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It's All Your Fault A Survivor's Guide to Narcissism
You walk on eggshells. You doubt your own memory. You never seem to do anything right to please your partner. It may not be you; you may be in a relationship with a narcissist. This book will help you learn what a narcissist is. You'll learn what tools and tricks narcissists use to control you and how others see you. You'll also learn what to do once you get out of the relationship and steps you can take to help you heal. This book was written to help anyone in and healing from an abusive relationship. It's written from a very personal perspective on living with a narcissist. I hope this book helps you. I hope you find the strength in your feet to stand strong.
46 pages, Kindle Edition
Published July 24, 2016
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About the author
Jennifer M. Baldwin
11 books2 followersJennifer Baldwin (1977- ) was born in Columbus, Ohio , grew up in Philadelphia ,Pennsylvania and moved to Missouri 2002. She has been a summer camp counselor, music teacher, animal assisted therapist, movie extra, daycare teacher, credit card advisor, and distributor for an Mlm company, and a call center representative. But, Mom and author are still the best titles she's ever had. At least until professional Disney guest becomes a thing. Or corgi snuggler.
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August 6, 2016
A must read if you even think your relationship is in trouble.
Definitely a five star reading experience. It said and explained a lot of things that were a problem in my relationship.
Page after page I saw the problems. Oh how I wish this information in its easy to read and understand format had been available 15 years ago!
Definitely a five star reading experience. It said and explained a lot of things that were a problem in my relationship.
Page after page I saw the problems. Oh how I wish this information in its easy to read and understand format had been available 15 years ago!
August 24, 2017
When the student is ready the teacher will come
I believe when a person is ready to hear the truth about narcissistic abuse, this type of personal, easy to read straight forward information and encouragement is going to help many struggling souls to see the light at the end of their tunnel.
I believe when a person is ready to hear the truth about narcissistic abuse, this type of personal, easy to read straight forward information and encouragement is going to help many struggling souls to see the light at the end of their tunnel.
December 4, 2018
Good book
Short but very to the point, a book I can always go back too. Very recommended. Like how she explains too.
Short but very to the point, a book I can always go back too. Very recommended. Like how she explains too.
November 26, 2018
Informative and Engaging
This book about life with a narcissist was personable and entertaining while discussing a dark and destructive relationship dynamic which occurs more often than we realize.
This book about life with a narcissist was personable and entertaining while discussing a dark and destructive relationship dynamic which occurs more often than we realize.
July 4, 2018
This "book" is really more of a super long blog post explaining how easy it is to get taken in by a narcissist, how to get yourself out of the relationship, and the importance of loving yourself and embracing your own worth.
I read it in about an hour (less than 60 pages on the Kindle cloud feature). It's a great start for someone who had no idea they were dealing with a narcissist, or who does not know how to identify one. This had a lot of errors that could have been caught by a professional proofreader though, which is why it lost a star in my review.
Recommended for the teen children of narcissists actually, because it doesn't have any bad words, it's easy to understand, and there aren't any books targeted to the abused teen child of narcissists.
I read it in about an hour (less than 60 pages on the Kindle cloud feature). It's a great start for someone who had no idea they were dealing with a narcissist, or who does not know how to identify one. This had a lot of errors that could have been caught by a professional proofreader though, which is why it lost a star in my review.
Recommended for the teen children of narcissists actually, because it doesn't have any bad words, it's easy to understand, and there aren't any books targeted to the abused teen child of narcissists.
December 14, 2017
Amazing read!
I’m just getting out of a failed marriage. I’m left feeling insane and like everything is my fault. This book pretty much just spelled out my whole marriage. It gave me a great sense of relief. I now feel even more like I know what I need to do and that I made the right decision. Thank you!
I’m just getting out of a failed marriage. I’m left feeling insane and like everything is my fault. This book pretty much just spelled out my whole marriage. It gave me a great sense of relief. I now feel even more like I know what I need to do and that I made the right decision. Thank you!
July 26, 2016
A powerful read
Truer words were never spoken. A well written book about a very hard subject. If you only get one thing from this, let it be this: you are worthy and deserve accordingly. It saddens me that so many people go through this on a daily basis and I praise the author for having the guts to talk about it and the bravery to reach out to others in hopes of helping them.
Truer words were never spoken. A well written book about a very hard subject. If you only get one thing from this, let it be this: you are worthy and deserve accordingly. It saddens me that so many people go through this on a daily basis and I praise the author for having the guts to talk about it and the bravery to reach out to others in hopes of helping them.
September 10, 2018
Encouraging read for Survivors
Finally! Someone Brave enough to say it all. Wonderfully written with a creative flair. This book made me feel better as well as shined some light on such a depressing subject. I have read many books on narcissistic abuse but this one is different. .Thank You Jennifer.
Finally! Someone Brave enough to say it all. Wonderfully written with a creative flair. This book made me feel better as well as shined some light on such a depressing subject. I have read many books on narcissistic abuse but this one is different. .Thank You Jennifer.
July 26, 2016
An Invaluable Read Those Living With Narcissistic "Others"
This easy-to-read book is a must-read for people finding themselves with narcissistic spouses/significant others who tear them down. I loved this writer's style and voice and her forthright manner.
This easy-to-read book is a must-read for people finding themselves with narcissistic spouses/significant others who tear them down. I loved this writer's style and voice and her forthright manner.
May 13, 2018
Just what I needed right now. The "flying monkey circus" is the perfect analogy for the gossip and crap against me, and I'm glad to have some validation that I'm not alone. Healing is a process but I'm on my way.
October 2, 2017
Thank you
I needed to read that. four years is enough. I'm going to be me again. That goofy crazy silly woman I've always been. I'm gilded and beautiful. Thank you.
I needed to read that. four years is enough. I'm going to be me again. That goofy crazy silly woman I've always been. I'm gilded and beautiful. Thank you.
September 16, 2018
Very informative, It felt like you were telling my situation!
Nailed it, I thought you were referring to my situation at hand. I will be considering my next move now.
Nailed it, I thought you were referring to my situation at hand. I will be considering my next move now.
May 19, 2019
I will survive
So nice to be validated. That I'm not the crazy one or the person who just can't have a relationship with anyone. (His words)
Best part is the author is right. You can and will survive and eventually pieces of your real self will return.
So nice to be validated. That I'm not the crazy one or the person who just can't have a relationship with anyone. (His words)
Best part is the author is right. You can and will survive and eventually pieces of your real self will return.
April 29, 2019
Great Book
I loved this book. It gave me info that I very badly needed. This was my first book since my Narsissist
Left me & disappeared.
I loved this book. It gave me info that I very badly needed. This was my first book since my Narsissist
Left me & disappeared.
September 7, 2019
Hey
Super informative I’m so happy after I read this book super relieved thank you so much !! Kiss kiss kiss
Super informative I’m so happy after I read this book super relieved thank you so much !! Kiss kiss kiss
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