This book is a lot like sitting and listening to your Grandma talk on and on about the good old days. The text abruptly switches topics merely because a formality was brought up and she goes off on a tangent. Finally as though realizing that she is off topic she comes back to finish the story. Honestly I only like about half of it. Most of my reason is I feel her story is inconsistent with the line on the cover "Live a big life. As big as you can make it." I disagree with what she seemed to think a big life is. To me a big life is not measured in dollars, fame, or places traveled. Rather I feel a big life is measured in happiness, time spent with loved ones, staying committed to them through thick and thin, self reliance, generosity, and obstacles in life overcome. In essence, people are the heart of a "big life". The man who hasn't seen the wonders of the world, or have a lucrative career (but makes enough to take care of his own), is beloved by neighbors, spouse, children, grandchildren, parents, friends, and even strangers is he that lives a big life. The man who finds himself selflessly serving those around him on a regular basis. This is a life to look up to. Anyway she spends much of her life ditching marriages and relationships so she can travel, get a new job, and even be famous. A lot of this is done recklessly and she relies on family and friends to pay her way or bail her out when she runs out of funds. She then goes into a phase with a lucrative job and the fame that comes with it. In my opinion this is where her life becomes more interesting, she realizes she is unhappy with riches and fame. She starts her own business and commits herself more to relationships after this. My favorite stories are being a war child, the library, rescuing the kids off the street, Jewish friend, NFL reruns, her son's in-laws, collecting love, and her dad's war friend.