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The Guide To Identify The DL Guy
Beware, Ladies! This Issue is Becoming an Epidemic! These Men on the Down Low are Everywhere! Ladies, watch out! The men in your lives who tell you they love you, that you are the women of their dreams, can be lying to you with a straight face and a Down Low heart. Read this guide to become aware of the treacherous things that go on in the chatrooms, at hotels, and on-line in these secret websites that facilitate this kind of deceitful, risky behavior. The MSM also known as Men who have sex with Men, are on the down low. This is an issue that has been an old skeleton in an old closet for years, but each time it has been dragged out it doesn’t get the attention that it should. Well, the Center of Disease Control sure thinks that this problem regarding the men on the down low should be a trending topic of discussion, due to the alarming rise in Sexually Transmitted Diseases. I have delved into the seedy secret world of men who are on the down low, all the while being in heterosexual relationships. I will be giving you some informative information inside this guide that will help you maneuver through the lies and deceit on the World Wide Web. I have done extensive research that will open the back door of Backpage, explore the nasty crevices of Craigslist, and expose all the dirty secrets that are locked away on these on-line websites that are constantly being created. Some of these men are married, they have wives, girlfriends, significant others, and they are sexually active with women. But these men are not straight. They don’t only prefer women. They aren’t heterosexual. In fact, these men are bisexual, or just homosexual and selfish. So here is a PSA—public service announcement—to all the women who are involved in a relationship or situationship with men. Ladies, be aware, alert, careful, maybe even suspicious. Just don’t be in the dark, dumb, or in denial. This guide can help you help yourself to information that can possible save your life.
40 pages, Kindle Edition
First published June 1, 2016
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September 6, 2016
A must read......especially if you have any doubt...or simply just want to be informed
This book is very informative. I was a victim of a DL brother....I wish I'd known the signs then ......I truly Hope real women consider reading and paying attention to the warnings signs! The DL game is very dangerous. Deception is a deal breaker for me....I didn't have to "learn to love myself or seek the love I deserved"...... I was totally blindsided... based on trusting the wrong brother... the signs were there I just didn't know them!.......if for any reason you are doubting your man.......it's probably a good reason.....I spent many months thinking maybe it was another woman my husband was seeing.......well purchase this book in hopes of easing any doubt you may have...but you must be ready for whatever is waiting on you!.......God bless Sis Choke Beringer for stepping up and putting this Book out.....it may very well save someone's life.
This book is very informative. I was a victim of a DL brother....I wish I'd known the signs then ......I truly Hope real women consider reading and paying attention to the warnings signs! The DL game is very dangerous. Deception is a deal breaker for me....I didn't have to "learn to love myself or seek the love I deserved"...... I was totally blindsided... based on trusting the wrong brother... the signs were there I just didn't know them!.......if for any reason you are doubting your man.......it's probably a good reason.....I spent many months thinking maybe it was another woman my husband was seeing.......well purchase this book in hopes of easing any doubt you may have...but you must be ready for whatever is waiting on you!.......God bless Sis Choke Beringer for stepping up and putting this Book out.....it may very well save someone's life.
July 22, 2025
Chloe Berringer does something many writers wouldn't dare — she names the danger, unpacks the deception, and brings to light one of the most hushed realities affecting women today.
The Guide To Identify The DL Guy is not just a book — it’s a wake-up call wrapped in raw truth. With her sharp research skills and no-nonsense voice, Chloe dives deep into the secret world of men who live on the down low, exposing the hidden risks, online traps, and emotional damage these double lives can cause.
What makes this book stand out is the author's commitment. Chloe doesn’t speculate — she investigates. From online forums to real-life behavior patterns, she connects the dots with a clarity that’s eye-opening and, honestly, a little chilling. But it's also empowering. She hands women a flashlight to walk through the darkness with their eyes wide open.
Yes, it’s a short read, but every page hits hard. You can feel the care behind the research, the fire behind the mission, and the desire to protect women who may be walking straight into a dangerous situation — blindfolded.
This isn’t your typical relationship guide — it’s more like a survival manual for modern dating.
To Chloe: thank you for having the courage to write this. Keep doing what you do — because you’re not just writing books, you’re saving lives.
