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La Différence invisible
Marguerite a 27 ans, en apparence rien ne la distingue des autres. Elle est jolie, vive et intelligente. Elle travaille dans une grande entreprise et vit en couple. Pourtant, elle est différente.
Marguerite se sent décalée et lutte chaque jour pour préserver les apparences. Ses gestes sont immuables, proches de la manie. Son environnement doit être un cocon. Elle se sent agressée par le bruit et les bavardages incessants de ses collègues. Lassée de cet état, elle va partir à la rencontre d’elle-même et découvrir qu’elle est autiste Asperger. Sa vie va s’en trouver profondément modifiée.
Marguerite se sent décalée et lutte chaque jour pour préserver les apparences. Ses gestes sont immuables, proches de la manie. Son environnement doit être un cocon. Elle se sent agressée par le bruit et les bavardages incessants de ses collègues. Lassée de cet état, elle va partir à la rencontre d’elle-même et découvrir qu’elle est autiste Asperger. Sa vie va s’en trouver profondément modifiée.
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First published August 31, 2016
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November 30, 2020
More of a lesson on autism than anything else, written for people who for some reason still are not aware of what it is. It makes me sad and irritated to read books like this, books that must prove that people different from the majority deserve to exist. Every time I come across something like this, I feel like we should all know better by now, and yet, sadly, we don’t, and there is still a multitude of people who need to read this book to gain some understanding and compassion.
The only thing I personally learned is that France is really behind on its knowledge of autism.
P.S. Will I ever see the day when we, people who’d rather hang out at home and read or do puzzles or whatever, neuroatypical or not, are not seen as weirdos?
The only thing I personally learned is that France is really behind on its knowledge of autism.
P.S. Will I ever see the day when we, people who’d rather hang out at home and read or do puzzles or whatever, neuroatypical or not, are not seen as weirdos?
April 28, 2020
Originally published in French in 2016 and published in English for the first time this year, Invisible Differences is the nonfiction story of Marguerite, a 27 year old woman who slowly discovers that she is on the autism spectrum with Asperger’s Syndrome.
Mademoiselle Caroline and Julie Dachez’s book was pretty good. As you’d expect, it’s informative about the condition and gives you a good idea of what life’s like for someone with autism. Not a whole lot happens though, particularly in the first half which just repetitively shows Marguerite’s life, awkwardly not fitting in with her work environment and her boyfriend’s social life and wondering what’s wrong with her.
It also reads a bit like an illustrated pamphlet on autism in the second half, rather than a natural story, with all the information about the condition coming out in one info dump after another. But it’s an interesting condition so reading about it wasn’t that dull and it’s easy to see why it’s been such a difficult condition to classify and why so many people are unaware of what it entails to the person who has it.
I really liked Mademoiselle Caroline’s art which reminded me of other brilliant French cartoonists like Dupuy and Berberian and Penelope Bagieu. The use of colour was clever - the first half is largely black and white with some harsh reds and then, after her diagnosis, you see more colour appearing in the second half until, by the end, everything’s in colour, showing the reader Marguerite has realised a happier, fuller life through understanding who she is.
It’s not the most exciting read but Invisible Differences isn’t boring either and has some very appealing art throughout. Worth a look for anyone wanting to know more about Autism Spectrum Disorder (which is what Asperger’s was renamed in 2013) and/or enjoys slice of life comics.
Mademoiselle Caroline and Julie Dachez’s book was pretty good. As you’d expect, it’s informative about the condition and gives you a good idea of what life’s like for someone with autism. Not a whole lot happens though, particularly in the first half which just repetitively shows Marguerite’s life, awkwardly not fitting in with her work environment and her boyfriend’s social life and wondering what’s wrong with her.
It also reads a bit like an illustrated pamphlet on autism in the second half, rather than a natural story, with all the information about the condition coming out in one info dump after another. But it’s an interesting condition so reading about it wasn’t that dull and it’s easy to see why it’s been such a difficult condition to classify and why so many people are unaware of what it entails to the person who has it.
I really liked Mademoiselle Caroline’s art which reminded me of other brilliant French cartoonists like Dupuy and Berberian and Penelope Bagieu. The use of colour was clever - the first half is largely black and white with some harsh reds and then, after her diagnosis, you see more colour appearing in the second half until, by the end, everything’s in colour, showing the reader Marguerite has realised a happier, fuller life through understanding who she is.
It’s not the most exciting read but Invisible Differences isn’t boring either and has some very appealing art throughout. Worth a look for anyone wanting to know more about Autism Spectrum Disorder (which is what Asperger’s was renamed in 2013) and/or enjoys slice of life comics.
April 12, 2024
***NO SPOILERS***
Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) is becoming more understood, but misconceptions abound, one of the most prevalent being that autistic = Rain Man. Graphic novel Invisible Differences teaches readers about high-functioning ASD by peeking into the life of Marguerite, an auto-fictional character with high-functioning ASD (aka "Asperger's Syndrome," the less preferred term now). Until she seeks answers online, Marguerite is aware that she's different in several ways but doesn't know that her differences are ASD features.
Invisible Differences is translated from the original French, and that the story takes place in France is important. As the author shows—and says outright later—there's a woeful lack of acceptance, and even recognition of, ASD among most French psychologists and psychiatrists. Because Marguerite is able to hold eye contact, doctors dismiss her self-diagnosis, fully confident she doesn't have ASD. Friends say she can't have ASD because she can hold a conversation and doesn't drool.
The book's most important lesson is what the author says toward the end: "Autism is a spectrum, and there are as many kinds of autism as there are autistic people." With that said, one scene does confront the false notion that "everyone is on the spectrum," as Marguerite counters with "Would you tell someone with asthma...'Well, I get out of breath when I run, too!'" When something lies on a spectrum, it means those affected by that something are affected to varying degrees, not that every human being is on the spectrum. The statistic at this time is that roughly one out of every 150 babies is born with ASD, and it's likely the condition is under-diagnosed.
