The big insight of this book that I found helpful was that kids who seem inattentive or defiant could be the ones with a very short working memory (a kind of short-term memory). They genuinely can't remember two-part instructions or information that comes in too big of a barrage. Just yesterday I told my class, "Get your pencils and your Native American books and come sit at the big table." One of the kids said, "Wait, are we supposed to bring our books? Where do we sit?" He makes a joke of that kind of thing when the other kids call him on it, but now I think, "Maybe he really can't remember more than just the part about the pencil."
The author takes far too long to make this point, from the point of view of someone like me who just wants strategies. The strategy section has obvious suggestions, like break down instructions into smaller bits and wait for compliance until you go on, or give the kids memory cards with the steps of a task broken down into clear, check-able pieces. It wasn't until the last bit of the book that I read that short-term memory problems probably aren't fixable. Since almost every other special-ed problem I know about can be addressed, this was a surprise, and also, I'm pretty sure I don't believe it. I bet that there will be breakthroughs in this area.
BUT it will change my behavior in the short term–from trying to help such kids get better, to just giving them help.
Another thing I have noticed about all the kids I can remember dealing with who have this issue is that they can't even hear general instructions or content information when it is addressed to the whole class. You have to then turn to them individually and say it again if you want them to do it or remember it. This was not addressed at all in the book. I'm still curious. Do I continue my exhortations to them to pay attention in class even though I'm not facing them and looking them in the eye while giving general information? Or is this another thing that is currently unfixable, and I should just expect to repeat to them when I can touch their arm and look warmly into their eyes? I really want to know!