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Giving to Yourself First

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The most important relationship you will ever have is the relationship you have with yourself, teaches Iyanla Vanzant. It's the model for every other relationship you enter into. On Giving to Yourself First , the bestselling author of In the Meantime reminds us that in order to genuinely love others, we need to love ourselves more. Through a series of eloquent meditations, she teaches listeners how to cultivate self-acceptance and strengthen self-esteem, to allow them to better assist, support, and serve the people they love. Reviews
"Vanzant delivers sensible advice in a no-nonsense, this-is-good-for-you style."― Library Journal

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First published November 11, 2004

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Iyanla Vanzant

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In Peace From Broken Pieces New York Times best-selling author Iyanla Vanzant she recounts the last decade of her life and the spiritual lessons learnedfrom the price of success during her meteoric rise as a TV celebrity on Oprah, the Iyanla TV show (produced by Barbara Walters), to the dissolution of her marriage and her daughters 15 months of illness and death on Christmas day. Like a phoenix rising from the ashes, Iyanla shares why everything we need to learn is reflected in our relationships and the strength and wisdom she has gained by supporting others in their journeys to make sense out of the puzzle pieces of their lives.
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April 16, 2019
I have several books by this author but this book was like all the mediations books on the shelves
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May 1, 2025
There probably is a niche public out there for this book, but I sadly have a brain :D The author claims in the beginning, that when you exhale fast, then you exhale toxins from Your body. So ... when I exhale in my regular pace, the toxins are stuck in me? :D Maybe, in a land of make believe. I tend to believe people like her should not write books.
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July 30, 2018
I love Iyanla and am certain she could fix my life! This is a guided meditation book for those who have had some exposure to Meditation. It's a nice book to help you come back to if you want to get yourself centered and back to you.
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March 30, 2025
Nowhere in the description does this say that it is based on god, the Holy Spirit, etc. The meditations were great, but I wish I would have known before hand going in. I would have liked to have made my own decision about reading something with mentions of Christianity before hand
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October 2, 2019
Self-Assurance, Self-Love, Inner Peace are just a few words to describe how this book made me feel. It was a breath of fresh air. I am, who I am!!!
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November 17, 2020
Beautiful short mediations lead by Iyanla Vanzant. Her voice is powerful and relaxing.
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March 2, 2022
I always feel like I’m receiving wisdom when I listen or read her work. She is very blunt.
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June 21, 2024
I recommend listening to this book in the audio format, my soul is singing great wonders of joy, I feel blessed and blissful! ❤️✨💛
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October 28, 2025
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Great mediation and morning ritual to connect with God and the earth. Manifesting for yourself just all round great positivity. Helps cleanse all the bad energy and bring you back in harmony with your body and divine self and higher power. Perfect Peace
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November 30, 2020
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