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A tragic accident. A terrible injury. And in a moment, the man you fell in love with is transformed into a total stranger. How would you cope? What would you do? Would you be strong enough to stay? But what if you found out that it wasn't an accident at all...?

400 pages, Paperback

First published April 25, 2017

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Rebecca Done

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Rebecca Done lives in Norwich. After studying Creative Writing at the Norwich School of Art & Design, she worked for several years as a magazine editor. Currently a copywriter, Rebecca is also a keen runner, fair-weather surfer and one-time marathon canoeist. This Secret We're Keeping is her first novel.

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Profile Image for Deanna .
742 reviews13.3k followers
April 23, 2017
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When I read the description for this book it hit close to home. My ex-husband was in a severe car accident while we were first dating in 1995 and suffered a head injury. This changed everything for him and although he was nothing like Alex there were some similarities. Especially right after the accident. His head was still swollen to about twice the size and he wasn't acting like himself. He would get angry very quickly and had trouble with his memory. I remember thinking (I was 19) what if he stays like this? It was scary. We were told that once the swelling went down he should get back to normal. For the most part it did. That's not to say there wasn't lasting effects. Anyhow, this is a book review and not my life story so I'll leave it at that.

I was very intrigued and excited to get reading.

In one moment EVERYTHING can change....

What you would do if your husband became another person overnight?

Molly and Alex seem like the perfect couple. Very in love, busy planning their future together. But after a terrible fall her husband sustains a severe head injury. This injury changes him into someone Molly has a hard time recognizing.

Told from Molly's perspective in the present and Alex's perspective prior to his accident. I like how it was written. It added insight into their early relationship and helped us get to know Alex - before.

***Possibly very minor spoilers****

For the next few years, Molly struggles to keep things together. Alex is distant, gets very angry, and has problems with his memory. On top of taking care of Alex. Molly is trying to hold on to a job she hates but desperately needs. She's exhausted all of the time. Every morning she wakes up hoping it will be the day that Alex turns back into the man she fell madly in love with.

But everything may not be exactly what it seems....

This book was well-written and I was intrigued to see where it was going to go. I was pretty sure I had everything figured out and although I was partially correct, there were a few things I didn't see coming.

It was quite emotional at times. I really felt for everyone involved. But I could relate to Molly as this person was not the man she married. But glimpses of the man she once knew kept her hopeful. The guilt at her feelings and at the same time wanting to care for him. This definitely relates to the vow "in sickness and in health".

We may think we know what we would do in the same position, but like anything else until it happens to you....you just don't know.

I enjoyed this novel. I will definitely be looking for more of Rebecca Done.

Thank you NetGalley, Rebecca Done, and Penguin UK Michael Joseph, for providing an advanced readers copy of this book for me to read in exchange for my honest review.
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1,559 reviews860 followers
April 26, 2018
Another audio read where I have to say, I do usually become quite distracted. Although, I do love to listen when I am on my work commute.

This was a little bit sinister, a little twisty. A slow burn, but nothing overly exciting. Molly and Alex are madly in love, but Alex's twin seems to hover around, whether in physical proximity, or not. Alex suffers a brain injury after an accident, and we see the tragic difference of the before and after. This difference is quite severe, and Molly is a saint in her loving care.

She is working very hard to pay the bills and care for her husband, which is increasingly difficult - her boss is terribly uncaring and her husband equally difficult and just so different, difficult and aggressive.

Very well written, Molly's support network were a loving bunch and her determination to do the right thing made for sensitive and empathetic writing. My first experience of this author, I will read her again if the occasion arises.
Profile Image for Miriam Smith (A Mother’s Musings).
1,798 reviews306 followers
August 1, 2018
"My Husband the Stranger" written by Rebecca Done is an emotional and at times a heartbreaking read. Although not my normal genre this family drama encased in a love story grips you from the first page and doesn't let go. There is a twist to the tale at the end but don't be fooled into thinking this is a psychological thriller as it isn't. It's a slow burning love story that is hit by tragedy and how the affected characters deal with the sudden changes.
I'm not sure I'd have had the patience Molly showed and I truly admired her dedication to looking after her husband even when times got so bad. Told through Alex's past and Molly's present day voices I very much enjoyed hearing their true emotions and I particularly liked hearing Alex's story from before the accident.
I imagine the basis to this novel could easily read as someone's real life story and sadly probably does, considering the many brain and memory conditions diagnosed today. The author has covered the subject delicately and with genuine empathy.
Although quite slow, I enjoyed reading this over a lazy weekend and it fit the bill perfectly. Gentle, uncomplicated and very realistic, this may not be to everyone's liking (especially if they are expecting a thriller) but it's a solid enough read that readers of women's fiction should enjoy.