There's some danger in having the word "disorder" in "Autism Spectrum Disorder." Invisible Differences is passionate about showing how high-functioning ASD makes someone different but usually able to manage life satisfactorily, if not always comfortably. It shows that those with high-functioning ASD are simply neurodivergent people living and working in a neurotypical world. Marguerite appears neurotypical to the outside world by looking like everyone else, working a conventional job, caring for herself, having a boyfriend, and loving her pets. Her various social difficulties, preferences, and sensitivities make her fundamentally different. She doesn't come across as disordered in the sense of "diseased" or even "disabled." On the other hand, for the opposite end of the spectrum "disorder" would be correct. There's nuance to autism that the term "Autism Spectrum Disorder" doesn't capture despite acknowledgment of the spectrum aspect.
Invisible Differences succeeds in shedding light on high-functioning ASD. The title is fitting; the main character can blend into the neurotypical world enough that her neurodivergence is undetectable for what it actually is. ASD is also an invisible difference because of its lack of general recognition, understanding, and acceptance. In its psychology focus, this graphic novel reminded me of So Much for Love: How I Survived a Toxic Relationship and Dear Scarlet: The Story of My Postpartum Depression, both sequential-art memoirs that successfully call attention to topics that are little-understood or are stigmatized. Also like those, Invisible Differences is a good introduction to the topic. The author lists a few resources in the back for further reading as well as two videos and the ASAN web site.
Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) is becoming more understood, but misconceptions abound, one of the most prevalent being that autistic = Rain Man. Graphic novel Invisible Differences teaches readers about high-functioning ASD by peeking into the life of Marguerite, an auto-fictional character with high-functioning ASD (aka "Asperger's Syndrome," the less preferred term now). Until she seeks answers online, Marguerite is aware that she's different in several ways but doesn't know that her differences are ASD features.
Invisible Differences is translated from the original French, and that the story takes place in France is important. As the author shows—and says outright later—there's a woeful lack of acceptance, and even recognition of, ASD among most French psychologists and psychiatrists. Because Marguerite is able to hold eye contact, doctors dismiss her self-diagnosis, fully confident she doesn't have ASD. Friends say she can't have ASD because she can hold a conversation and doesn't drool.
The book's most important lesson is what the author says toward the end: "Autism is a spectrum, and there are as many kinds of autism as there are autistic people." With that said, one scene does confront the false notion that "everyone is on the spectrum," as Marguerite counters with "Would you tell someone with asthma...'Well, I get out of breath when I run, too!'" When something lies on a spectrum, it means those affected by that something are affected to varying degrees, not that every human being is on the spectrum. The statistic at this time is that roughly one out of every 150 babies is born with ASD, and it's likely the condition is under-diagnosed.
There's some danger in having the word "disorder" in "Autism Spectrum Disorder." Invisible Differences is passionate about showing how high-functioning ASD makes someone different but usually able to manage life satisfactorily, if not always comfortably. It shows that those with high-functioning ASD are simply neurodivergent people living and working in a neurotypical world. Marguerite appears neurotypical to the outside world by looking like everyone else, working a conventional job, caring for herself, having a boyfriend, and loving her pets. Her various social difficulties, preferences, and sensitivities make her fundamentally different. She doesn't come across as disordered in the sense of "diseased" or even "disabled." On the other hand, for the opposite end of the spectrum "disorder" would be correct. There's nuance to autism that the term "Autism Spectrum Disorder" doesn't capture despite acknowledgment of the spectrum aspect.
Invisible Differences succeeds in shedding light on high-functioning ASD. The title is fitting; the main character can blend into the neurotypical world enough that her neurodivergence is undetectable for what it actually is. ASD is also an invisible difference because of its lack of general recognition, understanding, and acceptance. In its psychology focus, this graphic novel reminded me of So Much for Love: How I Survived a Toxic Relationship and Dear Scarlet: The Story of My Postpartum Depression, both sequential-art memoirs that successfully call attention to topics that are little-understood or are stigmatized. Also like those, Invisible Differences is a good introduction to the topic. The author lists a few resources in the back for further reading as well as two videos and the ASAN web site.
August 24, 2021
The story of a young French woman who finally realizes she has Asperger's and learns how to cope with it, readjusting her life to meet her needs. Her anxiety and frustration comes through the pages as she tries to deal with hypersensitive senses and not knowing how to deal with social situations. She hasn't found any success with doctors or psychiatrists. (The book does explain that France is woefully behind other countries in recognizing and treating forms of autism.) It took her own research and self-diagnosis, before seeking out a doctor who specialized in autism who finally took her seriously.
The art is very European and quirky. It works really well with this story. I like how when the book starts off it's almost in black and white with little spots of color but as Marguerite learns what's different about her and how to cope the colors begin to filter in. My only complaint is that the lettering was sometimes hard to read. I get why the word balloons would change colors to show how Marguerite was hearing things. But there's a reason why capital black print letters on a white background have been used throughout the history of comics. It's because it's the easiest on the eyes. Thin white text on a red background strains the eyes. Overall though I think this was a fantastic book.
The art is very European and quirky. It works really well with this story. I like how when the book starts off it's almost in black and white with little spots of color but as Marguerite learns what's different about her and how to cope the colors begin to filter in. My only complaint is that the lettering was sometimes hard to read. I get why the word balloons would change colors to show how Marguerite was hearing things. But there's a reason why capital black print letters on a white background have been used throughout the history of comics. It's because it's the easiest on the eyes. Thin white text on a red background strains the eyes. Overall though I think this was a fantastic book.
June 19, 2024
Estou me informando sobre o espectro autista a um tempo e fazia tempos que essa hq estava na minha lista. Li super rapidinho e recomendo demais, pra todo mundo. Acho de verdade mesmo que é uma hq que todo mundo deveria ler 💛
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Relendo em 2021. Essa hq sempre faz eu me sentir abraçada.
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Relendo em 2024
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Relendo em 2021. Essa hq sempre faz eu me sentir abraçada.
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Relendo em 2024
March 31, 2021
Probably in part because I have two sons on the autistic spectrum (though neither of them resemble the main focus of this story in the least) and because I am the associate editor of a journal on autism, I loved this book, that tells the story of Marguerite, a woman who is glad to be finally diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome, so she can make sense of who she is and accept herself. She finds a community to connect to and makes changes in her job and various relationships, as a result. In the time I have read this I have recommended it to several people with autism or who are working in the field, or my friends and family members. And now to you!
