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لم يخبرنا أحد بهذا من قبل : المال والحياة رسائل لاحفادي
ان تمتع المرء بوجود أحفاد حوله يعد متعة كبيرة وغير متوقعة. في هذا الكتاب يفعل المؤلف ما يتمنى أن يقوم به كل الأجداد من أجل أحفادهم فهو يجمح الخبرات الحياتية والعملية التي مر بها ويشارك أحفاده تلك الدروس بطريقة جذابة حتى تصبح حياتهم أفضل فكل الأجداد يتمنون فعل الشيء نفسه لأحفادهم .
228 pages, Paperback
First published January 1, 2012
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January 18, 2016
The "Letters to My Grandchildren" gimmick got real old, real fast, but giving credit where it's due, that's probably what prompted me to pick the book up in the first place. The advice is good for the right recipient: a fresh out of college, eager kid who wants to be a mover and a shaker. For others with different goals and temperaments, the advice is hit and miss. Not everyone wants to live in a city; not everyone has the wherewithal for, or the interest in, Spooner's investment advice. But if you've got a little go-getter on your hands who could use some guidance, this might be worthwhile.
This book loses an additional star for the name-dropping. We get it - Spooner's elbows are raw from all the rubbing they do with Important People.
This book loses an additional star for the name-dropping. We get it - Spooner's elbows are raw from all the rubbing they do with Important People.
March 7, 2021
Decent book. Not incredible, not bad. Just decent. He didn't share anything life shatteringly unique or useful, but he talked about some good principles. My main takeaway was the importance of building and maintaining relationships. Second takeaway would be don't take life too seriously. Like I said, nothing most people wouldn't already agree with, but it is good to be reminded.
March 1, 2016
وصايا جد لحفيديه في المال والاستثمار والحياة وعلاقاتها. بشكل عام الكتاب لم يزدني فائدة كثيرًا بسبب أنه تحدث عن الاستثمار في نصف وصايا الكتاب وهو موضوع لايهمني بصراحة لكنني قرأت الكتاب على أية حال
May 13, 2018
Would definitely read again! Had a lot of good practical & solid wisdom for most aspects of life
March 26, 2012
My grandfather use to hold my hand and call me his Tuzy. Yeah that was his nickname for me. I would ask why and he said I looked like a Tuzy. Of course I would wrinkle my brow and ask what a Tuzy looked like? You know it...he would answer....YOU! I smiled so much when I was with him. As I aged and grew and learned more and more he would share better words of wisdom. He advised me on buying my first car. What to look for, how to budget cost and repairs, and how to keep it in good shape. He also shared tips on how to be happy with my life. The best advice was to take 5 minutes every day, preferable when I first woke up to count my blessings. That would set the tone for my day. He was right. I am so thankful to have had the time with him that I did.
But not everyone has that joy. College Girl did not grow up with nurturing grandfathers. She never knew the comfort of a leathery hand holding hers. And she also did not get the pearls of wisdom that comes with a full life. So with her fixing to graduate from college I thought I would do my best to share some of that with her. No I do not know the best advice from a grandfather but John D. Spooner does. "No One Ever Told Us That" is his letters that he shares to his grandchildren. And with us too.
He has great advice like my own grandfather. Here are some of his thoughts.
Never call a busy person first thing Monday morning.
Always look as though you know where your going.
Everything you own will fluctuate in value.
Expect to do everything yourself.
Always keep hints of your childhood in life.
There are so many more. With economic times being quite trying it is a time to keep a level head and a strong will power. This can be fortified with sound advice. I think this will be one of those quiet presents that will not be noticed at first. But since she does read I know she will not keep the cover of this book closed. And once inside College Girl will relish the love of a gift that helps one go to the next stage in life.
But not everyone has that joy. College Girl did not grow up with nurturing grandfathers. She never knew the comfort of a leathery hand holding hers. And she also did not get the pearls of wisdom that comes with a full life. So with her fixing to graduate from college I thought I would do my best to share some of that with her. No I do not know the best advice from a grandfather but John D. Spooner does. "No One Ever Told Us That" is his letters that he shares to his grandchildren. And with us too.
He has great advice like my own grandfather. Here are some of his thoughts.
Never call a busy person first thing Monday morning.
Always look as though you know where your going.
Everything you own will fluctuate in value.
Expect to do everything yourself.
Always keep hints of your childhood in life.
There are so many more. With economic times being quite trying it is a time to keep a level head and a strong will power. This can be fortified with sound advice. I think this will be one of those quiet presents that will not be noticed at first. But since she does read I know she will not keep the cover of this book closed. And once inside College Girl will relish the love of a gift that helps one go to the next stage in life.
November 21, 2014
أكثر ماشدني في الكتاب طريقة كتابة المؤلف للفصول على شكل
رسائل تجعلك تتقبل فكرة النقد والنصح التي يوجهها الكاتب
لأحفاده و للقراء معاً.
