There were pieces of this book that were marvelous, paragraphs that I read a couple of times because I wanted to savor them. Unfortunately, they were spread too thinly among other paragraphs that were hackneyed and trite.
I loved the framework of starting each chapter with a Kung Fu tidbit. THe main character, Nicci, resonated with me from the beginning, though some of that resonance faded as the story progressed. I can understand being both brash and timid, so I didn't find that terribly off-putting. There was a lot of potential in the character, and I really hoped that Brichoux would delve deep and really explore her world. Instead, I felt that Nicci spent all of her time in the other world that she had left behind: the exotic, crowded cities of her youth.
And, really, that last bit points up one of the big downfalls of the book for me: Nicci seems like she walks through the story, but doesn't really engage with it. She does things. Other people do things. The events of others' lives bump up against the events in Nicci's life, but she never seems to be particularly engaged. She judges other people (and yes, there is some growth in this area), but then is upset when others judge her. Nicci comes across as though the author thinks she's a hero just for being; other characters are contrasted unfavorably with her throughout. The shallowness of Nicci's involvement is reflected in the lack of detail in most of the narrative; most of the book is somewhat featureless, with the exception of the unnecessary and overly-graphic sex scenes and descriptions of the foreign lands Nicci longs for.
The other main downfall of the book was that it was so very formulaic. And yes, chick lit is notoriously so, and I'm prepared to allow it; but this was all of the formulas in one. Of course all the married people are secretly not-totally-content; of course the solution to one's discontent is to fly to another country; of course there are wise gurus who pop up just when the main character needs them; of course the world of work is horrible, et cetera. The tired parts of the book, combined with too much sex for this prudish girl and the isolated feel of the main character, made this tough to slog through once I got past the opening few chapters.