The Guide To Identify The DL Guy is not just a book — it’s a wake-up call wrapped in raw truth. With her sharp research skills and no-nonsense voice, Chloe dives deep into the secret world of men who live on the down low, exposing the hidden risks, online traps, and emotional damage these double lives can cause.
What makes this book stand out is the author's commitment. Chloe doesn’t speculate — she investigates. From online forums to real-life behavior patterns, she connects the dots with a clarity that’s eye-opening and, honestly, a little chilling. But it's also empowering. She hands women a flashlight to walk through the darkness with their eyes wide open.
Yes, it’s a short read, but every page hits hard. You can feel the care behind the research, the fire behind the mission, and the desire to protect women who may be walking straight into a dangerous situation — blindfolded.
This isn’t your typical relationship guide — it’s more like a survival manual for modern dating.
To Chloe: thank you for having the courage to write this. Keep doing what you do — because you’re not just writing books, you’re saving lives.
September 19, 2025
What you’ve done here takes grit. It takes compassion. And it takes a rare kind of courage to speak out when silence feels safer.
Reading your book felt like sitting down with someone who refused to let me stay in the dark. It was like having a friend pull back the curtain and say, “Look this is what’s really happening, and you deserve to know.”
Please, keep writing. Keep fighting for truth. Your words are light in places that desperately need it
Reading your book felt like sitting down with someone who refused to let me stay in the dark. It was like having a friend pull back the curtain and say, “Look this is what’s really happening, and you deserve to know.”
Please, keep writing. Keep fighting for truth. Your words are light in places that desperately need it
September 19, 2025
When Clara passed me your book, she said, “This will open your eyes,” and she was absolutely right. Chloe, your words hit like a wake-up call and yet they carry so much heart.
You’ve taken something hidden and dangerous and made it visible, undeniable and in doing so, you’ve empowered countless women. That’s no small feat
I hope you know what Clara and I both see so clearly now: you are meant to write more. Your courage is contagious, and your words will keep changing lives.
You’ve taken something hidden and dangerous and made it visible, undeniable and in doing so, you’ve empowered countless women. That’s no small feat
I hope you know what Clara and I both see so clearly now: you are meant to write more. Your courage is contagious, and your words will keep changing lives.
September 19, 2025
When Clara first told me you had written a book, I knew it would be powerful but I wasn’t prepared for how deeply it would move me.
Every chapter carried your voice: strong, loving, determined to protect others even if it means pulling the veil off something uncomfortable. You gave a voice to the whispers, and you made them impossible to ignore.
Every chapter carried your voice: strong, loving, determined to protect others even if it means pulling the veil off something uncomfortable. You gave a voice to the whispers, and you made them impossible to ignore.
June 12, 2018
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This book was very enlightening on what and how deceitful person can be for their own self gratification. We as women always have too try to stay one step ahead because everyone is not what they seem.
This book was very enlightening on what and how deceitful person can be for their own self gratification. We as women always have too try to stay one step ahead because everyone is not what they seem.
July 15, 2016
This was very informative...I hope I don't see anyone I know on the DL websy
Okay let's talk about reading a guide that had my heart racing. This is not fiction. The author is giving us websites to check for suspects. It's like the most foul men in relationships.. As a wife,mother sister,aunt..I want to say this rarely happens. However, I can't because she has an entire chapter on investigation. I will be gifting this manual to my book club. We will be on this one for awhile.
Okay let's talk about reading a guide that had my heart racing. This is not fiction. The author is giving us websites to check for suspects. It's like the most foul men in relationships.. As a wife,mother sister,aunt..I want to say this rarely happens. However, I can't because she has an entire chapter on investigation. I will be gifting this manual to my book club. We will be on this one for awhile.
September 5, 2016
Great potential
This book has the potential to be great. With some additional editing and formatting (breaking the large paragraphs down), it would read better. I like that the author uses what she's seen someone else go through in order to offer advice. I say that because it's hard to take advice from someone who has never been through it. The fact that we have DL men is sickening and this book is greatly needed to warn unsuspecting women about them.
This book has the potential to be great. With some additional editing and formatting (breaking the large paragraphs down), it would read better. I like that the author uses what she's seen someone else go through in order to offer advice. I say that because it's hard to take advice from someone who has never been through it. The fact that we have DL men is sickening and this book is greatly needed to warn unsuspecting women about them.
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