هنا بعض الإقتباسات التي أعجبتني :
"أعرفُ أنَّ هذا أمر عَفَا عليهِ الزمن، و لَكني أُحبُ الخِطابات؛ أُحبُ كِتَابَتها و تَسَلُمها"
"أعْتَقِد أنَّ الرَسائِل المَكتوبَة بخطِ اليد تَكْتَسب مزيداً مِنْ القيمة و الثُقل؛ فَغالِباً ما يتمُ الإحتِفاظ بتلكْ الرسائل كَذِكرى لشيء عزيز"
"إن عقولنا تمتلئ بالأفكار و الخواطر؛ فالكلمات و و الأفكار تتدفق من حولنا باستمرار"
"إن الناس لا ينسون الأفعال الصغيرة الطيبة"
"أحب عائلتك و لكن لا تجعلها تستنزف طاقتك بالكامل"
"الحياة نادراً ماتعطينا ما نتنبأ به"
"إذا كنت تجلب أرباحاً للشركة، فيجب أن تُعامل كملك. في كل عام لابد أن تطلب شيئاً،حتى لو لم تحتج إليه"
"بيئة العمل لها أهمية بنفس مقدار أهمية العمل نفسه"
" عندما تبدآن في تكوين عائلة و تتزايد ضغوط العمل. حينها يجب أن تتذكرا أمراً أساسياً: لا تكونا مصدراً للإزعاج في المنزل"
رسائل تجعلك تتقبل فكرة النقد والنصح التي يوجهها الكاتب
لأحفاده و للقراء معاً.
هنا بعض الإقتباسات التي أعجبتني :
"أعرفُ أنَّ هذا أمر عَفَا عليهِ الزمن، و لَكني أُحبُ الخِطابات؛ أُحبُ كِتَابَتها و تَسَلُمها"
"أعْتَقِد أنَّ الرَسائِل المَكتوبَة بخطِ اليد تَكْتَسب مزيداً مِنْ القيمة و الثُقل؛ فَغالِباً ما يتمُ الإحتِفاظ بتلكْ الرسائل كَذِكرى لشيء عزيز"
"إن عقولنا تمتلئ بالأفكار و الخواطر؛ فالكلمات و و الأفكار تتدفق من حولنا باستمرار"
"إن الناس لا ينسون الأفعال الصغيرة الطيبة"
"أحب عائلتك و لكن لا تجعلها تستنزف طاقتك بالكامل"
"الحياة نادراً ماتعطينا ما نتنبأ به"
"إذا كنت تجلب أرباحاً للشركة، فيجب أن تُعامل كملك. في كل عام لابد أن تطلب شيئاً،حتى لو لم تحتج إليه"
"بيئة العمل لها أهمية بنفس مقدار أهمية العمل نفسه"
" عندما تبدآن في تكوين عائلة و تتزايد ضغوط العمل. حينها يجب أن تتذكرا أمراً أساسياً: لا تكونا مصدراً للإزعاج في المنزل"
April 13, 2020
These letters were more rambling & story telling than actual useful information for young adults just starting out. The letters were written to the author's grandchildren, and those are the people who would most appreciate them. He did a lot of name dropping throughout, leading me to suspect that these letters got published because the author knows someone.
I did find a few shiny nuggets though.
1. Get a 30-year fixed-rate mortgage so the payment is low. You can always pay more in prosperous times, but the low payment will help you through lean times.
2. 8% interest doubles your money in 9 years.
3. Own your age in bonds, the rest in stocks.
I did find a few shiny nuggets though.
1. Get a 30-year fixed-rate mortgage so the payment is low. You can always pay more in prosperous times, but the low payment will help you through lean times.
2. 8% interest doubles your money in 9 years.
3. Own your age in bonds, the rest in stocks.
April 15, 2021
So-so. Will give it as a gift to a recent college grad, but I think she probably knows enough to weed out what does not apply to her and to accept (with appropriate grains of salt) what might be useful.
April 2021, have revised my rating -- even though the grad in question may know this stuff, she has gone on to be a successful financial advisor, so maybe this helped, even a bit. I know I learned something in one chapter, about accepting to be an executor to an estate (don't do it, and if you do, don't do it for free!).
April 2021, have revised my rating -- even though the grad in question may know this stuff, she has gone on to be a successful financial advisor, so maybe this helped, even a bit. I know I learned something in one chapter, about accepting to be an executor to an estate (don't do it, and if you do, don't do it for free!).
May 9, 2014
قرأت النسخة المترجمة بعنوان "لم يخبرنا أحد بهذا من قبل" وانني أعتقد أن الكتاب سيكون ممتاز لو كنت أعيش في نفس بيئة المؤلف...حيث أن الكثير من الأمور التي تحدث عنها في الكتاب لا تثير اهتمامي أو لا أعرف عنها شيئا.. ولكن بعض النصائح العامة أظن بأنني استفدت منها وهي التي لم تجعل الكتاب مملا بشكل كامل.
March 3, 2025
I truly appreciate all the letters in this book on truely frank and honest tricks to navigate relationships, money, and careers that no one teaches us in school and in most unaware families.
I can’t wait to write similar letters to my grandkids one day.
