Having metaphysical abilities myself, I, like Joni, struggled to understand them. So, what did I do? Being born into a family of skeptics, I was forced to keep my mediumistic gifts from them as I was reprimanded by my father when I told my parents that I could see spirits. Also, I researched my abilities when the opportunity presented itself. Joni's experiences not only serve to entertain but also to show you are not alone or crazy. Do you need to be involved in the paranormal field to have an encounter? The answer is no. I had similar paranormal experiences, and the list is expanding. I am a ghost magnet. I enjoyed reading Ms. Mayhan's book. This was my second one by her. Keep up the good work.