What do you think?
Rate this book
The Babysitter at Rest
“I had to judge a story contest of 600+ anonymous stories and I read each one and without hesitation Jen George’s story was my favourite. I’m so happy this collection exists. I feel drunk with love for these stories. They’re so funny and weird and true.”—Sheila Heti
“With a weird, beautiful energy, George explores the challenges of woman-being: singlehood, self-doubt, motherhood, the dismaying fact of aging, the (dis)ability to love. A modern-day Jane Bowles, George engages these mysteries in prose that is funny, charming, dark, and insightful.” —Deb Olin Unferth
Five stories—several as long as novellas—introduce the world to Jen George, a writer whose furiously imaginative new voice calls to mind Donald Barthelme and Leonora Carrington no less than Kathy Acker and Chris Kraus. In “Guidance/The Party,” an ethereal alcoholic “Guide” in robes and flowing hair appears to help a thirty-three-year-old woman prepare a party for her belated adulthood; “Take Care of Me Forever” tragically lambasts the medical profession as a ship of fools afloat in loneliness and narcissism; “Instruction” chronicles a season in an unconventional art school called The Warehouse, where students divide their time between orgies, art critiques, and burying dead racehorses. Combining slapstick, surrealism, erotica, and social criticism, Jen George’s sprawling creative energy belies the secret precision and unexpected tenderness of everything she writes.
“With a weird, beautiful energy, George explores the challenges of woman-being: singlehood, self-doubt, motherhood, the dismaying fact of aging, the (dis)ability to love. A modern-day Jane Bowles, George engages these mysteries in prose that is funny, charming, dark, and insightful.” —Deb Olin Unferth
Five stories—several as long as novellas—introduce the world to Jen George, a writer whose furiously imaginative new voice calls to mind Donald Barthelme and Leonora Carrington no less than Kathy Acker and Chris Kraus. In “Guidance/The Party,” an ethereal alcoholic “Guide” in robes and flowing hair appears to help a thirty-three-year-old woman prepare a party for her belated adulthood; “Take Care of Me Forever” tragically lambasts the medical profession as a ship of fools afloat in loneliness and narcissism; “Instruction” chronicles a season in an unconventional art school called The Warehouse, where students divide their time between orgies, art critiques, and burying dead racehorses. Combining slapstick, surrealism, erotica, and social criticism, Jen George’s sprawling creative energy belies the secret precision and unexpected tenderness of everything she writes.
168 pages, Paperback
First published October 17, 2016
73 people are currently reading
3861 people want to read
About the author
Jen George
6 books87 followersJen George was born in Thousand Oaks, California. She lives and works in New York City. THE BABYSITTER AT REST (2016; Dorothy, a publishing project) is her first book.
Ratings & Reviews
Friends & Following
Create a free account to discover what your friends think of this book!
Community Reviews
Displaying 1 - 30 of 206 reviews
August 11, 2022
this book fucks
May 19, 2017
I would compare Jen George's stories to remembering a dream, or being inside a surrealist painting. Her characters feel to me like ordinary people who, when dropped into bizarre situations, adapt accordingly, just carrying on as if everything's normal. The result is a disconcerting yet beguiling blend of the mundane and the ludicrous.
Guidance / The Party
The Babysitter at Rest
If there's such a thing as tragic-ironic (tragironic?), this story is it. As a newly minted young adult, the narrator may be technically capable of looking after herself and making decisions, but she doesn't succeed at either. However fantastic her conditions, the results are inevitable: disintegration, failure, chaos. It occurred to me that with their unspecific jobs and ages and their dressing-up-box outfits, the characters are like figures a child has placed in a dolls' house, or Sims. I'd have said 'Guidance / The Party' was my favourite story from the book, but 'The Babysitter at Rest' is the one that's stuck in my head most vividly.
Take Care of Me Forever
This, on the other hand, was probably my least favourite, if only because it's quite gruesome, queasy and uncomfortable. There's a nightmare atmosphere to the premise: a woman is confined to a hospital, tested and experimented on in increasingly extreme ways, unsure what is wrong with her – or if anything is. Of course, the scenes grow more and more farcical: the narrator wanders through a hole in the wall and encounters 'a naked painter with a very small penis', who she recognises as 'someone I used to do sex games with, only I didn't know they were sex games at the time'; a doctor asks for her 'lifetime accident and mishap history', and her story is turned into an art film even as she's still being 'diagnosed'. The story ends without resolution.
Futures in Child Rearing
A woman contemplates motherhood, worrying about her potential baby's name (she considers 'You Have Reached Your Destination' and 'You're OK') and the sort of compliments people will give him or her. She doesn't seem to have a father in mind, but of course that's the sort of thing that doesn't matter in these stories. She spends thousands of dollars on bizarre fertility aids, including quail eggs and crystals. Her 'ovulation machine' merely provides a string of catty verdicts on suggested names, until she switches it to the 'futures-in-child-rearing mode' and it describes three children she might have. Once again, there is no conclusion to the supposed theme but rather a collapse into despair and rage.
