Forever Young has languished on my shelves for years. I'm not certain where or when I bought it but even though I've had it a long time it certainly is not since the copyright year of 2000. I believe this book found its way to my TBR pile due to nostalgia. Growing up I watched Ms. Young's television program, The Loretta Young Show (1953-1961). I don't think I recall one episode in its entirety but I do remember watching many episodes with my mom. Perhaps that was the appeal, the bond between mother and daughter. Under ten and into my early teens I do remember the opening each week. The closed door which would swing open and the beautiful young woman swirling through the door in an elegant gown. Loretta Young was beautiful. My memories are of inspirational, uplifting stories which must have been appropriate for my age or my mom wouldn't have let me watch them.
Just like her troubles with sponsors and would be fans, there are many critics of the format of this book. It is very faith based and has many references to God, Angels, small miracles, and may be just too much religion for some tastes. Frankly, most times it would be too much for mine but somehow I didn't mind. There was enough bio for me to get a feel of who Loretta was, her determination to succeed in a business that wasn't always kind to women, one where being a parent could kill a career, where wives most important role was being a homemaker. It also gave me a picture of religious beliefs were and how she would not comprise these for money or fame.
I enjoyed learning a bit about her family, particularly her mother and sisters. She certainly seemed to have many celebrity friends and was able to keep those relationships throughout her long life. She also had many friends who were priests, bishops and nuns.
”Loretta often commented that “if you knew Mama, you'd know me,” but most observers disagree. While the women were similar in many ways, Gladys rarely demanded from herself the high degree of achievement that her daughter did. “
Loretta seems a woman with high standards and morals and was able to avoid getting ahead by the casting couch approach to success. She did have one vice and that was cigarettes. ”At forty, Loretta was still a perfect size six, due in part to her three-packs-a-day cigarette habit. She never exercise.” Her husband Tom commented, “Loretta wouldn't walk across a room if she could get a ride.” She eventually gave the cigarettes up and gained forty pounds.
There were times when she was poor and times when she was financially well-to-do despite her lack of money sense. One very bad financial decision was in an agreement she signed when divorcing her husband Tom which gave him half of her earnings, til death did this end. She was extremely charitable and not only found unique ways to fund some wonderful non-profits but also put her money where her heart was.
The book was peppered throughout with first hand accounts from friends and strangers, these snippets also help to paint a picture of a loved woman.
There were many high points in Loretta's life but there were also sorrows. She kept a secret for many years and when it was revealed it is one that brought much heartache to her life but there was resolution before she died.
There were many things I didn't know about Loretta Young. One, made me sad as had she lived in a different time, one struggle in her life might have been corrected and not one that she had to compensate for. Loretta couldn't read well. ”I can't tell the b's from the d's. And some other letters were upside down.” Dyslexic.
This was not the best nor the most conventional biography I've ever read. The author, Joan Webster Anderson has written many angelic tales and I might have liked to hear Loretta Young's story from another viewpoint but this is the author Loretta Young trusted with her life's story and it was good enough for me.
Before her television days, Loretta made many movies with some of the greats in the movie business. In her career she won two Academy Awards and three Emmy's. I believe I have only seen one of her movies and plan to rectify this as well as find the TV series.
The woman who became Loretta Young born as Gretchen, often called Gretch, will continue to be a woman I admire, one I wouldn't mind knowing and the book Forever Young, was a pleasing read for me.