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戀愛課:戀人的五十道習題
給所有渴望戀愛、恐懼戀愛、正在戀愛，或正在失戀（失去愛）的你：愛情，是為了讓你∕妳成為一個更好的人。
陳雪梳理愛情與關係的複雜與多變，回應臉書上萬網友的真情提問。
戀人們笑淚與共的五十道關鍵習題
由心動至磨合，討論同居或獨處，經歷爭吵和冷戰，體會孤獨與成長
不虛無、不逃走，不討好、不放棄
學習愛情的路上，攜伴努力
我們從一個人的孤獨，走向了複雜而多變，豐富卻難以掌握的兩人世界，是要使我們從習以為常的慣性裡走出來，有機會長成自己更喜愛的樣子。
陳雪梳理愛情與關係的複雜與多變，回應臉書上萬網友的真情提問。
戀人們笑淚與共的五十道關鍵習題
由心動至磨合，討論同居或獨處，經歷爭吵和冷戰，體會孤獨與成長
不虛無、不逃走，不討好、不放棄
學習愛情的路上，攜伴努力
我們從一個人的孤獨，走向了複雜而多變，豐富卻難以掌握的兩人世界，是要使我們從習以為常的慣性裡走出來，有機會長成自己更喜愛的樣子。
288 pages, Paperback
Published April 2, 2014
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About the author
陳雪
48 books14 followersChen Xue, born 1970, is a key figure in the development of a queer literature in Taiwan.
She graduated from the Chinese Department of National Central University in 1993.
Since 1995, she has produced 10 novels and short story collections. Her 2009 novel The Possessed was nominated for three Taiwanese literary prizes, and her 2004 work Child on the Bridge was published in 2011 in Japanese, with an English translation in preparation.
The short stories "In Search of the Lost Wings of Angels" (tr. Patricia Sieber; tr. Fran Martin) and "Dust" (tr. Howard Goldblatt) are available in English-language anthologies.
Her story "Butterfly"/《蝴蝶》, was made into a film by Hong Kong woman director, Yan Yan Mak, and won awards in Taiwan, 2004, and Hong Kong, 2005.
She graduated from the Chinese Department of National Central University in 1993.
Since 1995, she has produced 10 novels and short story collections. Her 2009 novel The Possessed was nominated for three Taiwanese literary prizes, and her 2004 work Child on the Bridge was published in 2011 in Japanese, with an English translation in preparation.
The short stories "In Search of the Lost Wings of Angels" (tr. Patricia Sieber; tr. Fran Martin) and "Dust" (tr. Howard Goldblatt) are available in English-language anthologies.
Her story "Butterfly"/《蝴蝶》, was made into a film by Hong Kong woman director, Yan Yan Mak, and won awards in Taiwan, 2004, and Hong Kong, 2005.
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May 2, 2020
「就算我的存在只是為了讓你經過，但願你經過我之後到達了一個更好的地方。」
「一切都是功課了，拼命想照顧對方的人，該學習照顧自己，一直貪圖被照顧的人，該想著多照顧對方，如何在付出之餘，思量著不陷入縱容，不變成控制，不計較回報，不失去自我，如何在領受照顧的時候，也讓自己學會無私，變得堅強。」
「一切都是功課了，拼命想照顧對方的人，該學習照顧自己，一直貪圖被照顧的人，該想著多照顧對方，如何在付出之餘，思量著不陷入縱容，不變成控制，不計較回報，不失去自我，如何在領受照顧的時候，也讓自己學會無私，變得堅強。」
January 6, 2021
一本要很慢很慢掏心掏肺的讀的書。想起很多故事，寫了一篇關於愛情的短文，有點羞恥，偷偷發在沒人知道的博客上。這裡就只是記錄一下心情吧。
「關係里的一切，倘若不只是因為尋求刺激，尋找依賴，滿足幻想，倘若都是為了愛，願意讓自己像學徒那樣一點一點的學習，『即使感情穩定也不偷懶』，許多人都是在進入關係後突然停止了人生的學習，也停止了愛的追求，只憑著彼此的好感維持感情，重復做著看起來是在對對方好，實際上對關係毫無幫助的事，放任感情自生自滅。」
「關係里的一切，倘若不只是因為尋求刺激，尋找依賴，滿足幻想，倘若都是為了愛，願意讓自己像學徒那樣一點一點的學習，『即使感情穩定也不偷懶』，許多人都是在進入關係後突然停止了人生的學習，也停止了愛的追求，只憑著彼此的好感維持感情，重復做著看起來是在對對方好，實際上對關係毫無幫助的事，放任感情自生自滅。」
September 30, 2020
帶我慢慢走出失戀。
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