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The Dating Playbook For Men: A Proven 7 Step System To Go From Single To The Woman Of Your Dreams
What is it worth to you to unlock the secrets to have the exact strategies you need to meet, attract, and date the women you’ve always dreamed of? To gain access to a proven strategy meticulously crafted through more than a decade of trial and error and successfully executed by tens of thousands of men around the world--to bridge the gap between the man you are today and the man are destined to become? What you are about to read is unlike anything you’ve experienced before. Unlike the other dating books for men on the market, The Dating Playbook For Men is not filled complicated theory, questionable pick up artist tactics or a marketing ploy designed to sell you into an overpriced “online dating bootcamp”. It’s a straight to the point, no b.s. guide on how to get women you want and live the life you deserve. No games. No rah rah motivation. No weird "pick up" tactics. Just raw, actionable content designed to turn a single man into the strongest version of himself and upgrade his mindset, social and dating skills so he knows how to get the woman of his dreams. Here is a taste of what you’ll So now, let me ask you a question. Where will you be 90 days from now? Will you be stuck in the same toxic patterns and habits that have held you back for years? In an endless cycle of not knowing how to meet girls? Struggling through the same old mindsets and limiting beliefs that have held you back from the pleasure and romance you've wanted your entire life? Or will you answer the call to adventure today? Will you become a man whose calendar is filled with exciting dates with beautiful women, epic adventures with friends, and experiences you once thought reserved for only the rich and famous? A man who is capable of crafting his reality into a living breathing masterpiece of his own making? The choice is yours.
– Andrew Ferebee, founder of Knowledge For Men FAST ACTION As a gift to all readers, with your purchase of The Dating Playbook for Men, you’ll also receive FREE downloadable access to the Official Workbook filled with specific challenges, writing prompts, and implementation guides to help you internalize the key lessons from the book. Stop procrastinating. Scroll up, click the "Buy" button now, and begin the journey of a lifetime!
– Andrew Ferebee, founder of Knowledge For Men FAST ACTION As a gift to all readers, with your purchase of The Dating Playbook for Men, you’ll also receive FREE downloadable access to the Official Workbook filled with specific challenges, writing prompts, and implementation guides to help you internalize the key lessons from the book. Stop procrastinating. Scroll up, click the "Buy" button now, and begin the journey of a lifetime!
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First published July 4, 2015
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May 11, 2023
Listened to the whole book, it is a top notch guide for mostly Men, on how dating, self care, philosophy, masculinity, escalation and deciding relationship. Defining a grounded man, Andrew takes the listener through difference phases and learning that most missed during their education. Give it a try.
October 29, 2020
Why did I give it only two stars?
Firstly the title is very naive and american in a bad and pejorative way. "A proven 7 steps to go from single to the woman of your dreams"- ugh.
So then why did I read the book?- many of you are trying to figure it out now, touching your hair in a pure shock state.
Well, some mister asked me to write a review of this book, that he has seen my other reviews of books regarding masculinity.
So I am becoming famous. My genious elonmuskesque mind is spreding it s neurons to the outter space....
Secondly the content is very basic, everything said is known by any sane man. The style of the writing itself is composed as if it is written for men who are totally lost and beaten. Every now and then you have a optimistic shake sentence, how life is good, how life is a battle.
I am lazy to write any quotations from the book so excuse me in that way dear world.
The worse thing about the content are places in the book which are blue pilled. Insisting on kindness, even if I am not mistaken on giving flowers and other gifts to women. Like that surely highs up your value. Putting women on a pedestal is promoted in some aspects of the book, like the above mentioned.
And that s all folks.
A quick repeat; basic and well-known knowledge and blue pill moments that sadly had even momentums.
Still in a society that wages a war against masculinity this is a sword for men, but we do need bigger weapons.
I would recommend this red pill content with a basic message- STOP WATCHING HOLLYWOOD: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DL52M...
It is a crisis of masculinity if men need to be https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vVXIK...
¡Hasta luego!
Firstly the title is very naive and american in a bad and pejorative way. "A proven 7 steps to go from single to the woman of your dreams"- ugh.
So then why did I read the book?- many of you are trying to figure it out now, touching your hair in a pure shock state.
Well, some mister asked me to write a review of this book, that he has seen my other reviews of books regarding masculinity.
So I am becoming famous. My genious elonmuskesque mind is spreding it s neurons to the outter space....
Secondly the content is very basic, everything said is known by any sane man. The style of the writing itself is composed as if it is written for men who are totally lost and beaten. Every now and then you have a optimistic shake sentence, how life is good, how life is a battle.
