When I was a little girl, my first impression of Relief Society was slightly skewed. I recall sitting in Sacrament Meeting in Walnut Creek, California, as ward members stood to accept calls or releases from various callings. Therefore, I assumed that the meeting my mother attended on Wednesday mornings was “Release Society,” and that’s where everyone who had been released went to meet together. Over time I learned that Relief Society was much, much more than that.
Originally published in 1990 as Elect Ladies: Presidents of the Relief Society, this volume, Faith, Hope and Charity is updated and continues with biographies of Elaine L. Jack, Mary Ellen Smoot and Bonnie D. Parkin . . . “this volume chronicles the lives, service, and testimonies of the fourteen exemplary sisters who have led the Relief Society to become one of the largest organizations in the world.”
I found it fascinating to read about each of the fourteen women profiled in the book: Emma Hale Smith, Eliza R. Snow, Zina D. H. Young, Bathsheba W. Smith, Emmeline B. Wells, Clarissa Smith Williams, Louise Yates Robison, Amy Brown Lyman, Belle Smith Spafford, Barbara Bradshaw Smith, Barbara Woodhead Winder, Elaine Low Jack, Mary Ellen Wood Smoot and Bonnie Dansie Parkin. I was impressed with the sound research and careful documentation of sources, which provided rich, insightful glimpses into the life of each woman. The authors were also able to interview living relatives, friends and associates to provide unique and personal perspectives in each sketch.
Challenges, weaknesses and difficulties experienced by the various women were addressed with respect and endeared them even more to me. One impression that I had as I read the book was how forward-thinking each president was, and how the seeds planted by earlier presidents saw their fruition in later generations.
I especially enjoyed an anecdote in chapter 9, page 159, entitled “Belle Smith Spafford,” who served as General Relief Society President from 1945 to 1974. She is the first general Relief Society President I remember. Sister Spafford seemed to generate love and generosity everywhere she went, and was an active force in the National Council of Women throughout most of her adult life.
“Even after Belle Smith Spafford was released as Relief Society general president, the president of the National Council of Women, seeing her familiar face in the crowd of women awaiting the start of a council meeting in New York City’s Waldorf-Astoria Hotel, hurried over and asked Belle to sit at the head table. But Belle declined, saying that she had been released as Relief Society general president, and from the executive board of the National Council of Women. The president insisted, however, and Belle was seated at the long table of illustrious women from around the world, including a princess and the presidents of several prominent women’s organizations.
“As the meeting began, the president introduced each of the women by name, country, and organization; but when she came to Belle, she simply said, “You all know our dear Belle.” The women at the table rose to give Belle a standing ovation.
They knew her indeed—as a woman, a sister, and a friend who truly belonged to the world.”
This is an intriguing and inspirational read and offers wonderful insights into the truly elect women who have been so instrumental in organizing, developing and adapting the Relief Society organization into what it is today—the largest and oldest organization for women in the world. Yet it still mirrors the original principles defined by Joseph Smith: “ . . . that the Society of the Sisters might provoke the brethren to good works in looking to the wants of the poor—searching after objects of charity, and in administering to their wants—to assist by correcting the morals and strengthening the virtues of the community . . . not only to relieve the poor, but to save souls.”
—reviewed by Janet Kay Jensen, author of Don’t You Marry the Mormon Boys and co-author of The Book Lover’s Cookbook, Recipes Inspired by Celebrated Works of Literature and the Passages that Inspired Them