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بين كمبوديا ومونتريال تتحرك شخوص الرواية التي دخلت كنسيم في روح المتلقي، حيث الحكاية الشفافة بالعشق بين البنت الكندية والشاب الكمبودي الذي تصفه بأنه الكائن الذي يخبئ مشاعره في أغنية ذاك الموزع بين عشقين، حبيبته ووطنه، ليعلو صوت الواجب ويعود إلى بلده وقضيته وأهله وينقطع الاتصال بينهما أحد عشر عاما، لتلحق به بعد ذلك مقتفية آثاره رغم محاولة والدها الوقوف بوجه العلاقة بينهما وإخفائه لرسائل الحبيب الغائب في تخوف الأب على ابنته الوحيدة من مغبة الارتباط بمجتمع تتناهبه الصراعات ويفتته الاقتتال وتجتاحه الجريمة لنكون معها جميعا أحد شهود الواقعة على تلك الفترة المظلمة من تاريخ كمبوديا حيث تركز الكاتبة على أهمية نقل الحقائق –(لم أعرفْ ماذا أقول. صرخ طفلٌ في الداخل، خلف الدرفات. سألتُ: ماذا في وسعي أن أفعل؟ أجابت: “أنا أريدك فقط أن تعرفي”) –حيث تشير أن يعرف العالم ماذا يحدث في هذه المنطقة المنكوبة إذ يصل التزوير والمغالطة إلى أقصاها تقول: (كيف باستطاعتهم ليلا أن يناموا بسلام زاعمين أنهم كتبوا الوقائع بينما هم لايعلمون) فأضعف الإيمان أن تصل معلومات حقيقية عما حصل للمفقودين والضائعين والمتضورين جوعا، والمهجرين خارج منازلهم والمقتولين بتهم لا يعرف إلا المولى جريرتها، كما تشير إلى ما تفعله الحروب والأزمات في تشويه وعي البشر وتعطيل إحساسهم ببعضهم، إذ تحكي “كيف لنا أن ننعم بالطعام بينما غيرنا وعلى مقربة منا يتضور جوعاً، كم من الأشياء ماتت فينا ليكون هذا الأمر اعتيادياً”.
في هذه الأجواء المضطربة تأتي آن الشخصية الراوية للحكاية لتلتقي حبها المفقود ولتعاود فقده ثانية بعد أن خطف وقتل ولم يسمح لها حتى بأخذ بقاياه وحرقها حسب الأصول، لتحل السكينة والسلام لروحه. هذا العنف الذي ساد في ظل جو قمعي لم يصلنا من أخباره إلا القليل، حيث تشير الكاتبة مرة إلى نظام بول بوت وفترة الخمير الحمر وتعدد الولاءات والارتباطات إلا الولاء للوطن.

257 pages, Paperback

First published January 1, 2009

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Kim Echlin

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Award-winning author Kim Echlin lives in Toronto. She is the author of Elephant Winter and Dagmar’s Daughter, and her third novel, The Disappeared, was short-listed for the Scotiabank Giller Prize and won the Barnes & Noble Discover Great New Writers Award for Fiction. She has translated a collection of poetry about the goddess Inanna, the earliest written poetry in the world. Her new novel, Speak, Silence is coming out in March 2021.

Kim has lived and worked around the world. She has been a documentary producer at the CBC and currently teaches creative writing.

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Profile Image for Tahani Shihab.
592 reviews1,196 followers
November 16, 2020

“ما نفكِّر فيه، نؤول إليه. إذا لم تُروَ الحقيقة، لن ترتاح أرواح الموتى أبدًا”.

كيم إكلين.
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537 reviews1,054 followers
November 2, 2014
This is a treasure of a book - almost no one on my friends' list here at goodreads has read it. And I know, I know ... I throw four and five stars around like candy on Hallowe'en. BUT: this 2009 Giller nominee is stunning. It almost ripped my heart out. A Montrealer - 16 y.o. Anne Greves - falls in love with a Cambodian refugee, Serey. This is her love letter to him, spanning more than 30 years.

Our disappeared were everywhere, irresistible, in waking, in sleeping, a reason for violence, a reason for forgiveness, destroying the peace we tried to possess, creeping between us as we dreamed, leaving us haunted by the knowledge that history is not redeemed by either peace or war but only fingered to shreds and left to our children.


Loss, loss, loss - personal: of parents, of children, of lovers ... and then, set in the midst of loss at a global level (Cambodia during the genocide).

When he read to me he sometimes looked at the black and white picture of my mother on my bedside table. The focus is soft on the young woman holding a baby, me, and our eyes are locked together. Papa's voice would drift away and I learned to wait quietly until his attention flickered from the photograph back to the page. I think I began to read this way, studying the words in an open book, waiting for absence to be filled.


Beautifully and poetically written with an intentional and very effective use of spare, contraction-free,'clean' language that packs a HUGE punch. (I will come back when I have more time and share some nuggets with you)*. And then: the subject matter: love and loneliness and the most massive loss and grief.

At dawn I dreamed of a lover whose body knows things she does not. I had lost my voice and we were in a restaurant called the Courthouse and I was calling for you but you could not hear. My father's presence was somewhere on the edges of the dream. You woke me and smoothed my hair and said, You are calling my name. Do not worry, oan samlanh, I will always be here.
The ocean has one taste and it is salt. I believed your body but I knew the words were untrue.


The description of erotic and passionate love through the voice and character of Anne Greves is astonishing; the clarity (cf. language, above) and punch of her descriptions of how all-consuming her love for Serey is - I don't generally go for these kinds of stories, but this one is truly a cut above.

I never felt any forbiddenness of race of language or law. Everything was animal sensation and music. You were my crucifixion, my torture and rebirth. I loved your eyes, the tender querying of your voice in song. ...People do not like to think of love as a crucifixion but I know now, thirty years later, that if a person is tough enough for love nothing less than rebirth will be required.