The artwork makes her story lighter and inviting. There's plenty of information for those trying to make sense of their own or their friends' differences.
The artwork makes her story lighter and inviting. There's plenty of information for those trying to make sense of their own or their friends' differences.
December 22, 2020
I am so glad I picked up this graphic novel memoir today! The struggles of an adult who has been diagnosed of Asperger's Syndrome are described from a totally different perspective as opposed to what we suppose we know about the syndrome. The misconceptions of the people are many, even from those who you considered the closest to. It can be pretty hurtful and disturbing at times. This memoir has done a great job in describing all these misconceptions, the assumptions, the ignorance of the people in general when it comes to autism and the Asperger's Syndrome. I specifically appreciate the author for giving a lot of emphasis on the means and methods of coming to a proper diagnosis of the condition; and the artist for accurately depicting the behaviour of different people towards these conditions as well as for accurately showing how a person with the condition experiences everyday life situations. It's just amazing!
The illustration just fits the description so well I would say.
I would have liked reading the book much better if the font was different/bigger and the dialogue panels were not too small and crowded here and there.
But I am so impressed with the way the book has been illustrated. It's simple and easy to read. And I would say it's educational without a catch! It's not boring, it's not complicated, it's not overwhelming nor underwhelming. Even a middle grade can read it with ease and understanding.
Overall, this graphic novel memoir is composed really well.
One of the best memoirs!
Thank you #NetGalley for the copy of #InvisibleDifferences
The illustration just fits the description so well I would say.
I would have liked reading the book much better if the font was different/bigger and the dialogue panels were not too small and crowded here and there.
But I am so impressed with the way the book has been illustrated. It's simple and easy to read. And I would say it's educational without a catch! It's not boring, it's not complicated, it's not overwhelming nor underwhelming. Even a middle grade can read it with ease and understanding.
Overall, this graphic novel memoir is composed really well.
One of the best memoirs!
Thank you #NetGalley for the copy of #InvisibleDifferences
April 18, 2020
A graphic novel telling the story of Marguerite, slowly discovering that she has Asperger's Syndrome, and then finally finding peace with herself.
Marguerite is 27 years old, has a regular office job and a boyfriend (who is a bit of a dick, if you ask me). She constantly bangs her head against her own behavioural patterns - she can't stand the noisy surroundings of her job, she can't handle irregularities very well, and she has little need for what is seen as 'regular' social contact. Her boyfriend wants to go to parties with her, but she finds this horribly draining, and would rather stay at home. All of this (and more) makes her wonder if there's something wrong with her. It also doesn't help that when she discusses any of this with friends and family, they basically blow it off, saying everybody has off days.
Then she decides to look on the internet, and when she googles her symptoms (as far as they are symptoms, Asperger's is not a disease as such), she sees herself in descriptions of autism and Asperger's. What follows is the long and slow road to diagnosis, and then telling her social circle, and rearranging her life.
I have an anxiety disorder myself (sidenote: there is actually a character with OCD in the book, but OCD is just one form of anxiety disorder) and I would regularly see therapists and psychiatrists to finally find out what was 'wrong' with me. I would get wishy-washy diagnoses, until I did exactly what Marguerite does in the book - simply google my symptoms. So this book hit a personal note with me, as you can understand.
The last twenty or so pages of the book are more general information about Asperger's, and I have to say, I don't think I have Asperger's myself, but quite a few traits sounded familiar to me.
The artwork is very European (the book is French, after all) - clear black and white linework, with beautiful use of colours. Fits the story perfectly.
In the end, what I like so much about the book is that it really takes its time to tell its story, and I can only imagine what a lifeline a book like this will be (and already is) for anyone wondering if they have Asperger's.
(Received an ARC through Netgalley)
Marguerite is 27 years old, has a regular office job and a boyfriend (who is a bit of a dick, if you ask me). She constantly bangs her head against her own behavioural patterns - she can't stand the noisy surroundings of her job, she can't handle irregularities very well, and she has little need for what is seen as 'regular' social contact. Her boyfriend wants to go to parties with her, but she finds this horribly draining, and would rather stay at home. All of this (and more) makes her wonder if there's something wrong with her. It also doesn't help that when she discusses any of this with friends and family, they basically blow it off, saying everybody has off days.
Then she decides to look on the internet, and when she googles her symptoms (as far as they are symptoms, Asperger's is not a disease as such), she sees herself in descriptions of autism and Asperger's. What follows is the long and slow road to diagnosis, and then telling her social circle, and rearranging her life.
I have an anxiety disorder myself (sidenote: there is actually a character with OCD in the book, but OCD is just one form of anxiety disorder) and I would regularly see therapists and psychiatrists to finally find out what was 'wrong' with me. I would get wishy-washy diagnoses, until I did exactly what Marguerite does in the book - simply google my symptoms. So this book hit a personal note with me, as you can understand.
The last twenty or so pages of the book are more general information about Asperger's, and I have to say, I don't think I have Asperger's myself, but quite a few traits sounded familiar to me.
The artwork is very European (the book is French, after all) - clear black and white linework, with beautiful use of colours. Fits the story perfectly.
In the end, what I like so much about the book is that it really takes its time to tell its story, and I can only imagine what a lifeline a book like this will be (and already is) for anyone wondering if they have Asperger's.
(Received an ARC through Netgalley)
December 8, 2020
A 27-year-old French woman named Marguerite feels she is inexplicably losing the struggle of coping with life until she discovers that she has Asperger's in this dramatized or semi-autobiographical account of the author's life. But her self-acceptance is soured by having to make those around her -- her friends and employer -- understand and accept the diagnosis, because apparently France lags far behind in awareness about the spectrum of autism.
If you find this as interesting as I did, I recommend you also check out Camouflage: The Hidden Lives of Autistic Women. The author also has a TED Talk, but it's fairly dry compared to this book, which may speak to the value of the Mademoiselle Caroline's contributions in adapting Dachez's story to the graphic novel format.
If you find this as interesting as I did, I recommend you also check out Camouflage: The Hidden Lives of Autistic Women. The author also has a TED Talk, but it's fairly dry compared to this book, which may speak to the value of the Mademoiselle Caroline's contributions in adapting Dachez's story to the graphic novel format.
