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Conversation Casanova: How to Effortlessly Start Conversations and Flirt Like a Pro
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Discover The Secrets to Smooth, Effortless Conversations That Will Make You Irresistible To WomenImagine having the power to walk up to any woman, at any time, in any environment…and never struggling with what to say or coming off as “awkward”?
This isn't just a fantasy. It's entirely achievable, and "Conversation Casanova" is your key to making it happen. The proven systems and strategies within the pages of this book show you how to effortlessly start conversations, flirt & connect with women, and eliminate your social anxiety.
And don’t worry, there aren’t any cringey “pick up artist tactics” or scripts for what to say.
Instead, you’ll get frameworks for how to build your conversation and flirting skills, so you can showcase your personality and make authentic connections.
We want you to learn genuine social skills that truly improve your life, not “gimmicks.”
In "Conversation Casanova," you'll
Confident Approaches: Unlock strategies to approach women in any situation with unwavering confidence.Engaging Openers: Discover five simple conversation starters so you never hesitate when you see a beautiful woman walk by.Dates on Create a “girl-getting machine” for yourself with online dating to easily get 2-3 dates with quality women every week (even if you’re a busy guy)Deep Connection Tactics: Move past small talk to form genuine connections.The Art of Flirting: Master the subtleties of flirting that spark chemistry & tension.Winning Conversational Mindsets: Learn science-backed mental frameworks for captivating discussions.First Date Fireworks: Questions that turn the tables and get her chasing after you.How to Captivate with Stories: Learn to tell stories that enthrall and intrigue.The Top-Tier Man Formula. As you embody and convey the attractive qualities laid out, you’ll easily put yourself in the top 10% of men in the dating marketplaceAbundant Dating. Instead of choosing a girlfriend or life partner out of scarcity (like most men do), you’ll be able to choose the best possible option from a place of abundance.And much more...
Each chapter includes actionable tips, allowing you to practice and perfect your conversation skills. As you apply these tactics, you'll become a true “Conversation Casanova” and become the man others envy, attracting high quality women with ease.
As a Complimentary Bonus, you’ll receive TWO PDFs:
The Approach Anxiety Buster Simple strategies to eliminate “approach anxiety” so you never miss opportunities with attractive women.The Top Tier Dating Profile Kickstart How to instantly 5-10X your matches on dating apps so you get more dates with women you’re excited about.
GET 2 FREE BONUSES WITH YOUR THE APPROACH ANXIETY BUSTER AND TOP TIER DATING PROFILE GUIDES INCLUDED!
Discover The Secrets to Smooth, Effortless Conversations That Will Make You Irresistible To WomenImagine having the power to walk up to any woman, at any time, in any environment…and never struggling with what to say or coming off as “awkward”?
This isn't just a fantasy. It's entirely achievable, and "Conversation Casanova" is your key to making it happen. The proven systems and strategies within the pages of this book show you how to effortlessly start conversations, flirt & connect with women, and eliminate your social anxiety.
And don’t worry, there aren’t any cringey “pick up artist tactics” or scripts for what to say.
Instead, you’ll get frameworks for how to build your conversation and flirting skills, so you can showcase your personality and make authentic connections.
We want you to learn genuine social skills that truly improve your life, not “gimmicks.”
In "Conversation Casanova," you'll
Confident Approaches: Unlock strategies to approach women in any situation with unwavering confidence.Engaging Openers: Discover five simple conversation starters so you never hesitate when you see a beautiful woman walk by.Dates on Create a “girl-getting machine” for yourself with online dating to easily get 2-3 dates with quality women every week (even if you’re a busy guy)Deep Connection Tactics: Move past small talk to form genuine connections.The Art of Flirting: Master the subtleties of flirting that spark chemistry & tension.Winning Conversational Mindsets: Learn science-backed mental frameworks for captivating discussions.First Date Fireworks: Questions that turn the tables and get her chasing after you.How to Captivate with Stories: Learn to tell stories that enthrall and intrigue.The Top-Tier Man Formula. As you embody and convey the attractive qualities laid out, you’ll easily put yourself in the top 10% of men in the dating marketplaceAbundant Dating. Instead of choosing a girlfriend or life partner out of scarcity (like most men do), you’ll be able to choose the best possible option from a place of abundance.And much more...
Each chapter includes actionable tips, allowing you to practice and perfect your conversation skills. As you apply these tactics, you'll become a true “Conversation Casanova” and become the man others envy, attracting high quality women with ease.
As a Complimentary Bonus, you’ll receive TWO PDFs:
The Approach Anxiety Buster Simple strategies to eliminate “approach anxiety” so you never miss opportunities with attractive women.The Top Tier Dating Profile Kickstart How to instantly 5-10X your matches on dating apps so you get more dates with women you’re excited about.
