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Flinging It
Frazer, head midwife at a hospital in Perth, Australia, is trying to make her corner of the world a little better by starting up a programme for at-risk parents. Not everyone is excited about her ideas. Surrounded by red tape, she finally has to team up with Cora, a social worker who is married to Frazer’s boss. Cora is starting to think her marriage is beyond saving, even if she wants to. Feeling smothered by a domineering spouse, she grabs hold of the programme and the distraction Frazer offers with both hands. Soon the two women get a little too close and find themselves in a situation they never dreamed themselves capable an affair. As the two fall deeper, both are torn between their taboo romance and their morals. But walking away from each other may not be as simple as they thought.
394 pages, Kindle Edition
First published July 10, 2016
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G. Benson
16 books949 followersBenson spent her childhood wrapped up in any book she could get her hands on and—as her mother likes to tell people at parties—even found a way to read in the shower. Moving on from writing bad poetry (thankfully) she started to write stories. About anything and everything. Tearing her from her laptop is a fairly difficult feat, though if you come bearing coffee you have a good chance.
When not writing or reading, she´s got her butt firmly on a train or plane to see the big wide world. Originally from Australia, she currently lives in Spain, speaking terrible Spanish and going on as many trips to new places as she can, budget permitting. This means she mostly walks around the city she lives in.
When not writing or reading, she´s got her butt firmly on a train or plane to see the big wide world. Originally from Australia, she currently lives in Spain, speaking terrible Spanish and going on as many trips to new places as she can, budget permitting. This means she mostly walks around the city she lives in.
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November 8, 2017
I wanted to like this a lot more than I did. I recently finished this author's other book "Who'd Have Thought?" and loved it. This one, less so.
Technically, "Flinging It" is written fine. The author has a knack for dialogue, developing characters, and I like that she has character diversity. Her background is in the medical field so the setting and careers ring true. She's also pretty brave in writing a romance around infidelity which is hard to pull off or root for. I *sort of* got over it in this read.
The marriage Cora finds herself in is far from ideal and her husband is an ass. For all we know he's already having an affair. The point is, he's a jerk (and a villain) so it's easy to take Cora's side in choosing to go into her own affair but I think my reticence in liking the book more has to do with Cora's character than anything.
Cora's in a fairly depressed and abusive space which put a funk over the narrative that never really lifted for me. As a reader, it's really clear what she *should* do but won't. And the frustrating thing is, is her behavior more true to life? I'd say, probably. Is it want I want her to do? No. From her denial of her abusive situation, her true sexuality, and real feelings towards Frazer, to her lack of responsibility or her lack of backbone many of her actions come across as selfish or cowardly and, unfortunately, Frazer and a warm fuzzy romance is the collateral damage.
Benson at least did address the less desirable pieces of Cora and her growth as a character comes through pushing through all of her issues I mentioned above...it just took her forever to get there.
There's just so much pushing and pulling which could be resolved if the characters stopped hemming and hawing which again is probably more realistic but it's less fun to read.
This book certainly isn't bad and there's a lot going for it. I think someone in Cora's situation would find this book uplifting and Benson's exploration of an emotionally abusive relationship is important. I also did really like the inclusion of a transgendered character, bisexuality and queerness, and ethnic diversity (Korean for Cora and half Indian for Frazer).
Because of the more depressing aspects I just kind of ended up having a bleh feeling through the read. Personally, I give this story about a 3.5 but technically it's written well enough to be a 4...in other words, for me it was a 3 but I think others may get more enjoyment out if than I did and would still recommend.
Technically, "Flinging It" is written fine. The author has a knack for dialogue, developing characters, and I like that she has character diversity. Her background is in the medical field so the setting and careers ring true. She's also pretty brave in writing a romance around infidelity which is hard to pull off or root for. I *sort of* got over it in this read.
The marriage Cora finds herself in is far from ideal and her husband is an ass. For all we know he's already having an affair. The point is, he's a jerk (and a villain) so it's easy to take Cora's side in choosing to go into her own affair but I think my reticence in liking the book more has to do with Cora's character than anything.
Cora's in a fairly depressed and abusive space which put a funk over the narrative that never really lifted for me. As a reader, it's really clear what she *should* do but won't. And the frustrating thing is, is her behavior more true to life? I'd say, probably. Is it want I want her to do? No. From her denial of her abusive situation, her true sexuality, and real feelings towards Frazer, to her lack of responsibility or her lack of backbone many of her actions come across as selfish or cowardly and, unfortunately, Frazer and a warm fuzzy romance is the collateral damage.
Benson at least did address the less desirable pieces of Cora and her growth as a character comes through pushing through all of her issues I mentioned above...it just took her forever to get there.
There's just so much pushing and pulling which could be resolved if the characters stopped hemming and hawing which again is probably more realistic but it's less fun to read.
This book certainly isn't bad and there's a lot going for it. I think someone in Cora's situation would find this book uplifting and Benson's exploration of an emotionally abusive relationship is important. I also did really like the inclusion of a transgendered character, bisexuality and queerness, and ethnic diversity (Korean for Cora and half Indian for Frazer).
Because of the more depressing aspects I just kind of ended up having a bleh feeling through the read. Personally, I give this story about a 3.5 but technically it's written well enough to be a 4...in other words, for me it was a 3 but I think others may get more enjoyment out if than I did and would still recommend.
January 20, 2017
I found this story equally frustrating and intriguing. It was frustrating to follow the main characters through their, for the most part, unhealthy relationship based on cheating, denial, deception, lack of self-confidence, using someone... and it was fascinating to see how the author turned that same relationship into something completely different. The way that is done is a feature of quality writing. And G. Benson is exactly that -- a very good writer. A writer who does not choose easy ways and shortcuts in creating the storyline, at the price of her main characters not being very likable at times.
Long story short, for the fairly large part, it was somehow hard and unpleasant to go through this book, but it was worth it in the end.
4 stars
*ARC provided by publisher via NetGalley*
Long story short, for the fairly large part, it was somehow hard and unpleasant to go through this book, but it was worth it in the end.
4 stars
*ARC provided by publisher via NetGalley*
July 31, 2016
The blurb pretty much states up front what this book is all about: Infidelity. Not exactly a subject that romance readers would be flinging themselves into with much enthusiasm. Writing about characters having affairs while in a relationship is always a tricky balancing act for authors. How do you garner reader sympathy when your heroines are guilty of the very things they hate most, namely disloyalty and deception? Nevertheless, the premise holds so much potential for conflict and drama that I'm instantly drawn to it like moth to a flame.
Frazer and Cora work in the same hospital as head midwife and social worker, respectively. Cora's husband Alec holds the purse strings for hospital budgets. In order to get funding and logistical support for an urgent project to help vulnerable new parents, Frazer enlists the help of Cora in an effort to make a more forceful impression on Alec. Cora finds the project and Frazer's companionship a nice distraction from her dreary and oppressive marriage. As their friendship deepens, Cora begins to appreciate more and more how she is treated with warmth, respect and dignity by Frazer in contrast to the coldness and constant belittling that awaits her at home. In a night of drunken recklessness and passion, the two take it one step too far and fall headlong into an office affair. Wracked by guilt at their deceit and having to face the innocent party constantly at work, Cora tries her best to save her marriage while Frazer tries her best to keep her hands to herself and whatever's left of her dignity intact.
