Inspired by Paris: Why Borrowing from the French Is Better Than Being French

by Jordan Phillips

Part travel narrative and part lifestyle guide, Inspired by Paris: Why Borrowing from the French Is Better Than Being French is a must-read for anyone who’s ever dreamed about traveling to or living in France.

Author Jordan Phillips is a bona fide Francophile. Just show her a wedge of oozy French cheese or a slightly dilapidated Mansard roof, and she’ll swoon every time. Before moving to New York, Phillips lived in Paris, and she still travels to her apartment there frequently. But through these experiences, she learned that—as in so many things in life—fantasy is often better than reality.

Filled with historical tidbits, motivational nuggets, and honest insight, chapters such as “La Vie Est Belle,” “The Paris Syndrome,” and “Jacques-in-the-Box” reveal the truth of what it’s really like to live in the most beautiful city in the world.
Whether you’re headed to Paris next week or never make it there at all, this chatty and information-packed book will introduce you to the real City of Light—beyond the fantasy of the Instagram version.

Genres: Nonfiction, Travel, France, Memoir

262 pages, Paperback

Published June 24, 2016

About the author

Jordan divides her time between Laguna Beach, Marfa, and Paris. She is the author of five books, including Buy Less, Buy Better and Inspired by Paris: Why Borrowing from the French Is Better Than Being French.

Jordan holds a master’s degree in fashion marketing and management from the École Supérieure des Arts et Techniques de la Mode (ESMOD) in Paris, and a bachelor’s degree in journalism from California Polytechnic State University, San Luis Obispo (Cal Poly).

For more information, please visit www.jordanmphillips.com.

Reviews

[Mary-Lisa Russo · Rating 5 out of 5]

Have you ever turned a corner... fallen in love... and not even expected it to happen?

Okay... so this is what happened with this lovely book written by Jordan Phillips.

Sometimes, these "inspiring" books are just easy-reading fluff for times you want to read a "light" book and most often, I am feeling left disappointed... like I opened up a big bag of chips that only had 5 chips in it. Sigh...

I expected nothing from this read... and I got something that I delightfully enjoyed. It is definitely more substance than fluff, narrated in a personal style that was thought-provoking. I actually learned new details about Paris as opposed to being subjected to the glossy fantasy that most books convey on the subject.

Don't get me wrong, I am fully aware of the "fluff" in these books but I honestly enjoy them as they take me away from the "everyday" and make me believe in hopes and dreams and feed my imagination. I believe we need that positivity to keep us balanced and gentled in a rocky world.

Reading this book, I got the realistic side of "everyday" Paris... the not so glamorous side told in a matter-of-fact, none-condescending way, in addition to the timeless beauty we love. This is the first book I read that depicted this balance beautifully. I like realism/truth (if applicable) mixed in with my dreamy expectations.

The author goes into depth about her experiences in Paris in a loving way. You can feel her enthusiasm with each word she wrote. It is engaging and invites the reader into her story. Paris is an important part of her. It is a throughly written book which includes discussions on historical and contemporary Paris, landscapes, living space, food, art and for the chic ladies, fashion and style; et al. It is a substantial book dripping with information... a cozy read I thoroughly enjoyed.

Attention all those who enjoy "chic" inspired books: please turn your eyes and attention to this book, even if you are just interested in ingesting information about the realistic side of Paris. The author lovingly ensured that this magical city is still a place of hopes and dreams- even while she is speaking her Parisienne truth.

Well done, Jordan Phillips!

Happily rating this 5/5.

[Maari · Rating 4 out of 5]

Fun-Filled, perhaps (future) reference book
I found this book to be quite interesting. I learned a lot of things about France, specifically Paris, that I had no clue about. One day I hope to visit there and this is just the book that I needed to enlighten me in a light-hearted fashion. I definitely recommend this to anyone who has that same dream to go there, those that have visited, and/or anyone who would just like to learn more about the culture, dress, people, etc.

[Amy · Rating 3 out of 5]

I enjoyed this more than I thought I would as books such as these can often go either way as far as more fluff than substance.

[Karen · Rating 4 out of 5]

This book is a fresh take on what life and living (or at least visiting) in Paris means.

With Inspired by Paris, Jordan Philipps has created a refreshing and enjoyable read about the French capital. It is a fun read with innumerable advice on experiencing a wonderful stay in Paris. The readers learn about the Parisians' behaviour, gain insights in the art of letting the world go by, are lured to smell and taste, and dive into the world of French artists of any kind. Jordan Phillips paints a clear picture of Paris and its inhabitants - as well as of their culture and customs. Jordan Phillips' love for Paris shows; she provides complex information in a light-hearted style, and the narrative has a really good flow.