This book deserves more stars and reads!
I can’t wait to write similar letters to my grandkids one day.
This book deserves more stars and reads!
December 5, 2022
جيد إلى حدٍ ما، لطالما تساءلت عن دروس الحياة المستفادة من العمر الطويل. يعيب الكتاب هو كثرة حديثه عن المال والأسهم، ليتضح لاحقًا بأن الكاتب انما هو مستشار مالي.
March 18, 2018
The tone of the writing is warm and sweet, but the myriad of tips and advice in the book are probably best suited for fresh college graduates that honestly have no idea about how the world truly works. To older readers, a few interesting tidbits of wisdom can be found here and there, but the name dropping and worn-out cliches make the book less interesting and useful than it could have been.
December 28, 2017
There was some good advice sprinkled in here, but this was more about "money" than "life". I was not at all familiar with John Spooner - I suppose he's a pretty good writer for a financial planner, but didn't strike me as someone I would particularly like.
October 13, 2017
Content is good but examples given to justify content are poor
February 14, 2018
Short concise life tips delivered in a clean format. Couldn't ask for a better book.
July 11, 2018
Learned lots!
August 16, 2019
A bit over-simplified. Easy read, but not much substance. Interesting guy, but may not read any further of his books.
November 28, 2012
PRO: I couldn't wait to read this book when it first came out. Quick read. He offers up some good tips, such as:
--Differentiating yourself from the millions of other Americans & job seekers by handwriting a letter on good quality paper. Especially since texting and email has been so popular, people will remember you more for writing them a letter.
--"every day for the rest of your lives, the news is going to be terrible!"
--Make a list of 5 people you'd contact to get you back on track if you lost your job
--"Cultivate a sense of flexibility."
--"Remember this about friendship: you have to work for it, you have to stay in touch. It won't automatically be there for you."
CON: I couldn't wait NOT to read this book once I finally got it. Towards the end it seemed to drag on and on...
--Differentiating yourself from the millions of other Americans & job seekers by handwriting a letter on good quality paper. Especially since texting and email has been so popular, people will remember you more for writing them a letter.
--"every day for the rest of your lives, the news is going to be terrible!"
--Make a list of 5 people you'd contact to get you back on track if you lost your job
--"Cultivate a sense of flexibility."
--"Remember this about friendship: you have to work for it, you have to stay in touch. It won't automatically be there for you."
CON: I couldn't wait NOT to read this book once I finally got it. Towards the end it seemed to drag on and on...
September 13, 2012
I love the delivery; the content is both useful and sentimental. A grandfather (who happens to be a successful and famous man) shares his rich wisdom of age and experience with his grandchildren who are themselves coming of age. In his love for them, he does something quite rare, he makes a deliberate point to share his experiences for the purpose of the childrens' learning. I wish I had a little more of that in my childhood, and even my adult life. It is a sweet mix of practical mentorship and emotional love, delivered in handwritten letters.
It may be a slow read if you are a "get-to-the-point" type. I personally enjoyed the embellishments and will make sure to read this title again.
It may be a slow read if you are a "get-to-the-point" type. I personally enjoyed the embellishments and will make sure to read this title again.
January 26, 2014
It's always interesting to talk to old people, especially the ones who can talk things without being too much of a preacher.
Spooner has collected letters to his grandkids. Some are good and some so so.
I can see some good lessons here -
- All life is relationships.
- Take a longer mortgage . Lower payments help in stressful times and you can always pay earlier if you got the money.
- Being an owner of properties for investment is not fun. The returns are not great and dealing with tenants is a pain.
Spooner has collected letters to his grandkids. Some are good and some so so.
I can see some good lessons here -
- All life is relationships.
- Take a longer mortgage . Lower payments help in stressful times and you can always pay earlier if you got the money.
- Being an owner of properties for investment is not fun. The returns are not great and dealing with tenants is a pain.
November 30, 2012
I am not the author's target audience, being a 48 year old mother of four kids, but I was not impressed. I read this book to see whether it might be worthwhile giving to my college aged daughter, but found it rather dull and repetitive. Spooner has plenty here for a good graduation address, but not enough insight for a whole book.
February 12, 2015
What a thoughtful and caring grandparent to take the time to compose a series of letters using his insights to help guide the next generation. I know I would have been thrilled had my grandparents left me such an inheritance.
September 25, 2016
I can't say that I really like this book, but I find that some of the topics mentioned are really of my liking, something that I would like to hear or get advised from someone who's older, mature and full of experience about life.
July 25, 2012
The author is funny and informative. Lots of advice, financial and otherwise for the post-college years.
August 7, 2012
This was a quick and easy read with tidbits about investing and life lessons from a famous older man. Worth the few hours it took to read it.
December 8, 2012
Great advice with few exceptions, and easy to read. Recommended.
December 13, 2012
Very informative book for kids right out of college- and those still deciding what to do with their life and money.
December 21, 2012
Dragged on at the end. But definitely had some wisdom to share.
November 14, 2013
Blah blah blah. Never caught my interest.
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