Bereavement: Personal Experiences and Clinical Reflections

by Salman Akhtar (Editor), Gurmeet Kanwal (Editor)

This is a book about death, loss, grief and mourning, but with an unusual twist. It is different in that it explores specific kinds of deaths encountered within families and households, rather than general concepts of mourning. It is even more unusual because here six psychoanalysts reveal how they have suffered, processed, and survived losses in their own lives; at the same time bringing clinical and theoretical perspectives of various psychoanalytic schools to bear on their own, as well as others', experiences. The narratives in this book use the power of subjective experience, as described by psychoanalysts themselves, to understand, contextualize, and extend existing clinical approaches. Each chapter addresses the death of a different loved one. The losses discussed include death of a mother, death of a father, death of a sibling, death of a spouse, death of a child, and death of a pet (recognizing the deep significance of pets in human households). These accounts are bookended by a chapter reviewing the spectrum of emotional reactions to death and current ideas of grief and mourning, and a chapter weaving together the many narratives as well as exploring some additional situations and ideas.

256 pages, ebook

Published December 14, 2016

About the author

Salman Akhtar is an Indian-American psychoanalyst practicing in the United States. He is an author and Professor of Psychiatry and Human Behavior at Jefferson Medical College in Philadelphia.

Reviews

[ellen · Rating 5 out of 5]

To study bereavement of different types of relations: pets, children, parents, siblings, is to study the impact of those relationships on each of us. Interesting exploration of these relationships combined with the heartfelt stories of personal experience with them. And in a format that does not repeat the same information over and over again (many of the books I've read lately have done so. It's tiresome)