I've always been fascinated by the kind of love (or lust or temporary insanity) that overcomes otherwise perfectly nice, rational, level-headed and maybe even old-fashioned people and turn them into reckless risk-takers. So, here's the thing. The key for me to buy into this notion is to have me believe that this 'thing' they have between them is so special, so powerful, so mind-blowing and so addictive that the protagonists are basically willing to throw away their lives for it. It's a tall order. Even though the book does manage to sell me the idea, it's not a slam dunk. I'll explain why. This is a personal opinion so other readers may feel differently.
Cora is at a low point in her married life. Frazer offers friendship and respect. Cora finds happiness for the first time. Things escalate and they have an affair. So far so good. Well...not good good, but what I mean is, I'm loving the story so far.
Despite not-quite-hitting-the-mark on the affair itself, the book does exceedingly well on all the other relationships--especially the platonic ones. Cora and Frazer's friendship (the best part of the book!). Control freak Alec's subtle and insidious domination of Cora (creepy!). Cora and bff Liza. Frazer and sis (best sibling interaction ever!). Frazer and Tia (conscience + fairy godmother, who knew?). Frazer and everyone else. All these well-drawn and fully fleshed out supporting characters lend an air of levity and balance whenever the mood turned too bleak and despairing.
Another noteworthy thing: the book features some of the most diverse set of characters in lesfic. Both protagonists are Aussies with mixed ethnic backgrounds, as are a supporting character or two. And there is a young transgender who deals with some important life choices and transitioning issues.
The bottom line is, I really liked the book except for the extended infidelity angle (to my surprise since that's precisely why I picked the book :)), which, while full of drama, didn't quite make my list of "the best ever affairs worth throwing your whole life away for". The rest of the book is awesome. Including the ending. So hitch on the ride and get ready to be yanked up and down through this rollercoaster of emotions. Good or bad, it's guaranteed to make you feel.
ARC from Ylva.
4.25 stars
Frazer and Cora work in the same hospital as head midwife and social worker, respectively. Cora's husband Alec holds the purse strings for hospital budgets. In order to get funding and logistical support for an urgent project to help vulnerable new parents, Frazer enlists the help of Cora in an effort to make a more forceful impression on Alec. Cora finds the project and Frazer's companionship a nice distraction from her dreary and oppressive marriage. As their friendship deepens, Cora begins to appreciate more and more how she is treated with warmth, respect and dignity by Frazer in contrast to the coldness and constant belittling that awaits her at home. In a night of drunken recklessness and passion, the two take it one step too far and fall headlong into an office affair. Wracked by guilt at their deceit and having to face the innocent party constantly at work, Cora tries her best to save her marriage while Frazer tries her best to keep her hands to herself and whatever's left of her dignity intact.
I've always been fascinated by the kind of love (or lust or temporary insanity) that overcomes otherwise perfectly nice, rational, level-headed and maybe even old-fashioned people and turn them into reckless risk-takers. So, here's the thing. The key for me to buy into this notion is to have me believe that this 'thing' they have between them is so special, so powerful, so mind-blowing and so addictive that the protagonists are basically willing to throw away their lives for it. It's a tall order. Even though the book does manage to sell me the idea, it's not a slam dunk. I'll explain why. This is a personal opinion so other readers may feel differently.
Cora is at a low point in her married life. Frazer offers friendship and respect. Cora finds happiness for the first time. Things escalate and they have an affair. So far so good. Well...not good good, but what I mean is, I'm loving the story so far.
Despite not-quite-hitting-the-mark on the affair itself, the book does exceedingly well on all the other relationships--especially the platonic ones. Cora and Frazer's friendship (the best part of the book!). Control freak Alec's subtle and insidious domination of Cora (creepy!). Cora and bff Liza. Frazer and sis (best sibling interaction ever!). Frazer and Tia (conscience + fairy godmother, who knew?). Frazer and everyone else. All these well-drawn and fully fleshed out supporting characters lend an air of levity and balance whenever the mood turned too bleak and despairing.
Another noteworthy thing: the book features some of the most diverse set of characters in lesfic. Both protagonists are Aussies with mixed ethnic backgrounds, as are a supporting character or two. And there is a young transgender who deals with some important life choices and transitioning issues.
The bottom line is, I really liked the book except for the extended infidelity angle (to my surprise since that's precisely why I picked the book :)), which, while full of drama, didn't quite make my list of "the best ever affairs worth throwing your whole life away for". The rest of the book is awesome. Including the ending. So hitch on the ride and get ready to be yanked up and down through this rollercoaster of emotions. Good or bad, it's guaranteed to make you feel.
ARC from Ylva.
4.25 stars
April 27, 2018
I don't usuallly like books with an infidelity theme because deceit seems such a hard thing to come back from and still be romantic. I didn't have as much of a problem in Flinging It for a couple of reasons. Cora is so well characterized as a woman whose personality and gumption has been stomped on by an emotionally abusive husband (and he is a real 'doos') for so long that she really doesn't have much in her armory left. Her feelings are so suppressed that when she begins an affair with Frazer she is barely connected to her emotions there either. I found it hard not to root for her even when I didn't think she was making the best choices. Frazer was much easier to like but just as complicated.
Added to the great characterization of the main characters is the number of really interesting secondary characters. In both of the Benson novels I've read she has incorporated characters from most of the alphabet soup that is LGBTQIA(PN etc) and I've enjoyed, not only the learning curve, but the inclusiveness. Before Who'd Have Thought I hadn't heard the term 'non-binary' and in this one I hadn't really thought about the implications of a trans man falling pregnant.
It is beautifully written with lots of angst, which is to be expected, and well-worth reading.
Added to the great characterization of the main characters is the number of really interesting secondary characters. In both of the Benson novels I've read she has incorporated characters from most of the alphabet soup that is LGBTQIA(PN etc) and I've enjoyed, not only the learning curve, but the inclusiveness. Before Who'd Have Thought I hadn't heard the term 'non-binary' and in this one I hadn't really thought about the implications of a trans man falling pregnant.
It is beautifully written with lots of angst, which is to be expected, and well-worth reading.
July 29, 2016
A gauntlet of emotions! A gantlet of emotions is the best way I can describe of Flinging It by G. Benson. This book is witty, angsty and also so incredibly genuine. There were times I wanted to shake the main characters and then I would then the next page and want to give them a ginormous hug. Oh the emotional roller coaster how I love you and hate you all the same.
Frazer is a midwife in Perth, the head of Midwifery to be exact. She is beyond dedicated to her job. She spends her days and nights delivering babies or suffering through mind numbing hospital administrative meetings. Work, work and more work. No dates, little fun, just babies, babies, meting and back to babies. Frazer has spent all of her free time developing a program for at-rick parents and reaching out to them through the hospital and mentors to guide them through the pregnancy, birth and trying months after. This do-gooder needs help and a fresh set of eyes, so she turns to an unlikely source Cora, the head of the social work program at Frazer’s hospital.
Cora the head of social work for the hospital spends her day guiding people through the hospital system. While she is a co-worker of Frazer’s these two never speak, some hostility may be in part because Cora happens to be married to their boss, Alec. Alec is a first rate douche bag by the way, he emotionally abuses his wife to the point she is just a shell of her former gregarious self. As Cora and Frazer move forward with the mentoring program they develop an amazing friendship, and after one night of way too much booze the fall into bed.