I cannot recommend this book highly enough. It is at the top of all my five-star books this year.

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* ETA: as promised. I've picked some passages out from the very early part of the book, so they are hopefully not too spoiler-y (and one I hid - because it does reveal a plot point so be forewarned). I literally just flipped through to random pages in the first 25 to find them and I notice now how not only beautiful the language is but how intentional the imagery. When language is this spare, then every word matters - of course - but here, it seems even more true; it seems that this spare, poetic language is doing even more work than I thought on first read.

I continue to be awed and moved by this book.

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Author 2 books5,480 followers
May 17, 2017
أنهيت قراءة هذه الرواية قبل أيام ولم أستطع كتابة كلمة واحدة عنها مع أنني لا أجد صعوبة عادةً في الحديث عن الكتب مهما كانت.

في البداية ظننت بأن الرواية لن تعجبني لأنني وجدت السرد مشوّشًا ولكنني مع التوغل في القراءة وجدت نفسي أغوص فيها وفي قصة الحب الرائعة التي اتخذت من التاريخ الدموي لنظام الخمير الحمر في كمبوديا مسرحًا لأحداثها.

ربما لا تتجاوز معرفتنا، كعرب، بكمبوديا ما قد نجده في أي كاتالوج سياحي عن البلد، ولا أظن أننا، أو كثير منّا، نعرف بأن هذا البلد أصبح مفقودًا خلال فترة استيلاء الخمير الحمر على الحكم فيه، وهي فترة على قصرها (لم تتجاوز ٣ سنوات) تعدّ واحدة من أبشع الفترات وأكثرها دموية في القرن الماضي.

كنت وأنا أقرأ الرواية، أبحث بشكل مستقل عن كل ما له علاقة بتلك الفترة، التي راح ضحيتها ٢٥٪‏ من سكان كمبوديا، وفي إحدى المقاطعات، التي كان يسكن فيها ما يقارب ال٤٠ ألفًا من المسلمين، لم يبق على قيد الحياة فيها بعد الإطاحة بالخمير الحمر سوى أربعة أشخاص!

حتى الآن أجد نفسي عاجزًا عن الكتابة حول هذه الرواية ومقدار الألم والوجع الذي أحسست بهما وأنا أقرأها. إذ كيف يمكنني إختزال كل هذه البشاعة بمراجعة سخيفة على موقع القود ريدز؟



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613 reviews102 followers
April 30, 2019
Canadian girl falls in love with Cambodian boy. Boy must return home when borders reopen. Girl devastated. A decade later, she takes herself across the world to search for him in Cambodia. Girl finds Boy. Genocide everywhere. Tragedy, Trauma, Death, Loss, Grief, Violence, Injustice have changed him, though, irrevocably. Girl & Boy have a child. Child is stillborn. Boy is unable to stop himself from seeking revenge for the invaders who have taken away his entire family, town, and life. Serey fails to remember that he still has Anne. Anne who traveled the world and conquered time and space to find him. And that they love each other. Her first true love. His first true love. And it does, indeed, last a lifetime. But he fails to realize this. He is blinded by the past; Blinded by revenge.

The very best part of this novel, however, is the flawless writing. I rarely use the word beautiful to describe writing. But I have no other choice here. Somehow, the words are masterfully woven together to paint beautiful pictures; to evoke deep emotion. And that takes talent.

Well written, an important portrayal of the scale of loss genocide causes, and a love story that is palpable.
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496 reviews755 followers
August 24, 2020
رواية المفقود
للمؤلفة الكندية كيم إكلين
ترجمة أماني لازار
عدد الصفحات 257
طباعة دار ممدوح عدوان للنشر والتوزيع
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بعض الكتب تجعلك تقف أمامها حائراً .. تحتاج إلى وقت لترتب مشاعرك تجاهها .. تحتاج إلى أن تفيق منها لتتحدث عنها ..

رغم صغر صفحات الكتاب فلم يكن يسير السير فيه .. ليس بسبب عدم استساغته ولكن بسبب كثافة أحداثه التي تنتشلك عبر قصة حب وقفت أمامها الحرب فمزقت كيفما مزقت .. ستعيش وقائع الدمار الذي خلف وراءه المجازر وشرد الكثيرين في كمبوديا التي عانت وقاست الكثير.
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المراجعة
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هي آن جريفز مواطنة من مونتريال في كندا وهو ويل كيمب من بنوم بنه في كومبوديا أجتمعا في مونتريال حينما كان هو فاراً رغماً عنه من الحرب في بلده .. يجتمعان فتتوطد علاقتهم ويعشقان بعضهم البعض .. تفتح الحدود لكمبوديا فيقرر الذهاب للإطمئنان على عائلته التي غادرها رغماً عنه .. أمه وأباه وشقيقه الأصغر .. والذي لا يعلم عنهم شيئاً بعد ذلك.. تحاول هي أن تذهب معه ولكنه يرفض تعريضها للخطر وللمجهول أيضاً .. تلح عليه ويصر هو على الرفض .. فيغادر بعدها..

