Although once thought to be a rare and unusual condition, obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) has become increasingly a part of everyday discourse as it has gathered more and more media attention. News magazines and programs have done features on the disorder and its range of symptoms, and popular culture has depicted characters suffering from OCD, such as the eponymous detective in the UPN television program, Monk.
One facet of OCD that is just beginning to be widely known is that people with the disorder can present a wide range of symptoms. Some people with OCD wash compulsively, others hoard objects, while still others-the audience of this book-struggle with obsessive thoughts. The most effective treatment techniques vary from symptom to symptom. This is why New Harbinger launched, with the publication of Overcoming Compulsive Hoarding, a series of books designed to bring the latest coping strategies for specific OCD symptoms to the people who need them most. Since that first book, we have brought readers two more titles: Overcoming Compulsive Washing and Overcoming Compulsive Checking. The professional community and OCD sufferers alike have warmly received all three books.
This fourth book in the series addresses the needs of those who struggle with obsessive thoughts they perceive as violent, disgusting, or blasphemous. Psychologists estimate that more than 50 percent of OCD sufferers experience aggressive, religious, or sexual thoughts. The goal of this book is to help people understand the impact of their control efforts on their obsessional thoughts. It works to help them recognize that thoughts, in themselves, are not threatening, dangerous, or harmful. Rather, it is the compulsive strategies they develop for coping that make the thoughts seem so harmful. The book offers safe and effective exposure exercises readers can use to limit the effect obsessive thoughts have on their lives. In addition to self-care strategies, the book includes information about choosing and making the most of professional care.
OKB ve anksiyete için bir başlangıç kitabı olabilir ancak çok teknik. Bilişsel Davranışçı Terapi metodları, okuyanlar kullansın diye verilmiş, adım adım uygulanırsa kişideki OKB nedenleri-döngüsü-düşüncedeki değişimler üzerine çok şey bulabilir. Ben daha psikodinamik açıklamaları olan kitapları sevdiğimden etkileyici bulmadım.
Kurgu dışı kitapları puanlamayı pek sevmiyorum. Fakat öte yandan bir fikir belirtmesi açısından kısaca bir şeyler yazabilirim diye düşündüm.
*tamamen kişisel bir deneyime ilişkindir.
Yer yer hayatı bana zindan eden bir OKB hastalığı ile yüzleşiyorum. Terapi aldığım uzun bir dönem oldu. İlaç da kullanıyorum.
Bu kitabı da psikiyatristimin konuya ilişkin kitaplar okuma tavsiyesi ve arkadaşımın önerisiyle okudum.
Açıkçası ilginç bir şekilde terapiden daha çok faydası dokundu bana. Bazı sahip olduğum takıntıların açıkça ve net bir şekilde yazılı olarak karşıma çıkması, garip bir şekilde olumlu bir etki bıraktı bende.
Kitaptaki alıştırmaları yapmadım. Yapmayacağım da. Fakat ana fikri ve "yüzleşme"yi hayatıma radikal bir şekilde entegre ettim.
Biraz daha iyi ve kontrollü hissediyorum. Zamanla daha iyiye gideceğimden de eminim.
Since most of us have OCD in some capacity, it was really interesting to read this book. It's one of the best I have found on the topic and had wonderful insight. I wish it wasn't targeted to specific types of OCD, but it was generalized enough that it was worthwhile.
Understanding obsessive or intrusive thoughts can be very challenging. Many new parents especially experience intrusive thoughts, which can be disturbing and difficult to manage if you've never experienced it before. For many people brushing off the occasional intrusive thought or two is manageable but sometimes we get caught up in the cycle mentioned in the first quote below.
Having very high anxiety or obsessive compulsive disorder can mean obsessive thoughts become more frequent, and continue to be very disturbing. One tip to remember is that intrusive thoughts tend to attack our values (otherwise why would those thoughts bother us in the first place?) And reassuring ourselves of our values rather than repeating the obsession can calm our brains. This is very hard to do on our own but a therapist who specializes in OCD can be incredibly helpful. A good follow for understanding OCD better is @kimberleyquinlan
"One thing is clear; a vicious cycle can develop in which the person tries harder and harder to control the obsession because of concerns over the consequences of failing to control it but only ends up creating conditions that further reduce the chance of successful mental control."
"No doubt your goal in reading this book is to find out how to reduce, if not eliminate, the suffering you experience from repetitive obsessions. That is, your goal is to get rid of obsessions. Yet we are telling you that trying to get rid of them actually makes the problem worse. How can you get rid of obsessional thinking, then? The key to overcoming the obsession is to abandon the belief that it has to be controlled. That is, the key is to begin to understand that the obsession is benign. There are three routes to this: delete its significance, exposure, and reduce stress."
Kitap takıntıları olanlara yönelik bir yönerge şeklinde yazılmış. Kendi içinde bir terapi süreci gibi ilerliyor, ödevler veriliyor, ne zaman ve ne kadar süre boyunca yapmanız gerektiğinden bahsediyor. BDT temelli ilerliyor. Bu anlamda mekanik bir kitap. Daha çok obsesyonlara eğilmiş. Bu konularsa sıkıntısı olanların okuması gerektiğini düşünüyorum.
Good book that gives you a great insight of the OCD and the things that happen to those who suffer it. Gives alternatives and many methods of control. Just be sure to take a notebook to make all the exercises that are suggested.
Only four stars, because it felt like the typical over-promising of permanent long-term solutions by accepting the perspectives and using the techniques described. But, that's par for course for most OCD books. Worth reading to figure out more pieces of the puzzle and use as a reference.
I noticed that I dont suffer OKB. The book may be useful for people literally suffer from OKB. The description of OKB signs dont match the problems I deal.
"Overcoming Obsessive Thoughts" is a great practical guide for anyone looking to recover from obsessive compulsive disorder. Purdon and Clark have done a really good job simplifying the cognitive behavioural approach to dealing with obsessions, without trivialising OCD (something a lot of guides seem to get wrong). While it doesn't deal specifically with all categories of obsessional thought, it has some really good activities and advice for dealing with OCD and I would recommend it to anyone looking to challenge their own obsessional behaviours.