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May 22, 2017
This is a really good book. Some men use to have a lot of prejudice with books that talk about relationship from a man point of view. However like all prejudice, this kind of thought can't help but limited your knowledge.
One thing that needs to be highlighted is that the book doesn't show any misogyny or presents women in a heavy stereotypical manner (though is impossible to write a book like this without using some generalizations), which is a common feature in books in the area.
One thing that needs to be highlighted is that the book doesn't show any misogyny or presents women in a heavy stereotypical manner (though is impossible to write a book like this without using some generalizations), which is a common feature in books in the area.
January 13, 2021
It's really amazing book. Before this book, I was feeling very lonely and sad. But After finishing this book , I am feeling very happy and full of confidence. It totally changed my thoughts regarding women. A big thanks to Dave Perrota.👍👊
April 25, 2023
- Mindset is rather important, author noted that the thinking of, "all women are attracted to me until proven otherwise" garners more confidence
- Take responsibility of your life: for most people, they react to things happening. Author noted that a person should understand in order to be successful, he needs to take life to his own hands rather being reactive
- Avoid living based on what other seeks as validation
- Slow down
- Stop waiting "for the right moment" as such time will never come. Go get what you want and being unafraid to admit so (author noted that it's wrong for guys to feel ashamed to admit his sexual desire for someone else since it's natural and not something to be ashamed of)
- Take responsibility of your life: for most people, they react to things happening. Author noted that a person should understand in order to be successful, he needs to take life to his own hands rather being reactive
- Avoid living based on what other seeks as validation
- Slow down
- Stop waiting "for the right moment" as such time will never come. Go get what you want and being unafraid to admit so (author noted that it's wrong for guys to feel ashamed to admit his sexual desire for someone else since it's natural and not something to be ashamed of)
January 20, 2019
I read it to gain an insight on how men think about dealing with women, so when I come across one of these cases I can know what's natural and what's too pretentious and wannabe. But this book has some equally good insights for women as well. Especially the following parts : Approaching the opposite sex with right intentions, how to strike deeper conversations and how to be a engaging storyteller without giving away way too much. Pretty much worth a read!
December 15, 2021
Mediocre, Interesting Points But Falls Short
The introduction provided value and was well written. As you progress further the book falls short, becomes too linear, and contains several grammatical errors.
A good book for someone who has no idea where to begin. But a poor guide on how to be genuine, natural, and honest.
The introduction provided value and was well written. As you progress further the book falls short, becomes too linear, and contains several grammatical errors.
A good book for someone who has no idea where to begin. But a poor guide on how to be genuine, natural, and honest.
January 3, 2021
This book is a must-read for a wannabe pickup artist.
Idealize the content of this book = turn into an utter douchebag.
I gave it a whopping 3* instead of a well-deserving 1* because I can see its appeal in the eyes of an aspiring womanizer.
Idealize the content of this book = turn into an utter douchebag.
I gave it a whopping 3* instead of a well-deserving 1* because I can see its appeal in the eyes of an aspiring womanizer.
December 24, 2019
Just another guy writing an ebook to make some passive income.
Then he tries to sell you more of his stuff. This book will give you some tips but that is it. Not worth it.
Then he tries to sell you more of his stuff. This book will give you some tips but that is it. Not worth it.
December 15, 2019
What a great book to read!
This book articulates the details very well on how to have a interesting conversation with a girl and keep it flowing. As a person who struggles to maintain an excellent conversation, I will apply his advices in this book in real life to my friends and any future women I will meet.
This book articulates the details very well on how to have a interesting conversation with a girl and keep it flowing. As a person who struggles to maintain an excellent conversation, I will apply his advices in this book in real life to my friends and any future women I will meet.
January 10, 2018
Great structure and useful info
From an anxious, self-conscious and scared guy's perspective, I can honestly say that the way this book is structured helped me understand and memorize the information effectively. Thank you!
From an anxious, self-conscious and scared guy's perspective, I can honestly say that the way this book is structured helped me understand and memorize the information effectively. Thank you!
June 9, 2018
Really great read!!!!
I really enjoyed the insight on learning how to be more confident, smooth, patient when talking to woman, it's opened a new version of myself that I will continue to improve and explore more avenues for myself and relationships with woman, thank you
I really enjoyed the insight on learning how to be more confident, smooth, patient when talking to woman, it's opened a new version of myself that I will continue to improve and explore more avenues for myself and relationships with woman, thank you
January 24, 2017
Childish advice helpful to cheat a few answers. But, probably the author's right, the target readers, like the author, don't see women as more than a vagina with lots of rights.