تنقطع أخباره هو الآخر ولكنها لا تيأس من أمل لقاءه .. حتى بعد طوال تلك الفترة .. إلى أن تشاهده في التلفاز يظهر في تجمهر ما .. متأكدة هي من أنه هو بذاته !! لقد صدق حدسها !! انه حي لم يمُت .. تقرر عندها أنها ستذهب إليه.. فهل تلتقي به !! هل تتمكن من ذلك؟! هل يجتمع شملهم مجدداً ؟! هل كان المفقود هو أم شقيقه؟! هذا ما أتركه لك لتتعرف عليه بنفسك خلال قراءتك للرواية.
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التقييم :
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الرواية تعد شاهد على العصر الذي عاشته كمبوديا والمعاناة والمجازر والتشرد والظلم الذي وقع وطال الكثيرين ولم تكن آن سوى عينة منها .. عينة بسيطة لم تشأ سوى أن تكون مع من تحب ولا شيء سوى ذلك! لقد تعرفت على كمبوديا عن كثب من خلال هذه الرواية ولا أنكر بأنها جعلتني أتوقف كثيراً وأبحث عن هذا البلد وعن تلك الفترة التي كان الخمير الحمر سكب فيها دماء الكثيرين في تلك الفترة الوجيزة التي جعلته مسيطراً عليها.. مع الحروب دائماً هناك الخسائر التي لا تعود .. ولكن الشاهد على الحرب والناجي منها هل نستطيع أن نعتبره قد ربح شيئاً عندما يخسر كل شيء؟!
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أعجبتني الرواية رغم صعوبة الاندماج مع سيرها في البداية والتشتت الذي سببته لي ولكن فضولي ومعرفتي المسبقة بأن الرواية بمثابة الشهادة على تلك الفترة جعلت من أصراي على المتابعة عناء يستحق ذلك.. أمنح الرواية 4/5 🌟
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حرك الصفحة لمشاهدة بعض المعلومات الاضافية 👈🏻
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#المفقود #كيم_إكلين #أماني_لازار #ممدوح_عدوان_للنشر_والتوزيع #كمبوديا #رواية

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Profile Image for Taghreed Jamal El Deen.
707 reviews680 followers
December 15, 2019
رواية أخرى عن الحرب، الظلم، الفقد، والألم دائماً وأبداً.
لكن مزيّة هذه القراءة أنها عرفتني على جزء من العالم لم أقرأ عنه مسبقاً .. كمبوديا.
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1,055 reviews1,040 followers
August 9, 2017
المفقود - كيم إكلين


"حقوق الأفراد مسؤولية الجميع، ويجب على الناس في جميع أرجاء الكوكب أن يجدوا الشجاعة للتحدث ومقاومة حكوماتهم إذا كانت الحريات مشوهة أو مورثة."


آن وسيري ..
شابان من بلدين مختلفين وخلفيات ثقافيّة مختلفة .
تلتقي آن بـ سيري في كندا وذلك خلال فترة تم فيها إغلاق حدود بلده ولم يستطع العودة إليها، يقعان في الحب، ولكنهما يفترقان بعد فتح الحدود ...
يسافر سيري إلى كمبوديا بحثًا عن عائلته .
تمر السنون ولا تصل أيّ أخبار عن سيري .. وتقرر آن السفر إلى هناك رغم كل العقبات والصعوبات ...
قد تبدو هذه الرواية في البداية كـ قصة حب ..

لكن الرواية ليست كذلك، ليست قصة فردية، بل قصة شعب، الشعب الكمبودي خلال حكم الخمير الحمر؛ الإبادة الجماع��ّة، التعذيب، الاختفاء القسري، استخدام الاطفال كـ جنود حرب، الألغام الأرضيّة ...... وغيرها، وهي فظائع يتشاركها هذا الشعب مع كثير من البلدان التي تعيش حالة حرب أهليّة في المقام الآول وإضافة إلى ذلك، بلدا�� لا تحترم أنظمتها حقوق مواطنيها بل ولا تعترف بحقوق الانسان من الأساس .
خلال فترة الخمير الحمر قضى ما يزيد على 3 ملايين كمبودي نحبهم، إعدامًا أو تحت التعذيب أو جوعًا .
لا شيء يعود طبيعيًا بعد كارثة مثل هذه، لا تتجاوز الشعوب ما مرَّ بها ... الخسارة والالم والصدمة ...
هذه الرواية شهادة حيّة على الفظائع التي حدثت هناك ...

كيم إكلين بارعة، قليلة هي الأعمال التي أنهيها بدون توقف هذا العمل ينضم لتلك الأعمال وهي قائمة قصيرة على رأسها الدفتر الكبير لأغوتا كريستوف .

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633 reviews174 followers
June 19, 2013
This was an absolutely amazing book. Aside from the first 18 pages, I read it in a day. It was beautifully written in an almost entrancing style and I could not pull myself away from its pages. It captured the passion and emotion of a once-in-lifetime, love-of-your-life kind of love with a raw and beautiful intensity, in stark contrast to the atrocities of Cambodian life under the Khmer Rouge. This is the kind of book which you continue to feel even after you have put it down. Truly inspired.
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Author 1 book388 followers
March 17, 2017
المفقود. عنوان موفق مع تعدد معانيه في الرواية.
هي قصة حب مؤثرة نتتبعها منذ النشوء بين الصبية الكندية آن و سيري الكمبودي الذي وجد نفسه لاجيء قسري في مونتريال حين نشبت الحرب في بلاده فقطعت السبل. تكبر العلاقة رويدا وتأخذنا في التفاصيل، الى حين الفقد الأول، فقد الحبيب عائدا إلى وطنه. لكن الفقد يتعدد بعد ذلك على أكثر من صعيد.

تحملنا آن معها بعد سنوات من الفراق إلى كمبيوديا المنهكة تحت سياط حكومة قمعية تدعي الديموقراطية. الناس يقتلون ببرود في الشارع وتترك جثثهم، المعارضون يختفون، تضعنا وجها لوجه مع أقسى بشاعات الحروب الأهلية حين يسلب الاطفال من براءتهم ويتحولون الى محاربين قتلة، كانت هنا صور اخرى للفقد، سيري في مواجهة واقع لم تعد عائلته فيه، كان هناك الموت والتحولات الانسانية. كيف يمر انسان بكل هذا ولا يتغير.
نتابع رحلة آن في بحثها عن حبيبها في كمبوديا، ونعيش هدنة مؤقتة، قبل أن يتكرر الفقد مرة ومرات. أي مساحة تبقى للحب في ظل الموت اليومي؟ انها رواية تستخدم الحب معبرا لتفتح الجراحات العميقة للاشخاص الذين تألموا وفقدوا أهلهم في النزاعات والتسلط القمعي. فقدوا حتى حق السؤال أين هم، أو المطالبة بدفن لائق لهم.

