Like Joan, I was an executive director for eight years. Like Joan, I made the decision to transition out of that role, but still remain very involved with nonprofit work. And like Joan, I've encountered almost every single problem she highlights in her book while a part of the nonprofit world as staff, senior leadership and/or as a board member. But unlike Joan, I haven't yet written a book that is so funny, so informative, so insightful, that will trigger a cavalcade of the old-fashioned incandescent light bulbs going off. So many went off in the course of my reading this book that it would be a true environmental hazard were so many to be illuminated simultaneously.
Joan's central theme is that nonprofits are inherently messy. So much time is spent, however, in the nonprofit world complaining about the mess: if only we had more money...more staff...more time...more resources. Or decrying the mess: why isn't this getting done? why isn't this person perfect? why isn't there more money in the bank? why isn't the world saved already? As a nonprofit leader, if I had that dollar for every time I kicked myself for why something wasn't better, well, let's just say my nonprofit wouldn't have been nearly so messy. But even though this mess is inherent to the sector, and many nonprofit leaders are drawn to the work because they are especially talented at restoring order from chaos, the relentless and demoralizing fear of failure prevents nonprofit leaders -- staff and board -- from moving forward boldly, from taking inherently risky action, and from accomplishing what is needed to advance their mission. There are only so many hours in the day, and if you can't efficiently focus them on taking positive action instead of wallowing in the mess, then you're losing a real opportunity that you can never regain in the same way.
Joan's book shows you that you're not alone -- that there are millions of other people who have experienced similar fears and concerns -- and there are some simple and practical ways to move forward without the typical paralysis. Boards should make reading this book a requirement of board service, before the meeting attendance, committee service, and fundraising requirements, because all of those will be infinitely better informed once you've had this book to orient you about the world you're a part of, but may not fully understand. And if you're another executive director or senior manager, and you don't have this book read by April Fool's Day, then you're the fool....it might be committing malpractice to have this book at your disposal yet not read it. I nearly killed a set of Post-It note flags tagging each page I want to come back to, or which generated an "a-ha" moment. And I plan to pass my marked-up version on to a colleague so that I can remember to pass on everything I'd like her to think about. (Maybe I should buy her a non-marked-up copy first? Hell, maybe I'll buy one for every board member who agrees to read it in March.)
I couldn't be more honest and genuine when I say that if you want to understand the nonprofit world better, and do your job as a board or staff member better, you have to read this book. And every minute you delay is a minute that you could be spending making your nonprofit better -- which is (or should be) making the world better, right? So many of us in the progressive world have been filled with despair since the election, and feeling like all our efforts have been in vain. But nonprofits don't have the luxury of wallowing or living in denial, and are often staffed by people who are very bad at self-care and boundaries. So read this book, and figure out what you and your tribe can do to support all the very important battles before us, now and in the days ahead.
[I received a free advance copy in exchange for an honest review.]