October 26, 2017
Borderline rape culture nonsense.
August 6, 2019
Not bad, not great.
Author does hit points of truth. However the book itself is quite simplistic. A starter pack for communication with anyone really.
Author does hit points of truth. However the book itself is quite simplistic. A starter pack for communication with anyone really.
May 21, 2021
The Author clearly has never been a pro.
August 1, 2021
Great book. It was very nice and easy to read. Dave shares some great advices in this book. The book is very practical and will help you improve your communication skills.
April 17, 2022
Z pewnością ciekawe pomysły ale jak dla mnie to za mało - najgorsza do zastosowania lekcja to chyba "podejście do kobiety i zagadanie", no ja po prostu nie umiem się przełamać a kobiety pojawiają się raz na miesiąc i to z daleka i trudno z taką sympatią się oswoić...
Nie umiem zagadać tak od po prostu jeśli myślę o dziewczynie a ją tak rzadko widuję i to z obstawą, są jeszcze inne aspekty które mnie hamują ... Kurczę niech ta dziewczyna poczyta Casanove i zagada ;P
A tak na serio to autor mało co tłumaczy i nie ma tzw wprowadzenia do każdego tematu czyli story i przygotowania psychicznego i psychologii dziewczyny - no ok trochę jest ale małooo ...
Daję 4 STAR za ciekawe tematy do rozmów i ostrzeżenia czego nie poruszać w rozmowie a głównie dlatego, że nie czytałem żadnej innej książki w tym temacie.
Ps. Droga nieznajoma powiedz mi "Cześć" lub chociaż "Dzień Dobry" bo zawstydziłem się gdy chrumkałaś... ;(
Niemniej muszę jeszcze raz poczytać i chociaż wykuć tematy których nie poruszać bo ja zawsze jakąś wtopę walnę...
;*
Nie umiem zagadać tak od po prostu jeśli myślę o dziewczynie a ją tak rzadko widuję i to z obstawą, są jeszcze inne aspekty które mnie hamują ... Kurczę niech ta dziewczyna poczyta Casanove i zagada ;P
A tak na serio to autor mało co tłumaczy i nie ma tzw wprowadzenia do każdego tematu czyli story i przygotowania psychicznego i psychologii dziewczyny - no ok trochę jest ale małooo ...
Daję 4 STAR za ciekawe tematy do rozmów i ostrzeżenia czego nie poruszać w rozmowie a głównie dlatego, że nie czytałem żadnej innej książki w tym temacie.
Ps. Droga nieznajoma powiedz mi "Cześć" lub chociaż "Dzień Dobry" bo zawstydziłem się gdy chrumkałaś... ;(
Niemniej muszę jeszcze raz poczytać i chociaż wykuć tematy których nie poruszać bo ja zawsze jakąś wtopę walnę...
;*
October 3, 2020
Perhaps I'm giving it four stars because I used its strategies and struck out on a date that felt like a bland interview. Nonetheless, the book has useful nuggets that resonate with me. One is the strategy to defeating approach anxiety: always assume that a girl is interested in you until proven otherwise. Keeping this in mind lets you go with the mindset that half the work is already done and she's attracted to you to begin with. Other important things mentioned in the book were about staying away from "short answer" questions and really tapping into her emotions. Dave Perrotta mentions in the beginning that this book is not a book that you read and put aside. It's a manual to use in practice. And that's what I intend to do with it.
November 14, 2021
The book teaches you exactly what it says.
Very well thought out and systematic.
Goes through mindset, taking responsibility, reactive vs proactive, failing forward, and much more.
After that talks about initiating conversations as well as carrying them. When to start and when to end a convo. How to direct it in a wholesome way and particular topics that you can leverage to get the most out of conversations. Emphasis on delivery is present as well.
Speaking with intention seems almost common sense but too often we speak just to fill the void left behind by the silence. This book will definitely add value to your conversations whether it's with the purpose of flirting or not.
I really liked that it accounted for various situations and approaches. Most books don't do that, they simply give you a "1 size fits all" approach.
Very well thought out and systematic.
Goes through mindset, taking responsibility, reactive vs proactive, failing forward, and much more.
After that talks about initiating conversations as well as carrying them. When to start and when to end a convo. How to direct it in a wholesome way and particular topics that you can leverage to get the most out of conversations. Emphasis on delivery is present as well.
Speaking with intention seems almost common sense but too often we speak just to fill the void left behind by the silence. This book will definitely add value to your conversations whether it's with the purpose of flirting or not.
I really liked that it accounted for various situations and approaches. Most books don't do that, they simply give you a "1 size fits all" approach.