With thanks to Rachel Hall for my copy of the book.

3.5 stars rounded up to 4.
Profile Image for ReadAlongWithSue recovering from a stroke★⋆. ࿐࿔.
2,881 reviews432 followers
July 21, 2022
I liked it. The majority of the time.

Milly’s husband Alex was involved in an accident that left him brain damaged.
He become a different person to Milly, it’s a lot to come to terms with for her.

I like how this covered brain damage and how the experiences of that played out, how huge differences have to be overcome.

In my thoughts I don’t think Milly put herself in her husbands shoes, or sympathised with how he would feel having gone through this traumatic life experience.

Maybe it’s me? I’m realistic. I’m married to a husband who has mental health (bi polar) and he’s definitely not the man I married when having *what shall I call it?) “episode” of mood swings. But I have never in my 40 years (almost) felt like Milly.

It really dragged in parts and was a chore to keep listening to the audio but I do think I faired better listening to this rather than reading it with my eyes.

I personally had some issues with it, maybe it could have been more compact?

I know it sounds strange to say I liked it but….

1, I liked that it was based around brain damage
2, I liked how it shows us, life as we know it can change in a heartbeat
3, I liked the beginning of the book

I didn’t like the pacing, I thought it needed more umph along the way to get the reader through it.

My thoughts of course.

Life can change in an instant, appreciate the good times.
Profile Image for Maxine (Booklover Catlady).
1,429 reviews1,421 followers
December 23, 2016
Not an easy read, nor an upbeat read. This one wrung out the emotions. It's a novel that tackles the complexities of loving a totally changed person after a brain injury, something that can impact moods, behaviour, personality and patience.

Alex and Molly start off being that couple you want to be part of. Disaster strikes and their lives are changed forever when Alex suffers an acquired brain injury in an awful moment. Imagine the man you loved is locked up inside and everything he does and says is different to before. Like you got a new husband.

Alex's twin brother Graeme stays as close as possible to Molly and Alex, his offers of help received with mixed feelings. The clever plot takes us across two timelines - the days leading up to the accident and now. The author starts to weave in some questions and before long you know everything may not be as it seems.

Molly's emotional journey is quite heart-breaking and powerful. It's not easy for her now. She cares for Alex like a carer, his needs never far from her mind but what about her?

Once the twists and turns start to rear their head the book engaged me much more. It's a bit of a slow-burner this one. I wasn't bored but do with some twists had popped up a bit earlier. The characters are complex and you will form your own feelings toward them quickly. Be prepared for some surprises as you read.

I found this an enjoyable read. It's got depth and an interesting plot line that explores human relationships. 4 stars from me for this.

I received an ARC of this novel from the publisher via NetGalley. All review opinions are entirely my own and totally unbiased.
Profile Image for Laura.
1,047 reviews78 followers
April 5, 2017
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Well, I sped through this book - with many tears! My Husband The Stranger is a contemporary novel that isn't a romance as such, it isn't a completely feel-good read but it also has elements of happiness and positivism, too. It's a mixture of many emotions and feelings, and I really enjoyed it!

The writing is great, with the author managing to completely suck me in. The novel is set in two main time periods - one, in the present day, told from Rebecca's point of view and detailing life after Alex's accident which has left him literally a changed man, and one told from Alex's point of view chronicling the time leading up to the accident. Both are equally interesting to read about, and are great at giving the reader a bit of insight into what both Molly and Alex's lives were like before the accident as well as after it.

Alex himself was a tricky character - sometimes I hated him for how he treats Molly, but then I had to remember that he'd suffered horrendous injuries and just wasn't the same man Molly fell in love with, through no fault of his own. Molly was really likeable and not too perfect - she was great to read about. I really felt for her as she tried to deal with everything and remain loyal and loving to her husband.

I can't even imagine how I'd deal with the same situation - it doesn't bear thinking about. But that's exactly what this novel makes you do: think about it. About their situation, their life, their friends and family, their failed hopes and dreams - and how you'd feel in this situation. Would I be as patient and amazing as Molly was, despite having her moments of frustration or anger (which, when reading My Husband the Stranger, you can forgive her for). That's what made me sad at times during this book; I was left feeling moved and generally rather impressed.

