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304 pages, Paperback
First published April 18, 2017
‘I bet. Indian women are so sexy.’India adopts a patronising, big-brotherly attitude towards Nepal, forgetting that this is a proud sovereign country with its unique socio-cultural and religious ethos. During the recent fracas about state boundaries, a senior Nepali opposition politician was asked the possibility of souring of roti-beti relations. He vehemently countered
‘I’m not from India. I’m from Nepal.’ Biks pointed a stern finger at Jacob. ‘Don’t ever, ever call a Nepali man Indian. We were never colonized by the British.’ … “And don’t ever tell a Nepali man that Buddha was born in India. Unless you want to be lynched.’
I have not yet been able to fathom the roti-beti narrative. A lot of Indian people, largely out of affection, think of Nepali counterparts to be just like them in every respect of life. Let me point out that for a majority of Nepali people it is dal bhat, not roti, that is staple food. This narrative not only ignores the diversity that exists in Nepali society, but also wrongly reinforces a stereotype that our Indian friends feel close to only some, but not all, Nepalis. The nature of the beti part of the narrative also is changing, as a large Nepali population works abroad beyond India and is getting married to not just Indians but varied nationalities.Ouch!