I am lazy to write any quotations from the book so excuse me in that way dear world.
The worse thing about the content are places in the book which are blue pilled. Insisting on kindness, even if I am not mistaken on giving flowers and other gifts to women. Like that surely highs up your value. Putting women on a pedestal is promoted in some aspects of the book, like the above mentioned.
And that s all folks.
A quick repeat; basic and well-known knowledge and blue pill moments that sadly had even momentums.
Still in a society that wages a war against masculinity this is a sword for men, but we do need bigger weapons.
I would recommend this red pill content with a basic message- STOP WATCHING HOLLYWOOD: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DL52M...
It is a crisis of masculinity if men need to be https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vVXIK...
¡Hasta luego!
June 14, 2022
#36 of 100 self help books
Good
REMEMBER THE FIRST TO APOLOGIZE IS THE BRAVEST, THE FIRST TO FORGIVE IS THE STRONGEST, AND THE FIRST TO MOVE FORWARD IS THE HAPPIEST.
The Dating Playbook For Men is 50% dating knowledge and techniques and 50% self help content. In a way, it’s not too dissimilar from the very popular Models.
Personally, I prefer books to be laser focused on a specific topic, but that’s also a matter a preference.
Overall, this is a very solid book.
It has both good self-development content and good dating advice.
Good
REMEMBER THE FIRST TO APOLOGIZE IS THE BRAVEST, THE FIRST TO FORGIVE IS THE STRONGEST, AND THE FIRST TO MOVE FORWARD IS THE HAPPIEST.
The Dating Playbook For Men is 50% dating knowledge and techniques and 50% self help content. In a way, it’s not too dissimilar from the very popular Models.
Personally, I prefer books to be laser focused on a specific topic, but that’s also a matter a preference.
Overall, this is a very solid book.
It has both good self-development content and good dating advice.
March 20, 2019
Great self improvement book
This is a great book for those wanting to make positive changes in their life and not just for hooking up. I will definitely be reading again
This is a great book for those wanting to make positive changes in their life and not just for hooking up. I will definitely be reading again
December 10, 2022
Worth checking out
April 22, 2023
I liked the read. It was lengthy but I felt like it needed to be if there was someone starting from ground 0 working to develop as a man who is looking for a relationship. I liked that this book spoke about doing the work on yourself first before attempting to approach women or thing your ready for a relationship. As a mentor to young men and a certified life coach, this is a book I will point people towards because the wide range of things it discusses. It just doesn’t say “this is how to get the women of your dreams” and then explain. It gives multiple examples and scenarios on how a man can move forward. It talks about what young men should be looking for. It talks about what women really look for which is important.
At the end of the day, this book addresses the major problem today of people using people for their own benefit as well as ghosting people after getting what you wanted. This isn’t the book for these areas and Andrew does a great job stating this time after time. This book are for young men that really want to develop and become their best selves while inviting the right women to grow with at the same time.
If you are purchasing this book, then you are aware of your life and something you are missing out on. If you think you’ll get this book and get every woman you wish, you are dead wrong. But if you pick up this book with the intention of creating a growth mindset where you expand yourself by jumping into uncomfortable and new situations, you will benefit immensely. It’s going to take a lot of time and a lot of work to become the man you want to be let alone a desirable man that women will flock to. It’s definitely apart of the process but I feel this book is meant to get your wheels turning with attention being drawn into making yourself the best you before you can purse women to have a relationship with.
Open this book when your ready, take you time applying things to your life, and implement steps in this book to become a more well rounded man that you hope women will enjoying meeting, knowing, and being around.
At the end of the day, this book addresses the major problem today of people using people for their own benefit as well as ghosting people after getting what you wanted. This isn’t the book for these areas and Andrew does a great job stating this time after time. This book are for young men that really want to develop and become their best selves while inviting the right women to grow with at the same time.
If you are purchasing this book, then you are aware of your life and something you are missing out on. If you think you’ll get this book and get every woman you wish, you are dead wrong. But if you pick up this book with the intention of creating a growth mindset where you expand yourself by jumping into uncomfortable and new situations, you will benefit immensely. It’s going to take a lot of time and a lot of work to become the man you want to be let alone a desirable man that women will flock to. It’s definitely apart of the process but I feel this book is meant to get your wheels turning with attention being drawn into making yourself the best you before you can purse women to have a relationship with.
