4.5 stars
2022 Reread: This was a lot of fun. I definitely think this is a much better book than Wizard's First Rule in terms of pacing, writing, and plot.
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The last time I read Stone of Tears I was a teenager, so it has been a long time! I have to say, despite some issues I mostly had a good time with this. The Sword of Truth series isn't groundbreaking by any means, but it's escapist fantasy fun with plenty of magic, plot twists, and characters I adore. (Richard, Kahlan and Zed top that list!). The characters are put into seemingly impossible situations, but good always manages to triumph.
We occasionally get Goodkind inserting some of his philosophical views in an eye-rolling way, but the plot generally makes this a page-turner and Richard is just the sweetest of all cinnamon rolls. In this book he must come to accept his wizard side, and will go through a lot to get there. Prophecy also plays a role again, and I always find that to be a fun element of the story. We meet the Sisters of the Light and Sisters of the Dark, and Richard must face his deepest fears. For the most part, I really enjoyed my time with this book. However, there is one very big exception that should be discussed.
The biggest issue I had was the frequent use of sexual assault of women as shorthand for evil. I will be getting into this in more detail below. But before I get into it, I will just say that for some readers, the content I describe would be enough not to want to read the book. And that's completely valid. For me, it did somewhat detract from it, but this is also a nearly 1k page book and there was so much of it that I loved regardless. But it's something to know going in.
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I will say I hadn't remembered how frequently r*pe and attempted r*pe happen in this book. From wartime violence to a means of degrading women during a coup, there we get numerous scenes with varying degrees of description. This might be a character coming upon the aftermath of a city being sacked where most of the women were sexually assaulted and murdered, a scene of a character being put in a situation where she is going to be assaulted but it fades to black, a scene where a character has been assaulted numerous times and is expecting it to happen again, and in perhaps the worst of it, we get a pretty graphically described scene of Kahlan experiencing assault and attempted r*pe. In addition, there is a character who is pregnant as the result of an assault and Sister Verna tries to convince her to keep the baby and not blame the sins of the father on the child. It's still framed as a choice, but it's kind of a lot. There are other examples but those are the major ones that stand out. Obviously this book came out in 1995 and the conversations happening at that time were very different, AND it's worth noting that Richard (our paragon of morality) is deeply repulsed by this kind of behavior, refuses to use women in this way, and even resists an open invitation from a woman who is not Kahlan. Still...it's pretty intense and worth knowing what you're getting into.
Alongside this, I noticed that promiscuity in women tends to be associated with being evil. It's not totally puritanical about it, as sex in a loving or affectionate relationship seems fine, and Zed has women flirting openly with him and it's not treated as a negative. HOWEVER, there is a pretty horrifying, graphic scene showing how the Sisters of the Dark are able to take in male magic (and we could talk about how having male and female Han or magic that are generally incompatible doesn't hold up great today either). But this is achieved through a violent ritual where the woman lets a monster with a barbed phallus have sex with her. Yep. I had forgotten about that one too. And the Sisters of the Dark encourage a novice to use her body to seduce Richard, and that choice does not lead her down a good path.
*sigh* I can't remember if things get better later in the series, but I definitely think these things were overused in Stone of Tears and some of it was difficult to read. If it wasn't for that, on enjoyment this could probably be a 5 star read for me, even if I don't think this is the highest quality version of fantasy. I still love a lot about it.