Instruction
There is a sort of pleasing circularity in the collection closing with 'Instruction', which, like 'Guidance / The Party', is broken down into small, subtitled chapters. It deconstructs a common trope – an older man having a midlife-crisis affair with a beautiful, nubile student – and, in doing so, reveals how absurd it is. The man becomes 'the Teacher/older man with large hands', while the student is part of an art scheme at a place called 'The Warehouse'. When the student produces her first piece, 'it's hailed by the Teacher/older man with large hands as "sexy as hell while being totally amateur and bad." I'll admit that the praise went straight to my head.'
Again, I could write out hundreds of quotes from this story. I'm trying to stop myself from just writing out a description of the entire thing from start to finish. The stories in The Babysitter at Rest make me want to do that, for some reason: to describe and explain them to other people rather than analyse them.
I loved each of these stories. At the end of the book, I felt a bit overwhelmed by their wilful irrationality, and their similarity to each other. Reading through them again to write this review, however, I find myself feeling electrified by them – the way they combine realism that's almost hurtful with humour and fantasy.
TinyLetter | Twitter | Instagram | Tumblr
Guidance / The Party
Q: What takes the place of looks?A 33-year-old woman is visited by 'The Guide', an androgynous, angel-like figure who enters her apartment through the window and exhorts her to organise a 'mandatory party' to celebrate the transition to adulthood. The Guide conducts a review of the protagonist's existence and offers advice. In part two of the story, the protagonist becomes 'The Host', and conducts the increasingly disastrous party in mini-chapters with titles like 'Stagnation/social hiccups/injury'. This is a deadpan story, very sly and funny and true, and I could quote just about every line.
A: Invisibility, irrelevance, debt, and unsuccessful stabs at saving to buy real estate.
The Babysitter at Rest
I’ve been given a fresh start, a new beginning. It’s almost like being reborn, but without birth and childhood. I get to start as a young adult, when you are capable of looking after yourself and making decisions. When your body is in its prime. The only rules are you start pretty broke, and you have to have roommates.This setup is typical of the stories here. The narrator knows as little about herself as we do – whatever her previous life was, her memory of it is mostly gone, and she can't be any more specific about her new age than 'between seventeen and twenty-two'. Comical weirdness permeates the story. At a party, the narrator is stalked by a man hiding in a hydrangea bush. She starts an affair with an older, married man called Tyler Burnett, who speaks in mechanical sentences ('I would like to fuck you vaginally or possibly anally'); she also babysits his child, who is a 'forever baby' – he will never age. Things break down as the story progresses: the narrator finds all her clothes have disappeared; she's fired from work, which has devolved from 'a job at the newspaper' to watering a single plant; her shared house descends into anarchy.
If there's such a thing as tragic-ironic (tragironic?), this story is it. As a newly minted young adult, the narrator may be technically capable of looking after herself and making decisions, but she doesn't succeed at either. However fantastic her conditions, the results are inevitable: disintegration, failure, chaos. It occurred to me that with their unspecific jobs and ages and their dressing-up-box outfits, the characters are like figures a child has placed in a dolls' house, or Sims. I'd have said 'Guidance / The Party' was my favourite story from the book, but 'The Babysitter at Rest' is the one that's stuck in my head most vividly.
Take Care of Me Forever
This, on the other hand, was probably my least favourite, if only because it's quite gruesome, queasy and uncomfortable. There's a nightmare atmosphere to the premise: a woman is confined to a hospital, tested and experimented on in increasingly extreme ways, unsure what is wrong with her – or if anything is. Of course, the scenes grow more and more farcical: the narrator wanders through a hole in the wall and encounters 'a naked painter with a very small penis', who she recognises as 'someone I used to do sex games with, only I didn't know they were sex games at the time'; a doctor asks for her 'lifetime accident and mishap history', and her story is turned into an art film even as she's still being 'diagnosed'. The story ends without resolution.
Futures in Child Rearing
A woman contemplates motherhood, worrying about her potential baby's name (she considers 'You Have Reached Your Destination' and 'You're OK') and the sort of compliments people will give him or her. She doesn't seem to have a father in mind, but of course that's the sort of thing that doesn't matter in these stories. She spends thousands of dollars on bizarre fertility aids, including quail eggs and crystals. Her 'ovulation machine' merely provides a string of catty verdicts on suggested names, until she switches it to the 'futures-in-child-rearing mode' and it describes three children she might have. Once again, there is no conclusion to the supposed theme but rather a collapse into despair and rage.
