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Connected Parenting: How to Raise a GREAT Kid

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When a child is acting out, parents often respond with anger. But there is a better way. Drawing on twenty years of experience as a child therapist, Jennifer Kolari explains that children act up when they feel an adult does not understand their concerns. The answer is parenting with empathy, which Kolari helps parents implement via her proven CALM

Connect emotionally

match the Affect of the child

Listen to what your child is saying

Mirror their emotion back to show  understanding



With this simple strategy, parents can connect with their child in any situation to reduce anxiety, de-escalate tantrums instantly and increase self-esteem. Insightful and empowering, Connected Parenting is filled with step-by-step advice and examples from families that have been transformed, often within weeks. It will bring out the best in you—and your child.

256 pages, Kindle Edition

Published July 19, 2016

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January 17, 2020
...the most effective way to change behavior is through non defensiveness and unfailing compassion...

...connect before you correct...

Many wonderful pieces of advice in this book. The CALM technique and mirroring in general are valuable components of healthy communication between parents and children. I’d recommend this book hands down. Now, how to get hubby to read it too... 🤔
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February 8, 2024
FANTASTIC parenting book, every parents must read. Have read a lot of parenting books and this trumps them all!
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