Έφηβοι: Προβλήματα και ανησυχίες

by Françoise Dolto, Catherine Dolto, Colette Percheminier (Contributor)

Η Φρανσουάζ Ντολτό συνήθιζε να λέει πως ο έφηβος μοιάζει με τον αστακό κατά την εποχή που αλλάζει το κέλυφός του: είναι εκτεθειμένος σε όλους τους κινδύνους και στην ανάγκη να κατασκευάσει ένα νέο κέλυφος. Για να βοηθήσουν τους εφήβους να ολοκληρώσουν αυτή τη μεταμόρφωση, που είναι κάτι σαν δεύτερη γέννηση, η Φρανσουάζ Ντολτό, η κόρη της, Κατρίν Ντολτό-Τολίτς, και η Κολέτ Περσεμινιέ έγραψαν αυτό το βιβλίο. Απευθύνεται πρώτα σ' εσάς τους εφήβους (σ' εσάς τους αστακούς). Μα μπορεί να περάσει στα χέρια όλων, να κυκλοφορήσει στο σπίτι, έτσι ώστε όλοι -τα παιδιά, οι γονείς, οι νέοι και οι μεγάλοι- να το διαβάσουν και να ωφεληθούν.
Το βιβλίο '' Έφηβοι - Προβλήματα και ανησυχίες'' δίνει ιδέες που σας βγάζουν από δύσκολες καταστάσεις, μιλά για πράγματα της καθημερινής ζωής που πολύ συχνά αποσιωπώνται ή έχουν δυσάρεστες συνέπειες: για τη φιλία, την αγάπη, τη σεξουαλικότητα, τη βία, τα ναρκωτικά, την ντροπή, για τους γονείς και τους ενηλίκους. Επισημαίνει τις παγίδες και δίνει δυνάμεις που βοηθούν να κάνετε επιλογές, να αναλάβετε κινδύνους που οδηγούν στην υπευθυνότητα και στην αυτονομία. Επίσης βοηθά τους γονείς ν' αποκοπούν απ' τα παιδιά τους με λιγότερο πόνο και περισσότερο σεβασμό. Αυτό το βιβλίο θέλει να γιορτάσει τη δύναμη της ζωής των εφήβων, την ικανότητά τους ν' ανακαλύπτουν το μέλλον, γιατί -όπως έλεγε η Φρ. Ντολτό- ''η κοινωνία θ' αλλάξει κάτω απ' την πίεση των νέων''. (Από την παρουσίαση στο οπισθόφυλλο του βιβλίου)

Genres: Psychology, Nonfiction, Parenting

176 pages, Paperback

First published January 1, 1988

About the author

Françoise Dolto was a French pediatrician and psychoanalyst, famous for her research on babies and childhood. Dolto revolutionized the field of psycho-therapeutic work with babies (notably in their early experience and usage of language through their body), with the mother-baby dyad, and with a more positive observation and understanding of the means of communication used by children with learning or social disabilities.

She worked with Jacques Lacan, and said that children have a language before the language (with the body). She has contributed to the question of the unconscious body image, and influenced among others the work of Maud Mannoni.

As a recognized feminist, she also worked on reconciling women with their sexuality; she also analyzed the attitude of children when their parents are separating or divorcing.

Françoise Dolto was the mother of Carlos (1943–2008), a singer; and the sister of Jacques Marette, a minister.

From Wikipedia:http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fran%C3%...

Reviews

[Infada Spain · Rating 3 out of 5]

3.5

[Aleksander Prifti · Rating 3 out of 5]

Diving into Adolescence by Françoise Dolto was like uncovering a dusty, forgotten map to the wild, chaotic terrain of youth—a thrilling revelation that had me beaming as I peeled back the layers of misunderstanding society drapes over those turbulent years.

Dolto, with her psychoanalytic finesse and tender insight, doesn’t just analyze teenagers; she resurrects them from the underworld of clichés, revealing their struggles, passions, and quirks as a profound dance of becoming. Each page felt like a secret whispered in confidence, dismantling the tired lies that paint adolescence as mere rebellion or hormonal haze, and instead spotlighting it as a sacred, messy metamorphosis. I emerged from this book delighted, as if I’d been handed a lens to see the truth shimmering beneath the surface—a truth that celebrates the raw, untamed spirit of youth and invites us all to remember its electric pulse.

[Велина Костадинова · Rating 4 out of 5]

Чела съм много от книгите на Фр. Долто, несъмнено голям специалист в областта си.
Но това, което ми направи впечатление в тази книга е лекотата, граничеща с повърхностност и неангажираност. Сякаш си е казала, абе имам още малко какво да кажа, защо да не го оформя в книга. И това е така, и е обяснимо - пише тази книга месеци преди смъртта си, с ясното съзнание, че тя наближава. Личи си обобщителния поглед, поглед от високо... Леко хаотична, но мисля, че който каквото му трябва може да си вземе.
Безценен принос са приложенията, в които са поместени много филми, книги и статии по темата за израстването на юношите.

[Nicolas · Rating 2 out of 5]

obsolète

[Ela Culli · Rating 5 out of 5]

This was an amazing book!

[Fammy · Rating 4 out of 5]

Me lo ha dato la mia prof per le vacanze estive. È stata una lettura interessante e mi sono ritrovata in molte cose.

[Valeria]

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