Why Relationships Fail is the ultimate relationship handbook that when followed will absolutely guarantee the reader a successful and happy relationship. For men because it is a workbook that explains what they must do to attract a female and the importance of acting like a man, a good man. For females because it explains why their most sincere efforts are winding up as failures. It reveals what has happened, how it happened, and what it takes to correct it. As things are now, the roles of men and women have reversed and that is what is causing these relationship problems. Because it occurred gradually over a long period of time, it went unnoticed, but we are a long way from where we should be and society is paying a steep price for that departure from old fashioned values. You can fine tune and adjust a relationship according to each partners requirements, but the core values must not and can not be changed. Why Relationships Fail addresses the ruptured modern relationships. It identifies the causes , what damage has been done, and the changes required to correct it. As things are now, a single man or woman has very little chance of having a happy relationship. Each desperately wants to love and be loved, but their desperation only drives them to more heartbreak and misery. They don’t understand why they can’t find “the one.” There’s a good reason why, and I’ll explain it in detail.
I present the information herein in a straightforward manner so there will be no misunderstandings. You will understand exactly what I mean, and it may offend some. But the truth often does.
Women keep doing all the wrong things over and over again because that’s what they’re being taught by their peers and by the people they trust. They read books and articles written by writers who don’t have a clue about why these women are having relationship problems.
For women to get what they want, what they need, they must first understand the problem and accept its validity. Then they can get honest information about how to proceed. I’m offering that in this book without any cajoling or concern about hurt feelings. I want lonely people to find the love and happiness they’re looking for. If it helps just one person, the two years spent writing this book will have been worth it.
The solution for men is much simpler. They too need to make changes to make themselves worthy of a good female, mainly by becoming someone a woman can respect and trust. They need to accept the Army’s challenge to “be all they can be.” If a man seriously decides to do what it takes to find a perfect mate, there is a solution ready and waiting for him. I will reveal that solution. And if he embraces it, I can guarantee without exception, he will have literally hundreds of females from which to choose. All that is required from him is that he’s a good man. I talk about why men always want sex, and the difference in the language of men and women. And how important it is to understand each others language. The recipe for a successful relationship has been lost or ignored because feminists have tried to change what God has given as the perfect order in life. Women are following the feminists and therefore can't find what they're wanting, which is a happy relationship with a man. They also want a career. Both are possible, in spite of what the feminists tell you. It's not an either or situation. Contrary to what they preach ladies, the men are not your enemy. Men love you and care about you much more than any of the feminist leaders. Just look at the hatred they portray. Is that the way that you want to be? Acting and being feminine is a good thing. It's the way you were created. You're not a dog, a cat, a man, or anything else. You're a female. And you are equal to a man, just different.
The author has issues. He seems to firmly believe that his preferred relationship dynamic- "alpha male"/submissive woman- is the ONLY way for relationships to work. One size fits all. No allowance for individualism, particularly for women. Women must behave with proper submission, or they will be sentenced to an eternity of misery as spinsters.
Not only is that relationship dynamic demonstrably NOT the only way for relationships to work and for people to be happy, but he also adds in a massive amount of ranting about uppity American "females". Methinks he may be betraying a bit of bias, here. This entire book is based on anecdotes, rather skewed generalizations, some strawmen, and a generous sprinkling of impotent rage at a changing societal landscape and evolving interpersonal relationships. Also, for some bizarre reason, the man seems to think thinks we need to know a good deal more about his sex life than strictly necessary... and it just comes across as, well, creepy.
So, if you want to do spend time reading the backwards ranting of an egotistical Boomer longing for a return to the 1950s, with a side of "submissive" Asian woman fetishism, have at it.