This book pulls at your heart. While you know that the affair is oh so wrong, you also see that it is a lifeline of sorts for Cora. This is a woman that something to empower her and give strength, even if it’s wrongly through an affair. While her husband is a first rate prick (that’s being kind), and she should be running for the hills, she is terrified of disappointing everyone. Alec has stripped her down to nothing, so when Frazer comes along and becomes her friend, her ally and even her lover she has a renewed since of self. Does this have morality issues? Sure, but know that it is very evident that this marriage is on the flimsiest of last legs. Infidelity is a big no-no for me most of the times, but in this case it did not give me much pause. Both women know that this affair is wrong, but it’s hard to stop when it’s the only time you find any since of happiness. Frazer and Cora have magnetism to each other. Their interactions are delightful, fun, sometimes really sexy. 4.25 stars
Frazer is a midwife in Perth, the head of Midwifery to be exact. She is beyond dedicated to her job. She spends her days and nights delivering babies or suffering through mind numbing hospital administrative meetings. Work, work and more work. No dates, little fun, just babies, babies, meting and back to babies. Frazer has spent all of her free time developing a program for at-rick parents and reaching out to them through the hospital and mentors to guide them through the pregnancy, birth and trying months after. This do-gooder needs help and a fresh set of eyes, so she turns to an unlikely source Cora, the head of the social work program at Frazer’s hospital.
Cora the head of social work for the hospital spends her day guiding people through the hospital system. While she is a co-worker of Frazer’s these two never speak, some hostility may be in part because Cora happens to be married to their boss, Alec. Alec is a first rate douche bag by the way, he emotionally abuses his wife to the point she is just a shell of her former gregarious self. As Cora and Frazer move forward with the mentoring program they develop an amazing friendship, and after one night of way too much booze the fall into bed.
This book pulls at your heart. While you know that the affair is oh so wrong, you also see that it is a lifeline of sorts for Cora. This is a woman that something to empower her and give strength, even if it’s wrongly through an affair. While her husband is a first rate prick (that’s being kind), and she should be running for the hills, she is terrified of disappointing everyone. Alec has stripped her down to nothing, so when Frazer comes along and becomes her friend, her ally and even her lover she has a renewed since of self. Does this have morality issues? Sure, but know that it is very evident that this marriage is on the flimsiest of last legs. Infidelity is a big no-no for me most of the times, but in this case it did not give me much pause. Both women know that this affair is wrong, but it’s hard to stop when it’s the only time you find any since of happiness. Frazer and Cora have magnetism to each other. Their interactions are delightful, fun, sometimes really sexy. 4.25 stars
June 13, 2023
Fate can be unfair. When you keep bumping (literally) into the same person, it has to mean something, right? But what if that person is married to your boss? As they work together on a program to help at-risk parents, Frazer, chief of the midwifery department of a hospital in Perth, Australia, and Cora, head of the social work department, go from distant politeness to wild attraction. Cora is convinced she’s straight and only looking for a distraction from her failing marriage. Frazer is still hurting from a breakup with a former coworker and not looking for anything, especially not with another colleague. She’s content with being single and no one else waiting for her at home beside her fish. Best laid plans and all, feelings get involved.
I’d never read this book by one of my favourite authorsone of my favourite authors and I was looking for something to listen to on a road trip when I saw this audiobook on Scribd (want to try Scribd for free?). Perfect opportunity, except that the narration really doesn’t lend itself to a car trip. We moved on to Integrity (read my review
read my review), but once home, I went back to Flinging It. The narration works much better in a quiet environment. While it’s a bit linear, the pace is great and all the voices are perfect.
I love both MCs, the vulnerability of falling in love and finding yourself even when you’re not aware that’s what’s happening to you. The push and pull felt very real, as frustrating and heartrending as it was for the characters. Because of that, the characters aren’t always lovable, and I understand that this could make the book hard to read for some, but to me, since the romance is born from cheating, I took it for granted that the characters would be flawed and I was ready for it. I also liked that they’re both Australian from immigrant families (India for Frazer, South Korea for Cora, and her best friend Liza’s family comes from Vietnam).
Besides the MCs, there are also excellent secondary characters, my favourite being Frazer’s pushy younger sister Jemma. The siblings’ interactions are some of the best I’ve read. I liked all the friends as well. Benson has a knack for dialogue and there were some absolutely delightful scenes. The repeated accidental meetings felt a tad overdone but I didn’t really mind. And I really really liked Jack’s arc, the pregnant trans teen Cora and Frazer support through the program.
While this will not become my favourite Benson book, I enjoyed the angst, the humour, Cora’s discovery of her queerness and all the possibilities of a life that is not limited by psychological abuse, and the manner in which that author dealt with infidelity and the guilt it entails. It takes a very skilled author to touch on such a delicate theme and give us characters who feel both genuine and endearing.
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July 11, 2019
If you've read the author's summary of this book you know the subject of cheating will be front and center throughout the narrative. If you're like me you probably also hate that subject and its participants with a fiery passion. It's why I put off reading this book for a while despite its many positive reviews.
I mean cheaters are awful, terrible, horrendous people right? So why would you want to read about them? That's what I kept asking myself throughout a large part of this story. I didn't like either of the main characters at all but I kept turning those pages. Until there were no more pages left... at 2:30 AM.
Why? G. Benson got me to identify with not one but both cheaters. There's a sentence I never thought I'd type! Do I condone the behavior of Cora and Frazer? NO, but I understand why they did what they did and that is one hell of a writing feat.
As much as I hated Cora for not immediately leaving her husband, I understood why she stayed for so long. Given the amount of manipulation this woman had been put through I even understand why she cheated. *gulp*
This book for a large part was extremely frustrating to read. Many times I wanted to bash the main characters over the head and yell at them to get their act together but Benson does an amazing job of reminding you that things are never simply right or wrong.
If you're a fan of angst and drama, grab a bottle of wine and settle in as Frazer and Cora make an absolute mess of their lives. Actually forget the wine, the amount of excessive drinking in this story will get you drunk without even drinking a drop yourself.
A full frustratingly good 4* rating for this one!
I mean cheaters are awful, terrible, horrendous people right? So why would you want to read about them? That's what I kept asking myself throughout a large part of this story. I didn't like either of the main characters at all but I kept turning those pages. Until there were no more pages left... at 2:30 AM.
Why? G. Benson got me to identify with not one but both cheaters. There's a sentence I never thought I'd type! Do I condone the behavior of Cora and Frazer? NO, but I understand why they did what they did and that is one hell of a writing feat.
As much as I hated Cora for not immediately leaving her husband, I understood why she stayed for so long. Given the amount of manipulation this woman had been put through I even understand why she cheated. *gulp*
This book for a large part was extremely frustrating to read. Many times I wanted to bash the main characters over the head and yell at them to get their act together but Benson does an amazing job of reminding you that things are never simply right or wrong.
If you're a fan of angst and drama, grab a bottle of wine and settle in as Frazer and Cora make an absolute mess of their lives. Actually forget the wine, the amount of excessive drinking in this story will get you drunk without even drinking a drop yourself.
A full frustratingly good 4* rating for this one!
January 31, 2021
This is a beautifully written book about a divisive topic - infidelity. Benson approaches the topic from a character-driven point of view, giving us the opportunity to get inside the main character's thoughts and feelings, giving us the ability to understand even if we might not necessarily agree were we to encounter the same situation in real life.
Both Frazer and Cora are heads of department at a hospital in Perth, Australia. Frazer heads up the midwifery department and has been fighting to introduce a new programme for high-risk patients, to improve their lives in the lead up to the birth of their babies and put them in good stead afterwards as people. As you’d expect that comes with budgetary fights and it’s suggested that she gets Cora’s support for the project as she’s head of the social work department.