تهدي كيم اكلين الرواية الى امرأة التقتها في السوق في كمبوديا. تحدثت المرأة عن فقدانها كامل أفراد عائلتها، وعندما سألتها كيم عما يمكن أن تفعل من أجلها، قالت المرأة (لا شيء. فقط أردتك أن تعرفي.) وتفتحها بعبارة لفان ناث أحد الناجين من سجن (تول سلينج): "أخبر الآخرين."

تسرد كيم الرواية بضمير المخاطب عبر صوت آن التي تحاول تدوين ما حدث لسيري في قصة تخاطبه فيها. أعتقد أن استخدام ضمير المخاطب في السرد باللغة الانكليزية (you went) أسهل من العربية، فالضمير يختزل الى استخدام الفتحة فوق الافعال معظم الوقت (كتبتٓ، ذهبتٓ..).

استمتعت بصياغة القصة التي دمجت القصص البوذية الشعبية في السرد، ومقتطفات من الكتاب المقدس، واقتباسات من أعمال أدبية أخرى في السياقات (أشارت لها الكاتبة في نهاية الرواية). احتفظت بالتشويق طوال الوقت.

أول خمس نجوم هذا العام ويسعدني التعرف على كيم اكلين!

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94 reviews278 followers
December 27, 2022
The Disappeared is a heartbreaking tale told through some of the most lyrical prose I've encountered in literature. Very fitting, considering one of the strongest personality traits of the two main characters is their shared love of music.

The flow of Kim Echlin's words, however, is interrupted frequently by one particular style choice that always bothers me whenever I encounter it - not using quotation marks during dialogue. In this particular instance, I found this choice to be especially bothersome because of the added fact that the narration was done by addressing the reader as 'you' (she is speaking to her lover to tell her story) and so I had a hard time knowing when certain dialogue ended and whether what the narrator was saying was directly to the other character(s) as she's remembering it or if it's an observation after the fact directed at the reader/her lover, and I'd have to go over it a second time to make sure which it was. As lyrical and pretty as it was much of the time, the lack of quotation marks gave it a general sense of unevenness.

Overall I really loved the story within The Disappeared (as much as one can 'love' a story about war and genocide and loss and death), but I'm disappointed that I got caught up in the technicalities of the author's writing style when this is such a poignant and heartfelt story. I wished to get lost in it, but was often taken out of the moment because of these things.
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1,469 reviews855 followers
June 26, 2017
Our disappeared were everywhere, irresistible, in waking, in sleeping, a reason for violence, a reason for forgiveness, destroying the peace we tried to possess, creeping between us as we dreamed, leaving us haunted by the knowledge that history is not redeemed by either peace or war but only fingered to shreds and left to our children.

The Disappeared is my very favourite type of book: it introduced me to a new time and place (I learned something) using language that I found to be spare and beautiful (and consequently, I felt something). In addition, I love books that go from what is familiar to me (St. Joseph's Oratory in Montreal) to what is foreign (a marketplace in Phnom Pehn). Throw in big themes of love and death and memory, and what's not to like?

As the book opens, we learn that the narrator is recording the events of thirty years earlier, when as a girl of sixteen, she met Serey – the great love of her life – who was a Cambodian exile; sent abroad to study and now unable to return home during the murderous reign of Pol Pot. The narrative takes the form of a love letter (always referring to Serey as “you”) as Anne Greves remembers their early days together and the strain that it placed upon her relationship with her father; a distant man, an immigrant himself, who was forced to raise Anne alone when his wife died young.

A girl understands with her first lover that there is no daughter who does not betray the father, there are only great crashing waves of the woman to come, gathering and building and breaking and thrashing the shore. I watched my body's swelling and aching and flowing and shrinking as a sailor watches the changing surface of the waves. I let you do anything. I did anything I wanted and the dirty sheets of Bleury Street became my world.

Set against Anne's naive and urgent love is Serey's concern for his family. As a musician, he plays for her a two-stringed chapei, singing traditional folk songs and lullabies that recall the smokey blues they enjoy at Montreal clubs. Where Anne is open and effusive, Serey is reserved and respectful; his family never far from his thoughts; he having had no news of them for the four years of Pol Pot's Killing Fields.

I tried to telephone and the operator said there were no more lines to Cambodia. I went to the post office to send a wire. No lines. I gave the clerk a letter to mail and she said, I'm sorry. There is no more service. I dropped the letter in a mailbox outside anyway and four days later it came back to me with a stamp: undeliverable. Do you know what it means to send a letter to your family and read that it is undeliverable?

When Serey learns that the Vietnamese have invaded Cambodia and reopened its borders, he rushes back home to find news of his family, insisting that Anne wait for word from him. And word never comes. Eleven years later, Anne thinks she sees Serey at the edge of a crowd on TV, and finally, she goes in search of him. (This is not really a spoiler, as the opening paragraph sees Anne arriving in Phnom Pehn.)

Once she's on the ground, Anne finally faces the reality of a country that has lost a quarter of its population to genocide. As in Montreal, Anne discovers that love and death in Cambodia are never far apart from each other, and by introducing a fellow Montrealer whose job it is to exhume mass graves and count the victims, author Kim Echlin is able to organically pepper her story with the appalling facts of this atrocity.

Why do some people live a comfortable life and others live one that is horror-filled? What part of ourselves do we shave off so we can keep on eating while others starve? If women, children, and old people were being murdered a hundred miles from here, would we not run to help? Why do we stop this decision of the heart when the distance is three thousand miles instead of a hundred?