The story doesn't move at a mile a minute - sometimes there isn't that much that seems to be happening, but if feels like it reflects their actual lives and it's full of Molly's anguish and hopes. Some parts were quite hard to read, and one part (which I can't say without spoiling the story) to do with Alex's brother felt a little unbelievable, but I felt really satisfied at the end that I'd read an entertaining and interesting novel.

I also really enjoyed This Secret We're Keeping [read my review here] and would definitely recommend that book as well as My Husband The Stranger - both very different, but great, reads!

Many thanks to Penguin and Netgalley for providing a copy of this novel on which I chose to write an honest and unbiased review.
Profile Image for Cathy.
1,447 reviews344 followers
March 31, 2017
After several years together, Molly’s husband, Alex, has a terrible fall resulting in severe brain injury that leaves him psychologically changed from the man she married, effectively a “stranger”. The book contrasts their life beforehand with the daily struggle to maintain their relationship after Alex’s injury.

I felt the author couldn’t quite make up her mind whether the novel was intended to be an insightful account of the impact of serious brain injury on a relationship, an “against the odds” romance or a psychological thriller. In the end, for me, it didn’t really satisfy completely in any of these respects. The strongest element was definitely the description of the day-to-day toll on a relationship of caring for a partner who has been changed physically and psychologically by brain injury. The author did a good job of conveying Molly’s conflicted feelings – sympathy and love for her husband but also rage, regret and frustration at the position she finds herself in – and the mental and physical burden of caring for a person with limited hope of full recovery. There are some touching moments that seem grounded in the reality of living with someone whose symptoms can change from day to day, hour to hour: “Just when I think I have totally lost him, for a few precious moments I always find him again.” I found the sections detailing Alex and Molly’s relationship before his accident a little cheesy; everything was a bit too perfect – Alex himself, their wedding, their life together before his accident. However I appreciate the author was probably trying to build up a picture of what Molly has lost to explain why she wants to stick with Alex and hold on to the hope of an eventual recovery. I found the mystery introduced towards the end of the book rather underwhelming and the reveal a little predictable. To my mind the author came perilously close to “good twin/evil twin” cliché in the characterisation of Alex and his brother, Graeme.

This was an enjoyable read with an interesting premise but I didn’t find it completely successful.

I received an advance review copy courtesy of NetGalley and publishers, Penguin, in return for an honest review,
Profile Image for Roman Clodia.
2,895 reviews4,647 followers
November 23, 2016
I enjoyed Done's first book (This Secret We're Keeping) about a forbidden love affair between a schoolgirl and her maths teacher: this one explores the emotional aftermath of an accident that leaves husband Alex brain-damaged and a stranger to his young wife, Molly. The story is told in a fragmented narrative: Molly today, Alex in the past - an increasingly clichéd structure in contemporary fiction - but does give us insight into the strong relationship they had before this devastating accident which seems to have deeply affected Alex's sense of identity.

Done writes emotional chemistry very well and picks intriguing subjects putting her protagonists into difficult situations, treating them with empathy and a level of thoughtfulness. However, both books have a slightly melodramatic tendency: here there's a touch too much going on in the background that veers towards, though finally shies away from, some kind of melodramatic revelation.

While the book starts very strongly, it starts to feel overlong just past the halfway mark, and that's because nothing is really happening: more pace is needed, a more gradual re-emergence of Alex's feelings and personality which seems almost miraculous towards the end.

So an interesting subject and some thoughtful writing, definitely at the more emotionally-sensitive end of the commercial fiction spectrum. This is a topic which a more mature and nuanced writer like Susan Hill, say, would have treated in a more subtle, expansive and probably devastating way. All the same 3.5 stars: good if you want something which is easy-reading but with some narrative 'grab'.

Thanks to the publisher for an ARC via NetGalley
Profile Image for Rachel Gilbey.
3,324 reviews571 followers
March 30, 2017
3.5 Stars


It was the fascinating concept that drew me to My Husband the Stranger, and it was due to my interest in the idea of the book, that kept me reading to the end. However having finished the book, I just can't help but feeling flat. I'm not sure exactly what I was expecting from the story, but I feel as though it could have been more.

There were certain storyline elements that I could see coming a mile off, and although I was interested in the story, and it definitely was written in an engaging way, and I enjoyed the writing style, there was just something missing for me.