This is a book for you if you like travelling, great experiences, good food, and a refreshing take on things.

Recommended.

[Julius Blitzy · Rating 5 out of 5]

Well, I’m not being pessimistic but not even in the near future I’m going to be

able to travel to Paris, I’m now trying to survive a difficult situation and it

requires a lot of time, but that is not why we are here right?

I definitely enjoy reading this book, more than being informative it also has a lot

of fun, but above all it is quite honest about the good, the bad and what’s worth

to visit there and what’s not.

If by any chance you’re planning on travel there for pleasure give this book a try,

it’s not about anything you need to know before travel, it’s everything you

should know and do after you arrive to your destiny.

[vvb · Rating 5 out of 5]

Filled with nitty gritty things to know about Paris and its people, this is one of those books for keeps (for future reference).

I liked learning about how to get around in the city and how to just enjoy the moments there.

This book contains some history, shared recipes and lists of fashion, food, films and fun facts to be in a Paris mind-set and mode.

[SOS · Rating 4 out of 5]

Have you always wanted to visit Paris? Live in Paris? This book will give you a glimpse of what it's like to be an American in Paris. It's written in an easy to read conversational tone. The author shares her experiences of visiting, living in, and loving Paris; although, it seems she's not quite as fond of the people of Paris as she is the city and its culture and products. I suppose that's not so surprising given the title and subtitle of the book. The author points out things you can do and buy to be a non-Parisian Parisian wherever you live.

I enjoyed reading this book, but I didn't love it. I felt that in many places, the author took for granted that the reader had been in Paris, or at least France, at some point and had gained knowledge of the language and landscape as spoken in the city. I found myself making frequent use of Google translate as I read. At other points, things are spoken of without explanation of what they are. For some, the explanation comes in later chapters, and that made for a sometimes disjointed read.

Still, it's a fun, easy read. If you have interest in visiting the city of lights, love, fashion, and food, or if you would like to recreate some of those things in your daily life at home, this book would serve as a good starting place.

I received this book in a Goodreads giveaway.

[Kris · Rating 4 out of 5]

This is the book that Emily should read before going to Paris lol!

Sách được viết bởi 1 cô gái Mỹ, và cách suy nghĩ của người Mỹ thì phần nào đã khá quen thuộc với người Việt chúng ta. Vì thế, mình thấy dễ đồng cảm được với những cú shock văn hóa mà tác giả phải trải qua khi lần đầu đặt chân đến đây.

Mỗi chương của sách bàn và nhận xét về những chủ đề cụ thể như: đàn ông, phụ nữ, văn hóa, lifestyle, love, kiến trúc, cafe, cake, champagne, fashion, etc. Cuốn sách là 1 dạng hồi ký nên chắc chắn có đầy những ý kiến chủ quan của tác giả, hơn là 1 cuốn nghiên cứu về xã hội Pháp. Nhưng chính cái sự chủ quan đấy lại đem đến cho độc giả những góc nhìn, sự so sánh đầy thú vị giữa người New York và Paris.

Mình nghĩ cuốn này hợp cho phái nữ hơn 1 chút vì tác giả bàn sâu về những topic mà nữ giới quan tâm hơn cũng như những trải nghiệm và bài học được đúc kết dưới tư cách 1 cô gái. Thú thật là không ít lần đọc sách mà cứ tưởng đang coi lại Emily in Paris vậy vì có nhiều cái văn hóa của dân Paris giống trong phim quá.

Điểm rất đáng giá nằm ở phần appendix khổng lồ của sách là 1 list dài các movies, books, facts, Pinterest và IG accounts, các địa điểm, quán ăn, things to do chỉ dành riêng cho Paris. Chắc mình sẽ xem thử vài phim và follow vài IG acc trong list recommendations này để có thể "nhắm mắt thấy Paris"!

[Valery · Rating 3 out of 5]

Inspired by Paris: Why Borrowing from the French is Better Than Being French by New York City author Jordan Phillips is a light look at the French lifestyle. The author appears to split her time between New York and Paris and just happens to love all things French. This is a humorous look at the perceived French mystique- and goes on to unearth the actuality of being French. She explains the difference between the perception of France, one that is sophisticated and quaint with small bistros and romantic marriage proposals along the Seine, to the real France, where many have a sullied attitude, one that is mired in negativity and disdain. An interesting take on the distinctions between reality and fact when it comes to France. Written in light prose, this is an easy read and a pleasant diversion.

