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In Search of the One: How to Attract the Relationship You've Longed for
AN AMAZON BESTSELLER! Are you longing for your soul mate…the perfect life partner…“The One”—but aren’t sure how to attract the right romantic relationship into your life? Or perhaps you’re already in a relationship—even a long-term one—but you secretly wonder if there might be someone out there with whom you’d be better suited? Cinderella, don’t give up on the prince!
Drawing from personal experience as well as insight from a wide array of experts, In Search of The One: How to Attract the Relationship You’ve Longed explores how to:
• Debunk the myths around “The One” and stop savior seeking.
• Examine the intellectual, emotional, and spiritual components of longing for a romantic relationship.
• Convert longing into loving so that you can become your best self and live your best life.
• Attract or rebuild a relationship so great that you could only imagine it until now.
In In The Search for The One, Randy Siegel explains that the true source of all longing is to be seen, heard, understood, and loved for all we are. By redirecting our focus on three psycho-spiritual paths—the evolution of the unconscious to the conscious self, the defended to the authentic self, and the higher to the divine self—we can find peace and grow personally while attracting a special kind of romantic relationship—a spiritual partnership—into our life.
The distance between longing and love is not as great as you might think.
Drawing from personal experience as well as insight from a wide array of experts, In Search of The One: How to Attract the Relationship You’ve Longed explores how to:
• Debunk the myths around “The One” and stop savior seeking.
• Examine the intellectual, emotional, and spiritual components of longing for a romantic relationship.
• Convert longing into loving so that you can become your best self and live your best life.
• Attract or rebuild a relationship so great that you could only imagine it until now.
In In The Search for The One, Randy Siegel explains that the true source of all longing is to be seen, heard, understood, and loved for all we are. By redirecting our focus on three psycho-spiritual paths—the evolution of the unconscious to the conscious self, the defended to the authentic self, and the higher to the divine self—we can find peace and grow personally while attracting a special kind of romantic relationship—a spiritual partnership—into our life.
The distance between longing and love is not as great as you might think.
212 pages, Paperback
Published July 14, 2016
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About the author
Randy Siegel
8 books18 followersRandy Siegel is an author, artist, and teacher focusing on union, reunion, and communion with self, others, and the Divine.
This summer, Randy released his sixth book: “Change Begins Here: Adopt the Mind of Christ and Build a Better World.” In it, he turns to a number of faith traditions to conclude that as spiritual people we must awaken to the realization that change begins here—right now—with us. By adopting the mind of Christ, or Unity Consciousness, we can become the change we want to see in the world. In his down-to-earth style, Randy Siegel shares how heaven is attainable when we adopt the mind of Christ. Not just for saints, sages, and shamans, Christ or unity consciousness is something all of us can employ regardless of our faith.
Siegel has authored five additional books including the Amazon bestseller "In Search of The One: How to Attract the Relationship You've Longed For." He has written articles for Balance Magazine, the Washington Post, and other publications and is often quoted by the media, including USA Today, Money Magazine, and Wall Street Journal online.
Randy's Writing Philosophy:
"I believe there is no better classroom than our lives. I also believe love and work offer the greatest potential for personal and spiritual growth since that’s where our inner challenges become most visible. Relationships forge the cornerstone of life, love, and work. All that happens in this world happens in relationship—beginning with the sperm and the egg. We are just not connected; we are one. As such, we are perfect mirrors for each other’s awakening. Thus it stands to reason that one of the most direct routes to reunion and communion with our higher power is relationships. Relationships are the superhighway to the Divine."
This summer, Randy released his sixth book: “Change Begins Here: Adopt the Mind of Christ and Build a Better World.” In it, he turns to a number of faith traditions to conclude that as spiritual people we must awaken to the realization that change begins here—right now—with us. By adopting the mind of Christ, or Unity Consciousness, we can become the change we want to see in the world. In his down-to-earth style, Randy Siegel shares how heaven is attainable when we adopt the mind of Christ. Not just for saints, sages, and shamans, Christ or unity consciousness is something all of us can employ regardless of our faith.
Siegel has authored five additional books including the Amazon bestseller "In Search of The One: How to Attract the Relationship You've Longed For." He has written articles for Balance Magazine, the Washington Post, and other publications and is often quoted by the media, including USA Today, Money Magazine, and Wall Street Journal online.
Randy's Writing Philosophy:
"I believe there is no better classroom than our lives. I also believe love and work offer the greatest potential for personal and spiritual growth since that’s where our inner challenges become most visible. Relationships forge the cornerstone of life, love, and work. All that happens in this world happens in relationship—beginning with the sperm and the egg. We are just not connected; we are one. As such, we are perfect mirrors for each other’s awakening. Thus it stands to reason that one of the most direct routes to reunion and communion with our higher power is relationships. Relationships are the superhighway to the Divine."