March 5, 2022
I struggle with any book that reduces billions of people down to some simple formulaic equations, and parts of this book are no different. The second half of the book especially struck me as a little too stiff, a little too shallow... a little too Pick Up Artist.
However, that being said, the book opens with some more interesting advice (usually the parts that were about focusing on getting into the right mindset and on things you can change about yourself rather than focusing on techniques to use on women), and the book gets a couple of stars for that much at least.
The final star is for the fact that this book doesn't overstay its welcome. It's a quick read and therefore the bad doesn't get chance to outweigh the good.
However, that being said, the book opens with some more interesting advice (usually the parts that were about focusing on getting into the right mindset and on things you can change about yourself rather than focusing on techniques to use on women), and the book gets a couple of stars for that much at least.
The final star is for the fact that this book doesn't overstay its welcome. It's a quick read and therefore the bad doesn't get chance to outweigh the good.
March 1, 2023
Why should you communicatewith sexual intent?-It destroys any chance of you being in a friendzone.
Ask open-ended questions,
Dont give away too much too quickly. dont be a completely an open book.
Dominance and prosocialorientation are the most attractive traits.
Prosocial behaviour-when you are concered about rights,feelings and welfareof other people.
Prosocial behavior indicates that a man is social, successfull with women, and has abundance in his life(both with woman and with money)
Secondary qualities.
adventurousness-everybody loves spontaneous people. Someone that makes them feel alive,challenge them, and excite them.
Appreciation of beuaty-art,food,wine,women.
Ask open-ended questions,
Dont give away too much too quickly. dont be a completely an open book.
Dominance and prosocialorientation are the most attractive traits.
Prosocial behaviour-when you are concered about rights,feelings and welfareof other people.
Prosocial behavior indicates that a man is social, successfull with women, and has abundance in his life(both with woman and with money)
Secondary qualities.
adventurousness-everybody loves spontaneous people. Someone that makes them feel alive,challenge them, and excite them.
Appreciation of beuaty-art,food,wine,women.
June 9, 2019
Simple, Actionable, Doesn’t Make You Feel Like a Creep
Conversation Casanova was helpful for me in eliminating a lot of the intimidation that comes from deciding to step out of your comfort zone with connecting with women because it gives you actionable self-improvement and conversational tips you can apply straight away. Moreover, his mindset affirmations and honest questions on why you want to connect with women had me examine myself in a way that I found refreshing and useful.
Conversation Casanova was helpful for me in eliminating a lot of the intimidation that comes from deciding to step out of your comfort zone with connecting with women because it gives you actionable self-improvement and conversational tips you can apply straight away. Moreover, his mindset affirmations and honest questions on why you want to connect with women had me examine myself in a way that I found refreshing and useful.
May 22, 2020
'A very good beginner's book but with a very basic framework'
The methods mentioned are simple and easy, so they seem like they would work for the masses in terms of approaching new women. But I'd prefer something that would actually break down seduction for women psychology. Above-average tips are provided in general but nothing relates to actual women psychology in this book. I wish the book had more content on how to carry the conversation easily and for longer, how to actually flirt better so they feel connected.
The methods mentioned are simple and easy, so they seem like they would work for the masses in terms of approaching new women. But I'd prefer something that would actually break down seduction for women psychology. Above-average tips are provided in general but nothing relates to actual women psychology in this book. I wish the book had more content on how to carry the conversation easily and for longer, how to actually flirt better so they feel connected.
June 13, 2020
If your a bumbling Introvert like me it's quite helpful
It's not a cheesy pick up artist book or something like that. It's blueprint to help avoid the pitfalls of droll and pointless conversations that lead to nowhere. I enjoyed this book because I'm not particularly handsome and if I have to rely on my personality to get me dates In sh*t out of luck. So at least I have this book to kind of coach me thru a conversation until my confidence builds up or else I would hanging from my neck in closet somewhere
It's not a cheesy pick up artist book or something like that. It's blueprint to help avoid the pitfalls of droll and pointless conversations that lead to nowhere. I enjoyed this book because I'm not particularly handsome and if I have to rely on my personality to get me dates In sh*t out of luck. So at least I have this book to kind of coach me thru a conversation until my confidence builds up or else I would hanging from my neck in closet somewhere
March 2, 2021
Interesting and helpful book
It is a very nice inspirational book, I'd recommend to any guy out there, either if you were, already are or wanna be a Casanova. It will remind you of the importance of having a purpose to pursue in life, and It will reinforced those interrelational skills you probably already have or it will give you those you didn't but definitely need, most importantly It will help you reconnect with women in a respectful interesting way, being more appreciative of their femenine beauty and the different qualities that makes every woman special.