Instruction
There is a sort of pleasing circularity in the collection closing with 'Instruction', which, like 'Guidance / The Party', is broken down into small, subtitled chapters. It deconstructs a common trope – an older man having a midlife-crisis affair with a beautiful, nubile student – and, in doing so, reveals how absurd it is. The man becomes 'the Teacher/older man with large hands', while the student is part of an art scheme at a place called 'The Warehouse'. When the student produces her first piece, 'it's hailed by the Teacher/older man with large hands as "sexy as hell while being totally amateur and bad." I'll admit that the praise went straight to my head.'
Again, I could write out hundreds of quotes from this story. I'm trying to stop myself from just writing out a description of the entire thing from start to finish. The stories in The Babysitter at Rest make me want to do that, for some reason: to describe and explain them to other people rather than analyse them.
I loved each of these stories. At the end of the book, I felt a bit overwhelmed by their wilful irrationality, and their similarity to each other. Reading through them again to write this review, however, I find myself feeling electrified by them – the way they combine realism that's almost hurtful with humour and fantasy.
TinyLetter | Twitter | Instagram | Tumblr
February 20, 2021
I admire the author's boldness. There is a lack of restraint in the freewheeling bizarro-ideas. The stories function without character development, plot twists, or reflection. They are fast-paced, bare-bones cobbled-together surrealist evocations of modern day discontent, obsession and sexual fantasy. Shock and awe, surprise and delight, but plainly stated, divested of emotion, coupled with bland imagery and no sense of setting. Reads more like a dream diary, which is fine, but I hoped for more challenging fare, more relatable humor. Tone it down or expand the premise, adding some flesh-out characters and a pervasive setting to get me invested. But not everything has to go through the motions of posing as a traditional fictional product. At least this defies the mold.
July 24, 2017
Another one from my Dorothy Publishing Project pile (which I purchased, so not a product placement). I had put this one aside but decided to finish it during the 24in48 readathon.
Suffice to say, this was not really the book for me. Uncomfortable sexuality combined with the surreal. I can see how that would appeal to some readers. The four stories in the collection are made up of much shorter snippets and blurbs that make for a disjointed reading experience, which seems to be the point.
Suffice to say, this was not really the book for me. Uncomfortable sexuality combined with the surreal. I can see how that would appeal to some readers. The four stories in the collection are made up of much shorter snippets and blurbs that make for a disjointed reading experience, which seems to be the point.
July 20, 2017
One of the weirdest books I've read this year. Its five stories feel like their own perverse little worlds. Like Ben Marcus if he was re-writing Georges Bataille. The dialogue is bonkers, frequently jarring in its sexual torque. Not sure who Jen George is, but she'll be legendary if she keeps making books (though I could also picture her as a filmmaker or conceptual artist).
October 2, 2016
Brilliant sentence by sentence; provocative story by story; and repetitive and one-note as a collection.
February 28, 2025
I want to live inside the horse grave it is perfect!!!!
May 24, 2017
An awkward familiarity, a dismally accurate assessment of contemporary moments, surrealized into the generality and iconic signs of a dream. There's a kind of oneiric illogic to the actual synopsis at times as well, but George integrates these moments into total naturalness. I get a bit of that nagging 'Is this how my era will be remembered?' sensation, to which the answers may be 'Yes' and 'It is deserved'.
As a debut work, this is an extremely impressive one. (It would be impressive as a work by an established author, but instead just think of what's to come. Of course, sometimes debuts turn out to be most pure and vital, but these feel like a launch into something essential.) While obviously directed more to the female experience of contemporary life/work/art/parenting/etc, I found them pretty relatable anyway. Each story traces similar patterns of dysfunctional world/life relationship but the specifics and contexts of each make give them their own power and relevance, and each becomes wholly memorable as its own piece (it helps in this that they're mostly on the longer and more-fully-realized side than a typical story, and in fact this might be best characterized as a collection of novellas.
As a debut work, this is an extremely impressive one. (It would be impressive as a work by an established author, but instead just think of what's to come. Of course, sometimes debuts turn out to be most pure and vital, but these feel like a launch into something essential.) While obviously directed more to the female experience of contemporary life/work/art/parenting/etc, I found them pretty relatable anyway. Each story traces similar patterns of dysfunctional world/life relationship but the specifics and contexts of each make give them their own power and relevance, and each becomes wholly memorable as its own piece (it helps in this that they're mostly on the longer and more-fully-realized side than a typical story, and in fact this might be best characterized as a collection of novellas.
November 21, 2022
Funny, horrifying, inventive. Life as a glittering sewer you wish you could afford.
4.5 stars.
4.5 stars.
September 10, 2016
This book grabbed me right away with its strange little hands and did not let go. The combinations of darkness and light, high-brow art stuff and scatology, horror and humor were just the right fit for me. Reminded me of Miranda July and David Lynch and Tim Heidecker/Eric Wareheim.