Frazer buries herself in her work. She’s had a bad break-up and isn’t looking for anything serious despite her friend's attempts at convincing her otherwise. Cora is married and is in the process of discovering she’s in an emotionally abusive marriage. As they begin to work together they discover they have an attraction to each other that neither was expecting, especially Cora who has never been attracted to a woman before. The affair is complicated by the fact that Cora is married to Frazer’s boss.
Neither are proud of their relationship, but recognise the power it has over them. Whilst I didn’t always agree with how they went about things, I was so absorbed in the writing and pacing of the book I was drawn to keep turning the page to find out what happened next.
I don’t want to give away any spoilers, but I really appreciated how once they are found out their affair changed and forced both of them to look at life differently. I also appreciated that those that found out didn’t only provide judgement, they provided support and friendship too.
I liked the ending for the two of them. It felt authentic and focussed on themselves first, which I think must be harder to express and write successfully.
I love how Benson always includes a veritable array of characters who identify as LGBTQ+ as side characters in the narrative and this book is no different in that regard. Frazer’s friendship group and their insistence on setting her up provided some much-needed light-heartedness at times. I also really enjoyed the scenes with Frazer’s sister, especially when she has her own big reveal.
I felt that Benson’s depiction of one of the high-risk patients, Jack, a pregnant trans man, was done in a sensitive, engaging way that would encourage lots of people to think differently about someone facing this situation (or to think about it for the first time perhaps).
I’d definitely encourage romance fans and fans of character-driven books to give this a try.
I received an e-ARC directly from the author in exchange for an honest review.
Both Frazer and Cora are heads of department at a hospital in Perth, Australia. Frazer heads up the midwifery department and has been fighting to introduce a new programme for high-risk patients, to improve their lives in the lead up to the birth of their babies and put them in good stead afterwards as people. As you’d expect that comes with budgetary fights and it’s suggested that she gets Cora’s support for the project as she’s head of the social work department.
Frazer buries herself in her work. She’s had a bad break-up and isn’t looking for anything serious despite her friend's attempts at convincing her otherwise. Cora is married and is in the process of discovering she’s in an emotionally abusive marriage. As they begin to work together they discover they have an attraction to each other that neither was expecting, especially Cora who has never been attracted to a woman before. The affair is complicated by the fact that Cora is married to Frazer’s boss.
Neither are proud of their relationship, but recognise the power it has over them. Whilst I didn’t always agree with how they went about things, I was so absorbed in the writing and pacing of the book I was drawn to keep turning the page to find out what happened next.
I don’t want to give away any spoilers, but I really appreciated how once they are found out their affair changed and forced both of them to look at life differently. I also appreciated that those that found out didn’t only provide judgement, they provided support and friendship too.
I liked the ending for the two of them. It felt authentic and focussed on themselves first, which I think must be harder to express and write successfully.
I love how Benson always includes a veritable array of characters who identify as LGBTQ+ as side characters in the narrative and this book is no different in that regard. Frazer’s friendship group and their insistence on setting her up provided some much-needed light-heartedness at times. I also really enjoyed the scenes with Frazer’s sister, especially when she has her own big reveal.
I felt that Benson’s depiction of one of the high-risk patients, Jack, a pregnant trans man, was done in a sensitive, engaging way that would encourage lots of people to think differently about someone facing this situation (or to think about it for the first time perhaps).
I’d definitely encourage romance fans and fans of character-driven books to give this a try.
I received an e-ARC directly from the author in exchange for an honest review.
May 17, 2019
Infidelity is at the centre of this book. As much as I don’t fancy infidelity it’s still an intriguing read and had me engaged once I’ve started reading the book
November 9, 2017
This was a mixed read for me. I was rolling along enjoying G. Benson’s flair for writing, pace and brilliant sense of humour for the first third of the book but found I was questioning the actions and reactions of the main characters as the story progressed.
Frazer is charming and dedicated in her efforts to open a free clinic for at risk obstetrics patients. She is also on the rebound from a workplace romance which ended badly. The funding needed for her program is being blocked by her boss, Alec. Frazer decides to achieve her goals by bringing his wife Cora, a social worker in the hospital into the planning process. As Cora and Frazer work together they find that their budding friendship begins to develop into something more. The problem is Frazer has sworn off workplace relationships and Cora is married. What to do, what to do?
First off I have to say this relationship is one of the hottest and most entertaining pairings I have read in a while. Cora needs a friend and she finds one in wise-cracking Frazer. As they spend more and more time together they relax and begin to enjoy their times and drinks together. Too much drinking while Alec is out of town leads to a really great sex scene between Frazer and Cora. Morning after regrets by Frazer for sleeping with a co-worker and a married woman combine with morning after regrets for Cora for cheating on the husband she wants to leave and who is cruel and controlling. It doesn't feel like cheating to me when there is no love left in a relationship on both sides but maybe that’s just me.
My issues with this rollercoaster emotional ride revolve around Cora and her reactions to the events in her life. Emotional abuse is a reality and her low self esteem thanks to this relationship does cloud her judgement. What felt overblown for me was the guilt she carries around both for cheating on her husband and for cheating with a woman when she is pretty sure she is straight. It is Cora who can’t help herself from “canoodling” (love that word) with Frazer at every opportunity and it’s Frazer who she leans on when she cannot face another evening at home with Alec. She knows she needs a divorce and yet she is filled with guilt and remorse. If the author’s intent was to have me shaking my fist and shouting at Cora to leave the guy and get on with your life then she succeeded. My eye rolling responses to the actions and reactions of the two mains overshadowed the other story threads going on in this novel. I did like the scenes in the clinic and would have preferred more development in this area.
A quality author who missed the mark for this reader but still left me with the warm and fuzzy emotional responses I have come to expect when I read her work.
3.5 Stars
ARC received with thanks from Ylva Publishing via NetGalley
Frazer is charming and dedicated in her efforts to open a free clinic for at risk obstetrics patients. She is also on the rebound from a workplace romance which ended badly. The funding needed for her program is being blocked by her boss, Alec. Frazer decides to achieve her goals by bringing his wife Cora, a social worker in the hospital into the planning process. As Cora and Frazer work together they find that their budding friendship begins to develop into something more. The problem is Frazer has sworn off workplace relationships and Cora is married. What to do, what to do?
First off I have to say this relationship is one of the hottest and most entertaining pairings I have read in a while. Cora needs a friend and she finds one in wise-cracking Frazer. As they spend more and more time together they relax and begin to enjoy their times and drinks together. Too much drinking while Alec is out of town leads to a really great sex scene between Frazer and Cora. Morning after regrets by Frazer for sleeping with a co-worker and a married woman combine with morning after regrets for Cora for cheating on the husband she wants to leave and who is cruel and controlling. It doesn't feel like cheating to me when there is no love left in a relationship on both sides but maybe that’s just me.
My issues with this rollercoaster emotional ride revolve around Cora and her reactions to the events in her life. Emotional abuse is a reality and her low self esteem thanks to this relationship does cloud her judgement. What felt overblown for me was the guilt she carries around both for cheating on her husband and for cheating with a woman when she is pretty sure she is straight. It is Cora who can’t help herself from “canoodling” (love that word) with Frazer at every opportunity and it’s Frazer who she leans on when she cannot face another evening at home with Alec. She knows she needs a divorce and yet she is filled with guilt and remorse. If the author’s intent was to have me shaking my fist and shouting at Cora to leave the guy and get on with your life then she succeeded. My eye rolling responses to the actions and reactions of the two mains overshadowed the other story threads going on in this novel. I did like the scenes in the clinic and would have preferred more development in this area.
