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The Good Wife's Guide to Taking Charge: A Female-Led-Relationship Primer

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Rebecca Lawson, Your Average Femdom Queen, is back with an all-new guide for beginners, reluctant brides, and curious wives! Including a brand new, never before published, 3,000+ word short story, “The Birthday Spanking!”Do you suspect your husband wants a strict wife to take control? Has he shared his fantasies with you regarding domestic discipline? Like many women with this idea sprung upon them, you may have no clue where to begin. Have no fear, this book is for you! Written with the somewhat reluctant wife and the definite first-timer in mind, this book provides some practical hints, tips, and tricks on how to get your wife-led-marriage off the ground. This book defines the terms, discusses the mechanics of the “strict wife fantasy,” as well as covers spanking, humiliation, chastity, teasing and denial. Included in this tome is a list of punishments, as well as resources, and even a realistic fictional account which illustrates these principles in practice. It’s a great starting point to get you off on the right foot. Have fun!

64 pages, Kindle Edition

Published May 28, 2016

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269 reviews12 followers
April 27, 2020
Her other book is better.
This book, "The Good wife's Guide," is similar to a much better one titled "The Domestic Dominatrix: Tips, Tricks and Thoughts on All Things Femdom," which I reviewed also. I found the tone and presentation lacking compared to the other. Its primary use would be to add a chapter about "Humiliation," which seems to be missing in the other book. This concept is a touchy one, and she does a well showing how well integrated with a couple's dynamic it can be.
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835 reviews39 followers
October 22, 2020
Wives take note..

This book helps those looking to enter a D/D relationship, listing all you need to know about getting your wife to take charge and administer punishment when appropriate. If only....
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99 reviews6 followers
June 11, 2020
Great book for my vanilla wife

I've read the blurbs for various manuals, but was disturbed by the topic of cuckolding. I was perturbed by the lack of any moral sense when talking about it. Some men can't handle the emotional stress. I'm one of them, and I don't want to ruin my marriage. Neither my wife or I want to be unfaithful. I read one review that mentioned that Rebecca only talks about DD within a marriage. Cuckolding doesn't come up. The reviewer also praised Rebecca's quality of work, addressing the concerns in a general way. I knew this was a book that my wife would be comfortable with, and I'm comfortable giving it to her. She's also reading Dominatrix 101 & 201.
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September 13, 2018
Good presentation of FLR

Well-written book that illustrates and gives a detailed picture of many examples of FLR(Female Lead Relationships).
I can’t comment on the reality of the relationships, but they do seem to characterize my image of FLRs.
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December 17, 2023
Great way to start A FDR.

This is a great read for someone who doesn't know how to start a Female Led Relationship and wants some basic knowledge.
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May 12, 2024
Lawson's book centres on the "domestic discipline" end of flr and gives useful tips for woman, but lets face it often it is the man who will be reading it and asking for such service from their goddess. The book is somewhat slight as is often the case with the FLR "how to's" I have read, and a good illustrations as to it's nature comes from it's chapter headings Defining the terms / Why domestic discipline? / Setting it up / The list / Spanking / Humiliation / Teasing, denial and the ruined "O" / Final Thoughts. There are nice ideas here to help you determine what you want it your setup, for me whilst I would be willing to be kept humble by some of the methods, the books are leading me more to a Loving FLR / Love & Obey route of service, rather than those more connected with bdsm / kink. At the end of the day, how can it be called a female-led-relationship if the primary route of entry is the man's fantasies and need for his kinks to be satisfied. Lawson at least looks at ways of taking these on board and making things as easy as possible for the woman in the tasks that the man is set.
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