This is a very difficult book to read, though for some good reasons. The core of the story is Shively's time as a POW in Vietnam. It's an absolutely heartbreaking story - years of cruel torture from the Vietcong that would break even the stoutest spirit. So many moments stand out. But the one that is the most amazing to me was that as the prisoner exchange was being negotiated, Shively was one of a small group chosen to be released ahead of the others. They unanimously refused to go as it violated the rule that they be released in order of capture. That was a truly honorable decision - to have your release at hand, knowing that negotiations could break down at any moment and you could be tortured for years more, your body racked with pain, and yet to refuse to go. Incredible bravery. I can't say I would do the same.
The book is written by his step daughter, so that gives it a very personal touch. It ends with a series of anecdotes by his friends and family. One thing I really appreciated is that the author, right at the beginning said that even though her father wouldn't necessarily have seen it that way, she thought that the hand of a providential God was evident in his life story.
I can't understand how he made it through such a terrible situation with his mind intact without faith in a higher power and a life to come after death. In fact he was improved by it, leaving with the recognition that after that suffering every day that he was free was a good day.
One small anecdote that stood out to me is that when Shively was growing up, he and his friends would always be playing pick-up baseball - multiple times a day. Always, that is, until the TV began to arrive. Then the baseball gains ended. That's a striking story, and it's hard to see that as a change for the better.