Maybe having read so many memoirs and seeing true stories about mothers who overlook the obvious abuse right under their nose for the love of some man is what made this believable. I think of the differing opinions people will have reading about the sexual relationship a teenage girl is having with an older man. Some will say 'this isn't abuse, this girl enjoyed it' - the old 'if someone feels pleasure, they are just as guilty' defense will arise too. It is uncomfortable to discuss but more horrific admit happens, because we know there are children who feel ashamed, as if they are to blame if during any molestation something felt good. Isn't that just one of the vile ways sexual predators have success controlling children? The muddling of what is right and wrong, making them feel they are a part of it is exactly what abusers do to keep their victim chained to them and making the child believe their parent's will be horrified by their 'liking it' because their body reacted.
Bobbie is 13 when the seduction starts, 13! Mother June is blinded by her hunger for popular local celebrity disc jockey Craig Kirtz. We see a lonely single mother, and certainly it is understandable a single mother or father could crave human touch and romantic love- nothing unnatural about that. The disgust comes when June is more invested is this stranger than her own young daughter's strong feelings that she doesn't want him around. Naturally there are children that dislike a potential partner because they don't want another person taking up their parent's attention and time, but the speed at which she brings Craig home is suspect for any parent. Unbeknownst to her, Bobbie and Craig already have a relationship and the accident that has June running to nurse him is the perfect excuse to insinuate herself into his life, and bring the devil into their home. Why is she so quick to spend her time with him, when she has a young girl at home who needs said attention?
This novel goes from past to present, Bobbie has run away from her mother and hasn't seen her for a long time. Now a middle aged woman, it is time to bring Craig's sins to light. When she hears his accusers (also young girls) are disbelieved she knows it's time to set things right.
He is insidious as he manipulates young Bobbie. Her attempts at dodging him, her shame, his relentless pursuit (stalking even) and seduction is enough to make any woman squirm with fear for the young Bobbie and rage with a mother's instinct. And speaking of Mother's instinct, where was June's?
How to be believed in public when one's own mother 'stands by her man' over her now grown daughter, possibly even changing history to make herself believe that her 'bad seed' child is just lying so she can hold on to the man she loves. And as June herself is seduced by Craig, we wonder as much as she herself does what is so appealing about him as he is crude, vile and even cruel. Manipulator's are pros, it's how they get away with things. But I had a hard to exonerating June for her selective reality, so to speak. It is a parent's job to protect their children, and often that means sacrificing one's own needs.
I didn't feel Bobbie was solid enough to make good choices or be held accountable for her end of the 'relationship' because it is child abuse here. I would go so far as to say young girls are prime targets for such men because it makes them feel special to be singled out by 'older guys'. Girls are conflicted when they are coming into their sexuality and blossoming just as much as boys. Something happens where men start noticing the changes and so many girls go between liking the attention and feeling ashamed of it. As many women can think back on, men can be admiring or downright leering and vile. It is a confusing time in a young girl's life, and more so in one without attention. Bobbie has too much free time, and we can't fault her mother for having to work hard to keep a roof over her child's head but this lack of supervision is how Craig creeps in.
Maybe because I am older now, I see Bobbie differently than other teen girls would. I can even remember back in my youth a handful of girls that were dating men in their 20's (I remember one girl whose parents were fine with it), this was in junior high! Back then, other girls would either think 'wow, she's so lucky' or 'what a slut.' We all know when it's a teen boy and older woman it's 'man I wish I had a hot woman like that when I was a kid' and boys tend to be impressed by said boy's 'conquest'. It wasn't too often that peers would think 'that is creepy and wrong.' That in itself makes me ponder the difference between adults and kids. What sort of man or woman is spending their time seducing 13 year olds? How exactly can the blame ever be put on a child? Especially a child in dire need of attention, starving for it. Then take into account in this story a local celebrity is the seducer, and you just added an even shinier lure for a teenage girl. Attention is something all human beings, at any age, hunger for and so is feeling loved.
Craig uses her shame and naivete to continue abusing her. His swearing he will marry her turns her stomach, so it's obvious to the reader she is not really with him of her own free will, along with the fact she tries to lose him when she comes out of school. She fears him. Drugs are just yet another thing he uses to cloud things. What chance does someone like Bobbie have up against an experienced adult who knows how to cover his sins?
This is one for the book clubs!