A quality author who missed the mark for this reader but still left me with the warm and fuzzy emotional responses I have come to expect when I read her work.
3.5 Stars
ARC received with thanks from Ylva Publishing via NetGalley
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
May 21, 2023
3.5 stars. I hope Goodreads introduces fractions for the stars at some point.
I went into this with a lot of trepidation, as I think cheating in all its forms is horrible. That being said, I understood where Cora was coming from and didn't really blame her all that much. She'd clearly moved on from her husband a long time ago, but the relationship was emotionally abusive, and I understand why she had trouble actually leaving him. I'm glad she did in the end. I'm happy she found herself again and did something just for her. In the end, despite her cheating, I was actually rooting for her.
Frazer, on the other hand, I have way less sympathy for. She knew Cora was married, but she didn't know their issues, so she was quite happy to, in her eyes, break up a perfectly fine marriage. She should have felt all the guilt she did and more.
Another thing I take issue with is that the affair itself seemed just physical. I didn't buy the supposed emotional connection between them. The time jump didn't help, nor the fact that we hardly see them interacting. We don't really even see the affair. And they don't even see each other for a pretty substantial portion towards the end of the book.
It was well written, but I'm not sure they should have ended up together, unfortunately.
I went into this with a lot of trepidation, as I think cheating in all its forms is horrible. That being said, I understood where Cora was coming from and didn't really blame her all that much. She'd clearly moved on from her husband a long time ago, but the relationship was emotionally abusive, and I understand why she had trouble actually leaving him. I'm glad she did in the end. I'm happy she found herself again and did something just for her. In the end, despite her cheating, I was actually rooting for her.
Frazer, on the other hand, I have way less sympathy for. She knew Cora was married, but she didn't know their issues, so she was quite happy to, in her eyes, break up a perfectly fine marriage. She should have felt all the guilt she did and more.
Another thing I take issue with is that the affair itself seemed just physical. I didn't buy the supposed emotional connection between them. The time jump didn't help, nor the fact that we hardly see them interacting. We don't really even see the affair. And they don't even see each other for a pretty substantial portion towards the end of the book.
It was well written, but I'm not sure they should have ended up together, unfortunately.
July 23, 2016
I'm still processing my thoughts on this one and will write a much more complete review on my site but I think I'd give it 3.5 stars. I'm rounding up because there was a lot I liked about this book. It's not a standard romance novel and it deals with some moral issues that will likely turn some folks off before they get more than halfway through. I didn't have a problem with most of what happened in the story line and think this is probably a lot more realistic than most romance novels - which I really like. The other thing that pleased me was that the two main characters are women of color and an important secondary character is a trans man. There are some serious issues discussed and portrayed and I appreciate an author who not only addresses them but does it well.
I don't want to give any spoilers away so one of the only not-so-positive things I can go into is that I felt like the resolution happened too quickly and too easily. Even with that, I think it's a solid story and the author's voice and style appeal to me. I loved her first book, liked this one quite a bit, and I'll definitely read her next, no matter what it's about.
I don't want to give any spoilers away so one of the only not-so-positive things I can go into is that I felt like the resolution happened too quickly and too easily. Even with that, I think it's a solid story and the author's voice and style appeal to me. I loved her first book, liked this one quite a bit, and I'll definitely read her next, no matter what it's about.
October 15, 2017
Ok wait, I would like to be very clear that I’ve given this a 5 not because I tolerate “cheating”, actually it’s one of my trigger/pet peeves. That’s also the reason why I kind of avoided this book at first.
So this story is really familiar with me, I kind of like “Tia”
If you know what I mean.
Cora is been abused emotionally by her husband Alec. She’s been with him since she was 18 right? Or 21? All I know she’s 34. So, they’re together for so long. She have endured it, she actually planned to divorce him for some time but it was all just a plan until Frazer.
Again, that’s my question. Why always wait for a “third party” to have courage and break it up?
Is it because of the safety blanket?
Cora for me is very submissive. When her friend Lisa told her to go have an affair with someone she kind of did it, when Lisa again told to kiss Frazer when they broke up she again did it.
Frazer, Frazer! She’s confident/arrogant depending on who’s looking. She got good friends that doesn’t gave up on her no matter what she does. Actually, she’s lucky to have them but I felt like she always take them for granted. Yeah they’re annoying but that’s what friend do right? She also got a sister who’s again annoying but I can see that her sister really loves her.
It actually pisses me off every time she blows them away.
She’s good at her job and her patients that’s where I like her.
Together they make an interesting pairing. Cora is the “walk out person” she’s always walking out if the situation gets tough. Frazer, she’s the “Avoid Queen” if she doesn’t want to see you. She’ll surely avoid you like a plague.
I’m amazed with G Benson’s writing actually one more and she’ll be on my go to author. You’ll be hook no matter what the story she writes. That’s why it’s a 5 for me.
Story 4stars. :)
So this story is really familiar with me, I kind of like “Tia”
If you know what I mean.
Cora is been abused emotionally by her husband Alec. She’s been with him since she was 18 right? Or 21? All I know she’s 34. So, they’re together for so long. She have endured it, she actually planned to divorce him for some time but it was all just a plan until Frazer.
Again, that’s my question. Why always wait for a “third party” to have courage and break it up?
Is it because of the safety blanket?
Cora for me is very submissive. When her friend Lisa told her to go have an affair with someone she kind of did it, when Lisa again told to kiss Frazer when they broke up she again did it.
Frazer, Frazer! She’s confident/arrogant depending on who’s looking. She got good friends that doesn’t gave up on her no matter what she does. Actually, she’s lucky to have them but I felt like she always take them for granted. Yeah they’re annoying but that’s what friend do right? She also got a sister who’s again annoying but I can see that her sister really loves her.
It actually pisses me off every time she blows them away.
She’s good at her job and her patients that’s where I like her.
Together they make an interesting pairing. Cora is the “walk out person” she’s always walking out if the situation gets tough. Frazer, she’s the “Avoid Queen” if she doesn’t want to see you. She’ll surely avoid you like a plague.
I’m amazed with G Benson’s writing actually one more and she’ll be on my go to author. You’ll be hook no matter what the story she writes. That’s why it’s a 5 for me.
Story 4stars. :)
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
August 10, 2024
3.25 stars. I have mixed feelings about this book. I think it’s a good story, I liked Frazer and Cora well enough, and I loved their joint program for new parents in need. Unfortunately, I thought the “we’re just friends” thing got super repetitive, and I was hoping for a lot more romantic feels. Frazer and Cora were so cute together when they first started hanging out, and ughhh I just wanted more of that!! G. Benson’s writing is great as ever though, and I’ll definitely be reading more from her.
January 7, 2020
Solid writing, story, and characterization. I was a little wary going in, but everything, from the infidelity to everything else, was handled very well, and sensitively. I didn't fall in love exactly, but I had a great time reading it, nevertheless. Definitely an author I want to see more from.
July 12, 2018
It seems that (for most of the reviews) G. Benson lost a star from her All the Little Moments to her Flinging It. I too gave 5 stars to the first and 4 to the latter.