Open this book when your ready, take you time applying things to your life, and implement steps in this book to become a more well rounded man that you hope women will enjoying meeting, knowing, and being around.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
December 11, 2019
This book is centered mostly around helping men regain their masculinity in an effort to up their dating game. And, overall, it's pretty solid. Here, the author, Andrew Ferebee, reminds us that women don't just want a good-looking man who can pay the bills and check the boxes — they want one that will bring passion, excitement, and strength into their everyday lives.
Let's face it, guys, many of us have gotten stale, scared, and boring over the years. And to be honest, it's not 100% our fault either; the media has crushed masculinity as of late, labeling all forms of it "toxic." This really is a shame, since it's the very thing we need in order to attract the highest quality women. Furthermore, workaholics are now praised in our society, even if becoming one means putting off the meaningful pursuit of a significant other.
As such, we often say to ourselves that with one more pay raise or promotion, we'll finally start giving that whole dating thing a serious shot. But, as Ferebee tells us, we rarely give ourselves that shot. Instead, we look to the next and next promotions, never allowing ourselves to go after what we really want.
As the author, states, however, we don't need more money, promotions, or designer clothes in order to land the woman of our dreams. We just need to commit to the search for a significant other (or even many casual flings — your call) and keep pushing. After all, the money and promotions will be so much more enjoyable when shared with someone else, anyway.
Throughout the book, the author gives us lots of practical, actionable advice for stepping up our dating game, committing to it, and finding that special someone. He also covers a lot of the potential pitfalls of doing so and doesn't rely on some of the traditional "pick up artist" methods that most of us have come to deplore. And best of all, he harps on the fact that it is not more dating info or tactics that we need, but more action. This is the call to the reader to put down the books and start talking to beautiful women.
Overall, it's a solid read. There are two reasons why I don't give it five stars, however. The first is that I originally bought the Kindle version and got a little bored in the middle. I ended up putting it down for a while until one of my friends recommended that I keep going. At that point, I grabbed the Audible version and powered through the second half (and I'm glad I did).
The second is that right after saying that you don't need any more dating information (you just need to get out there and start swinging the bat), the author pushes one of his online subscription products. I know he's just trying to make a living, but it did seem a bit hypocritical. Regardless of those two points, I think you'll find this one helpful and relevant.
-Brian Sachetta
Author of "Get Out of Your Head"
Let's face it, guys, many of us have gotten stale, scared, and boring over the years. And to be honest, it's not 100% our fault either; the media has crushed masculinity as of late, labeling all forms of it "toxic." This really is a shame, since it's the very thing we need in order to attract the highest quality women. Furthermore, workaholics are now praised in our society, even if becoming one means putting off the meaningful pursuit of a significant other.
As such, we often say to ourselves that with one more pay raise or promotion, we'll finally start giving that whole dating thing a serious shot. But, as Ferebee tells us, we rarely give ourselves that shot. Instead, we look to the next and next promotions, never allowing ourselves to go after what we really want.
As the author, states, however, we don't need more money, promotions, or designer clothes in order to land the woman of our dreams. We just need to commit to the search for a significant other (or even many casual flings — your call) and keep pushing. After all, the money and promotions will be so much more enjoyable when shared with someone else, anyway.
Throughout the book, the author gives us lots of practical, actionable advice for stepping up our dating game, committing to it, and finding that special someone. He also covers a lot of the potential pitfalls of doing so and doesn't rely on some of the traditional "pick up artist" methods that most of us have come to deplore. And best of all, he harps on the fact that it is not more dating info or tactics that we need, but more action. This is the call to the reader to put down the books and start talking to beautiful women.
Overall, it's a solid read. There are two reasons why I don't give it five stars, however. The first is that I originally bought the Kindle version and got a little bored in the middle. I ended up putting it down for a while until one of my friends recommended that I keep going. At that point, I grabbed the Audible version and powered through the second half (and I'm glad I did).
The second is that right after saying that you don't need any more dating information (you just need to get out there and start swinging the bat), the author pushes one of his online subscription products. I know he's just trying to make a living, but it did seem a bit hypocritical. Regardless of those two points, I think you'll find this one helpful and relevant.
-Brian Sachetta
Author of "Get Out of Your Head"
March 16, 2019
Before I get into how much I love and gained from this book, I wanna talk about why I picked up this book. Initially I picked up Game by Roosh Valizadeh, this book was absolutely not what I was hoping to find, 20 minutes in and I can hear the author’s tone and hatred of Feminism and an almost creepy view of women, I returned this book back to Audible within those 20 minutes and picked up this book.
Now let me talk about this book, I was already drawn in from the intro. That sounds like an exact description of my life and that same tone is felt throughout the book.