It is a very nice inspirational book, I'd recommend to any guy out there, either if you were, already are or wanna be a Casanova. It will remind you of the importance of having a purpose to pursue in life, and It will reinforced those interrelational skills you probably already have or it will give you those you didn't but definitely need, most importantly It will help you reconnect with women in a respectful interesting way, being more appreciative of their femenine beauty and the different qualities that makes every woman special.
March 8, 2021
Short and fun read
The book is really easy to read, the guys doesn’t to spend a lot of time on stories or bs which is appreciated for this sort of books. I’ll say the book is a confirmation of common knowledge and things you probably already know. If you are heavily and introvert it will be more suitable for you. I respect the content and the ideas some of them are gene backed up by scientific prove. Some other are pure personal experience of the author.
Overall short, concrete book in how to approach women and keep an okey conversation.
The book is really easy to read, the guys doesn’t to spend a lot of time on stories or bs which is appreciated for this sort of books. I’ll say the book is a confirmation of common knowledge and things you probably already know. If you are heavily and introvert it will be more suitable for you. I respect the content and the ideas some of them are gene backed up by scientific prove. Some other are pure personal experience of the author.
Overall short, concrete book in how to approach women and keep an okey conversation.
October 11, 2021
It was okay. A decent amount of the advice felt like common sense, but that may just be because I've read a few books on marketing/conversations before and have picked up on other things in day to day life. Some of the more helpful and pointed things I got from this book came from the author talking about his experience quitting his job, starting up a blog and traveling around the world. But at times it definitely came off as braggadocios, which is a little ironic considering that is one of the things he preached against
June 13, 2022
#34 of 100 self help books
Good
The book is really easy to read, the guys doesn’t to spend a lot of time on stories or bs which is appreciated for this sort of books. I’ll say the book is a confirmation of common knowledge and things you probably already know. If you are heavily and introvert it will be more suitable for you. I respect the content and the ideas some of them are gene backed up by scientific prove. Some other are pure personal experience of the author.
Overall short, concrete book in how to approach women and keep an okey conversation.
Good
The book is really easy to read, the guys doesn’t to spend a lot of time on stories or bs which is appreciated for this sort of books. I’ll say the book is a confirmation of common knowledge and things you probably already know. If you are heavily and introvert it will be more suitable for you. I respect the content and the ideas some of them are gene backed up by scientific prove. Some other are pure personal experience of the author.
Overall short, concrete book in how to approach women and keep an okey conversation.
May 24, 2020
Life changing book
Honestly speaking if I had read this book 3 years back, I would have got the girl I wanted to. But, unfortunately today she is with someone else.
I have learnt a lot from your book.
Earlier I used to thought women are emotion less they don't bother for our thoughts and actions but today I came to know that it is equal responsibility of men too to love women in the way not he want but the way she wants.
Thank you Dave for such amazing tips!
Honestly speaking if I had read this book 3 years back, I would have got the girl I wanted to. But, unfortunately today she is with someone else.
I have learnt a lot from your book.
Earlier I used to thought women are emotion less they don't bother for our thoughts and actions but today I came to know that it is equal responsibility of men too to love women in the way not he want but the way she wants.
Thank you Dave for such amazing tips!
February 9, 2023
Boring. Stopped after a few chapters.
Good ideas about talking to women that are not fully fleshed out, coated with a tone that you MUST TAKE ACTION in order to GET RESULTS. This tone is especially perceptible in the audio version. The author reads fast, almost nervously.
If you are willing to separate the wheat from the chaff, from this book you will probably learn a few decent lessons regarding talking to women.
As You Are by Nick Sparks seems more valuable.
Good ideas about talking to women that are not fully fleshed out, coated with a tone that you MUST TAKE ACTION in order to GET RESULTS. This tone is especially perceptible in the audio version. The author reads fast, almost nervously.
If you are willing to separate the wheat from the chaff, from this book you will probably learn a few decent lessons regarding talking to women.
As You Are by Nick Sparks seems more valuable.
January 27, 2024
Effortless Conversation Skills
The important parts of the book for me are asking the right questions and the storytelling that you can weave in when talking to women. Of course the beliefs about yourself are important too. This is because you must believe in yourself and that women are attracted. Thanks for another good book and I recommend this to anyone wanting to communicate in an effortless way with beautiful women.
The important parts of the book for me are asking the right questions and the storytelling that you can weave in when talking to women. Of course the beliefs about yourself are important too. This is because you must believe in yourself and that women are attracted. Thanks for another good book and I recommend this to anyone wanting to communicate in an effortless way with beautiful women.
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