Sometimes nostalgia overcomes, especially when one is referencing a much-loved book while passing on a family legacy, in this case, baking. My wife, as always, felt compelled to bake pies for Thanksgiving. This is high ritual magick in our house. A major winter holiday without my wife’s apple and pumpkin pies is, in a word, unthinkable. And the pies were delicious, of course. Even more so this year in light of the fact that our seventeen year-old son helped with the baking. Now you must understand that the boy has always had a knack for cooking, but it’s a talent that he does not exercise very often. But my wife was getting over a cold, my daughter was busy with other stuff, and I…..well, I know damn well to stay out of the way when the flour starts flying. And so it fell to the boy to be the primary helper, and he stepped up to the plate in a big way. He made both of the crusts from scratch, and did a GREAT job of decorating the pies with Totoro embellishments. Thus a skill has now been passed down, and we may just have a pastry chef in the family.
But wait…….Goodreads is a review site, Mike. Why all the fluff? Just get to the damn book review already……
Ok, well…..hold on a second. This is MY review, and I get to present it any way that I like. No one is obligated to read this if they don’t want to. The thing is….you need CONTEXT to do a proper review, and I always refer back to one of the most basic rules of writing when I approach these things: write what you KNOW. So you’re going to have to put up with a bit of the Jandrok domestic life here if you wanna get to the good stuff.
My wife and I got married back in 1990. Books and a love of reading were a big factor in our getting together on a serious level. The fact that I could outlast my then-girlfriend at the used book store was a HUGE plus in my favor, let me tell you. It’s a habit that continues to this day. So somewhere around the second year of our marriage we managed to unearth a battered old copy of “The Fannie Merritt Farmer Boston Cooking School Cookbook.” It was stuck in the racks at our favorite bookstore, and priced at a ridiculous $2.00. It’s a 10th edition, revised and published in 1959, beat to hell, full of notes and recipes and food stains from the original owner and…...it’s a freaking treasure. There is such a vast amount of culinary knowledge packed within these 596 pages that it almost staggers the mind.
You get EVERYTHING in this one book. From beverages to meats to veggies to desserts to pastries to pickles to canning and…...IT’S ALL HERE!!!! Now look, I enjoy cooking, but I learned so much from using this cookbook over the years that I feel like an expert in the kitchen or on the grill. My wife has used it primarily for baking purposes, but anyone who enjoys cooking can benefit from the massive amount of information presented within. It’s more than a cookbook, it’s a work of art. I’ve picked up the occasional cookbook through the years, but they almost always make their way back to the buyback pile eventually. No other cookbook that I have ever handled even comes close to this bad boy.
There are also a good number of blank pages at the end of the book for the user to write down their own recipes, and we have just about filled up all of that space. And yes, I may have to do some book repair one of these days. The top of the spine is now torn, a few of the pages coming loose from the fabric. But I’ll fix it up and maybe put a mylar cover on it. For a book as old and well-used as it is it’s really not in too awful a shape.
Look, I’ll tell you now…..because I have cancer and legacy is an important thing to me. A book like this, one that has been used and loved for so long…..it takes on a life of its own. It’s a heirloom, yes, but it’s more than that. It’s a memory of a life well spent while learning and enjoying the fine arts of cooking and baking. Food is life. Food is love. And maybe I’m not just reviewing a book at this point, I’m reviewing an experience. And maybe that’s not what you are here for, maybe you just want me to say that it’s a great book and you should buy it yadadadadadada……….but folks, that ain’t the way I roll. I got into Goodreads as a form of therapy and a way to better track and document my reading habits. But what I have found through this review process is a way to CONNECT to people. And that’s worth more to me than the other stuff.
Now I almost never mention my cancer in these forums. I have made an uneasy peace with my mortality and I don’t want my disease to define me. I’m doing okay, taking the occasional maintenance chemo treatment, and generally living a more or less normal(ish) life. But it’s important to this review, because of the idea that I have in my mind that I need to pass down things to my kids that have MEANING. So maybe you’re getting a bit more than you bargained for when you just wanted a cookbook review, but this is MY review space and I need to get this stuff out there…….
Yes, this a great damn book and you should buy a copy. But I would urge you to use that thing often, spill crap all over it, crinkle the pages, write in the margins, make a big freaking mess of the entire book. And then find someone important to you in your life that you can pass it down to when it’s time. Because that way you can pass those memories down with it. A book is only alive when it’s read and used, otherwise it’s just a dead thing sitting on a shelf somewhere. If you like to cook or bake, get a copy of this. Make it alive. KEEP it alive.
So there. Maybe the crappiest review I have ever put down on paper, but I’m glad I did it. Some stuff just needs to be said. Go forth. Cook. Bake. Live. And if you have two kids, flip a coin to see who gets it in the will. Or if you’re smart like us, buy a couple of other copies and give those out NOW. We will figure the rest out later.
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