Although there are some tricks and tips here and there on how to pickup girls, for the most part this book is about being a Grounded Man, imbuing confidence in ones self, loving oneself, and taking action and repeating that action as experience.
This book does an amazing job at imbuing confidence and speaking directly to the reader. To me this is a book I will re-read often and highly recommend to other.
Now let me talk about this book, I was already drawn in from the intro. That sounds like an exact description of my life and that same tone is felt throughout the book.
Although there are some tricks and tips here and there on how to pickup girls, for the most part this book is about being a Grounded Man, imbuing confidence in ones self, loving oneself, and taking action and repeating that action as experience.
This book does an amazing job at imbuing confidence and speaking directly to the reader. To me this is a book I will re-read often and highly recommend to other.
January 3, 2020
An amazing book for men to be strong & grounded man.One of the best dating book I have ever read.Highly suggested for you
August 1, 2019
Probably the best book IMO I've read so far and I highly recommend it to every man at every age and status. This is the book that I take the most notes from.
I liked the structured - how in the beginning of every chapter there is short story to illustrate the concept. The book describes what types of men there are and how to become "Grounded"; what types of women there are and how to pick the right one for long and lasting relationship.
There are two things I do not like about this book: the concept of dating multiple women at the same time (mostly because it may push away women with same values.. IMO) and second - the process of finding women is compared to recruiting CTO of a company.
I liked the structured - how in the beginning of every chapter there is short story to illustrate the concept. The book describes what types of men there are and how to become "Grounded"; what types of women there are and how to pick the right one for long and lasting relationship.
There are two things I do not like about this book: the concept of dating multiple women at the same time (mostly because it may push away women with same values.. IMO) and second - the process of finding women is compared to recruiting CTO of a company.
June 15, 2019
The most comprehensive and thorough piece!
I was tempted to skip chapters that I had thought were irrelevant simply because I didn’t know what was inside them but after taking my time to read every word in this book, I not only appreciate the holistic nature of knowledge presented in this book but also acknowledge the amount of effort and diligence the writer has had to invest into crafting what I call the a complete toolkit. In a nutshell, this book is as complete as it will make your life by the time you’re done reading it!
I was tempted to skip chapters that I had thought were irrelevant simply because I didn’t know what was inside them but after taking my time to read every word in this book, I not only appreciate the holistic nature of knowledge presented in this book but also acknowledge the amount of effort and diligence the writer has had to invest into crafting what I call the a complete toolkit. In a nutshell, this book is as complete as it will make your life by the time you’re done reading it!
August 18, 2018
Forgettable book filled with over the counter "self help" advice ("trust yourself, you're unique, be dominant"), incoherence (if I should not be "needing" women, why am I desperately reading a book in order to help myself getting women?) and teenage dating advice ("clean your bathroom before inviting her over", "when she is at your place put on some Netflix but something not that engaging").
Can't believe this author made a business out of this.
Can't believe this author made a business out of this.
June 20, 2019
Great book
There is a lot of helpful information in this book. Even though, I knew much of the information laid out on this book I relearned them, and also learned a whole lot of new strategies and knowledge that I did not knew before. By reading this book I realized that I was not alone, and other people have gone thru the same or similar situation that I myself had to go through. It is a great book, I loved reading it.
There is a lot of helpful information in this book. Even though, I knew much of the information laid out on this book I relearned them, and also learned a whole lot of new strategies and knowledge that I did not knew before. By reading this book I realized that I was not alone, and other people have gone thru the same or similar situation that I myself had to go through. It is a great book, I loved reading it.
June 24, 2019
I'm starting today
I gave this book a five because even though I just about to start my journey I now know what I want in this life is more than simple dating advice, it's a literal blue print on, being a better man read this give it a chance and stick with it I know I definitely will
I gave this book a five because even though I just about to start my journey I now know what I want in this life is more than simple dating advice, it's a literal blue print on, being a better man read this give it a chance and stick with it I know I definitely will
January 24, 2018
Better books on the subject. It may also partially be because the audiobook was narrated by the author, who really does a poor job.
June 20, 2019
The beggining was nice. But in the middle became boring with the general tips from 90% of other men self help books. The book is way too long. And the audio version is poorly read.
October 6, 2019
Good pep talk. You can read it in a day. Just work on yourself first, be the prize and ensure that you bring value to the table instead of taking value aka trying to put her on your notch list.