Graeme saw Molly first. Later that same evening Alex, his twin brother, leaves the bar with Molly, and its the start of their relationship. Fastforward to now, and three years after a dreadful accident, Molly is still hoping that Alex will turn back into the man she fell in love with.

For three years ago there was a dreadful accident that caused Alex brain damage, and it has drastically changed his personality. He is now like a child in an adults body, with some of a childish mindset, but at other times incredibly angry, and other times can just about show the old Alex is still deep inside him.

And it is for that reason that Molly is determined to stand by her man, no matter what cost to herself and her own dreams potentially.

We get the story from two different perspective, Molly in the hear and now, stuck in a job she hates, caring for her husband, and trying to make the best of the situation, and then, we have chapters from Alex's point of view, which are the memories of how he and Molly got together and key moments in their relationship history.

The story at all times kept me wondering what would happen next, and ultimately what Molly would decide. Graeme wants to offer them as much support as he can, and it must be so weird for Molly to spend time with the twins, when one of them has changed to dramatically.

My Husband the Stranger certainly makes you think, how would you cope in Molly's situation. I'm not sure I'd be compassionate enough (to my non existent) husband to cope with a major change in personality although I'd like to think that love would overpower everything.

Thought provoking and throws up intriguing questions, in a book that I enjoyed reading.

Thank you to Netgalley and Michael Joseph for this copy of the book which I reviewed voluntarily and honestly.
Profile Image for Gazala.
279 reviews5 followers
April 13, 2017
This book is a leaf out of the life of Alex and his wife Molly, and how their life is altered for good after an accident. The book swings between the past and the present and throws light on how Alex is , and how he used to be. Molly is stuck in a job she hates as the bills pile up and her husband isn't capable of holding down a job. Alex's twin brother Graeme is the bad boy amongst the two and is the last person Alex spends his time with before the accident. He steps in to help Molly periodically as her husband no longer is the man she was in love with. When he starts flirting with his ex, she is torn between staying and leaving.
The book touches upon the agony of how their life changes and how one's choice impacts their lives. The book is also laced with very predictable secrets and it tries very hard to garner your sympathy... but it is so very ordinary in it's approach that I felt bored to death by it's almost sobbish approach. Have you ever met someone who is going through some bad stuff , but they go on about it so much, you excuse yourself at a sight if them ? this book gives you those vibes... and the end , let's just not go there! For it's as ordinary as they come...
Overall , yet another unimpressive book that I wouldn't really recommend.
Profile Image for Stephanie A..
2,918 reviews95 followers
October 11, 2019
This is not about the recovery from or acute aftermath of a brain injury so much as it is about the new normal, how to live the rest of your life with a man whose improvement from now on will be marginal. His cognitive abilities are less damaged than scrambled, but his compassion and empathy are shot through, replaced by a short temper and condescension, his ability to hold a job limited by his inability to sustain focus and professional conduct.

Flashback chapters are told from Alex's point of view and tell the story of their relationship to contrast the before and after; the present day is told from Molly's, at her wit's end from being the sole breadwinner as well as primary caregiver, still desperately clinging on for those rare, fleeting moments she sees a glimpse of the devoted man she married.

The present day is stronger, because who cares about a couple who meet in a bar and move in together after 3 months, especially if the guy backpedals on moving back to his hometown near his dad because his new girlfriend loves living in the city. The flashbacks also set up the conflict between Alex and his identical twin brother, Graeme, and their loser dad, who irrationally blames Graeme for the loss of the boys' mother just because the SEVEN YEAR OLD decided to be naughty and run away/hide, and Mom got hit by a car when she went out to look for him. I just didn't feel like I needed that much backstory on the dysfunctional family.

But I did like Graeme in the present day, despite him being a boring cliche of a womanizer & drifter, because he is a really supportive brother / brother-in-law .