September 11, 2016
Je n'écris pas cet avis en tant que personne neurotypique qui a découvert ce qu'était vraiment le syndrome d'asperger, ou comme parent d'un enfant aspie mais en tant que neuroatypique touchée par ce témoignage. Je ne sais pas à quel public les deux autrices s'adressaient le plus, mais ce livre convient à tous : grands et petits, informés et ignorants, autiste ou non.
On entre dans la routine de Marguerite et on se rend vite compte de son « décalage » avec les autres. Au milieu de sa case, elle semble comme un intruse dans ce monde de bruits où on doit parler pour ne rien dire, on où n'a pas le droit de préférer rester seul. Le jeu des couleurs est superbe : du noir et blanc, du rouge pour tous les sons envahissants. On suit Marguerite qui peine, qui prends sur elle, jusqu'à ce qu'elle découvre le mot magique et ce qui se cache derrière : autiste. Mais ça ne s'arrête pas là, car Marguerite doit encore lutter pour se faire entendre, même auprès de spécialistes. Jusqu'au diagnostique où sa vie se remplie de couleurs, comme la BD, et où elle prend un nouveau tournant.
Ce livre m'a serré le cœur (et rempli de joie). Cette jeune femme qui fait le même trajet tous les jours afin de se sentir en sécurité, c'était moi. Cette jeune femme qui court s'enfermer dans les toilettes pour respirer, c'était moi. Cette jeune femme qui marche très vite dans la rue, c'était moi, pas plus tard qu'hier. C'était comme si j'entendais son bureau se remplir de gens, comme si moi aussi je me sentais de plus en plus anxieuse, comme cela m'arrive tous les jours dans les amphi pleins. La joie de découvrir un mot qui explique tout, c'était la mienne. La confusion, la peur de se tromper, aussi. Cette histoire est celle de Marguerite, de Julie, la mienne, et celle de beaucoup d'autres aspies. « Il existe autant de formes d'autisme que de personnes autistes ! » est-il écrit. C'est vrai. Et pourtant cette histoire, ce regard qu'ont les gens, cette stigmatisation, c'est la même pour tous.
Je ne dirais jamais assez l'importance qu'à ce livre, pour moi et pour tout le monde. Il présente l'autisme asperger comme on le voit rarement : du point de vue personnel de quelqu'un de concerné, du point de vue de quelqu'un d'afab (car il ne se présente pas de la même façon chez les personnes amab). On ne voit pas le syndrome tel qu'un manuel le présente, tel que les médias nous le montre (le petit garçon surdoué passionné de trains). On le voit dans la vie de tous les jours, on le voit tel qu'il touche concrètement, de milles façons différentes.
L'annexe « kézako » donne d'autres informations sur ce syndrome, et pleins de références utiles. Cet ouvrage est aussi un point de départ pour sensibiliser à ce syndrome méconnu. Et si tous les lecteurs pouvaient sensibiliser à leur tour en partageant la voie des concernés, ce petit pas deviendrait bien grand.
Mais il parle aussi de toutes les différences, de toutes celles qu'on ne voit pas. Il parle du jugement hâtif qu'on peut porter sur les autres, de la tolérance dont on a tous besoin. Et je pense qu'il est une belle preuve de ce qu'on peut accomplir avec cette tolérance. Ce livre est le résultat d'un travail entre une aspie et une neurotypique (et une maman d'aspies) qui ont su travailler ensemble et s'adapter. Comme quoi, c'est possible, et ça donne les plus beaux résultats. Il suffit de respecter l'autre, et de se respecter soi-même.
On entre dans la routine de Marguerite et on se rend vite compte de son « décalage » avec les autres. Au milieu de sa case, elle semble comme un intruse dans ce monde de bruits où on doit parler pour ne rien dire, on où n'a pas le droit de préférer rester seul. Le jeu des couleurs est superbe : du noir et blanc, du rouge pour tous les sons envahissants. On suit Marguerite qui peine, qui prends sur elle, jusqu'à ce qu'elle découvre le mot magique et ce qui se cache derrière : autiste. Mais ça ne s'arrête pas là, car Marguerite doit encore lutter pour se faire entendre, même auprès de spécialistes. Jusqu'au diagnostique où sa vie se remplie de couleurs, comme la BD, et où elle prend un nouveau tournant.
Ce livre m'a serré le cœur (et rempli de joie). Cette jeune femme qui fait le même trajet tous les jours afin de se sentir en sécurité, c'était moi. Cette jeune femme qui court s'enfermer dans les toilettes pour respirer, c'était moi. Cette jeune femme qui marche très vite dans la rue, c'était moi, pas plus tard qu'hier. C'était comme si j'entendais son bureau se remplir de gens, comme si moi aussi je me sentais de plus en plus anxieuse, comme cela m'arrive tous les jours dans les amphi pleins. La joie de découvrir un mot qui explique tout, c'était la mienne. La confusion, la peur de se tromper, aussi. Cette histoire est celle de Marguerite, de Julie, la mienne, et celle de beaucoup d'autres aspies. « Il existe autant de formes d'autisme que de personnes autistes ! » est-il écrit. C'est vrai. Et pourtant cette histoire, ce regard qu'ont les gens, cette stigmatisation, c'est la même pour tous.
Je ne dirais jamais assez l'importance qu'à ce livre, pour moi et pour tout le monde. Il présente l'autisme asperger comme on le voit rarement : du point de vue personnel de quelqu'un de concerné, du point de vue de quelqu'un d'afab (car il ne se présente pas de la même façon chez les personnes amab). On ne voit pas le syndrome tel qu'un manuel le présente, tel que les médias nous le montre (le petit garçon surdoué passionné de trains). On le voit dans la vie de tous les jours, on le voit tel qu'il touche concrètement, de milles façons différentes.
L'annexe « kézako » donne d'autres informations sur ce syndrome, et pleins de références utiles. Cet ouvrage est aussi un point de départ pour sensibiliser à ce syndrome méconnu. Et si tous les lecteurs pouvaient sensibiliser à leur tour en partageant la voie des concernés, ce petit pas deviendrait bien grand.