That's all the plot I'll record because much of the pleasure in reading this small book is derived from the discoveries along the way. There is also much pleasure to be found in the writing itself: consistently poetic and controlled. Her eyes held my grief, and her body gathered in my pain and knit it into herself as if she were an old marsh creature weaving baskets from rushes. I recognise that a sentence like that won't be to everyone's taste, but it satisfies mine. Reading a book like The Disappeared feels like a bit of a rebuke: Pol Pot was in power just forty years ago, and even today, Cambodia is ruled by a “superficial democracy” (Hun Sen has been Prime Minister since 1985); but who remembers the Killing Fields? Who gives a thought for Cambodia today – despite its dismal rankings on all international rankings – when the newscasts are filled with other, noisier tragedies? For many reasons I am pleased to have found this book and I enjoyed it thoroughly.
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August 11, 2012

The Disappeared disappoints

A review by Ben Antao


The reason I chose to buy and read The Disappeared, the 2009 Giller short-listed novel, is that I expected the author Kim Echlin, 54, would supply a few insights into the Cambodian war of the 70s and 80s. Instead, the story turns out to be a search for a Montreal woman’s lover, a Cambodian student with whom she falls in love at the age of 16. After Serey returns to Cambodia in the 80s to find his family, Anne Greve travels to Phnom Penh to find her lover.

There is too much telling and not enough showing in this novel. Part of the problem is that the narrative is conveyed in the first and second person (I and you). While this POV lends immediacy to action and emotion, it also creates snap images like one-second TV cutaways, giving a sense of reportage of the horrors of the Cambodian genocide. This feels like second-hand reporting of the war, gleaned from research, not imaginatively recreated.

The writing in short sentences, short paragraphs and chapters gives pace to the story, but not density of texture that a novel is supposed to have. The descriptions of the lovers’ life in Montreal evoke verisimilitude suggesting that the author knows the area firsthand. However, such an air of reality is missing in the narrative of Anne’s life in Cambodia.

If the author had chosen a third person POV to tell this story of love and loss, she’d have been able to crawl inside the minds and hearts of the characters in a way to bring the horrors of the Pol Pot’s Khmer Rouge regime alive and afresh on the page. Alas, this does not happen.


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361 reviews155 followers
June 28, 2020
"ثلاثة أشياء لا يمكن إخفاؤها : الشمس والقمر والحقيقة."

اللعنة على الحرب.

وعلى تصنيف الغالبية العظمى من البشر كـ "نوع ثالث" تتحكم أيادي فراعنة الحكم والساسة بخيوط مصائرهم.

اللعنة على فراعنة العصر الحديث.
292 reviews9 followers
January 8, 2010
A bit disappointing...thought it would be an interesting lens to look at the awful Khemer Rouge period in Cambodia but it ended up being more about the self-indulgent quest of a Canadian women to find her lover. What was most disturbing to me was that the main character did not seem to connect her plight with that of the hundreds of thousands in Cambodia who had lost loved ones...nor did the character remain connected/interested in the country and the plight of its people once she was finished with her "adventure"...maybe I just didn't like the character, but maybe if the character development had been better I would have?
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159 reviews1 follower
October 13, 2009
This was amazing. Beautifully written, the novel follows a Canadian named Anne as she travels to Cambodia to find her lost lover after the genocide in Cambodia. While very hard-hitting, and as so many others have said, haunting, I could not put this book down. I grew very attached to Anne as she retold the story of her and her lover, Serey. I highly recommend this novel, it was an engaging love story, that also brought to light the horrendous slaughter of millions of people in Cambodia under the dictatorship of Pol Pot.
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190 reviews4 followers
September 30, 2021
Nu am mai citit nimic despre genocidul din Cambogia, dar spun cu mana pe inima ca aceasta lectura e dura, e genul celor cu evrei dar parca mai dura. Nu e pentru toata lumea, dar mie mi-a placut. Pe langa tot masacrul cartea are la baza o poveste de dragoste impresionanta, memorabila si dusa pana la extrem. Anne Graves este un personaj puternic, o femeie, o dura si o mare indragostita.
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1,081 reviews29 followers
August 28, 2015
Ugh - 78 chapters* of second-person narrative. The subject matter is endlessly fascinating to me, and the section of the book (the largest) set in Cambodia had me feeling like I was back in Phnom Penh with the sun on my shoulders BUT this was a chore to read. It's a shame really, as I think it could have been a very powerful story. For me, the style gave it a passive, almost dreamy, feel that left me not caring one little bit about the 2 main characters. Two words that sound quite similar are enjoyed and endured...

* short chapters = a quick read
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255 reviews1 follower
May 16, 2010
Not your normal love story- this one has bite. A love affair begun in Montreal between a native and an exiled Cambodian. The time extends through Pol Pot genocide attrocities to the 'democratic' experiement after the killing fields. This book throws one from horror upon horror to blinding beauty of Lotus blossoms and much envied relationships in all their human diversity. The book is a prize winner. Read it all of you courageous lovers of the many faces of human life.
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July 16, 2010
This was a beautiful story of the power of love, the grief and indecency of loss, and the strength and potency of the human spirit to keep going amid dangerous and perilous conditions.

Anne Greves is a sixteen-year-old living in Montreal, Canada when she meets Serey, a Cambodian who is 5 years older than she is and a musician. Immediately they begin a passionate, sexual relationship. One day Serey decides to return to Cambodia to find his family whom he hasn’t heard from in over a year. A daring decision on Serey’s part as Cambodia was suffering in the aftermath of Pol Pot’s savage revolution.

Ten years pass by and Anne has never heard from Serey and decides to go to Cambodia herself to find him. Unbelievably, Anne finds him and their reunion is as passionate as it was ten years ago.

