what appears to be a woman's body while not really being a woman per se is addressed a lot in this text
-Maggie hooks up with a trans woman whose pronouns change a lot because this is written by a cis person in the 1990s but it's a really good scene and very sweet and gay. The trans woman is the first person she comes out to as a robot and there's a moment where they sort of come out to each other.
-I think she helps an AI that is living in a library computer get a body but it has been so long since I read this book that I can't be sure