I totally agree with all the reviewers who say that G. Benson is a really good author. Flinging It is well written, engaging, pleasant and even brilliant.
There is, however, a frustrating note pervading all the novel.
But before I say what that note is in my opinion, I want to say what it is not.
It is not the affair. It is not the cheating.
I venture on thin ice, as everyone is entitled to his/her own viewpoint on the matter, but, to me, even marriage has boundaries that should never be trespassed. Abuse especially of any kind, not only physical, should never be tolerated.
Here Alec, the husband, is abusing Cora psychologically and emotionally for a long time. That fully justify her for seeking divorce. As she, as so many abused people, doesn’t have the strength to fully pursue that goal alone, an affair with another person, a woman in this case, could even have been the right push to make it happen.
However, this is not what happens.
Although they are quite two sweeties, both Cora and Frazier are, by deliberate choice of the author, weak, spineless somehow. And here we have it, the frustrating note. Because every reader likes to read about strong characters. Nobody likes weaklings. And that’s also a brave choice in this book. To talk about two persons who stumble, who have yet to find the way to grow up.
Cora and Frazier claim to be friends (and to feel the loss of their friendship when separated). I don’t know if the author meant them to be friend or not. But I found no friendship between them.
Yes there is a sort of unjudging, relaxing “comfort zone” between them, aided by physical attraction and (too often, let me say!) by a large amount of alcohol.
But not friendship. Friends talk to each other. Friends are sincere, even in front of hardships.
Cora and Frazier have real friends who goad them to face the reality of their relationship. But they don’t behave likewise between themselves. They do not communicate.
(So, dear author, I’m still giving you four stars because I liked your novel, but I also tell you, you’re elegantly giving us the same old lesfic pet peeve: two main characters who don’t communicate.)
Only at the very end, . A tad too late to make the reading completely pleasant.
I think this story pays a certain price for choosing realism in exchange of the readers’ full satisfaction.
I totally agree with all the reviewers who say that G. Benson is a really good author. Flinging It is well written, engaging, pleasant and even brilliant.
There is, however, a frustrating note pervading all the novel.
But before I say what that note is in my opinion, I want to say what it is not.
It is not the affair. It is not the cheating.
I venture on thin ice, as everyone is entitled to his/her own viewpoint on the matter, but, to me, even marriage has boundaries that should never be trespassed. Abuse especially of any kind, not only physical, should never be tolerated.
Here Alec, the husband, is abusing Cora psychologically and emotionally for a long time. That fully justify her for seeking divorce. As she, as so many abused people, doesn’t have the strength to fully pursue that goal alone, an affair with another person, a woman in this case, could even have been the right push to make it happen.
However, this is not what happens.
Although they are quite two sweeties, both Cora and Frazier are, by deliberate choice of the author, weak, spineless somehow. And here we have it, the frustrating note. Because every reader likes to read about strong characters. Nobody likes weaklings. And that’s also a brave choice in this book. To talk about two persons who stumble, who have yet to find the way to grow up.
Cora and Frazier claim to be friends (and to feel the loss of their friendship when separated). I don’t know if the author meant them to be friend or not. But I found no friendship between them.
Yes there is a sort of unjudging, relaxing “comfort zone” between them, aided by physical attraction and (too often, let me say!) by a large amount of alcohol.
But not friendship. Friends talk to each other. Friends are sincere, even in front of hardships.
Cora and Frazier have real friends who goad them to face the reality of their relationship. But they don’t behave likewise between themselves. They do not communicate.
(So, dear author, I’m still giving you four stars because I liked your novel, but I also tell you, you’re elegantly giving us the same old lesfic pet peeve: two main characters who don’t communicate.)
Only at the very end, . A tad too late to make the reading completely pleasant.
I think this story pays a certain price for choosing realism in exchange of the readers’ full satisfaction.
October 30, 2016
G Benson’s writing is masterfully good. As with All the Little Moments, Flinging It tackles heavy subject matter in a way that isn’t overwhelmingly angsty or depressing and is actually very funny at times. The story is well plotted, the pacing is perfect and I found myself fully invested even when I wasn’t comfortable with how Cora and Frazer were handling their relationship.
Full review here: http://www.thelesbianreview.com/fling...
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August 28, 2016
Frazer is the head of the midwifery department in a hospital. She is desperate to start a new program that will help hard to reach and teen parents. Cora is the head of social work in the same hospital. She is married to Alec the finance “god”, in his own mind anyway. Cora's budget has been increased so Frazer decides to see if they can work together on her project, even though she doesn't much care for Cora. As they work together Frazer gets to know the real Cora and realizes not all is as it seems....
I really enjoyed both of these characters. Frazer is happy and full of hope. Cora is floundering in her marriage. She is full of doubts and regret but excited about the new project and her friendship with Frazer. Together they go through good times and bad then good. I loved the conflict Cora has with Alec and how she handles it in the end. The story line featuring Jack was also very well done. It deals with a whole lot of things most people would never think of. It was a life lesson that really made me think. This book is full of emotions and drama and is a very good read.
I really enjoyed both of these characters. Frazer is happy and full of hope. Cora is floundering in her marriage. She is full of doubts and regret but excited about the new project and her friendship with Frazer. Together they go through good times and bad then good. I loved the conflict Cora has with Alec and how she handles it in the end. The story line featuring Jack was also very well done. It deals with a whole lot of things most people would never think of. It was a life lesson that really made me think. This book is full of emotions and drama and is a very good read.
February 24, 2018
Won't be everyone's cup of tea with the infidelity storyline but I enjoyed reading about characters who were less than perfect while very relatable and likeable. The angst is always nicely balanced with humour.
August 22, 2016
G Benson Knows how to write a book let me tell you! She writes about real emotion, real life problems and real life Romance and love!
I loved this book and hated it at the same time! I wanted Cora to stand up to her arrogant and antagonistic husband... Leave him... Follow her heart!
And then Frazer and her inability to just say how she feels.... Especially when it comes to Cora she just gives her what she wants and doesn't rock the boat!
I say these things but I realise now that I have finished the book that these things are what kept me reading and hoping for the HEA these characters really deserved!
The subplot about Jack the Pregnant Transgender Teen was fantastic. Handled well with lots of emotion and understanding!
I hope the author does another novelette like she did after her last novel to give us a little more!
4 stars because as much as I was frustrated with certain aspects it was those aspects that kept me intrigued and continued to read on to find the lovely and warm parts that I do love from this author.
I loved this book and hated it at the same time! I wanted Cora to stand up to her arrogant and antagonistic husband... Leave him... Follow her heart!
And then Frazer and her inability to just say how she feels.... Especially when it comes to Cora she just gives her what she wants and doesn't rock the boat!
I say these things but I realise now that I have finished the book that these things are what kept me reading and hoping for the HEA these characters really deserved!
The subplot about Jack the Pregnant Transgender Teen was fantastic. Handled well with lots of emotion and understanding!
I hope the author does another novelette like she did after her last novel to give us a little more!
4 stars because as much as I was frustrated with certain aspects it was those aspects that kept me intrigued and continued to read on to find the lovely and warm parts that I do love from this author.
March 11, 2017
I am a hard sell when it comes to books with infidelity which is why I am always cautious when picking one up to read. I find that I just loose so much respect for the characters making it hard to really enjoy the happy ending. So I was pleasantly surprised when I didn't feel that way in this book. I think it was the point of views and the story of the two characters just made me feel like the friend watching my friend make a bad decision but wanted to support them to make the right decision in the end. I really could feel Cora's pain and suffocation from her relationship which I thought was very powerfully written.
