Seriously suprised at all the four and five star reviews. Being a military wife I find this story a little silly. For one thing, and yes I know the author addresses this in the forward, but its crazy that the main character and her dead husband both grew up right outside of San Diego, then get stationed in San Diego, then continue to stay stationed there until she is 29! Oh, and it is crazy that as a life guard she manages to hold onto her house after her husband dies (In CA of all places). How is she paying the bills???
Also, I find it funny how the media portrays military spouses (like Army Wives), where all the spouses are just the bestest friends, always there for each other...no. Girls are girls, and though there is some good support in the military, people are still people and the wives will dislike each other and judge each other and fight or just plain old have nothing in common with each other a decent amount of the time.
Third, there is just no way that Joe had a dog as a single sailor. He himself talks about how much he deploys and how late he works all the time. No sorry, that dog really bothered me.
Maybe I am being too hard on the book, but it wasn't just those things that made me not like this book. The romance was also silly, I love you, no I can't do this right now, no I do love you, no wait I don't. Shoot me.