*Rubs forehead* Succinctly?
"Reasons why people hate tumblr and fandom, summarized into one (shockingly dull) book."
Madi reads as one of those Tumblr kids who's deluded themselves into thinking that blogging is OH SO IMPORTANT MAN. And for the love of GOD, you realize the whole "everyone on the internet is a predator" thing comes from kids ACTUALLY MEETING PREDATORS IN REAL LIFE AFTER MAKING CONTACT ON THE INTERNET, RIGHT?
And yet Madi just goes ahead and meets this guy because, as a teenager, she just knows so much better. She should have had her internet privileges- BECAUSE YES, TEENAGERS, THE INTERNET IS A PRIVILEGE, NOT A RIGHT- revoked.
Oh, and a piece of advice: Do not engage with trolls. Do not respond to them, do not speak to them, do not tell them to leave you alone (they won't), do not acknowledge them- DO NOT FUEL THE FIRE. The more attention you give them, the worse they get. Give them time to get bored (unless they're threatening you) and if they don't, then ACTUALLY go to someone who can do SOMETHING and figure out a game-plan.
Also, I take some issues with a couple of the definitions at the beginning of the book, but this one in particular:
SJW: Social Justice Warrior. A derogatory term used to describe a person (usually female) who is hyper-aware of social justice issues and argues to correct them.
Nnnnnooo.
No.
A SJW is a lot of things; they are not hyper-aware of social justice issues, they are hyper-sensitive to them. Awareness implies that these people actually understand what they're talking about, and SJWs do not. They have taken anything remotely resembling legitimate activism and made it into a goddamn cult, where you had better toe whatever political narrative they're pushing or be threatened and harassed. They have bastardized legitimate activism and turned it into easy-to-swallow clicktivism that lets them be the bullies while still deluding themselves into thinking that they're the heroes.
An SJW will, straight-faced, argue that domestic abuse and rape are ONE-HUNDRED PERCENT HORRIBLE AND AWFUL... But only when it's a man doing it to a woman, because gosh, really, how could a woman possibly rape a man, and it's just not the same thing when a woman slaps a man- he must have done something to deserve it.
An SJW will pass around a list of African-Americans killed by the police without bothering to fact-check who these people were or the circumstances of their deaths; and when that list gets debunked because it includes people who literally shot at the police (or otherwise did something incredibly threatening or dangerous), they refuse to acknowledge that they were endorsing a load of bullshit propaganda and mixing in actual, legitimate criminals with innocent victims of police brutality.
An SJW will, without a hint of irony or humor, tell bisexuals that they are not welcome in LGBT spaces because "you're basically half-straight and that's threatening to us purely gay people who do not benefit from "straight-passing privilege".
An SJW will make it their fucking business to police fandom spaces, harassing people for shipping "bad ships" and setting themselves up as the pure and righteous moral center- all while calling people who ship a seventeen year-old with a twenty year-old "pedophiles" and people who ship a hero and a villain together "rape and abuse apologists".
You want to complain about trolls invading fandom spaces? Are you kidding me? In the last five years SJWs have done more bullshit in fandoms than trolls could ever hope to accomplish. They have harassed artists for not drawing characters with the "proper" skintone (the character isn't human and therefore doesn't HAVE a canonical race or ethnicity, but "we've all decided he's black so that makes you racist for drawing him white), harassed fanfiction authors for writing villains sympathetically or (again) writing about "bad ships", and they've shoehorned politics into every nook and cranny that they can, regardless of whether or not the canon creators endorse that particular ideology or not.
Author, do not fucking play me. I run in internet circles, I run on Tumblr, and I run in fandom. Do not fucking misrepresent what an Social Justice Warrior is, and DO NOT try to imply that these people have been unjustly vilified. They've earned the vitriol they get by being gross hypocrites and morality-police bullies. I have been dealing with them for years, and they are nasty, revolting people who have driven people to suicide (google "zami00" and tell me what you come up with, I'll wait).
EDIT: I got so caught up in the "SJW" definition that I forgot to mention this utterly incorrect gem:
Gaslighting: A form of emotional manipulation/abuse where the victim is convinced he or she is the cause of the conflict.
NNNNNNOOO.
NO. ALSO INCORRECT.
That, kids, is what we call the Tumblr bastardization version of the definition. The actual definition of gaslighting is this:
(to) manipulate (someone) by psychological means into questioning their own sanity..
See, "gaslighting" is a very popular term on Tumblr, particularly by SJWs. Because- Well, let me give you an example:
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Mary doesn't like that Anna ships Luke/Leia from Star Wars, because incest.
So Mary begins to harass Anna with passive-aggressive comments about how Anna's a piece of shit, how she's an incest apologist- and therefore an abuse and pedophilia apologist, because incest is usually something non-consensual and so, in shipping an incest-ship between two consenting adults, you are implying that it's okay for people to abuse family members and molest kids (People I am not joking, Fandom SJWs have jumped through weirder hoops and they go for the goddamn jugular).
Anna defends herself, saying that it's nobody's business what she ships and that Mary is the abusive one, because she's harassing Anna, a real person, over a fictional pairing between consenting adults and accusing Anna of being things that she is very obviously not.
Mary, offended, accuses Anna of gaslighting her: By suggesting that Mary is the one to blame for this conflict, she's trying to emotionally/mentally manipulate Mary into believing that her choosing to call out an incestuous and abusive ship is wrong. And obviously Mary is justified in
"criticizing" Anna's shipping preferences, because OBVIOUSLY it makes Anna an abuse apologist who deserves to be called out.
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Now, I know that probably reads weird to anyone who's never been on Tumblr and has never witnessed some of the epic shit-fits that the babies on that website throw over fictional pairings. But the tl;dr version of it is this:
SJWs really like to harass people that don't agree with them, or who do things they don't approve of. And when somebody suggests that THEY , the SJWs, are overreacting to something, or being unnecessarily aggressive, or are, in fact, being INCREDIBLY abusive themselves, they use the word "gaslighting" to cover their asses: By suggesting that THEY are not behaving the way they should, you are trying to manipulate them into thinking they're wrong.
And obviously they're not. You're the one that's wrong, and it'd be best if you just shut up and accepted it.
I am now ridiculously suspect of what sort of circles the author runs in on Tumblr. I feel like I already know, though, and the thought that they're now subtly, sneakily misrepresenting the kind of culture that exists on Tumblr disgusts me.
This book was a Tumblr-kid's wetdream: Meet a hot hunk on the internet (who is not a predator, because obviously if you LIKE HIM he must be safe), overcome an evil "troll", and basically turning the whole concept of "blogging" into something way more important than it actually is.