[Lisa Magenheimer · Rating 5 out of 5]

Informative and fun!

This is my first written review but this wonderful book presents Paris in such a unique way, I just needed to share.Almost everything i read,fiction and non fiction seems to be set in Europe. I have been lucky enough to travel through Central and Eastern Europe on a couple of vacations but don't think i will ever get enough however, I am drawn to Paris in a way that is unexplainable. I found a kindred spirit in Ms. Phillips! At the moment, because I have been reduced to being an armchair traveler, this book offers a wonderful sense of being that even includes others like me.A must read for all who dream of traveling to Paris now or in the future!

[Jeanine · Rating 5 out of 5]

I won this book on Goodreads. I really liked this book. It has so much practical information about Paris culture. It would be helpful for someone going for a week or someone on a semester abroad or moving there for a time. There are lots of fun bits of information on table manners, movies, clothes, books and all kinds of things. I was going to send this book to my sister who would like to visit Paris. Instead, I am going to keep the book and buy her a new copy. Enjoy this book if you read it and Bon Voyage!

[Blair · Rating 3 out of 5]

More honest than most books I've read of this genre (and I promise you I'll read anything about Paris and France I can get my hands on)

Also appreciated the recommendations at the end.

[Grady · Rating 4 out of 5]

‘Paris is always a good idea… whether in reality or just fantasy.’

New York City author Jordan Phillips also lives in an apartment in Paris where she gathers all the information for her well-established authority on products Parisienne. She earned a master’s degree in fashion marketing and management from the École Supérieure des Arts et Techniques de la Mode (ESMOD) in Paris, and a bachelor's degree in journalism from California Polytechnic State University, San Luis Obispo. Her books include SUSTAINABLE LUXE: A GUIDE TO FEEL-GOOD FASHION, THE LURE OF LUX: CLIMBING THE LUXURY CONSUMPTION PYRAMID, and now INSPIRED BY PARIS: WHY BORROWING FROM THE FRENCH IS BETTER THAN BEING FRENCH.

This humorous but wise book is Jordan’s examination of the French mystique – and uncovering the real facts about the French. You get a whiff of her mindset from the Introduction – ‘Instagram Paris is the stuff that dreams are made of. It’s all marriage proposals along the banks of the Seine, stacks of pristine pastel macarons dusted in gold leaf, and cobblestone alleyways filled with quaint little bistros and boutiques. It’s those manicured trees that stand symmetrically at attention like obedient soldiers, boasting bright greens and then oranges and yellows until they succumb to winter’s defeat. But the real Paris— though undeniably beautiful— is often gray and unfriendly. Simple tasks are made to be unnecessarily complicated, the word of the day is always non, and complaining is a national sport. Then again, as with anything intense and appealing, one can’t help but go back for more. Highs and lows are an inevitable part of all irresistible relationships….Through my love affair with all things French, I’ve learned that— as in so many things in life— often fantasy is better than reality…You don’t see a wobbly little metal table and two uncomfortable chairs. You see possibilities, fantasies, and adventure. You see life, waiting to be lived.’


What follows is Jordan’s love affair with France that is broken down in to expectations and realities. From her first introduction to Paris (she was born in Texas and raised in California) we hear all the nuances of a fresh look at the City of Light reinforced by subsequent trips that sealed her fervor for France – and then she shares all that she has learned about the French people, mannerisms, philosophy, taste, and the importance of being fashionable – even if that includes some aspects of dowdily ancient.

In addition to being a novel of a woman’s romance with France, Jordan creates a practical book of what to expect when travelling to France, how to prepare, and all the facts of a visitor’s guide. All of it is fun and humorous and makes an informative and delightful read.

[Valerie · Rating 4 out of 5]

Are the French really rude people? Do age specific goals really exist in France? What is it like to actually live in France? If you have ever asked any of these questions, then you may want to pick up a copy of Inspired By Paris. It may just be the book you are looking for.
I have to tell you guys, I love Paris and France. I have only been there once and it was amazing. That said there was so much more that I would love to experience and know. So when I was contacted about the possibility of this book, I said, yes please!

This book is a friendly read and it is jammed packed with lots of fun information. There are recipes, information about France's history, and even wardrobe suggestions. I appreciated the insight that the author shares directly based on her first hand knowledge.This book made me want to go back to France again. They have such a rich culture and I really appreciated all of the insight this book has to offer. I wonder if I do make it back if things will be different because I read this book.

If you enjoy books about other places, if you have a travel bug, or you just want to learn more about France then this is the book for you. I really liked this book and I am glad that I had the chance to read it.