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July 29, 2016
Inspiring, encouraging, heart-felt - an enjoyable read! Anyone willing to have a new perspective on "The One", love and having a fulfilling romantic relationship should not hesitate to get the book and enjoy the process of reflecting on their own relationships, as well as aim to improve their love life on a more spiritual level. A book to read once cover to cover and then read some chapters over and over again, as you experience changes in your life.
September 14, 2016
Observing my inner dialogue and process is my favorite past time. When I am reading books on the subject of personal growth and understanding I get bogged down in long and intricate explanations. Looking at myself and being honest about what I see is much easier if the dialogue is straight forward, compassionate and funny. This is the gift that Randy Siegal gives to the reader. He is insightful, vulnerable and has consciously traveled this road his whole life. Randy is a talented writer who empathizes with his readers' plight. He knows it is everyone's plight and no matter where you are on the journey he has something to offer. Read "In Search of The One" and Enjoy.
July 24, 2016
The truth about relationships is this: like attracts like. But that expression needs further examination. The true depth shows that when you are searching and selecting a mate, whether through your personal tastes or the deeper mysteries of manifestation, in general, you are going to attract someone who is a developed and functional as you are. The deeper meaning in all of this? Become the type of person you want to be in a relationship, and that is the type of person you will attract.
Now, if you are thinking to yourself, that's a lot easier said than done, I would agree. Luckily the author, Randy Siegel, has also discovered this truth, largely through his own life experiences, and decided to write this lovely book to help others along this path. He presents his own unique framework and theory to help you uncover previously hidden parts of your self, and mixes in quotes from well known authors and sources, stories from his own life to convey understanding, and simple exercises and suggestions to help you along the way to a better understanding of yourself and what you are really looking for in a partner.
For anyone who is ready to get to the serious work of figuring your self out so that you can truly attract your ideal partner and be fully present in your relationship, I highly recommend this book.
Now, if you are thinking to yourself, that's a lot easier said than done, I would agree. Luckily the author, Randy Siegel, has also discovered this truth, largely through his own life experiences, and decided to write this lovely book to help others along this path. He presents his own unique framework and theory to help you uncover previously hidden parts of your self, and mixes in quotes from well known authors and sources, stories from his own life to convey understanding, and simple exercises and suggestions to help you along the way to a better understanding of yourself and what you are really looking for in a partner.
For anyone who is ready to get to the serious work of figuring your self out so that you can truly attract your ideal partner and be fully present in your relationship, I highly recommend this book.
July 23, 2016
While In Search of the One illuminates an insightful and soul-driven process to finding the love you’ve always dreamed of, I am struck by my increased understanding, acceptance and love for my most important relationship: myself. I am certain these new perceptions and my revived, internal compassion are visible to others after reading this lovely book. It seems more likely than ever that the One can’t help but find me.
July 20, 2016
Randy distills his many years of experience, observation, inner work, reading, and contemplation eloquently in this clear and insightful book. His quest for love and partnership is articulated through deeply spiritual sensibilities. He offers readers a guided approach to living into their innate longing for meaningful connection.
Tayria Ward, Ph.D.
Tayria Ward, Ph.D.
July 20, 2016
This book is a delightful, funny, clear, and concise manual for how to love yourself, love the divine within, and attract the partner for whom you’ve longed for. It’s not just a graduate program for the soul, it’s a practical residency program, and if you follow Randy’s three paths, you’ll experience some of the greatest lessons life has to offer.
— Rev. Melissa Anne Rogers M.Div., MAMFT
July 24, 2016
This latest book by Randy Siegel is quite thought-provoking and engaging. In learning about his story and growth process regarding relationships, I discovered commonalities in my own story and ways to address blocks I've experienced. I appreciate the guidance Randy shares which I anticipate will guide me towards making more sound, balanced decisions. I heartily recommend this book!
July 29, 2016
Siegel's book is beautiful, insightful and inspiring. Siegel successfully synthesizes his learned wisdom in a clear and easily read fashion. Readers will immediately relate to the author and his story and benefit from his powerful three-path process, probing questions, and easy-to-follow exercises. I will keep this book to refer to again and again.
August 17, 2016
Randy Siegel's book "The One" will be very helpful for anyone trying to improve their life, or find happiness. He provides several models of looking at the world and the self, and is generous with personal examples of his own growth. If you are ready for change, this book is for you, and I appreciate the very personal things Randy shared with us, the reader.
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