Mais il parle aussi de toutes les différences, de toutes celles qu'on ne voit pas. Il parle du jugement hâtif qu'on peut porter sur les autres, de la tolérance dont on a tous besoin. Et je pense qu'il est une belle preuve de ce qu'on peut accomplir avec cette tolérance. Ce livre est le résultat d'un travail entre une aspie et une neurotypique (et une maman d'aspies) qui ont su travailler ensemble et s'adapter. Comme quoi, c'est possible, et ça donne les plus beaux résultats. Il suffit de respecter l'autre, et de se respecter soi-même.
March 30, 2018
Uma graphic novel muito importante, necessária e didática que nos ensina sobre a Síndrome de Asperger e sobre empatia.
Julie Dachez recebeu o diagnóstico aos 27 anos e, ao contrário do que muitas pessoas imaginaram, isso a deixou MUITO feliz, pois com ele, Julie conseguiu se entender melhor.
Sua história pré/durante/pós-diagnóstico foi contada de uma forma muito simples e interessante nessa graphic novel feita junto com a ilustradora Mademoiselle Caroline. Amei o trabalho que ela fez com as cores, usando vermelho para sinalizar situações de estresse e angústia e azul situações de paz e conforto.
No final do livro tem uma pequena cartilha sobre Autismo e Síndrome de Asperger que complementam o objetivo do livro: ensinar as pessoas para que elas possam compreender melhor como é a vida de uma pessoa com o diagnóstico de Asperger.
Queria que todo mundo lesse esse livro :)
Julie Dachez recebeu o diagnóstico aos 27 anos e, ao contrário do que muitas pessoas imaginaram, isso a deixou MUITO feliz, pois com ele, Julie conseguiu se entender melhor.
Sua história pré/durante/pós-diagnóstico foi contada de uma forma muito simples e interessante nessa graphic novel feita junto com a ilustradora Mademoiselle Caroline. Amei o trabalho que ela fez com as cores, usando vermelho para sinalizar situações de estresse e angústia e azul situações de paz e conforto.
No final do livro tem uma pequena cartilha sobre Autismo e Síndrome de Asperger que complementam o objetivo do livro: ensinar as pessoas para que elas possam compreender melhor como é a vida de uma pessoa com o diagnóstico de Asperger.
Queria que todo mundo lesse esse livro :)
April 29, 2020
How I read this: Free ebook copy received through NetGalley
If you're someone who thinks they might be autistic, this is the book to read. If you're someone who knows a person who's been recently diagnosed and you're struggling to understand it, this is also the book for you. If you see autistics solely through the lens of stereotypes, then all the more it's a story for you - to understand and grow out of this view.
I liked EVERYTHING about this graphic novel. Everything. From the preface that's incredibly encouraging to those who have always felt they're too different, to the drawing style which is simply precious, to the story itself, which was SO. UNBELIEVABLY. RELATABLE.
Anyway, I really loved the drawings in this graphic novel. Not only are they adorable and the style is amazing, but I've never seen someone ACTUALLY DRAW SOUND and make me feel like I'm hearing it. Situations are just so emotionally presented, it takes me back to my own past and such situations. There's a part where Marguerite slowly feels herself become invisible and disappear while she's sitting at a loud, crowded party, trying to work out how she even fits into all of this. It's so true to how it feels to not belong - becoming invisible, where it seems that even the noise is more visible than you. The artist did such an amazing job.
But the story itself is just as amazing as the drawings are.
From the very first pages where Marguerite gets assaulted with all the awful din of an open plan office or gets called in for a talk with the boss because "not socializing with workmates during your free time" is somehow part of your work performance, everything was just so relatable. I was the one who brought my own lunch and was always misunderstood when the others would rather spend the entire hour waiting in line in a cafe and spending way too much on food that had way too little actual nutrients. I was also the one who would just cut small talk short because, you know, there was work to do - but apparently not actually doing work is preferred in most workplaces? But don't let me rant on, because I'll never stop - I could write a book about every one of these situations and how I could relate to them.
There is so much more that I'd like to share, but I can't, cause some people might know themselves and I don't want them to. I had even written it all out, but then I realized, I really can't share this. This is how close to the bone the story cut.
This book is absolutely recommended. 5 glowing stars. This book was so wonderful. And the only reason I'm not reviewing it on my blog or social media with more detail is because it might be about me, and I'm not sure I can talk about it too openly. I don't want too much detail on this where people from my private life can read it, if you get what I mean.
I thank the publisher for giving me a free copy of the ebook in exchange to my honest review. This has not affected my opinion.
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If you're someone who thinks they might be autistic, this is the book to read. If you're someone who knows a person who's been recently diagnosed and you're struggling to understand it, this is also the book for you. If you see autistics solely through the lens of stereotypes, then all the more it's a story for you - to understand and grow out of this view.
I liked EVERYTHING about this graphic novel. Everything. From the preface that's incredibly encouraging to those who have always felt they're too different, to the drawing style which is simply precious, to the story itself, which was SO. UNBELIEVABLY. RELATABLE.
Anyway, I really loved the drawings in this graphic novel. Not only are they adorable and the style is amazing, but I've never seen someone ACTUALLY DRAW SOUND and make me feel like I'm hearing it. Situations are just so emotionally presented, it takes me back to my own past and such situations. There's a part where Marguerite slowly feels herself become invisible and disappear while she's sitting at a loud, crowded party, trying to work out how she even fits into all of this. It's so true to how it feels to not belong - becoming invisible, where it seems that even the noise is more visible than you. The artist did such an amazing job.
But the story itself is just as amazing as the drawings are.
From the very first pages where Marguerite gets assaulted with all the awful din of an open plan office or gets called in for a talk with the boss because "not socializing with workmates during your free time" is somehow part of your work performance, everything was just so relatable. I was the one who brought my own lunch and was always misunderstood when the others would rather spend the entire hour waiting in line in a cafe and spending way too much on food that had way too little actual nutrients. I was also the one who would just cut small talk short because, you know, there was work to do - but apparently not actually doing work is preferred in most workplaces? But don't let me rant on, because I'll never stop - I could write a book about every one of these situations and how I could relate to them.
There is so much more that I'd like to share, but I can't, cause some people might know themselves and I don't want them to. I had even written it all out, but then I realized, I really can't share this. This is how close to the bone the story cut.