Anne stays in Cambodia with Serey, becomes pregnant with his child and is excited and anxious waiting for the birth of their child. One day Anne is overcome with fever and rashes and is admitted to a local hospital. The doctor examines her and finds out she has dengue fever. What about their baby?

Suddenly Serey disappears and Anne hires a taxi driver she has come to know, Mau, to drive her to another city named Ang Tasom where she suspects Serey to be. What does Anne discover?

A haunting novel that will stay with you long after the last page has been turned.
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187 reviews24 followers
April 3, 2016
"Ako uspijemo da preživimo, moramo da govorimo ili će nam se duše pretvoriti u kamen."
Nisam mogla prestati čitati, morala sam završiti ovu priču jer da nisam bilo bi teže sutra je nastaviti. Ova knjiga puna osjećanja napisana je bez suvišnih riječi.
Radnja ovog romana odvija se za vrijeme genocida u Kambodži (1975-1979) u kome su stradala dva miliona ljudi, tokom vijetnamske okupacije.
Šesnaestogodišnja Kanađanka se zaljubljuje u studenta iz Kambodže. U revolucionarnom previranju vlasti zatvaraju granice njegove zemlje na četiri godine. Nestaju porodice, prijatelji, ljubav...
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292 reviews9 followers
September 9, 2017
هناك روايات تكشف لك عالم مجهول ... عالم لم تسمع عنه من قبل ... تفتح لك أبواب جديدة عن أناس لم يصلك عنهم شيئا ... لتقف منبهرا و شاكرا لمن يكتب ... لأنه لولا ذلك لما عرفت عنهم شيئا...
سمعت عن كمبوديا للمرة الأولى في حياتي من إحدى الصديقات التي تهوى السفر هي و زوجها... ذهبت لقضاء إجازة قصيرة في هذا البلد و عادت لنا مع سكر طبيعي من خيراته.. حدثتنا في حينها عن الفقر و التواضع الذي يعيش سكان كمبوديا و عن الطبيعة الساحرة التي تتمتع بها البلاد... و مع ذلك لم أتشوق لمعرفة المزيد... إلى أن أمسكت هذه الرواية بين يدي... اعتصر قلبي حزنا على حال البلاد و حال هؤلاء الناس و عن الوحشية التي قد تصل إليها الإنسانية

تتحدث "كيم" في روايتها عن "آن" التي تقع في غرام شاب كمبودي"سيري" عازف على جيتار الخمير الذي التقته في إحدى حفالات مونتريال لتبدأ القصة من هناك... يعيش "سيري" في الحنين إلى وطن يعيش في حالة حرب و عزلة و في قلق على أهله الذين انقطعت اخبارهم... ليعود بعد فتح الحدود تاركا "آن " في انتظاره و انتظار اخباره التي انقطعت كذلك... لتمر السنين على "آن " و هي مازالت في الانتظار إلى ان تقرر الذهاب إلى "بنوم بنه" عاصمة كمبوديا بحثا عن حبيبها ... لتجده في تلك المدينة المليئة بالخوف... و يقدر لهما فقدان طفلتهما عند الولادة ... ومن ثم تفقد "آن" حبيبها من جديد لتبدأ عملية البحث من جديد في بلد مازال يعيش تتبعات الحرب و فساد النظام و خوف الشعب... لتجد هذه المرة جمجمته مدفونة في النهر...

قد يكون هذا مختصر صغير جدا لرواية عظيمة جدا... رسمت لنا حياة شعب عانى الكثير و فقد الكثير... قتل حوالي ثلاثة مليون كمبودي خلال ثلاثة أعوام من 1976 إلى 1979 تحت حكم بول بوت أو ما يسمى بحزب "الخمير الحمر"... تحولت كمبودبا خلال هذه الفترة إلى مقابر جماعية في كل أنحاء البلاد... عم الخوف قلوب الناس... فقد الإحساس بالحياة و الزمن... انتشر الفساد...و كانت هذه هي نتائج حرب دمرت المستقبل و قضت على كل الأحلام
من الروايات التي تتوقف عندها لتفكر كثيرا في كل أولئك القتلى الذين فارقوا الحياة و لم يذكرهم أحد... في كل أولئك الذين يقتلوم يوميا في زمننا هذا لدوافع دينية و سياسية و لا تمت بأي صلة للإنسانية... رواية مؤلمة جدا تحدثك عن البشر الذين يشاركوننا هذا العالم و لا أحد يأبه بهم

في نفس الفترة التي قرأت فيها الرواية... قتل أحد الشباب الليبيين في العاصمة طرابلس من غير وجه حق... و تم التعرف على هويته من خلال أسنانه كم تعرفت "آن" على "سيري"... و سبب لي هذا الامر نوع من الصدمة التي إحتجت إلى وقت طويل لتخطيها إذ أن ما يذكر في الروايات ليس من نسج الخيال بل هو ما يحدث على أرض الواقع في كل بقاع الأرض ... رحمة الله على كل الموتى و المستضعفين و الشهداء