March 21, 2025
delicious
October 7, 2016
Jen George's characters are mired in depravity and dissolution disguised as desire. Impossible situations, gallows humor and fondness for catalogs bring Stanley Crawford's Log of the S.S. Mrs. Unguentine to mind. I kept seeing the scenes as they might appear in a painting by John Terahteeff where beautiful figures languish as violence lurks.
February 21, 2017
Such surreal, weird and wonderful short stories. If you're a fan of Heti, Ball, Kleeman, July, Kang and Schiff then you need to encounter Jen George. I only wish the first story, Guidance / The Party, appeared later in the collection.
July 7, 2025
4.5 Stars
Bizarre, horny, and oftentimes hilarious collection of stories. I can tell this is very influenced by Leonara Carrington & other abstract writers, but I enjoyed this vastly more than the majority of that stuff. My cup of whimsy runneth over.
Bizarre, horny, and oftentimes hilarious collection of stories. I can tell this is very influenced by Leonara Carrington & other abstract writers, but I enjoyed this vastly more than the majority of that stuff. My cup of whimsy runneth over.
September 12, 2024
I love weird fiction!!! And i love women talking about sex. (When a book has the endorsement of sheila heti AND deb olin unferth AND fernando flores, i know it's gonna be good)
March 9, 2025
Your Unceasing Fantasy Will Not Conjure the Desired into Being…
Read
December 22, 2025Like a combination of Donald Barthelme and Curtis Sittenfeld, recommended for fans of either. Delightfully playful and a breath of fresh air for the modern short story that often takes itself too seriously.
December 30, 2023
Wacky stories that started off strange and got even weirder as they progressed. Felt very warped and like I was reading about someone else's fever dream. I enjoyed two of the five: Guidance/The Party and Futures in Child Rearing. Dark, funny, wild. I got through the Babysitter at Rest but struggled with Take Care of Me Forever and Instruction and ended up skimming to get through.
January 12, 2022
It was interesting. Very weirdly written. Felt like a fever dream. Honest, vulgar and dark. Good themes. Probably not great for the light hearted or sensitive souls.
January 13, 2025
Really enjoyed most of the weird little stories in this book, especially the title story, which felt like if a game of The Sims was translated into a short story. But I found the last story excruciating to get through! Big Kathy Acker vibes, who I also struggle to read. I'm not mad I read this quick little collection, but the final chapter was so eye-roll to me that I struggle to recommend it.
May 13, 2025
Vad i hela friden är det jag läser känsla på absolut bästa sätt i första novellen. Resten var egentligen lika egensinniga, men just lika. Lämnade en ironisk efterklang som inte var helt trevlig. Ändå en fyra.
July 5, 2019
Unusual, alien of a book. I think I liked it
September 29, 2024
jarring and so funny i feel giddy
September 2, 2025
truly so fun! weird limpid women. Carrington influence is so palpable. oddly comforting to me as a girl who often feels dumb and lumbering
March 31, 2025
book club pick and i'm genuinely excited to read.
i’m still sitting with this one but overall this was a wacky ride. a lot more explicit than i anticipated that’s for sure. wondering if it had any deeper meaning. that could also been said for a lot of other things i read here. will likely circle back on this review.
okay I have sat with this a bit more and I think despite the wackiness I could say that this read definitely had loads to say about so many things that sit on the minds of women today and she explored topics of motherhood, age, self-success, relationships, etc. in a visceral creative way that deserves its celebration. 3/30
i’m still sitting with this one but overall this was a wacky ride. a lot more explicit than i anticipated that’s for sure. wondering if it had any deeper meaning. that could also been said for a lot of other things i read here. will likely circle back on this review.
okay I have sat with this a bit more and I think despite the wackiness I could say that this read definitely had loads to say about so many things that sit on the minds of women today and she explored topics of motherhood, age, self-success, relationships, etc. in a visceral creative way that deserves its celebration. 3/30
June 11, 2018
Bravo to Jen George who writes with irreverent freedom and does what she wants! At times, these stories reminded me of Jane Bowles and Lucinella by Lore Segal, but mostly George writes like herself, exploring the bizarre, the erotic, the tragic--the random human mess. These stories aren't for everyone, and there are gratuitous moments, and sometimes a feeling of being stuck in a beautiful, deadly lagoon, but I found this book inspiring, especially the first story, and can't wait to read more from her.
December 31, 2021
definitely weird! I guess overall these stories could be interpreted as a commentary on the bizarre nature of being a woman in the modern world but some of it was also just weird! it did make me laugh though, and I can honestly say that I've never read anything like it!
Read
May 30, 2019I’m no where near smart enough for this... gave up on page 81
December 31, 2022
I liked the first story but not really any of the others.
Displaying 1 - 30 of 206 reviews