[LyndaVee · Rating 5 out of 5]

Read this book before you go to Paris and take it with you!

This really is a fantastic book about Paris and Parisians. It imparts the full flavour of Paris - the touch, the taste, the smell - much in the same way as Jan Morris gave us Venice and Frank Kusy, India. Of course, there is a place for guide books that give me top ten lists of museums and places of interest and of restaurants rated by star and $ signs, but this book offers so much more. Just look at the appendices at the back, comprising fun French facts, films to see before you go and sensible details in Appendix C – for instance, where to go to get the iconic photo of the Eiffel Tower (no, it’s not where you think!). I love the section detailing the capsule wardrobe for the chic Parisienne and also the one which advises which books to read before you go, to get an impression of French life. This is an inspiring, enjoyable read and I wish I had been able to read it before my first trip to Paris – I would have got so much more out of that trip.

[The Suburban Eclectic · Rating 3 out of 5]

Inspired by Paris is inspired by Phillips’ travels and other authors of French history, politics, and travelogues. With over eight pages of sources and large swatches of quotes, it reads more like a school essay than a memoir or travelogue. But the Visiting Paris 101 chapter is the shining star; helpful and succinct it nicely lays out all you need to know to get the most out of your visit. However, I felt it was missing a sense of Phillips personality. It started off well with personal anecdotes, but her voice gets lost in her summaries of her numerous references. Informative yes, but engaging, not so much. Still, her recipes are mouth watering and I can’t wait to try her roasted chicken recipe! If you're planning a trip or just enjoy anything Parisian it's worth a look-see.
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[Michellej · Rating 4 out of 5]

I found “Inspired by Paris: Why Borrowing from the French Is Better Than Being French” to be very touching while giving realistic opinions and point-of-views about “everything French”. Ms. Jordan Phillips gently encourages you to experience France, to put down your pre-conceptions and biases and to open yourself to new French experiences.

I also liked that Jordan did not use this book as an instrument to bash either culture but instead used it as a mirror for all to see and form their own opinions. I liked the comparisons of single living in the States and France, I think it was so clear, fresh and evenhanded.

Jordan’s love and interest in France is clear for all to see as she shares her experiences with passion. I liked her insights and found this book to be well written and straight from the heart. This book, to me, is a partial travelers’ guide as it tells you the right places to go and things to do, while it is also a personal history of a “French” resident.

[Sdan12 · Rating 5 out of 5]

Treasure trove of facts and feeling about Paris
In the two days it has taken me to read this book, I feel I have been on a whirlwind tour of Paris; this book is so interesting and full of facts. I feel I have much more of an understanding about the vast differences between French and American culture. Jordan Phillips even explains why French people think Americans are loud. Apparently it is because English is spoken using the diaphragm, whereas French is spoken at the front of the mouth! Who knew! I loved the part where Jordan Phillips explains the inflexible nature of French bureaucracy – even her gynaecologist’s office staff can’t seem to get their head around the fact that Jordan is both a male and female name. All her correspondence was fastidiously addressed to Monsieur Jordan Phillips! This book will tell you what books to read and films to see before you go to Paris and, when you get there, how best to enjoy being a Parisian instead of a visitor to this magical capital.

[Gina · Rating 2 out of 5]

I think that I am "over" the French obsession books. Jordan Phillips wrote from a different angle than most. She recognizes the short-comings of life in France. Hence, the philosophy of borrowing from the French, rather than seeking to be French.

Because of my lifestyle, I skipped most of the food-related content. The author didn't provide too much information on Parisian fitness, which is interesting to me. I like to know how other women of the world manage to stay fit and trim without jumping around in sweaty lycra.

The final chapters were the most interesting to me: movie, book, etc. suggestions.

[Liz · Rating 4 out of 5]

I won a copy of this book in a Goodreads giveaway.
This is a delightful book. It is an easy and fun filled walk through the Parisian culture. I only wish that I had read this book before my trip to France. There are so many things I would have liked to tried and/or experienced. Oh, well, this may be the nudge to get me to plan a revisit!

[J · Rating 5 out of 5]

I found this book to be an informative read about all things French including tips on how to be a true Parisian, to insight on French culture, how to approach French wine and cheese and wonderful first hand knowledge on how to navigate making French friends.

[Jordan Phillips · Rating 5 out of 5]

Perfect for anyone who dreams about visiting or living in Paris.

[Nic]

Goodreads win

[Dana · Rating 3 out of 5]

not quite what I expected. would give 2.5 stars if I could