I also liked Molly, her frazzled attempts to keep her job and her awesome emotional support network. I felt her pain after every heartbreaking or hurtful interaction with Alex, and I too found myself craving those rare sweet moments when he acted like his old self. They pay off like lottery tickets, little wins here and there that keep you coming back in hopes of the big one, or at least a modestly impressive windfall, and each one is something to cherish.
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837 reviews67 followers
January 30, 2025
Good story but not a thriller.
It's the story of twin brothers. One didn't get a great start in life.
Molly meets both brothers one night and ends up falling for Alex. The brother with no problems until a devastating accident that leaves him with unrepairable damage.
Molly still stays with him and as the story unfolds Molly discovers more about Alex's accident and is determined to know the truth.
Profile Image for Paula White.
604 reviews35 followers
February 26, 2017
I enjoyed how this book showed you Alex's POV before the accident and how he and Molly met. Alex was changed after his accident - he looked the same but he suffered a brain injury so 'he' wasn't the same. We get to see how Molly copes with knowing that the man she fell in love with is gone and in his place is someone different and she still loves him. There were ups and downs - lots of different options but love won through in the end. It ended as happily as it could as there is not a miraculous cure and it would have been totally unrealistic for Alex to wake up and be his old self again someday. It's a hard read in places because you think 'what would I do' and there isn't a right or wrong way to deal with something like this and it is so incredibly hard for everyone involved - how do you mourn for the person that was when they are still here?
I received this book for free from NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
Profile Image for Janet.
145 reviews9 followers
February 28, 2017
A beautifully written story of love even in the face of adversity.
Alex meets Molly by chance in a London club, he knows in that instant that she is the one for him, that he'd do anything to keep her safe, will love her forever no matter what happens.
Each chapter from a different character, past and present, this is love overcoming adversity.....For better, for worse. In sickness and in health...
A dreadful accident puts those vows to the test, can you love someone who no longer remembers those vows and the promises you made to each other..
I really enjoyed this, a feelgood story that warmed my heart. I'm not big on mushy lovey dovey books but this had substance and as I read it I felt as though I was urging them onwards hoping for their future.
Profile Image for MeggieBree.
263 reviews23 followers
April 6, 2017
3.5 stars.

My Husband the Stranger was just ok for me. It was an interesting account of how a woman is coping after her husband suffers a traumatic brain injury in a late-night accident, but it was a little too...something...for me. The account of their past love was just too flowery for me, and the reactions of the people involved in all of the action just seemed a little off.

All in all, it was a decent book that kept me reading until the end, and I would definitely recommend it to people who like love stories, but it's not one that I would read again. Maybe I'm just a bit jaded on the whole "true love" theme.

Thank you to NetGalley and Penguin for giving me the opportunity to read this ARC :)
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2,574 reviews63 followers
May 20, 2018
A must buy-must read. The whole book is absolutely an excellent page turner. When you get married it is in sickness and in health. When Alex Fraser falls downs some stairs he is left in a coma. Once he comes out of his coma he left brain damaged. Molly is now living with a husband that she doesn't know any more. He has become like a stranger. Alex becomes violent due to not understanding certain things. When Alex's dad died he left the cottage to Alex but not his twin brother Graeme. As Alex can't work, Molly is now the only one working bringing in the money to do up the cottage. Graeme is always there to help Molly and his twin brother Alex. How did Alex fall down the stairs? A shocking truth is about to be unravelled.
Profile Image for Maggie.
2,005 reviews59 followers
April 9, 2017
For Molly and Alex it was love at first sight. Within a year they were engaged and looking forward to a life together, renovating Alex's childhood home, maybe raising a family.

Their happiness is shattered when Alex has a near fatal accident whilst visiting Graeme,his twin. After he recovers from his coma he undergoes a complete personality change. But no matter how angry and irritating he is Molly clings to the thought that the man she loves is still there and struggles to present a happy face to the world. She truly believes the,"in sickness & in health" line of her marriage vows

I found this quite a hard book to read at times.It makes you confront thoughts at the back of your mind- would you have the strength to stick by your husband when he has become someone else entirely? You hope so, but you wonder....

Rebecca Done really makes you care about her characters. This is a book that ill prey on my mind for a long while. Thanks to Netgalley & the publisher for giving me the chance to read & review this very thought provoking book.
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602 reviews50 followers
January 16, 2022
I listened to this in audio (thanks to BorrowBox), my second ever one.

I really enjoyed the story line of this one, a bit different to my usual book.

The characters were all so vivid and I felt the split narration really helped with the two POV’s and time hoping.

I felt like I could really connected with Molly and all the horrible decisions she had to deal with. The descriptions and situations all done so well and believable.

The ending was perfect for me and I’m glad it finished the way it did. I obviously won’t say any more about the ending for fear of spoilers.