This book is absolutely recommended. 5 glowing stars. This book was so wonderful. And the only reason I'm not reviewing it on my blog or social media with more detail is because it might be about me, and I'm not sure I can talk about it too openly. I don't want too much detail on this where people from my private life can read it, if you get what I mean.
I thank the publisher for giving me a free copy of the ebook in exchange to my honest review. This has not affected my opinion.
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October 20, 2020
I am so glad I picked up this graphic novel memoir today! The struggles of an adult who has been diagnosed of Asperger's Syndrome are described from a totally different perspective as opposed to what we suppose we know about the syndrome. The misconceptions of the people are many, even from those who you considered the closest to. It can be pretty hurtful and disturbing at times. This memoir has done a great job in describing all these misconceptions, the assumptions, the ignorance of the people in general when it comes to autism and the Asperger's Syndrome. I specifically appreciate the author for giving a lot of emphasis on the means and methods of coming to a proper diagnosis of the condition; and the artist for accurately depicting the behaviour of different people towards these conditions as well as for accurately showing how a person with the condition experiences everyday life situations. It's just amazing!
The illustration just fits the description so well I would say.
I would have liked reading the book much better if the font was different/bigger and the dialogue panels were not too small and crowded here and there.
But I am so impressed with the way the book has been illustrated. It's simple and easy to read. And I would say it's educational without a catch! It's not boring, it's not complicated, it's not overwhelming nor underwhelming. Even a middle grade can read it with ease and understanding.
Overall, this graphic novel memoir is composed really well.
One of the best memoirs!
Thank you #NetGalley for the copy of #InvisibleDifferences
The illustration just fits the description so well I would say.
I would have liked reading the book much better if the font was different/bigger and the dialogue panels were not too small and crowded here and there.
But I am so impressed with the way the book has been illustrated. It's simple and easy to read. And I would say it's educational without a catch! It's not boring, it's not complicated, it's not overwhelming nor underwhelming. Even a middle grade can read it with ease and understanding.
Overall, this graphic novel memoir is composed really well.
One of the best memoirs!
Thank you #NetGalley for the copy of #InvisibleDifferences
January 24, 2018
HQ sobre o dia a dia de uma menina portadora de síndrome de Asperger narrada do ponto de vista de uma pessoa com síndrome de Asperger, o que é um belo diferencial. Curtinha, de pouco texto, uma preciosidade. Introvertido do jeito que sou, consigo entender pelo menos uma parte do que a protagonista passa. E acho que a HQ abre vários canais de empatia além desse para quem quer entender melhor o assunto ou para quem simplesmente quer entender melhor os próprios limites e os limites do outro.
March 9, 2019
Magnifique bande dessinée, tant par son histoire que ses illustrations, j'ai beaucoup aimé le style, qui raconte la vie d'une jeune femme asperger et des difficultés que cela lui cause. Mélange entre biographie et texte informatif sur l'autisme/asperger, ce livre rempli d'humour démontre les différences personnelles et le besoin/nécessité de plus d'acceptation et de compréhension envers ces différences. J'ai beaucoup ! Merci à Sakina pour la recommandation!!
August 14, 2022
Un super roman graphique sur l'autisme/le syndrome d'asperger.
Très bien expliqué et illustré.
Les injustices sociales face aux personnes neuroatypiques sont très bien démontrées aussi.
Pour avoir deux frères autistes je les ai retrouvés en Marguerite.
À découvrir assurément.
Très bien expliqué et illustré.
Les injustices sociales face aux personnes neuroatypiques sont très bien démontrées aussi.
Pour avoir deux frères autistes je les ai retrouvés en Marguerite.
À découvrir assurément.
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November 29, 2022Not rating this one.
As someone with autism (specifically the type that would be considered Asperger's if that diagnosis was still in use), this didn't really do much for me. It all felt like things that I already knew or had experienced, and it was downright miserable to read at times. I can't really be upset at that since it's realistic as to how we're often treated, but it was pretty hard to read pages and pages of people telling Marguerite how autism was a fad, or how she could be cured, or was just faking it.
That being said, I would definitely pass it on to people who are not autistic, since I think it would probably do more for them than it did for me. It's a humanizing and sometimes sweet look into the life of an autistic woman (which was nice to see! Autistic people in general are rarely represented, especially in non-stereotypical or offensive ways, and autistic women have next to no rep).
I really enjoyed Marguerite, although I do feel like this occasionally did stray into the trope of infantilizing people who are on the spectrum. I also feel like some things (namely ) were a bit too glossed over.
The art was also very cute.
As someone with autism (specifically the type that would be considered Asperger's if that diagnosis was still in use), this didn't really do much for me. It all felt like things that I already knew or had experienced, and it was downright miserable to read at times. I can't really be upset at that since it's realistic as to how we're often treated, but it was pretty hard to read pages and pages of people telling Marguerite how autism was a fad, or how she could be cured, or was just faking it.
That being said, I would definitely pass it on to people who are not autistic, since I think it would probably do more for them than it did for me. It's a humanizing and sometimes sweet look into the life of an autistic woman (which was nice to see! Autistic people in general are rarely represented, especially in non-stereotypical or offensive ways, and autistic women have next to no rep).
I really enjoyed Marguerite, although I do feel like this occasionally did stray into the trope of infantilizing people who are on the spectrum. I also feel like some things (namely ) were a bit too glossed over.
The art was also very cute.
April 16, 2020
Thanks NetGalley and the publisher for a digital copy in exchange for an honest review.
This graphic novel is about Margaret, a woman who feels socially awkward (among other things) and then she discovers she has Asperger Syndrome. The author inspired this story on her very own, which definitely shows, since it all feels very real.
It was really easy for me to relate to the main character. Even though we are very different in some ways, we are very similar in others. Plus I really liked the way the author used the colors, since most of the illustrations are black and white and she uses some specific colors - especially red and yellow - to highlight some parts and dialogs to show the protagonist's emotions intensified.
I highly recommend it if you want to get to know more about this syndrome, because it deals with it in a very accessible and delicate way.