رواية تستحق القراءة مرات عديدة
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9/9/17
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598 reviews289 followers
August 9, 2017
Il "fiume delle cento candele" del titolo italiano richiama una scena molto forte ed evocativa all'inizio del libro, ma il vero titolo è "the disappeared" ed in effetti sono gli scomparsi i veri protagonisti del racconto, ossia cosa resta ai vivi, cosa resta di essi in rapporto a coloro che sono letteralmente scomparsi, coloro che non è nemmeno possibile andare a piangere su un luogo di sepoltura, l'assenza delle loro ossa che lascia spazio solo a spiriti sconosciuti, a un tormento continuo per i sopravvissuti alla tragedia.
"Gli scomparsi erano ovunque, irresistibili, nel sonno e nella veglia, una ragione per praticare la violenza o il perdono, distruggevano la pace che cercavamo di costruirci intorno."
"I vivi erano tutti rinchiusi in stanze di cemento e i dispersi erano tutti sprofondati nei canali."
La protagonista racconta in prima persona, rivolgendosi direttamente allo scomparso, ricorda sin dall'inizio la loro storia d'amore, e da qui sgorga fluente una storia di viaggi e soprattutto una storia della Cambogia e del regime di terrore dei khmer rossi, un genocidio di cui si parla e si sa molto poco, io avevo solo un vago ricordo di quando negli anni novanta, per un certo periodo, i telegiornali non facevano che nominare un certo Pol Pot. Ora sono stata obbligata a documentarmi un poco: la narrazione da' per scontata una minima conoscenza dei fatti da parte del lettore, e questo potrebbe sembrare un elemento di difficoltà per la lettura, ma se l'autrice si fosse dilungata a spiegare maggiormente nei dettagli, la scrittura avrebbe perso qualcosa, sarebbe diventata troppo didattica e meno discorsiva. Il racconto è invece denso e vibrante, è più che poetico, ha il ritmo di un canto, invocando in prima persona il suo destinatario, giocando continuamente con la cronologia degli eventi, con flashback avanti e indietro nel tempo, anticipando citazioni di frasi che verranno spiegate in seguito.
Mi ha ricordato per molti aspetti "Venuto al mondo" della Mazzantini: sia per la forza della scrittura, sia perché si tratta di una storia di amore e di guerra: la storia di come un amore nato in tempi e luoghi tutto sommato ordinari deve soccombere ad una immensa tragedia, ed al tempo stesso riesce a sopravvivere alla tragedia stessa ed è quel qualcosa che da' la forza per andare oltre.
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1,086 reviews
May 8, 2011
This love story spans decades but rather than being a story of the love between a man and a woman it is more a tale of a woman’s love for her man and his for his family and his country. The country in question is Cambodia and a great deal of the story takes place during the reign of the Khmer Rouge and the atrocities known as The Killing Fields.

The story begins when Anne Greves, a 16 year old Canadian schoolgirl who has recently lost her mother, falls in love with Serey, a 21 year old Cambodian man she meets at a Buddy Guy concert in Montreal. From there the story progresses into one woman’s unwavering pursuit of the man she loves. This is a virtual Greek tragedy with the couple being separated, finding each other again a decade later, his disappearance (hence the books title), her compulsive search to find him and the hardships she endures in her journey. Metaphors abound in this book with Anne’s loss of liberty and feelings of devastation mirrored in the destruction being inflicted by the Pol Pot regime on the people of Cambodia.

While the story itself is depressing Kim Echlin’s writing possesses an exquisite beauty. She is a master of the mood and tone of her subject matter and fills her story with a panorama of vivid detail and observations. Lines like “Despair is an unwitnessed life” and “Could the world, like music, be borderless” are almost poetic in nature and this book bears all the characteristics of an elegy.

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737 reviews2 followers
March 20, 2018
I enjoyed this book about a girl who, as a 16 year old child, falls in love with a Cambodian student who is studying in Canada. This part of the book takes place in the 70s during the Cambodian war. After her lover goes back to Cambodia to find out what happened to his family, she doesn't hear from him again. 10 years or so down the road, she decides to visit Cambodia to look for him.

I found the book to be interesting as it details some of the horrors of the Cambodian war. I also found the writing style to be different - the book almost read as a poem.

I did, however, find the love story to be a bit much.
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453 reviews200 followers
July 8, 2024
وقعت أحداث هذه الرواية أثناء الإبادة الجماعية الكمبودية (1975 – 1979)، التي قضى فيها مليونا شخص، وفي أثناء الاحتلال الفيتنامي (1989-1979).

رواية جاذبة.. وترجمة رصينة.
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33 reviews23 followers
March 30, 2021
"Nadie te verá jamás ,pero sigues dormido en mi interior y nada te falta".
"El amor siempre nos protege,siempre confía ,siempre tiene esperanza ,siempre persevera.Lo que somos es el resultado de lo que pensamos ".
Podría seguir y seguir .............El domingo busqué ,pues llevaba muchos días y eso que no uso mucho el ebook ,con un mono ,si mono me reconozco adicta al papel y ,me digan lo que digan yo es que disfruto a mares con un libro físico .Desperté y miré las estanterías y me dije, voy a coger alguno de los que he comprado y están ahí muertos sin abrir página ,después de observar un rato ,elegí uno al alzar y madre mía ,menos mal era domingo ,lo leí del tirón :"La huella de tu ausencia-Kim Echlin "-
Decía Stendhal que hay cuatro tipos de amor: el amor-pasión ("el de Eloísa por Abelardo"), el amor-gusto ("un cuadro donde hasta las sombras deben ser rosas"), el amor-físico ("se inicia siempre a los 16 años") y el amor de vanidad (en el que el amante equivale a "un bonito caballo"). La novela ésta ,habla del primero, del amor-pasión, eje sobre el que gira la vida de los protagonistas y sin el cual nada tiene sentido,no voy a decir que solo se centra en éste tipo de amor ,pero si casi el tema central tampoco valoraré si ese amor es o, no esta bien ,pues yo solo me baso en lo que a mi interior me ha llegado que haga que os transmita en letras ahora mismo .
La historia trata de Anne,una chica que tiene 16 años cuando conoce a Serey, un profesor de matemáticas y músico camboyano, cinco años mayor que ella y exiliado en Canadá, tras la toma de poder de Pol Pot. La pareja se vuelve inseparable hasta que Serey regresa a su país para averiguar el paradero de su familia, aprovechando que Camboya ha abierto de nuevo las fronteras tras ser invadida por Vietnam. Once años después, es Anne quien parte a Camboya para averiguar el paradero de su amante.Partiendo de todo esto la escritora aprovecha y nos plasma ,pasajes de la historia ,que al menos para mí ,pues soy nula en historia y geografía ,la verdad sea dicha ,donde parte de los años (1975-1979),sucesos del genocidio camboyano ,donde murieron millones de personas ,del 79 también al 89,llegando al 93 las primeras elecciones democráticas ,los que se oponían al gobierno eran asesinados .Pues con todo ésto la escritora hace a mi parecer una denuncia social de tanta atrocidad y diferencias bordado como dije antes o adornado de una historia de "AMOR".
La prosa que prosa , alcanza lo poético sin llegar a lo cursi ,pues plasma los sentimientos y la cronología con una gran maestría que me ha dejado obnubilada ,me pasé leyendo lo que nunca con lápiz en mano ,que de frases saqué .......os pongo un trocito de la página 117 ,para que vean su calidad literaria ,claro esto según mi opinión : “Imagina lo que significa ser de un país donde las atracciones turísticas son cráneos humanos…..
Pues no voy a enredarme más para decir que realmente ,la novela vale la pena solo os recuerdo una frase que leí hace mucho que decía :"La novela que puede leerse de un tirón,conduce hacia la expresión de una perdida devastadora y amor eterno".
PD:"Yo si creo en el amor eterno "(Raquel ).❤️😘
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181 reviews11 followers
June 4, 2013
I spent New Year's Eve last year in Phnom Penh. This photo is proof that I partied at the Heart of Darkness nightclub until some very wee hours (I'm the slightly sozzled dude third from the left).