I rated this one a 4/5.
Profile Image for Kathryn Dixon.
32 reviews2 followers
April 2, 2019
Having picked this up as an impulse purchase in the bargain bin next to the till, I wasn’t holding out much hope for this one but I loved this book. Couldn’t put it down. Full of heartbreak and the cruelty that life sometimes throws at you! Would highly recommend 😁
Profile Image for Annette C.
217 reviews27 followers
September 6, 2022
Wow!

This book had me crying.
Alex suffers a traumatic brain injury. His young wife, Molly, has to learn how to love the man who looks like her husband, but now has a different personality, new interests, communication problems, impulsiveness, fractured memory, low frustration tolerance, and anger management issues. His identical twin brother Graeme is there to help, but is he a reminder of how Alex used to be?

How Alex and Molly survived after his accident is amazing. I had to keep reminding myself they are fictional characters. The struggles were daily and so very painful. Molly just wanted her easy going wonderful husband back and as hard as she tried, she couldn't let go of past Alex. She used the past to anchor herself firmly into her marriage, but sadly it stopped her from being in the present moment and appreciating what they had now, or could have. I admired how she kept going, kept believing he'd get well. Her hope broke my heart.

My ex-husband is a psychiatrist. I have heard more than one story, from his peers at dinner parties, about family members praying and begging for their loved one to survive. Then the family not being prepared for the mountainous journey ahead. Of unnamed patients and their families struggling with relearning everything. Learning to accept a new normal for themselves and their injured child or spouse. Frontal lobe injuries causing impulsiveness and recklessness after finally learning to talk and walk again. Risking their lives after surviving the initial accident. And the money... so much money needed for medical care and therapy. Life savings gone within weeks not months. No rest. Very little peace. Lives reshaped into something not recognizable by other family and friends. It appears to me, to be the most difficult life change imaginable. Family members needing therapy themselves for the stress, but not able to afford it. I, personally, don't think I would survive it. From the tiny bit I've heard in real life, this book is spot on.

Rebecca Done writes so eloquently the struggles these two face minute by minute that I assumed she must have experienced this herself. But no, according to her acknowledgements this is fictional with tons of research before actually writing.

She wrote a beautiful love story which had me crying a lot, but I gotta tell you, every tear was worth it. I will definitely read whatever she writes next.
Profile Image for Kaisha (The Writing Garnet).
655 reviews184 followers
April 22, 2018
All reviews can be found on my blog at https://thewritinggarnet.wordpress.com

Shameful apology! I read this book just after it came out, yet it has taken me until now to finally leave a review. Apologies to the author and the publisher, but I got there eventually!!

'My Husband The Stranger' is proof that life can change just like that. Molly had found her lobster. She had married her true love, a man she adored with every ounce of her being. Then, one day, both Molly's and Alex's life changed for the worst. The man who she promised to love in sickness and in health had been taken from her, with a man who looked like her husband yet didn't act like him, swap places with him. Molly's happy ending is now an uncertain one.

I would be lying if I said that this book was an easy read, because it isn't. Far from it in fact. The theme of the storyline is dramatic, heart-wrenching and quite emotional, leaving room for the reader to form their own opinion on the choices that they would make if they were to find themselves in Molly's situation. What would I do? Honestly, I have absolutely no idea and I probably would never be able to answer that unless I found myself in that situation. Molly thought she had the perfect relationship and loved her husband dearly, however when that man had an accident, she began to question her own motive for staying. Alex was definitely a changed man and Rebecca Done emphasised that point in the latter half of the novel. He wasn't the man who Molly fell in love with, but he didn't do this to himself did he, so why wouldn't she stick by him?

My heart went out to both Alex and Molly as they were both dealing with such life changing circumstances, trying to find a way to move forward either as a unit, or on their own. I have to admit that I found a lot of the storyline a bit predictable and not at all shocking in the 'twisty' sense of the word. That said, I thought 'My Husband The Stranger' was emotionally charged and very raw, with the split narrative working well to hone in on the important elements of the overall storyline. I suggest keeping an open mind with this book as, if you're anything like me, your outlook on life will change a lot right up until you close the book. Thought-provoking and very intense, Rebecca Done certainly gave me food for thought.
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595 reviews13 followers
January 27, 2019
Man this was so addictive at points. I couldn't stop listening to it even though both the male and female narrators spoke v-e-r-y...... s-l-o-w-l-y...... I had them on 1.25x speed for some of this just to get them up to normal speed.