This graphic novel is about Margaret, a woman who feels socially awkward (among other things) and then she discovers she has Asperger Syndrome. The author inspired this story on her very own, which definitely shows, since it all feels very real.
It was really easy for me to relate to the main character. Even though we are very different in some ways, we are very similar in others. Plus I really liked the way the author used the colors, since most of the illustrations are black and white and she uses some specific colors - especially red and yellow - to highlight some parts and dialogs to show the protagonist's emotions intensified.
I highly recommend it if you want to get to know more about this syndrome, because it deals with it in a very accessible and delicate way.
August 22, 2020
This was great. Marguerite receives the diagnosis of Aspergers as an adult and finds that finally figuring out why all her life she has always felt so awkward actually improves her life so much. Her journey to both the diagnosis and afterwards, especially since her autism has features that are more socially acceptable (you know when people tell you that you are just a bit quirky) that she managed to advocate for herself and ask for fairness. That's really what I most took away: equality is mostly about fairness. If a person cannot function in a loud workspace, isn't it fair to give them access to a quieter place? So much to think about.
August 24, 2022
magnifique roman graphique ne pouvant pas mieux illustrer la réalité des gens autistes / Asperger. Marguerite est si attachante et son quotidien est celui de plusieurs plusieurs personnes. à lire absolument!
June 10, 2020
“For Marguerite, getting around is a real ritual; she hates unforeseen events, she hates them”.
That just flew by....
This comic was first published in France and only translated to English this year.
It's written by a Julie who was diagnosed with Aspergers as an adult; as part of her awareness campaign for Autism and Aspergers.
Truly enlightening!
I love how the art starts out all dull and brightness up as the MC becomes more comfortable with herself.
*I received this copy from Netgalley in exchange for an honest review.*
That just flew by....
This comic was first published in France and only translated to English this year.
It's written by a Julie who was diagnosed with Aspergers as an adult; as part of her awareness campaign for Autism and Aspergers.
Truly enlightening!
I love how the art starts out all dull and brightness up as the MC becomes more comfortable with herself.
*I received this copy from Netgalley in exchange for an honest review.*
September 22, 2022
I thought this comic was wonderful, specifically about a woman discovering she has Asperger's Syndrome and the ways in which society's expectations clash with how she functions on a personal level. The illustrations depict Marguerite's struggles in everyday life. The art is visually appealing and engaging, and the dialogue bubbles and squiggles help to illustrate the disturbing noise.
August 6, 2021
★★★½
Lastige deze om te beoordelen. Er zijn veel dingen die ik 4 sterren vond. Marguerite zelf en haar worstelingen met het dagelijkse leven, de grafische vertaling daarvan (steeds een beetje meer kleur), de eerste helft die ik erg sterk vond, stukjes herkenning. Ook vond ik vond het verhaal van Marguerite een aandoenlijk verhaal, ik had wel een zwak voor haar.
Maar er was voor mij ook een andere kant aan het verhaal. Ik vond de tegenstelling tussen mensen mét autisme en de rest van de wereld zonder autisme te zwart-wit en vanaf de tweede helft neemt het verhaal steeds meer de vorm van een handleiding voor beginners aan. Tot ik dus het nawoord las waarin werd uitgelegd hoe dit boek tot stand is gekomen en hoe de tussenstand in Frankrijk is wat betreft autisme (veel en veel magerder dan ik had gedacht, anno nu).
Julie Dachez (1985) is een Franse sociaal psycholoog, docent en activist voor autismerechten en de hoofdpersoon in deze graphic. In 2016 werd ze de eerste openlijk autistische persoon die een proefschrift over dit onderwerp verdedigde in Frankrijk. => kun je je dat voorstellen.... 2016!! Mijn mond viel open.
Voor een inkijkje: https://www.instagram.com/p/CSPBZfponqh/
Lastige deze om te beoordelen. Er zijn veel dingen die ik 4 sterren vond. Marguerite zelf en haar worstelingen met het dagelijkse leven, de grafische vertaling daarvan (steeds een beetje meer kleur), de eerste helft die ik erg sterk vond, stukjes herkenning. Ook vond ik vond het verhaal van Marguerite een aandoenlijk verhaal, ik had wel een zwak voor haar.
Maar er was voor mij ook een andere kant aan het verhaal. Ik vond de tegenstelling tussen mensen mét autisme en de rest van de wereld zonder autisme te zwart-wit en vanaf de tweede helft neemt het verhaal steeds meer de vorm van een handleiding voor beginners aan. Tot ik dus het nawoord las waarin werd uitgelegd hoe dit boek tot stand is gekomen en hoe de tussenstand in Frankrijk is wat betreft autisme (veel en veel magerder dan ik had gedacht, anno nu).
Julie Dachez (1985) is een Franse sociaal psycholoog, docent en activist voor autismerechten en de hoofdpersoon in deze graphic. In 2016 werd ze de eerste openlijk autistische persoon die een proefschrift over dit onderwerp verdedigde in Frankrijk. => kun je je dat voorstellen.... 2016!! Mijn mond viel open.
Voor een inkijkje: https://www.instagram.com/p/CSPBZfponqh/
September 30, 2020
The charming art really makes this straightforward story of living with Asperger's shine. I liked the main character and it was nice to see her journey to understanding and acceptance, but it had a bit of an "afterschool special" feel to it. On the other hand, it was horrifying to find out how France has treated (and still treats) its children with Autism.
**Thanks to the author, artist, publisher, and NetGalley for a free copy in exchange for an honest review.
**Thanks to the author, artist, publisher, and NetGalley for a free copy in exchange for an honest review.
August 2, 2020
I just love when graphic novels are both entertaining and educational at the same time, and with this particular one, made me feel like I need to educate myself more not only on mental health but also on different aspects of autism, since it is a spectrum and not everybody acts the same.
Fortunately, the author shared her journey with us and in these pages we can see how she lives day to day: how noises or being in a crowd affect her, and how she’s not really good at keeping casual conversation; ultimately, how her routine and other activities help her recharge. Which, doesn’t mean she’s weird or blunt, or that she’s being “too sensitive”, it just means people like her, perceive the world differently.