I found this to be a really good book and enjoyed the ride of Cora and Frazer.
I have rated this book 4.5 stars but upgraded to 5 for the Aussie setting
I found this to be a really good book and enjoyed the ride of Cora and Frazer.
I have rated this book 4.5 stars but upgraded to 5 for the Aussie setting
September 16, 2016
I was a little bit wary of this book when I picked it up, as the synopsis and reviews make it clear these women get together whilst one of them is still married. But I soon realised this was no happy marriage, for either partner. Hell, this was no partnership. The husband was not walking around in a happy little bubble that the affair would burst with a vicious, sickening pop. He was a controlling, uninterested douche. So though cheating was still kind of icky, it didn't make for an uncomfortable read. As much as cheating is wrong, I couldn't judge Cora, or Frazer too harshly.
What was kind of uncomfortable was Cora questioning whether the affair alone was the reason for her marriage failing, when previous to that she had already shared her thoughts and reasons for her desire to leave her husband, for their marriage to be done with. It seemed a bit odd that she would then completely blame herself for the state of things between her and her husband in this way. I understand that she had been emotionally manipulated to think pretty much everything at fault with their marriage lay at her feet, but to suddenly forget she'd already asked for a separation, that things were already beyond repair for her, seemed a bit like trying to convince us - the readers - that she felt bad about the affair, without really getting into the nitty gritty of her thoughts and emotions. We were constantly told she felt bad, yet she didn't act that way. If anything, it was Frazer who reacted in the more believable way in this situation. I felt her guilt, but I was only told of Cora's guilt, as if the author didn't truly believe she should feel guilty, but was adding it in to keep any uncomfortable readers from thinking Cora was too blasé about it. Maybe I was over thinking, but it just irked me a little.
Apart from that, I did enjoy the book. The characters were sympathetic, though I did prefer Frazer to Cora. Unfortunately Cora lost a little sympathy from me when it became quite evident she was using Frazer as a prop, as a distraction (she quite clearly admits it too). Her reasons are valid, and Frazer was fairly aware this was the case (as frustrating as her acceptance of that was), but it did leave me feeling closer to Frazer in the whole mixed up few months of their affair.
Of course, things happen, time passes, and decisions are finally made that bring the book to a healthier conclusion, but I was left feeling a bit flat by the ending. It seemed rushed to me. It was skimmed over, and disappointed me.
Having said that, the book wasn't badly written, it was a decent romance with developed characters and an interesting background. The scenes between the leads were suitably fraught with an undercurrent of desire, and this was well portrayed when they finally allowed themselves to indulge in it. The book just didn't quite tick all the boxes for me, and the quick fix ending dropped a 4 star rating down to 3.
What was kind of uncomfortable was Cora questioning whether the affair alone was the reason for her marriage failing, when previous to that she had already shared her thoughts and reasons for her desire to leave her husband, for their marriage to be done with. It seemed a bit odd that she would then completely blame herself for the state of things between her and her husband in this way. I understand that she had been emotionally manipulated to think pretty much everything at fault with their marriage lay at her feet, but to suddenly forget she'd already asked for a separation, that things were already beyond repair for her, seemed a bit like trying to convince us - the readers - that she felt bad about the affair, without really getting into the nitty gritty of her thoughts and emotions. We were constantly told she felt bad, yet she didn't act that way. If anything, it was Frazer who reacted in the more believable way in this situation. I felt her guilt, but I was only told of Cora's guilt, as if the author didn't truly believe she should feel guilty, but was adding it in to keep any uncomfortable readers from thinking Cora was too blasé about it. Maybe I was over thinking, but it just irked me a little.
Apart from that, I did enjoy the book. The characters were sympathetic, though I did prefer Frazer to Cora. Unfortunately Cora lost a little sympathy from me when it became quite evident she was using Frazer as a prop, as a distraction (she quite clearly admits it too). Her reasons are valid, and Frazer was fairly aware this was the case (as frustrating as her acceptance of that was), but it did leave me feeling closer to Frazer in the whole mixed up few months of their affair.
Of course, things happen, time passes, and decisions are finally made that bring the book to a healthier conclusion, but I was left feeling a bit flat by the ending. It seemed rushed to me. It was skimmed over, and disappointed me.
Having said that, the book wasn't badly written, it was a decent romance with developed characters and an interesting background. The scenes between the leads were suitably fraught with an undercurrent of desire, and this was well portrayed when they finally allowed themselves to indulge in it. The book just didn't quite tick all the boxes for me, and the quick fix ending dropped a 4 star rating down to 3.
July 25, 2016
*ARC provided by Netgalley and the publisher for an honest review*
When I read the discription of this book I thought to myself, "I doubt I am going to be a big fan of this affair.", but I decided to read it anyway because I have yet to be disappointed by this author. To say that I'm a fan is an understatement. I felt like the author saw all my misgivings going into the story and thought of ways to resolve them, she even resolved the ones that developed while I was reading.
This book is about an affair but it is also about friendship and family and I love that no one in the story condoned the affair even if they didn't condemn it and Cora and Frazer's friends called them on their bullsh***. Another thing that I liked was that the author addressed the excessive drinking, I have read quite a few book where the main character always has a beer or glass of wine in their hand and most times it's lucky if they stick to the one, the author showed that she was aware that it is not normal to rely so heavily on alcohol and to always be hungover by making her characters conscious of their need to stop relying on the alcohol.
Besides these things, I loved the dialogue and the discriptive manner in which G Benson writes. Her writing isn't something that you read, it something that you experience because of how vivid her discriptions are. I can't say that I didn't have any faults with the characters because, I did but their faults for me weren't enough to outweigh this authors stunning style of writing and the fact that she made me come to love all of the characters, even the adulterous ones.
When I read the discription of this book I thought to myself, "I doubt I am going to be a big fan of this affair.", but I decided to read it anyway because I have yet to be disappointed by this author. To say that I'm a fan is an understatement. I felt like the author saw all my misgivings going into the story and thought of ways to resolve them, she even resolved the ones that developed while I was reading.
This book is about an affair but it is also about friendship and family and I love that no one in the story condoned the affair even if they didn't condemn it and Cora and Frazer's friends called them on their bullsh***. Another thing that I liked was that the author addressed the excessive drinking, I have read quite a few book where the main character always has a beer or glass of wine in their hand and most times it's lucky if they stick to the one, the author showed that she was aware that it is not normal to rely so heavily on alcohol and to always be hungover by making her characters conscious of their need to stop relying on the alcohol.
Besides these things, I loved the dialogue and the discriptive manner in which G Benson writes. Her writing isn't something that you read, it something that you experience because of how vivid her discriptions are. I can't say that I didn't have any faults with the characters because, I did but their faults for me weren't enough to outweigh this authors stunning style of writing and the fact that she made me come to love all of the characters, even the adulterous ones.
August 5, 2016
ARC received from Netgalley in exchange for an honest review.
I've read "All the little moments" by this author and rated as 5 stars so I didn't doubt to read this one even though the book blurb didn't appeal to me that much. The main idea of this book is an interracial affair between a lesbian and a straight colleague woman who's married to their boss. Yes, I know, recipe for disaster. However, there is so much more to this book than the affair itself. The book also touches issues like prejudices against transgender people, family expectations and state support for pregnant persons in Australia. Of course, there is some good romance and hot scenes thrown in between so the readers who are just looking for a typical lesbian romance won't be disappointed either.