There was also a level of unnecessary detail and description which could have been trimmed down to make the story punchier. It did really paint the picture of life before and during, but at times I was like come on where is this going? Hurry up and answer the mystery for me!

This didn't exactly make it boring but I did desperately want to get to what I assumed would be a twist. I kept thinking it must be coming soon, it must be coming... was that it? Surely there's a second twist, I'm still 5 chapters off the end. Nope, looks like nothing else is happening that really was the big mystery. Not much of a shocker and I can imagine a couple of much more interesting solutions than what we got.

What a disappointing ending :( It felt like the author didn't really know how to wrap it up after that and so the final words were just this really schmaltzy slush and I was left bereft at what this amazing story had trailed off into.

I don't know how else to convey what a disappointment this was. A mystery/thriller start turned into a kind of rom-com. Except with no com. So just... rom?? Not what I signed up for.

Ugh what a waste. It was a clear 4 star book but now it's just an OK book.
Profile Image for Zoe.
756 reviews13 followers
June 13, 2017
Alex and Molly are blissfully happily married - one another´s soul mate.

Until one fateful night, Alex has an accident and suffers from brain damage - totally disrupting the dynamic of their happy marriage. Toward the end of the story, we discover the truths about Alex´s accident and it all falls back to one burning question - can Mollie live with this stranger that now lives in Alex´s body?

This was a touching read that certainly makes you question your own beliefs and views. I asked myself ´Could I cope in Molly´s shoes?´. Any book that makes me directly question what I would do is worth a good rating and I enjoyed this thoroughly. Admittely, I predicted the conclusion from the first few pages but that definitely didn´t effect my enjoyment.
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7,398 reviews139 followers
May 29, 2017
My husband the stranger by Rebecca Done.
What you would do if your husband became another person overnight?
A tragic accident.
A terrible injury.
And in a moment the man you fell in love with, that sweet, caring, charming man, is transformed into a total stranger. One who snarls and one who shouts. And one who doesn't seem to love you very much at all anymore. You swore to love each other in sickness and in health, but how would you cope? What would you do? And would you be strong enough to stay?
This was a lovely moving read with great characters. I really felt for Molly. 5*. Netgalley and penguin UK Michael Joseph.
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339 reviews3 followers
March 31, 2023
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Tell me why I thought this was a mystery/thriller book and it’s not even that. ITS A CONTEMPORARY ROMANCE? I’ve never been so confused.

With that being said, this book fell flat for me, it was so slow and I seriously couldn’t care less for any of the characters. This is my first book by this author and if she were to write another book I would give it a shot.
Profile Image for Neil.
1,593 reviews14 followers
August 3, 2017
I received a free copy via Netgalley in exchange for a honest review.

This could have been so much better.
It was over long and the ending was so unrealistic that it spoilt the story.
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2,514 reviews14 followers
August 12, 2019
The story was stretched out more than it should.
Many times I wanted to shake the book and yell "Just get to the point!". And when all was revealed, it was not the big shock that was expected.
16 reviews
October 15, 2025
ooh a little plot twist. loved that she stayed with him even through all the trials she faced
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
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1,030 reviews42 followers
November 22, 2016
I wasn't sure what to expect with this novel. I really enjoyed Rebecca's first novel This Secret We're Keeping which focused on the story of an illicit love affair between student and teacher. I guess I was expecting more of the same.

My Husband the Stranger is a very different novel but still reflects Rebecca's brilliantly engaging writing style. One of the new queens of contemporary fiction Rebecca makes what has the potential for being a mundane if distressing subject and makes it both fascinating and gripping.

My Husband the Stranger focuses on the characters of Molly and Alex. With love at first sight they have their whole future planned out; renovating Alex's father's old cottage in Norfolk and planning a family together. That is until one night Molly receives a hysterical phone call from Alex's twin brother Graeme. Alex has had a terrible accident falling down the stairs and splitting open his head.

The novel explores the years after the accident as Molly struggles with the changes to Alex's character as he becomes a stranger to her. Isolated in Norfolk she begins to rely more and more on Graeme for help as Alex's ex girlfriend tries to muscle in. The novel looks at the after effects of Alex's accident from the point of view of Molly while flicking to the past and exploring the beginning of their relationship from Alex's point of view.

Things build to a crescendo and it's hard to decide who's side to be on but I like to think this had a happy ending for all involved despite the big reveal and the hard decisions made by all.

A exceptionally touching and empathy driven novel.
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