Autism is something a lot of people don’t understand unless they’re directly in touch with someone that has it (such as parents, relatives, or even themselves.) And thanks to this book now I’m aware that most of the cases out there are not properly diagnosed and so, they’re often mistreated and misjudged for a big part of their lives.
In general, we tend to be ignorant about these topics but the worst thing that we can do is staying that way. What I get from this book is that people with autism can work, can take care of themselves and can have bonds like all people do.
I’m really glad I got the chance to read it and I would absolutely recommend you check it out not only because it is a light-hearted graphic novel, but because I feel like even kids might understand what happens when you have the Asperger syndrome –and they might even see themselves in it.
I received an e-book copy in exchange for an honest review via NetGalley.
Fortunately, the author shared her journey with us and in these pages we can see how she lives day to day: how noises or being in a crowd affect her, and how she’s not really good at keeping casual conversation; ultimately, how her routine and other activities help her recharge. Which, doesn’t mean she’s weird or blunt, or that she’s being “too sensitive”, it just means people like her, perceive the world differently.
Autism is something a lot of people don’t understand unless they’re directly in touch with someone that has it (such as parents, relatives, or even themselves.) And thanks to this book now I’m aware that most of the cases out there are not properly diagnosed and so, they’re often mistreated and misjudged for a big part of their lives.
In general, we tend to be ignorant about these topics but the worst thing that we can do is staying that way. What I get from this book is that people with autism can work, can take care of themselves and can have bonds like all people do.
I’m really glad I got the chance to read it and I would absolutely recommend you check it out not only because it is a light-hearted graphic novel, but because I feel like even kids might understand what happens when you have the Asperger syndrome –and they might even see themselves in it.
I received an e-book copy in exchange for an honest review via NetGalley.
April 18, 2020
The ARC of this book was provided by the publisher via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.
This graphic novel explores autism and Asperger's syndrome. I appreciated how the themes were dealt with and even though it all comes from the personal experience of the author, I believe this book might be a nice way for people to recognize themselves. It was very nice to see Marguerite come alive after her diagnosis, it was something freeing for her and I loved reading about her standing up for herself and for who she is. I highly recommend this book!
This graphic novel explores autism and Asperger's syndrome. I appreciated how the themes were dealt with and even though it all comes from the personal experience of the author, I believe this book might be a nice way for people to recognize themselves. It was very nice to see Marguerite come alive after her diagnosis, it was something freeing for her and I loved reading about her standing up for herself and for who she is. I highly recommend this book!
June 18, 2020
Okay so I got this from #Netgalley and I am so excited to tell you about this book. As a cognitive neuroscientist, this book addresses a lot of issues that people in the autism spectrum face every day of their lives and the discrimination they experience because of their difference.
Here we follow Marguerite who is super 'awkward' basically she is different and for the first half of the book, we explore how different she is, how awkward and invisible she feels around people, her lack of outstanding social humor, sensitivity to noise, her love for her routine and her isolation which explains her disorder.
The lack of understanding of her so-called friends, boyfriend, and family adds to her depression as she isn't aware of what her disorder is. This book also addresses the lack of general awareness of autism spectrum disorders in France and the behavior even medical professionals have concerning it.
So when she finally gets a diagnosis she is elated (which is understandable, because knowing there is a problem, is when you can adjust your environment to cope with your disorder) because now she knows that there is a reason for her difference and she began to make changes. first by getting rid of her boyfriend who doesn't understand her, then friends that made her seem small.
I believe that this a good book to understand although minutely what people with Asperger's syndrome face every day of their lives and how we as a society can help them make the best of life even with their disorder. I also like the conversation she had with her friend who honestly was just so uninformed about autism spectrum disorders.
I like the graphics and the color contrasts, it made for an enjoyable reading experience. There are also links and information at the end of the story about autism and helplines to contact.
Here we follow Marguerite who is super 'awkward' basically she is different and for the first half of the book, we explore how different she is, how awkward and invisible she feels around people, her lack of outstanding social humor, sensitivity to noise, her love for her routine and her isolation which explains her disorder.
The lack of understanding of her so-called friends, boyfriend, and family adds to her depression as she isn't aware of what her disorder is. This book also addresses the lack of general awareness of autism spectrum disorders in France and the behavior even medical professionals have concerning it.
So when she finally gets a diagnosis she is elated (which is understandable, because knowing there is a problem, is when you can adjust your environment to cope with your disorder) because now she knows that there is a reason for her difference and she began to make changes. first by getting rid of her boyfriend who doesn't understand her, then friends that made her seem small.
I believe that this a good book to understand although minutely what people with Asperger's syndrome face every day of their lives and how we as a society can help them make the best of life even with their disorder. I also like the conversation she had with her friend who honestly was just so uninformed about autism spectrum disorders.
I like the graphics and the color contrasts, it made for an enjoyable reading experience. There are also links and information at the end of the story about autism and helplines to contact.
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January 24, 2022A graphic memoir, originally written in French, that shares the story of a woman struggling with sensitivity and social awkwardness, causing difficulties at work and in relationships. She eventually learns that she has Aspberger's, which is not very understood in France. Having a diagnosis and explanation allows her to learn about her condition, meet others on the autism spectrum, and learn strategies for adapting. I really loved the quirky artwork and the use of color--very sparingly in the beginning, and more vivid as Marguerite becomes more fully alive as she better understands herself and her condition. *Reviewed by Angie from Reader Services*
October 3, 2022
Translated from French, this comic tells the story of Marguerite, a woman who has never fit in well in social situations, who is very sensitive to sounds and textures, who prefers the company of her pets to most people. Eventually, she is diagnosed with Asperger's syndrome, and is able to make changes to her life to better accommodate her needs and feels a lot of affirmation at finally having the language to describe her experience. From the information at the back of the book, I gather France lags behind even the US in terms of understanding of and support for people with Autism and Asperger's; to me this story read as fairly basic. It's clear, nicely drawn, and easy to read, so hopefully it will be a good resource; if it helps some readers either see themselves, or better understand a friend or co-worker, then it will have done its job!
November 2, 2017
Although it is beautifully written and draw and I immensely enjoyd reading this book, I must confess the last pages where you are supposed to find some etra information on autism and aspergers are incredibly innacurate. It blew my mind that such a complex phenomenon was oversimplified in such a misleading way.
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