The story is written from both main characters' point of view so the reader can immerse themselves into their feelings and struggles. Ms. Benson does an excellent job in her description of the angst and self-doubt that fill her main characters that you can actually empathise with them. The secondary characters, especially Jack and Tia, add not only credibility to the main story but they bring to life an interesting sub-plot.
There are a few editing errors but nothing too annoying. Overall, a very good read if you are into lesbian romances with a bit of substance.
I've read "All the little moments" by this author and rated as 5 stars so I didn't doubt to read this one even though the book blurb didn't appeal to me that much. The main idea of this book is an interracial affair between a lesbian and a straight colleague woman who's married to their boss. Yes, I know, recipe for disaster. However, there is so much more to this book than the affair itself. The book also touches issues like prejudices against transgender people, family expectations and state support for pregnant persons in Australia. Of course, there is some good romance and hot scenes thrown in between so the readers who are just looking for a typical lesbian romance won't be disappointed either.
The story is written from both main characters' point of view so the reader can immerse themselves into their feelings and struggles. Ms. Benson does an excellent job in her description of the angst and self-doubt that fill her main characters that you can actually empathise with them. The secondary characters, especially Jack and Tia, add not only credibility to the main story but they bring to life an interesting sub-plot.
There are a few editing errors but nothing too annoying. Overall, a very good read if you are into lesbian romances with a bit of substance.
February 19, 2017
Infidelity is never my fav thing to read about, but occasionally it seems justified. Here it works. There's a very nice slow build where you get to know and like both leads separately. Then they get together and it's like skyrockets in flight (but not in a hokey way, in a oh my gosh I hope I find that, pretty please way).
Very good second outing. G Benson is definitely an author to watch with stories to savor. :)
NetGalley ARC received for an honest review.
Very good second outing. G Benson is definitely an author to watch with stories to savor. :)
NetGalley ARC received for an honest review.
July 2, 2018
OK, OK, there I was being swayed by a slightly contentious summary - do I really want to read about a married woman having an affaire... Well, it turns out I do - driven by a superb cavalry of supporting figures the pair live through pain and guilt that is genuine and strong. A really resilient book that is worthy of G Benson. Thank you yet again.
May 15, 2019
Oh…My…God!
When I heard G Benson talking about her books at ELLCon, I had this feeling I was just gonna love them…and I wasn’t wrong!
Flinging It was my first G Benson read, and it was AMAZING!
There wasn’t a single moment in this book that I wasn’t obsessing about, everything was perfect. The characters were just everything, Frazer the midwife, and Cora the social worker, and their complicated situation.
So, reading this I honestly felt like I was privy to some exclusive, intimate world the two of them built, and I knew things other characters didn’t, which just made this story all the more exciting to read. It was delicious, all the secrets, and intimate moments that Frazer and Cora had to steal, whilst adding excitement and danger that they might get caught. I really got invested, and didn’t want it to end.
As with all good stories, G Benson packs in the drama with this one. Tackling difficult subjects, and exploring very realistic situations which I could relate to so I think I just loved it all that bit more. (There is hope!)
I loved the subplot too. Introducing Jack as a character was truly unique, and amazing thing to do. You will all love Jack so much, such an inspiring guy.
Anyway, back to Cora and Frazer! Eeeeekkkk I just can’t get enough of them, and trying to describe how seeing their relationship develop in this book made me feel, I just can’t find the right words but it was fantastic.
I highly recommend this book, and loved every second of it!
When I heard G Benson talking about her books at ELLCon, I had this feeling I was just gonna love them…and I wasn’t wrong!
Flinging It was my first G Benson read, and it was AMAZING!
There wasn’t a single moment in this book that I wasn’t obsessing about, everything was perfect. The characters were just everything, Frazer the midwife, and Cora the social worker, and their complicated situation.
So, reading this I honestly felt like I was privy to some exclusive, intimate world the two of them built, and I knew things other characters didn’t, which just made this story all the more exciting to read. It was delicious, all the secrets, and intimate moments that Frazer and Cora had to steal, whilst adding excitement and danger that they might get caught. I really got invested, and didn’t want it to end.
As with all good stories, G Benson packs in the drama with this one. Tackling difficult subjects, and exploring very realistic situations which I could relate to so I think I just loved it all that bit more. (There is hope!)
I loved the subplot too. Introducing Jack as a character was truly unique, and amazing thing to do. You will all love Jack so much, such an inspiring guy.
Anyway, back to Cora and Frazer! Eeeeekkkk I just can’t get enough of them, and trying to describe how seeing their relationship develop in this book made me feel, I just can’t find the right words but it was fantastic.
I highly recommend this book, and loved every second of it!
August 22, 2018
When I said I was going to binge all G. Benson work, I thought I was half joking.
But she has such a way with words that I was reading like an addict craving for her fix and less that 2 days later, all books are read ... I may be slightly embarrassed, especially since my holidays are over and being back at work, I'm supposed to be... eh, working and I don't think that describe the last hour. >_>
Back to the book.
It's great. I like it when cheating is not just cheating. It's messy, complex, kind of desperate and also passionate. The writer is really good at showing all that complexity, and even if some time you just feel the urge to shake the main characters for being so slow!!! on the uptake (like most of their friends and colleagues), it does reach the point of perfection.
Silly smile on my face, thanks G. Benson, I sooo have to go back to work!
But she has such a way with words that I was reading like an addict craving for her fix and less that 2 days later, all books are read ... I may be slightly embarrassed, especially since my holidays are over and being back at work, I'm supposed to be... eh, working and I don't think that describe the last hour. >_>
Back to the book.
It's great. I like it when cheating is not just cheating. It's messy, complex, kind of desperate and also passionate. The writer is really good at showing all that complexity, and even if some time you just feel the urge to shake the main characters for being so slow!!! on the uptake (like most of their friends and colleagues), it does reach the point of perfection.
Silly smile on my face, thanks G. Benson, I sooo have to go back to work!
October 28, 2017
Cheating as a subject matter - what good will ever come of that? ... I was not so sure when I picked up this book, but I thought the blurb did come across as honest.
First of all, I have to give kudos to Benson. She really is a masterful writer. I can't say much more than that. How did she make me like the characters, when I despised their actions so much, especially in the middle of the book? Honestly, I sometimes wanted to grab them and throw their sorry asses against the wall ( aggressive much?).
But I could honestly empathize with them, even to a small part understand why they acted like the did.
So all in all, if you're up for a rough ride, not just a sweet as you please romance, then go for it.
First of all, I have to give kudos to Benson. She really is a masterful writer. I can't say much more than that. How did she make me like the characters, when I despised their actions so much, especially in the middle of the book? Honestly, I sometimes wanted to grab them and throw their sorry asses against the wall ( aggressive much?).
But I could honestly empathize with them, even to a small part understand why they acted like the did.
So all in all, if you're up for a rough ride, not just a sweet as you please romance, then go for it.
January 1, 2017
I really enjoyed this one. Nice humor, messy story in the sense that life is messy.
Just with her other book, the one thing I didn't like is that the 'baddy' was rather underdeveloped and cliché. Could have done more here and that would have made it even more enjoyable.
Just with her other book, the one thing I didn't like is that the 'baddy' was rather underdeveloped and cliché. Could have done more here and that would have made it even more enjoyable.
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