June 27, 2020
Interesting read. I was curious how dating advice compared between CIS gender men and women. I think there is a lot more emphasis on living your best life for men than there is women (though fairly similar in a broad sense). Men' guidance seems to be much better about understanding and establishing boundaries, wants and values as women's still veers towards recovering from 'toxic relationships' and finding a man to 'validate your needs.' I certainly giggled through all the chapters on how to get a one night stand (paraphrasing) and the 'Ejaculation Test' - my God I hope that's not a thing. Which is in complete juxtaposition against all of the advice offered to women about finding the mythical 'one'. Side note: at least he goes into great detail and step by step instruction on how to get laid whereas women are in effect hunting for a unicorn, but need to trust the universe is aligning everything to happen thusly. Obviously I have thoughts and feelings on both of these theories 😉 but was entertained nonetheless.
November 4, 2018
Be Your Best To Give Her Your Best!
This book has served as nore of a refresher for social confidence when it comes to various settings. Anderw takes you through the appropriate methods to be your best self for the woman you are destined to be with. One of the major nuggets I enjoyed from the book focused on the Internal Mindset and The Grounded Man. A person has to have values and goals to him them steer their future direction. Another great aspect that was incorporated into the book was the use of Toastmasters. I would agree that becoming a effective communicator is relevant to many areas of a person's life. As a Toastmaster, I agree that developing active listening and speaking skills helps to build better relationships. Plus, he inciuded to some great reads that I will have to check out for next year. I would recommend this book for men who need direction when it comes to building a last relationship.
This book has served as nore of a refresher for social confidence when it comes to various settings. Anderw takes you through the appropriate methods to be your best self for the woman you are destined to be with. One of the major nuggets I enjoyed from the book focused on the Internal Mindset and The Grounded Man. A person has to have values and goals to him them steer their future direction. Another great aspect that was incorporated into the book was the use of Toastmasters. I would agree that becoming a effective communicator is relevant to many areas of a person's life. As a Toastmaster, I agree that developing active listening and speaking skills helps to build better relationships. Plus, he inciuded to some great reads that I will have to check out for next year. I would recommend this book for men who need direction when it comes to building a last relationship.
October 4, 2020
The beginning chapters are worth reading since they build-up the right mindset for men in general. The later chapters are not quite applicable for countries having different cultural from the USA (where hanging out to Bar is a norm for Millennials)
In summary, this is a good read for all to get the right mindset but not quite practical for some others.
In summary, this is a good read for all to get the right mindset but not quite practical for some others.
April 24, 2024
Ready for this
The author has lots to say about living a life of abundance with women. This is essentially what the book is about. Being a Grounded Man is about having character, doing the right thing, having goals and going for abundance. The book gives you the what and the how to attract high value women so you have options. Time for the sprint.
The author has lots to say about living a life of abundance with women. This is essentially what the book is about. Being a Grounded Man is about having character, doing the right thing, having goals and going for abundance. The book gives you the what and the how to attract high value women so you have options. Time for the sprint.
February 19, 2018
Great book! Definitely an excellent, eye-opening read! It helps a man be his best self so he can attract and keep the best woman for him. Do yourself a favor and treat yourself to this book, you'll thank yourself later
December 4, 2018
Interesting view and powerful words
I love the clear descriptions on what to do, what actions to take. How to view things in perspective which allows myself to be free and be who I am, powerfully.
I love the clear descriptions on what to do, what actions to take. How to view things in perspective which allows myself to be free and be who I am, powerfully.
October 5, 2022
Informative and gives better insight than most. I like how it challenges you to sell yourself and become a better, more interesting person rather than someone who tries to manipulate your way into the bedroom.
April 1, 2024
excellent book!!!
I highly recommend this book!! It’s going to help you a lot about dating!! Just starting focusing in yourself being a better men to get more social value and lost the fear to approach beautiful woman !!! Thanks
I highly recommend this book!! It’s going to help you a lot about dating!! Just starting focusing in yourself being a better men to get more social value and lost the fear to approach beautiful woman !!! Thanks
January 15, 2018
About personal mastery. Nothing extraordinary.
May 23, 2018
Pretty good read for personal development
Took me a little time to get through it and is not as exciting as Neil Strauss The Game! Mostly common dating advice!
Took me a little time to get through it and is not as exciting as Neil Strauss The Game! Mostly common dating advice!
November 6, 2018
Good reference to a better life in general.
February 7, 2019
very useful handbook
It’s a book not only about how to dating with women, but also a book guided you to be a grounded man, a powerful man.
It’s a book not only about how to dating with women, but also a book guided you to be a grounded man, a powerful man.
April 3, 2020
An amazing book, a lot of wisdom is shared by Mr. Andrew.
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