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Anyone who has been to Cambodia knows that it is a beautiful country, filled with beautiful people. It's easy to get lost in the dazzling entertainment precincts, the amazing temples, the beach resorts. But at the same time, it's not possible to forget that this is a country which has only barely survived the worst of humanity. It was only a generation ago that a generation was lost. Anyone over the age of 20 is a survivor. Almost everyone, regardless of age, has experienced deep loss.

This is the context of The Disappeared, a novel by Canadian author Kim Elchin. Inspired to write it after a visit to Cambodia, she tells of a young girl from Montreal (the fictional Anne) who meets a Cambodian boy who has been locked out of his country. He returns as soon as the borders open and she loses contact completely. Distraught at having lost her love she eventually follows, hoping to find him. She speaks to people and hears of their losses. It is a novel of searching and loss.



There are a lot of beautiful phrases in this book. Two of my favorites speak of the imperfection of memory:

I remember fragments, bits of moving light on a winter wall. (p14)

When I was young I thought I would remember everything, and now I know that people lose things in the sand and how we tell the past and how we use the past are unconnected. (p218)

I found the narration slightly jarring at times: Anne narrates the story not to us, but to her lover. This made for some beautifully poetic moments, and allowed the reader to experience intimacies that would otherwise be hidden. But it also sometimes kept this reader at arm's length when I really wanted to be involved. I'm trying to think whether the novel would have been improved if it had been spoken to me directly.... I don't know the answer.

I got a lot out of this book and have wavered between giving it 4 and 5 stars. It's hard for me to judge in a way because I had visited many of the locations depicted, and knew what the Khmer Rouge had done. On the one hand I felt nostalgic (one scene set in the Heart of Darkness nightclub immediately reminded me of the night the above photo was taken); on the other hand I wasn't as shocked as I might have otherwise been.
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1,316 reviews43 followers
August 14, 2015
I feel like if I keep handing out five star ratings like candy, people will stop taking me seriously, but geez, I have read some incredible books lately! Add Kim Echlin's The Disappeared to that list and get ready for another sobbing rave review.

This book is absolutely beautiful... The writing style is so unique and lyrical and (not to be repetitive) breathtakingly beautiful. The chapters are short and concise, sometimes only consisting of one punch-packing sentence. While the story flowed and continued through each chapter, each one felt like its own separate piece of prose, which made it easy for me to read this in a slow, savoring way. I love that the entire book is written in a voice speaking directly to her lost lover. It made the book even more intimate and captivating--and twice as devastating.

"I never felt any forbiddenness of race or language or law. Everything was animal sensation and music. You were my crucifixion, my torture and rebirth. I loved your eyes, the tender querying of your voice in song."--Kim Echlin, The Disappeared

The Disappeared is a love story taking place amidst the Cambodian genocide of two million people during the 1970's. It's about a Canadian girl who falls in love with a young Cambodian man during his exile in Montreal. They fall madly in love amongst smoky bars and jazz music, but despite their passion for each other, Serey is haunted by the thoughts of the family he left in Cambodia. Once the Cambodian borders are reopened, Serey leaves Anne in order to find them. Years go by and Anne's heart never forgets her first love and the unbreakable bond they shared. Eventually, her undying love and insatiable stubborness lead her to Cambodia, despite her father's pleas. Her experiences there are at times joyous and at times unbelievably bleak. 1970s Cambodia is the way I imagine "hell on earth", with piles of bodies rotting in ditches and children mowing down the innocent with guns and grenades...

"Our disappeared were everywhere, irresistible, in waking, in sleeping, a reason for violence, a reason for forgiveness, destroying the peace we tried to possess, creeping between us as we dreamed, leaving us haunted by the knowledge that history is not redeemed by either peace or war but only fingered to shreds and left to our children." "--Kim Echlin, The Disappeared

Despite the environment of death and fear, in Cambodia, Anne is able to find everything... It is also in Cambodia that she loses it all.

This is a powerful, moving, heartbreaking novel that I highly recommend. If you don't want to read it for the sole purpose of experiencing the beauty of the language and artfully crafted story, read it to learn more about a chapter of history that is not often taught and needs to be remembered.
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" أري في المرآة امرأة في خريف العمر امتلأت بالزمن منذ اليوم الذى فقدتك فيه. عمرٌ من التظاهر بالصمت. "
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