Norman Rockwell paintings illustrating friendship coupled with Margaret Feinberg's heartwarming stories.
I've enjoyed Margaret Feinberg before; I've heard her speak at a Women of Joy conference, and I did enjoy her stories in this book. I'd heard a couple before.
The Norman Rockwell pictures are well worth studying, with an eye for all the detail. Some people criticize Rockwell's paintings as being too romanticized and not a realistic picture of everyday life, but he was trying to instill hope and calmness to the nation during a difficult time, during and after both the world wars. I think we could do with a bit more of Norman Rockwell's type work in our lives today, with an appreciation for the good things that make us all human.
This volume focuses on friendship, both in the Rockwell paintings and in the stories and quotes.
My favorite quotes included:
“True friendship is a plant of slow growth, and must undergo and withstand the shocks of adversity before it is entitled to the appellation.” – George Washington
“If we would build on a sure foundation in friendship, we must love friends for their sake rather than for ours.” – Charlotte Bronte. I have thought that before, for elderly family members. I used to visit them for my own sake; now I visit them for theirs. I can understand extending the thought to friendship as well. I know, I know, some people might resist the concept in resisting becoming a doormat, but I sincerely doubt that people will talk me into something I genuinely don't want to do already, myself. And I don't worry too much about whether it's "fair" if I find enjoyment in helping another.
“If you want to win a man to your cause, first convince him that you are his sincere friend.” – Abraham Lincoln
But I don't know that Norman Rockwell's beliefs about God would match all of Feinberg's observations. They might; I just have no idea about Rockwell's personal beliefs.
And now ... which of my friends to pass this book along to?