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我們都是千瘡百孔的戀人
多年之後，我們都成了千瘡百孔的戀人，再見面時，我們幾乎都認不出對方的模樣了，屬於我們的過去，似乎脆弱得彈指間就會飛滅，但只要給我們一點點時間，我們還是認得出曾經愛過的那個人，那還是我所愛的。——陳雪
我們正在戀愛嗎？我真正愛過了嗎？被認真愛過了嗎？
如此多名之為愛的事物為何大多數時刻都令人困惑，又充滿懊悔？
如此多帶著愛情外裝的關係，為什麼無法使人快樂？
你知道這些戀人關係終將結束。你終究沒有能力令自己留在他們／她們身旁，或者使他們留在你身邊。
一切到底出了什麼差錯？
所以你從頭學起。
第一個字跳進眼裡：「不安」；
第二個字：「傷害」；
第三個字：「分離」、「脆弱」、「爭吵」、「改變」、「糾纏」、「依賴」、「告白」……
許多細碎的字詞，像飄下的落雨，大大小小、或輕或重，紛紛落入你眼際，就是這些字，標誌了你的往事歷歷，你站定在字詞雨中，接受它們的撞擊，彷彿這是最後一次機會，你非常愛惜。
我們正在戀愛嗎？我真正愛過了嗎？被認真愛過了嗎？
如此多名之為愛的事物為何大多數時刻都令人困惑，又充滿懊悔？
如此多帶著愛情外裝的關係，為什麼無法使人快樂？
你知道這些戀人關係終將結束。你終究沒有能力令自己留在他們／她們身旁，或者使他們留在你身邊。
一切到底出了什麼差錯？
所以你從頭學起。
第一個字跳進眼裡：「不安」；
第二個字：「傷害」；
第三個字：「分離」、「脆弱」、「爭吵」、「改變」、「糾纏」、「依賴」、「告白」……
許多細碎的字詞，像飄下的落雨，大大小小、或輕或重，紛紛落入你眼際，就是這些字，標誌了你的往事歷歷，你站定在字詞雨中，接受它們的撞擊，彷彿這是最後一次機會，你非常愛惜。
280 pages, Paperback
Published May 10, 2016
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About the author
陳雪
48 books14 followersChen Xue, born 1970, is a key figure in the development of a queer literature in Taiwan.
She graduated from the Chinese Department of National Central University in 1993.
Since 1995, she has produced 10 novels and short story collections. Her 2009 novel The Possessed was nominated for three Taiwanese literary prizes, and her 2004 work Child on the Bridge was published in 2011 in Japanese, with an English translation in preparation.
The short stories "In Search of the Lost Wings of Angels" (tr. Patricia Sieber; tr. Fran Martin) and "Dust" (tr. Howard Goldblatt) are available in English-language anthologies.
Her story "Butterfly"/《蝴蝶》, was made into a film by Hong Kong woman director, Yan Yan Mak, and won awards in Taiwan, 2004, and Hong Kong, 2005.
She graduated from the Chinese Department of National Central University in 1993.
Since 1995, she has produced 10 novels and short story collections. Her 2009 novel The Possessed was nominated for three Taiwanese literary prizes, and her 2004 work Child on the Bridge was published in 2011 in Japanese, with an English translation in preparation.
The short stories "In Search of the Lost Wings of Angels" (tr. Patricia Sieber; tr. Fran Martin) and "Dust" (tr. Howard Goldblatt) are available in English-language anthologies.
Her story "Butterfly"/《蝴蝶》, was made into a film by Hong Kong woman director, Yan Yan Mak, and won awards in Taiwan, 2004, and Hong Kong, 2005.
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